 you guys it is uh sunday tomorrow's president's day so we're off especially valentine's day my husband i really don't celebrate you know valentine's day he's has to work he probably doesn't even know it's valentine's day i'm not a type of person either even when we were just stating to be like what do you give me for valentine's day no i'm not like that so um perhaps when i was younger i don't even remember been that way y'all have to understand it's been i've been 20 years in this game with him so i'm like yeah it is what it is so um valentine's day is uh i paid the mortgage at valentine's day thank you yes that's a great gift anyway y'all we just got back from walmart i'm gonna put some away some of these groceries today it's wash day so y'all gonna spend all day with me because i feel like with my vlogs they're a little choppy because i just stopped picking up the camera consistently throughout the day i used to get i feel like more views on my vlogs when i would do like the weekend vlogs but plus we were doing stuff we ain't doing we ain't doing anything so y'all just spend today with me i'm gonna be washing my hair and i'm on well y'all see y'all just pick up the camera and talk to y'all okay so right now let me put the camera over here um hold on here girl just got back from walmart everybody rushed in to get their valentine's day stuff so let me show you what i bought um my nails are still cute y'all i have this is pressons but i have some actual nail tips coming in today so i may do my nails tomorrow it depends i'm liking this press on nails though so um i'm gonna get on the treadmill here soon y'all i haven't done it yet everybody just made if you wonder what this is all my neighbors and jb and them have been obsessed with these soft pillows from walmart so miss lori my friend the neighbor asked for one they're only four dollars they're on sale now very very soft so i picked her up one the kids got some they all got two so i will be having um turkey tacos with some rosé later on today i'm gonna try to film a chit chat with y'all but this is the thing i want to first of all i don't drink before three o'clock i know some people start drinking a little earlier i know and so between you and i like 20 000 y'all help us well my father used to be an alcoholic and so i want to be careful so i'm like i was texting my girlfriend like you think it's okay if i have a glass of wine every night you think that's significant because you know you always hear the stories the studies they always come up with these new studies so it's good to have this or and i literally do have between one probably between one and two glasses of red wine a night with my dinner um sometimes i don't finish it though so i pour it back so i'm thinking is that okay i don't get drunk she's like yeah what's wrong with having something so i just jb adults don't interrupt adults talking even though yeah i ain't talking back to me but i think what i'm gonna do y'all is um i'm going to do like two week detox i i've been trying to do this because i feel like my weight is staying at a certain point i know drinking wine doesn't help it because it's it's carbs it's calories too you know of course so i've been staying at the same weight but i've also been eating crap i mean i know y'all see the stuff behind me um i was looking at a thousand pound sister and the doctor on there one of the sisters is my height green and she's like 300 pounds but she's been losing weight and one of the doctors is like i need for you to get down to 150 because that's a healthy way and i'm like okay you know if a doctor if a if a bariatric doctor is telling this woman 150 is a good weight at five four i need to get out of the 160 so i think a lot of that is to really detox cleanse my body up anything and start all over reset basically i need to reset um lost the quarantine waiting on that which is good so i didn't get to worry about that all right y'all so yeah today is wash day with my hair but i normally start early like the day before at least with um detangling my hair so y'all gonna see the foolery that goes on when it comes to washing my hair yeah so y'all gonna you know just rock with me today it's none of these valentine's thing we haven't talked about like i said later on with my rosé having chipsy this is why my eyes my fluffy ass can't get out the 160s i bought me some i haven't had a fridge onion dip in like years i don't even know what this tastes like anymore but i know i like it together so we gonna have it as an appetizer yeah i'm probably gonna buy myself a valentine's day because the baby's going over my slurry house at least yeah even my child gonna be with someone look at them laughing at me oh mommy's more leggings i mop my floors this morning y'all because these kids are going in and out my house i sound i sound like my granny but we have these dark floors so the floors stay dirty so i'm literally mopping our floors like every two days i'm not exaggerating because i don't like dirty floors um so tomorrow i'm going to be dusting our blinds i can't do everything in one day i can't have a wash day with all these damn hair and dust my blinds that's too much look at these cute little leggings i got y'all from walmart these cute these are cute now in the morning i've been having like a banana and then i'll eat something else and then