 We have so butchered marriage and how it's intended to operate that we've convinced an entire generation that Alyssa Woman is bringing home a paycheck of her own even after she becomes a mother, she's somehow wasting her life, of course, and her education, you hear that a lot, and will become destitute, thanks to America's obsession with so-called gender equality. You've probably heard in the media about what's been dubbed the Chore Wars, this fictional idea that men are keeping women from achieving work-family balance because they don't pick up the slack at home, but that just isn't true. Modern men are doing three times as much housework and childcare than their own fathers did. The truth is that women are simply trying to do more than can possibly be done in a 24-hour period. That's why they're so stressed out and guilt-ridden. What we're left with then are women who are unhappier than ever and men who've been shamed into thinking they're flawed by nature and need to change who they are in order to keep up with the times. Neither of these is sustainable.