 men's value has been intrinsically tied to their perceived utility. And that utility is intrinsically inherently tied to how disposable he is or how disposable he is willing to be. The men that are celebrated throughout history are the men who were ready to die, whether it meant dying internally for a bigger purpose or literally jumping in front of a bullet to protect your woman. There's a reason most women want their man to be taller than them. It goes back to the psychological programming that a bigger man can better defend me with his life. So this new shit that women are talking about, oh, I want him to be more expressive and shit like that, to your point and to your admission, it lies in direct opposition to the utility that females are still biologically predisposed to reward us for.