i'll eat my dinner so i've been really watching my calories um not necessarily i know which is bad but i've been watching my calorie count like i do not i try not to exceed 1400 calories a day i was doing 1200 i'm gonna put these leggings in my bedroom what are you doing can you see it's dark as hell in here child it's shining bright like it's shining bright this is what the baby's up to i have built all of this he's built all this stuff and then i i got one more set it's leo she said okay i'm building it i see if taryn texts you all right y'all i'm in my bedroom um i'm gonna go through my nail stuff here comes chris ass again y'all let me i'm gonna show y'all the colors of my gel polish i got to hell i forgot the color what color they are let me try to clean up some of this stuff back here y'all and um what is this what the hell is oh this is that o v o five i reviewed this girl this was not what i remembered it to be but i was relaxed when i was using that as a child y'all i'm trying to clean up some of this stuff in front of me baby when i tell you the quarantine shopping yeah this man is so annoying and this is the thing he leaves for work early in the morning like five o'clock and i can be hearing that i hear that the more i'm a like sleeper sometimes you know what y'all um i'm i'm all over the place i found my apple cider vinegar it's some these some off-brand kind but it'll do i'll just dilute that put it in my spot okay so let's get things in order um as a content creator too i'm going through and thinking okay what do i have planned what do i have coming up i've been so busy that i haven't even mapped out a list of upcoming potential videos i just haven't y'all i've been winging it like literally the past 30 videos have not been planned some of them have but a lot of them a good 80 percent of them i just put out there and it is what it is um so for wash day today i need to really really take my time and pre-pointy tango there's some mystery going off my hair so i'm looking in front of me i have always have tons of conditioner um so while while i am thinking about my wash day i'm also thinking about okay like i said since i am a natural hair youtuber what videos already have out there there are natural hair so y'all i cannot find any clarifying in shampoo i think jay b was messing with my ish in in the bathtub when he's a little fluffy up but supposed to be taking a shower um and he used to buy my shampoo how the hell you eight years old and you just put in shampoo that's why the name on bathtub was so slippery because he put that shampoo that suave y'all know that blue suave anyway so i found some apple cider vinegar to put on my scalp my scalp i feel like i have like build up on my scalp um i know regular old shampoo would do so this is off-brand i'll dilute put a couple of drops of peppermint oil in it i got my hair clips um that's when i get to washing two pre-poody tango i'ma use swabs oh i don't have a lot of this i'ma use swabs coconut i probably use mostly this kiwi line by v05 and i'm going to be shampooing with i think i'm going to i'm trying to get through my products you guys see this says sulfates free i don't want sulfate free i want to use sulfates this time around on my hair so i think this has sulfates in it i think this jane carter hydrating and vigorating shampoo has sulfates i think it does i want sulfates today so i'll use this um and then i'll use this and then i'm going to be mixing the dabor dabor vatika or vatika with ors and some olive oil okay that's gonna be but girl now this is something i will be reviewing i have two deep conditioners that i will be reviewing for y'all um we have the black sea vatika deep conditioner and then we have the adewa bay omen deep condition i know i said i wouldn't do this for y'all but this got some bomb ass reviews so i'm gonna go ahead those are the only two hair related videos i have coming up girl so it's what it is so y'all let me go ahead and i'll mix these products together for my deep conditioner all right y'all so back in the kitchen and this is more than enough on my hair i wish i had some honey that's okay girl all right y'all let's open this up remember you're getting another thing that daddy bought you y'all there's some olive oil i'm not gonna do a lot because i feel like i need more than this y'all see how i be there's some stuff spill out all right yeah this is good i'll officially stir it up and stuff here in a bit all right y'all this is what i'm going to be using with heat let me go find some hair clips girl that's a couple of hours later i'm short that's why the the camera is that low actually the camera is low i'm not short hell let's go ahead and add this on excuse to background my child look y'all look at that look at that beautiful girl what's going on up here got a little bit left just a little bit money i'm gonna leave this on for like an hour all right here i come one o'clock my husband left i just rinsed out my deep conditioner you're gonna go over miss lori's house baby in a few hours she's she's still over her grandparents house so y'all the camera's all crooked i told the baby i would play with him fresh just mario just mario dress mario i dress him he goes in like this look at his head on four no four forward oh baby i need to do my nails uh look what i was going to do which one the blue