 Hello YouTube family. In this live video I am going to be giving you eight clear signs you have defeated the narcissist and if that sounds good to you please hit the thumbs up button down below. Hit subscribe and click all notifications to be notified when I upload a new video or go live in the future and if you would like to book a one-on-one coaching session with me just go to my website it is narcsurvivor.co.uk. Now let's get into these eight clear signs that you have defeated the narcissist. These are the signs that you need to look for. These are the signs that will reveal that you have defeated the narcissist. Now the first sign is going to be the case for everyone. You have all already defeated the narcissist. You defeated them from the very beginning and you will know that because they used a false character to manipulate you. They couldn't be their true selves because they felt like who they actually are is not good enough so they gave you a false character. They manipulated you. They put you under a spell. They pulled the world over your rise and they did all of these things to deceive you. They may also have lied to you and used future faking or as a means to trick you and that is how you should know from the very beginning you had already defeated them. The second sign that you have defeated the narcissist is when they devalue you. They devalue you because they see you as being greater than them. So what do they do? They try to take value away. When a narcissist devalues you that does not mean that you have no value or that you're not good enough it's actually quite the opposite. They devalue you because you have an abundance of value and they don't like it. They feel threatened by it. They feel like they're nothing in comparison to you. Like they're not good enough to be around you. They have an inferiority complex and that's why they have to devalue you. They have to degrade you. They have to minimize your importance, minimize your accomplishments and success while at the same time exaggerating their own which already by doing that they are being fake. When they devalue you they are being fake. They are not being real but yes this is another clear sign of their defeat. The third clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist is actually when they ghost you. Yes when a narcissist ghosts you that is a clear sign that you have defeated them. They ghost you because you have questioned or confronted them. You've tried to hold them accountable for their behavior and they're running away from it but while it may look like they are running away from you they're actually just running away from this reflection of themselves that they do not like because they do not want you to hold them up to that. To hold them up to be an accountable and be in themselves and that is why they run away or maybe you just disapproved of something they said or did and they didn't like that. They do not want to be criticized or blamed for anything even though you may be well within your rights for doing that. For holding them accountable for expect of them to be responsible and mature but they may feel threatened that you are going to reject or abandon them or that you may expose them and that is why they will ghost you but when they do that it should just reveal to you that you have defeated them. The fourth clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist is when they use triangulation. When they triangulate you with another person and this could be another intimate partner that they have. It could be someone of the opposite sex or it could be a family member, a friend, one of the enablers or flying monkeys with the case of the intimate partner or another source of supply and this is typically after they ghost or discard you. They're trying to make you envious or jealous of them because they actually feel envious and jealous of you. They're projecting these emotions onto you because they're very insecure. As with the case when they triangulate you with a family member or friends or an enabler or flying monkey they see it as though more people means more power because on their own they feel like they're not good enough they feel very insecure and this is why they were always so possessive and controlling because again they are very insecure and that's why they have to triangulate you because they already feel defeated. They feel as though they're not good enough so they are trying to regain control because they're very insecure. They have to gain control in the external world. They have to have some form of security and destabilize you and keep you off balance especially emotionally so that they can feel emotionally validated and secure. Now onto the fifth clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist. Before I get into it please hit that thumbs up button down below. It helps the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there to other viewers, other survivors who may need to see it. The fifth clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist is when they start a smear campaign. A smear campaign is the ultimate sign of a narcissist's defeat. It reveals that they have really lost control. It reveals just how insecure they really are because just imagine the amount of time, energy and effort that it takes that they have to invest in order to start a smear campaign against you and manipulate everyone, enforce all of their enablers and flying monkeys, talk about you behind your back. It takes up a lot of their time and they have to use a lot of their energy and effort in order to achieve that. And a smear campaign is really a last resort for many narcissists. They use it because they don't know what else to do or how else to control you. And it really serves as a means to an end because once they've manipulated everyone they