 who out there in YouTube wonderland regrets things from their past Here's the deal We all have ragrats, right in today's video. I'm going to explain to you How to not have them and how to look at them as a benefit how to make peace with your ragrats otherwise, what is your regrets and how you can kind of reframe your Mindset around these past mistakes that you made Ask you a question So if you go back to when you were an infant, right little little Tommy's learning how to how to walk, right? And he falls and he gets up and he falls Are you looking back at little Tommy or little Jane or little whoever you are and be like What the hell was wrong with me back then I cannot believe I didn't know how to walk like how stupid was it? I can't believe I did that Okay, you're probably like a new Sarah. Of course. I didn't do that. So why are You regretting things now? Okay, like look I get it We all have things in the past that were like you're like a little embarrassed and it kind of like It's it's like this weight on you that you just can't seem to lift and sometimes Say it's a regretting a past relationship, right? Maybe you let a Toxic or abusive relationship go on for too long I've been there and you look back and you're like What the heck was I thinking? Okay, what the heck was I thinking and it can kind of resurface when you're at getting into new relationships Or if you're dating so how do you move past that? How do you make peace with your past so that you can move forward in life and not have that? Baggage weighing you down. Where'd you get that baggage off your shoulders? Okay, so hang in here with me for a few minutes today I'm gonna teach you how to do that so So the baby example is really how you should look at Every example that you feel like you regret think of something in your life that you feel that you regret or you wish You didn't do or you wish you didn't say or you wish you had done something or whatever Okay, I want you to hold that thought in your head if you want to comment down below and see if anyone else has gone through Something similar and I want you to think about Where it led you or what it taught you because the thing is as much like when you were an infant You didn't know any better at that time Like as you're sitting here watching this video now, you could have certainly go back and say well It's easy to walk, you know I don't fall when I walk anymore unless you're me and you're clumsy and you fall all the time That's another story But in general like you don't look back and hold that grudge against yourself when you're learning how to walk take that Mentality into whatever it is that you feel that you regret in your life now, okay? We are hopefully constantly growing and evolving and learning throughout lives So how can you hold yourself accountable for a level of consciousness that you didn't have? Five ten twenty years ago that you have now Okay, you can't hold yourself to the same standard as you did twenty years ago or ten years ago Because of the things that you know now and to even go a little deeper into that You wouldn't be where you are now without those learning experiences So you see you have to understand that as you're growing and evolving and learning You're becoming a more well-rounded person. You're becoming a wiser person You're learning more about Yourself and what you like and what you don't like and what makes you happy and what makes you sad and maybe without going through those events or You did you said something to this person or whatever it may be You wouldn't have learned that that was the wrong scenario for you. I personally have a long track record of dating Not the best men or at least for what they were at that time Yeah, I don't know who they are now Maybe they learned from it But I certainly did and the thing is is if you are going about your life and repeating those things and repeating the Mistakes or regrets then like yeah, you still have to learn the lesson because you're still making the same mistake again But the whole point and having those regrets and making those mistakes is so that you learn from them And you don't do it again and you can better craft your future for something that you do like Maybe you had a job that you regret of doing and you didn't like it But you learned that you didn't like it so then when you move forward you progress in life You're not doing the same thing again And the biggest thing to keep in mind is you are always doing the best you can at that time in that moment With whatever knowledge you have at that time and whatever you know and and whatever you don't you don't know what you don't know Right So like how could you know without going through that or without making that decision that it wasn't the right decision for you So in reality aren't you always kind of making the right decision for you? Because it's always leading you to the next step So you see it's always a step forward Even if it feels like a step backward because you're always gaining knowledge and you're gaining wisdom and on top of that Here's another twist as you're learning and going through these things You're creating a way to help other people in the future. So for example A video I did a few videos ago about like how to relieve yourself of anxiety Well How could I help you and make a video on here of helping you to get rid of your anxiety if I didn't go through it myself? You have a book out there to write you have a song to create you have a movie script to write You have advice to give other people you may or may not know Because of these past regrets and mistakes So don't downplay them and don't beat yourself up about them because in those regrets and in those mistakes is Magic a mistake is never really a mistake Unless you give it the power to be one unless you let it weigh you down like it is one So give yourself grace and know that you were doing the best that you could in that moment And then it's okay and that you're not gonna live a perfect life You're not gonna make the right decision every single time But every decision is gonna get you one step closer one step further It's gonna be able to help one more person So just think of it that way like you're always where you're supposed to be right now in this moment You've got here because of the things you went through Positive or negative and most times the negative things are the ones that shape us to who we are They make us stronger. They make us more resilient. They make us more Powerful and more they bring us self-love. So let it bring you self-love. Don't let it bring self-hate Don't don't go back and yell at 16 year old little Johnny. Okay 16 year old little Johnny was doing the best that he could 16 year old Johnny isn't gonna make the same decisions that 30 year old Johnny makes Just like 30 year old Johnny isn't gonna make the same decision as 55 year old Johnny makes Alright, so just like Give yourself some grace give yourself some breathing room and have Gratitude for the things that you've gone through because it has made you who you are today So I'm gonna say here. I'm gonna ask you guys What's one thing that you've regret or you feel that you made a mistake in your past? That you actually see is a good thing comment down below. I want to know I would love to hear your story Okay, how did it make you stronger? How did it teach you a lesson? How did it help you help someone else? Mistakes are a beautiful thing Millionaires and billionaires don't get there typically on the first shot They make a bunch of mistakes to get there You don't typically marry the first person you date when you're 16 or 15 or whatever it takes a few mistakes to get there. I made the mistake of Not charging my camera Before I filmed and now I will learn from that mistake and make sure it's charged The next time I film a YouTube video and also look at my little kitty This is my little stash. She's so cute. Say hi, Otho And as sassy never made the mistake of getting lost We would have never found her and she wouldn't be here right now So my whole point is our past builds us it makes us stronger okay God is never going to give us something that we cannot handle. You hear that? God is never going to give us something that we cannot handle There's things in your past that you felt like you probably couldn't get past and here you are And there's gonna be things that happen in the future that you feel like you're not gonna be able to get past But you will our past builds us and it makes us stronger And it prepares us for what's going to come in the future so that we can handle those things better and with more knowledge and wisdom And grace I hope it brings you so much peace to know that the things that you've been through We're done to you on purpose to build you and to build your character And then it's all gonna be okay So give yourself some grace love yourself and know that you're never gonna live a perfect life You're always gonna make mistakes and that that's just a part of life And that's part of the process of evolving and becoming a more loving and peaceful and happy human being I love you guys so much. 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