one why blue why is it doing it with blue because it's water it's too close to purple it's too close to purple yeah oh you pick up pick out a coin pick out a coin what does that mean like what is picking out a coin dude anyway y'all what i'm trying to tell you i don't like to put in the conditioner um right away i let my hair air dry so like 30 minutes to an hour and then i'll put in my leaving conditioner just one coin two points one coin you put the dollar bill back there sorry y'all so yeah i'm outside and join a sunlight getting some vitamin d um it's really important um for us people of color to make sure we go outside um at least once a day um and i was just looking at um the grand beauty channel i like some of her new content that focuses on healthy and being healthy i've always heard that she had a video on how to beast your immune system and one of her tips was to um check in with your reconnect with your african um your dna basically i finally took some painkillers about an hour ago so my mood wasn't all the way there whatever so i let miss lory little granddaughter come over here and play and the but first of all they decided to put their feet in the bathtub making all this noise and my husband's like what the hell are they doing i'm like why are you they're kicking the bathtub i'm like okay y'all need to get out of there well these are not four year olds y'all are eight years old they gotta then they're knocking around in the bathrooms you know just being loud and unruly and i was like that's it i said ten you gotta go home i took them home and miss lory's like y'all back already i said yes because they wouldn't listen to me and the little girl y'all these little girls i don't know how y'all doing it little girls start with an attitude early and i i've heard her you know back talk her grandparents and back talk her mom i gave her a talk on my house so i said look if i hear you talk like that to your grandmother again you can't come over my house so i didn't even give them a chance like jay b knows what i say that's it she kept trying to go back and forth with me i said get your shoes wait it's time to go get your shoes it's time to go so i'm stirring when i when i say it goes i'm stirring don't even our jay b knows do not go back and forth with me but this is not my child this is not my baby so she's trying to go back and forth with me why are you explaining it yourself to me are you serious that's what i want to say but she ain't my baby so i'm gonna go ahead and drop your butt off to your grandma because i'm so jay jay b's like looking at her like girl you better be quiet so i drop them off and the grandmother's like why are y'all back so soon i said look my back is hurting miss lory i i'm not in the mood for disrespectful kids so i'm dropping your baby off your grandbaby off and i'm taking my baby home he didn't say they didn't say nothing when i tell you those kids and say and it's not about it's about respect for me like respect me as as you know the mom you know so she texts me a second ago my friend and her grandmother she's like how's jay b doing um tearing cry for a bit she said you're good jay b kept set up here he he tried to go back in his room and sniffle sniffle and i cut that out too i'm like well what's the problem you know i i don't like my baby cry but he i'm like i talked to him and i explained to him he was good he came out in front we cut her full of it now he's fluffy ass on the couch sleep he good i said i'm sorry but i have no tolerance for disrespectful kids today regardless of that i don't feel good so i have to bring your baby back i didn't want to y'all my side and partake it because i i told you i gotta get my i gotta calm down and i'm i don't want to smoke on cam i don't want to you know in case someone's not for that you know i want to be mindful just like i really you guys see me pour a glass of wine but you don't see me throwing it back i try not to do that on cam because i'm i try to be respectful of people who may not um agree with this it's just like your angel aka nizzy naps was all quiet when i told her um i partake in uh cannabis for my anxiety she was she got quiet she's like you i said wait hold up hold up hold on wait a minute you try to judge me she's like nah i just she's like i just think of you as you know you're like a sweetheart and you i said no no no hell hold on y'all let me call her right now let me see what she's up to i was like hold on help her i know your ass ain't judging me all the trifling stories you'd be trying to say on uh y'all know i'm crazy hey hey hussey you dying now look hold on before you say anything else i got you on intro on my you at the end of my um my blog so say hi to everybody and i was letting them know that your ass was was um judging me your name i said nizzy did i say your name to say they gotta know what i'm talking to okay so i heard somebody who's another youtuber and she judging me but i'ma edit all her name out because i don't need her ass calling me cursing me out acting crazy girl i haven't seen that first of all that that wig now i i'm really i'm gonna edit it out okay i'm gonna edit your name out um that's okay this story time no is it nasty yes oh you know let me go ahead and look at it again i'm ready you know what i knew you were a trifling helper i knew it i knew you were a trifling