really have no other use for them. They're just like the narcissist's henchmen. They're just pawns and egg chess game. They serve no other purpose. So yes, the smear campaign is a sign, the ultimate sign of a narcissist's defeat. It's what they use when they have really lost control when they view you as being a very powerful person. The sixth clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist is actually when you take action and when you set strong boundaries, when they can no longer have their way with you like they used to, they can no longer have that type of situation where you're at their back and call, where you're doing whatever they want you to do, whatever they want you to do it. And instead, moving on to the seventh clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist, now they are no longer the center of your world. Your world no longer revolves around the narcissist. It's a clear sign that you have defeated them and your world no longer revolves around them because now your attention is on other things. Your attention is on other people. You have hobbies and interests. You've got your work, your job. Maybe you've started a business. Maybe you've moved to a different location. And you're going to know when you have defeated the narcissist in this way by no longer having them as the center of your world because that's when they will typically use strangulation and mere campaigns. It's when they will stalk and harass you. They may develop an obsession with you because they're trying to regain that possession of being the center of your attention, of being the center of your world again. And of course, they will try to do that by engaging in attention seeking behavior. So when they're doing that, when they're trying to get back at you, that's how you know you have defeated the narcissist. Now we're on to the eighth and final clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist. And I've really saved the best sign for last because this is really it. And a lot of you, you may not realize it. You may not see it first because they typically use this as a means of gaining control over you. And they may see it as the source of power. But actually, when you look at it, this is really a clear sign of their defeat. Before I get into it, please hit that thumbs up button down below. Show your support for our community. Let's work together to get this message out there so that I can help other viewers, other survivors. Because this eighth clear sign, it really says it all about narcissists. The eighth clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist once and for all. You've really done it. You've cleared them. You finished them. You have done them in with this eighth and final clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist. This is the one. This is the big sign. If you have defeated the narcissist, you will know because at this point, they will break the rules. They will violate social norms. They will disregard boundaries. At this point, it's almost like they become psychopathic. They no longer care about anyone or anything. Because at this point, they've completely lost control. So they will do anything they possibly can to feel like they've regained a sense of control. And they will do all sorts of illegal and immoral things. They will cheat. They will lie. They will steal. They will do whatever it takes. They will pull out all the stops. And you may look at them and they will seem desperate. It will be like it's life or death to them. Like they're in a fight for their lives. And as the old saying goes, a desperate man will reach for anything or a desperate man will clutch at a straw. Or is it a drowning man will clutch at a straw? At this point, they will do anything they possibly can to regain control of you, to manipulate and punish you, to sabotage your life, to bring you down. And at this point, they will become impulsive and reckless. They will do things you never thought they would do. They will do things that maybe even they thought they would never ever engage in. They will do things to the point where you will never see them the same way ever again. And they may deflect the shame onto you. But you've got to look at it for what it is. At this point now, when they're engaged in such degenerative behaviors, they're breaking laws. They're involved in criminal activities. At this point, it should reveal that they have really given up on themselves and their lives. And why do they do this? They do it because they feel defeated. They feel inadequate. They feel like they're not good enough. So at this point now, they just do it anything they possibly can. Because they crave in a feeling of significance and importance, to where they become attention whores, they just do it anything they can to grab your attention, even if it's negative, even if it's harmful, self destructive, illegal, unlawful, whatever it may be, they will do whatever it takes, because they know they can't compete with you. As being the bigger person, as being self righteous, as having beliefs, morals, values, and principles. They know they can't compete with you in that arena. They know they can't take the higher roads. They know they will lose by trying to do that. They know that you will outdo them, you will surpass them every time. So they look at it like, if they can't go up and be on your level, they can't compete with you like that. There are only other option is to go down, deteriorate, degenerate, degrade themselves, become self destructive. And this is when they will engage in all types of reckless activities. They will become very impulsive. You may find that they just leave you at home at night sometimes. They go out to the bars, the clubs, they're getting drunk, they're taking drugs, they're meeting random strangers at these