 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at CommitmentConnection.com. And today we're going to talk about how to save a relationship. So if you're having a problem in your relationship and you want to know how to save it, that's what this is about today. So there's really, I'm blessed to have been a part of saving many people's relationships. I've helped save relationships, I've helped save marriages before, and when I save, help save them. What I'm really saying is that I gave some guidance to some people that actually saved them because saving your relationship isn't up to me, it's up to you. And knowing that is very, very important. So there's really four steps that I've found were patterns in people that ended up saving their relationships. And the first one is this. Stop blaming yourself and stop blaming your partner. When you place blame on somebody, whether it's yourself or your partner, it can be really, really damaging to your relationship. And I mean, it can just be horribly damaging, and there's a pattern that you can end up getting into where you're just blaming each other and it's just atrocious. And so if you want to stop that, just stop it altogether. Stop blaming, refuse to blame him, refuse to get caught up in that pattern. And step two is taking responsibility. So just taking responsibility for anything can be really, really powerful. It kind of almost just breaks that pattern that you had before and it can just jog somebody into just being like, whoa, oh man, I don't want to do this anymore, right? I don't want to continue to fight or whatever. The third step is to get resources from experts. You know, if others can be helped, then you can be helped as well, right? It's rare. Every once in a while, there's relationships that shouldn't continue, right? And a lot of times, if you're in an abusive, emotionally or physically abusive relationship or if you're with a narcissist, sometimes I get women who are in narcissistic relationships with narcissists and it's just like, get out of that relationship. But that's not your situation then. Get resources from experts and find out what you need to do. Find out ways to break those patterns. Find out ways to come together closer with your partner. That can be really, really powerful. And then fourth is just taking action. So taking those resources that you get and just doing something. You know, even if you mess up, that's better than doing nothing at all and just allowing your relationship to fall apart. So yeah, that's it for today. If you want more information on how to attract Mr. Wright into a committed, lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take the quiz. I'm Matthew Coast and I'll speak with you again soon.