 Women are typically the ones that attract men, not push them away. But there are things a woman would do and then men would flee. Relationships are tough and keeping one can seem like a full-time job. According to a new mode blog, no one sets out to sabotage their relationship. Most of us have only the best intentions. We want it to work, we think about it, maybe even obsess over it, we put our heart on the line, we invest ourselves, since our intentions are pure. It seems like we should get a positive outcome. But this isn't always the case. So how exactly does the woman push the man away? The answer is true actions. In today's video, I will share with you 13 things women do that push men away. If you are new here, consider subscribing to our channel for more awesome videos such as this one. 1. Nagging and Complaining Nagging and complaining are the twin evils of every relationship. A man cannot abide by nagging, it can make them completely disinterested in a woman. It is worse when they are already married because this time around, they will not be able to easily get away from each other. The man will seek solace either in drinks or in the arms of another woman. Complaining is equally as bad as nagging. People like this don't see anything good, they are very negative in their approach to life. 2. Not Respecting a Man A man needs respect more than any other thing because of his ego. If a woman can't give him respect, he won't stay. Men generally don't consider women who don't respect them for a long-term relationship. Respect is not just mutual respect colleagues are caught each other. Respect can mean not interfering with his decisions and issues. Defending his decision in public and not calling him out because you earn more than him. Women want love while men want respect. If you don't respect a man, he can't love you. It is not something negotiable in a relationship. The man have respect or the relationship is headed nowhere. The man must have respect or the relationship is headed nowhere. If you are the type that is in a high-profile corporate role in a multinational and you are looking to start dating, you need to make up your mind about giving the man his respect. Don't waste his time or mock his friends. Don't make fun of his family. If you do, you will likely never see him again. According to AIMOM, a man deeply needs the woman in his life to respect his knowledge, opinion and decisions. What I would call his judgment. Many men wish their mates wouldn't question their knowledge or argue with their decisions all the time. It's a touchy and difficult thing in these liberated days but what it really comes down to is their need for us to defer to them. If you do this for a man, he will never leave you. With the influx of technology and the new wave of feminism, finding a woman who understands the man's need for respect is even harder. If a man finds anyone who still understands this value, they will not let such a person go without a fight. 3. Being too needy. No man wants to deal with an overly needy girl. The needier you are, the more tonde of the man will be. Men need their space, they need to be free to pursue their dreams and not have to worry about you or your problems. If you do that early in the relationship, all he will see you as is a problem he has to deal with. There will be no future. If you are independent, you have your own job, your own dreams, your own friends and goals. It is much easier. The two of you can meet on mutual grounds and be keeping up to date with each other's progress. It is actually more exciting this way. Imagine you are a Harvard PhD scholar dating a professor from MIT. If your disciplines are different, at least you guys can discuss ideas and share knowledge. He is pursuing his own dreams, you are pursuing yours. No one wants to babysit a grown woman. Figure out your life and not budding another person with it. Any man you date will feel like you are budding and will leave as soon as the relationship starts. It doesn't work. 4. Being overly possessive. When women are so possessive of men, they will do anything to keep him. Unfortunately, men see days as desperate and will not want to continue the relationship. According to a new mode, the vast majority of time if a guy likes you, he will let you know it will be obvious there won't be any mixed message or any hidden clues to decipher. If he likes you, he will make it known and he will ask you out. The only job is to show enough interest to let him know he won't be shut down. The girl's job is not to follow the guy. Let the guy do the following. If the guy feels like you are coming on too strong, he may pull out, throw him tantrums over him, hang it out with your friends or calling one of your friends for something will only further his sense of your insecurity. Guys prefer girls that appear not to care. Then they will work hard to get their attention. It is not the other way round. Girls should keep to themselves and not show too much enthusiasm in a relationship in the beginning stages just in case the guy isn't serious. 5. Talkative. It is okay to talk but maybe not too much. Some guys enjoy talking while others do not. They may take you out as a chatterbox and withdraw from the relationship. It can actually be helpful especially if there is no other reason other than that fact. You need to restrict the things you talk about if possible, leasing more for a change. 6. Expecting men to read your mind. Some women don't discuss their feelings but expect you to know them. From experience, this never works. If you have something to say, the only way the man will actually know is if you say it. If you don't, he will never know. 7. Feeling Entitled. It may not make a lot of sense to you but some ladies have a strong sense of entitlement. This leads them to talk to their boyfriends in a rude manner and speak as though they are entitled to the man's sacrifice. No one is under an obligation to care for you, not even your parents after you have become an adult. Even when one does this out of free will, the least you can do is show gratitude. Don't complain if a man wants to save his money instead of spending it on your expensive lifestyle. He is holding his account on trust for you. 8. Committing Too Soon. This is actually a really big problem in many relationships. The couples commit too soon before they really learn a lot about each other and this doesn't enable them to have enough time to really know whether they want to do it or not. On average, couples should date for at least 6 months before they start thinking of any long-term commitment. You need time to figure these things out. You can't just jump into a relationship and hope it will sort itself out. It won't. 9. Stressing Over the Relationship. Girls who stress over a relationship are the exact type men don't want. They seem like the relationship means the world to them. If the guy ever starts to wonder what his real benefit is in such a relationship, it is as good as over. No one wants to come and spend the rest of their lives making another person's dream come true while the languishing regrets. This is a very miserable way to live. Cut yourself loose on time. Some people, unfortunately, are not what that type of stress. 10. Being Self-Obsessed. When women are so selfish in their relationship, it is a miracle some men stay with them beyond one month. They only go on dates at the hotels she peaks. They only eat what she wants, drink what she wants, attend her family dinner, hang out where she wants, talk about what she wants. She might as well date herself. Women like this repulse men. Once they find out what she is like, they flee. No one wants to be a slave in the name of love. Women who have this habit have to change it. 11. Be Negative. Some people are so negative all they talk about is failures. They don't believe anything at all can work out and they spread this vibe to people. Some women are like this too. They have typically had bad relationships with other guys and already assume the current one is a waste of time. They will always say bad and negative things about the relationship as though trying to getrip the men into not haunting them again. Men flee from women like this. 12. Being Overly Dramatic. When she starts talking about her friends and you are not paying attention and she starts throwing a tantrum, take note, you may be in for a long one. Does she quarrel over petty things? Does she overreact to random situations? This is very important. Men do not like drama. 13. Constance Display of Insecurities. Do you snoop around his phone, check his wallet for hotel bills and hug him to sniff his neck for foreign perfume? If he finds out, you are going to be alone real soon. You need to understand that insecurity just tells the man that going forward into the future if he ever comes home late from work, you would assume he has gone to cheat on you. No one wants to leave like that. No one wants to leave with that type of uncertainty on a long term basis.