places, sleeping around. And they're lying to you about it, maybe catching them on their phone. You're seeing in their messages, their phone calls, they're going behind your back, they're cheating on you. And they may also be stealing from you. You may notice that money is going missing from your wallet, from your purse, from your bank account. Maybe they're taking your possessions. Maybe they're involved in immoral or illegal activities. They're engaged in corruption. That's when you know a person has really just thrown in the towel. They've given up on themselves and their lives. They can't find satisfaction in anything. They're miserable. That's how you know. Finally, one sum for all. You've done it. You have defeated the narcissist. Because you know what a winner is. You know, a warrior, a champion, as it's always been. A winner, a champion, a warrior is someone who does not submit under pressure. Someone who does not give in. They do not cave in. Yes, things may be against them. They may not have been dealt the best cards in life. They may not be doing well right now. Things may not be going well for them. But no matter what, they continue on the correct path. They continue doing what they know is right. And we all know what's right. We all know the difference between right and wrong. We all have a moral compass, including psychopaths. That's why they manipulate. They gas like they shift the blame. That's why they've got to be in denial. That's why they hide what they do. Because deep down, we all know the difference between right and wrong. And when a person gives up on that, they deny it. They push it away. They go against it. It's because they feel so weak inside, so inadequate, so worthless. They can't even find the inner strength to stop themselves like an alcoholic who maybe they recognize they have an addiction and they're trying to give up. They're trying to leave our bottle alone, but they just can't help themselves and they reach for it again. This is what they're like. It's because they have no self-control, no discipline because they're losers. They degenerates. They're leeches, they're parasites, the bottom feeders. They are the scum of the earth. And when they continue to degenerate, they continue to go down that path. Let them go. Don't stop them, just let them go. And that is the worst thing that you can do to a narcissist. The worst thing that you can do. You don't even need to get revenge. You don't need to stop them. The worst thing you can do to a narcissist is to not expose them. Let them continue on that self-destructive path. If you know what is right, if you stand for what is right and you know that being good, being self-righteous is going to lead you to a better place for yourself and for your life. If you know that, then why do you need to stop them? Just let them continue what they're doing if you're so confident about it because you should be confident about it because it's true. So let them continue engaging in that behavior. Don't even confront them. Don't try to expose them. Let them carry on. And let's see where it gets them. It's not going to get them anywhere good. And they will pretty much just do it to themselves from that point on. You won't need to defeat them. They will defeat themselves. They will go down in life. They won't find satisfaction or fulfillment in anything. They will begin to engage in so many addictions. They will lose that discipline, that self-control in every aspect of their lives. They will become alcoholics, drug addicts, continuing, engaging in corruption, in illegal and immoral activities. They will get involved in all sorts of stuff and eventually you may peer into it. Or if you could be a fly on the wall, you'll be so glad that they expose themselves to you. Or that God exposed them to you. You will be so glad for that when you see the miserable wreck, the mess that they have become. Well, as for you, you can now continue on your journey of righteousness, of being good, abiding by the law. And not just obviously the human laws. But then, of course, we do have religious laws if you follow a religion. And then we have the spiritual laws, the universal laws as well. We must follow these laws. We must abide by the rules. We must do that. Because if we need an example of what happens to people when they do not do that, just look at these narcissists, these sociopaths, these psychopaths. Look at how they end up. Just look at any case online on YouTube, on Google. Just look at these people's lives. There is no report, no article, no suggestion of anything, of any criminal, of any degenerate person, a narcissist, a sociopath, a psychopath. There's no suggestion of anything of them improving their lives of things getting better for them when they continue down that road. They will continue down that road. Of course they will. Because they believe that they got some level of success with you from doing that. So it's kind of like they're playing the slot machines. Like they're at a casino. They're just going to keep doing it. Hoping that they'll hit the jackpot again, but they never will. And they'll never stop that addiction. They're going to keep going. They're just going to keep ruining their lives. So there it is. Eight clear signs that you have defeated the narcissist. And I know many of you who are watching this, you have defeated the narcissist. They can't compete with you about righteousness and that goodness. They can't compete with you in that at all. So they've got to go down. They've got to degenerate. They've got to degrade, deteriorate. And they're just going to keep doing that. Let them do it. If you give an narcissist enough rope, they will hang themselves. But they made their bed. So now let them lie in it. Thank you for watching everyone. 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