 Make sure the camera I was supposed to get on here at 9 p.m. But then had a phone call as I was going through my email had a phone call and so Just got free but want to pop on We come into the summertime so while I'm home With my boy schedule being a little different getting a little closer I'll be able to do more lives and so I'm making up for to the blessed tribe because I Was supposed to be going once a week But sometimes I don't get to go once a week. So I figure I'll do as Many as I can when I can and I'm gonna I'm also be doing these lives in the summertime at different times because sometimes because what I realized When I am on here at 10 p.m. 9 p.m The people in London is middle of the morning So I'm gonna have to you know do something at noon and come on at different times Keesa God bless you. How do you stop beating yourself up so much to be honest with you? That's a That's a lifelong battle That's a lifelong battle, you know, I've heard it said that 80% of our self-talk is Negative so as long as you got a brain you don't have to deal with negative self-talk So one of the things that I do is I try to find like little key phrases like a sentence like I am enough I will win Money is coming blessings is coming opportunity is coming. I try to find little key phrases so that When I'm beating myself up I could just I could hit myself with one of those affirmations so sit down and write out some affirmations on a three by five card or Something put that in your wallet keep that with you read it in the morning read it at lunch read it at night and Until it gets in your spirit. So anytime you thinking of a lie That you being told then you can Invert your self-talk and say something that's positive to yourself because your mind gonna believe what you're telling it So you got to be careful of that because you do a video or course on investing into investment properties Yeah, eventually I'm gonna do that and I'll be filming some stuff, you know and me and my investment company we're gonna be building from the ground up now to and and um So I'll be sharing some stuff on that Now I'm gonna tell you the number one best investment property to invest in is yourself That's one thing Investing in your idea investing in your blog your company your Course your book like one of the best investments to make is you Keely God bless you now God bless you Eric God bless you Tony. What do you think about childhood friends becoming a couple? He knows everything about about me friends since sixth grade and we're 33 years old now Um, I have not seen it work I think a lot of men do that out of boredom a lot of men do that because you the one that got away and they Know you getting older. They know a little desperation may be kicking in so they know they can get you on your back rather quickly and Um But I have not seen it work to where you you know each other as kids and then you get together later And it works. I hear about it all the time But it typically and I think the letter today was about that. I think it typically is about um It typically turned out terrible, but You know, God bless you undrilled God bless you now somebody say When trying to set boundaries with my child's father Is it hard to not allow him to come over to see our son, but instead require him to pick him up? No, that's not harsh. You want to have that boundary. You want to have that line, you know, what I've heard called Refrigerator rights you want to refuse refrigerator rights because you want to get to a place to where you got to understand You gonna have you a husband and so he can't get accustomed to coming in your house sitting on the couch hanging out playing He need to be thinking it's a man in there. It's a man in there. She the mood on with her life. So She gonna meet me at the door With my son and his sleeping bag, you know His night stuff his overnight stuff and I'm picking him up from the door or she gonna walk him all the way out to the Car and so setting them boundaries. That's not harsh at all. Ain't nothing harsh about having boundaries Nothing harsh about having boundaries. You need to have boundaries Make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question so I could easily identify and Now this is not a premiere. This is alive. So on the premiere y'all could just chat chat chat chat chat chat This right here is a Q&A. So Only put questions in the chat only put questions in the chat, you know A little side conversation and all that hold that on these just only put questions I know y'all be ready to you know, get them thumbs to working, but hold that on these Faterica bless you should the 72 hour rule be used on a man who gets physical The 72,000 hour rule if a man get physical that need to be the last time he get physical with you Listen, you can't play with your life now. You can't play enough physical You can't play with your life and that's what sometimes people say. Oh verbal is just as worse. Just as bad That's what you say But it's actually not yes, it's gonna break you down slowly. But what you rather Get punched in your temple and die or somebody call you out of body and ugly what you rather So neither one of them should be allowed. But when it's physical That take your life instantly that verbal is a slow. It's a slow burn But I'm guarantee you I rather you call me stupid dumb and ugly then punch me in my temple You see what I mean, and that's why I try to tell people like Both is bad But when that feels cool You can't play with that Somebody get like that. Oh got to go. All right. Get to your purse. Okay All right, man. Nice knowing you and I'll and while I'm on the way out Calling 911 Yes, can you get over here one two three main street? Thank you very much. All right. See you. All right her up Just like that right there. You can't play with them. Mm-hmm. I'm trying to tell you now I'm trying to tell you now don't play with it None of my relationships have lasted more than two months. Why is there no longevity? So she's gonna need coaching for that. So she's gonna have to Do your life down on white So she's gonna need coaching for that When you ain't got no relationship going past two months, we're not gonna be able to dress that on here We're not gonna be able to dress that on here My guy after five years says I should Earn being treated like a queen. Is this a Well, see, I don't know what gaslight nails because I didn't I didn't create that term and so when when come to terminology Sometimes it only means something really to the author and so me personally. I Really don't know it. I didn't know what that means. So I try not to speak on other people terms and But I'm gonna tell you what now It what it is it's childish Immature and disrespectful. That's one thing. I know that it is it's childish immature Oh, my light of them broke. Oh I don't burn it counts around. I have my counter burning and forgot it was burning yesterday. I count a little burnt all the way down That's childish immature Because listen a man ought to be treating you like a queen off the jump Because all that treatment is it's respect That's all it is No, Suprena I don't judge pictures no more. I Only do that on coaching calls the way I let you know what it's saying through perception the perception only on coaching calls, you know, because No, you get on here On own coaching call got the book coaching call on my mentor about life where we talk about perception We talk about, you know, the image, you know, what you portraying, but these pictures right here. It's just so low I'm out of line doing that. Why did he friend me then get Then get any to learn I was dating again and asked me to not contact him anymore Then get any to learn Why did he friend Yes, let's type that again sister type that again Tony I have an ex who I haven't spoke to since 2014 He wished me happy birthday last night through facebook messenger. He is newly engaged. Why Would he reach out to me? He probably seen all your birthday wishes on there And he also want to just strike that soul tie back up just like that match one more time And um What you shouldn't respond Stephanie God bless you. God bless you now Okay So I see what sister meant Then get angry to learn I was dating again And ask me not to contact him anymore. I'm not sure on that one. I'm not sure on that one Jenae God bless you now should I jump right back into a relationship after a month Breakup or should there be a waiting period? Um After a month break up I'm not really sure exactly what you mean by your question because I'm not sure if you're saying you and him broke up for a month Or if you're saying you was in a relationship with a man and and you've been single for a month And now you wonder should you get into a new relationship? The question is can Can you love as if you've never been hurt? If you can love as if you've never been hurt then You ready to get into a relationship if you hurt you scar, you know, you torn then no You shouldn't get in a relationship Bro, Tony, do you have any suggestions about dating a woman with a chronic illness? Thanks Uh shan and god bless you Well, if you're already dating her and you're already in there and she feel like a a wife then You got to ask yourself. Is this my call? Like is this my calling? am I the man who can be Understanding compassionate gentle and generous enough to love this woman so if if She is tugging on your heart her spirit is tugging on your heart and you feel A conviction about being, you know About walking away from it like you feel bad about that And you feel like you are being drawn pulled to her And that she is the one you're supposed to be with and be there for then Pray for the strength pray for the clarity the wisdom and just Tell yourself like this is my calling. I am an empath I am a catalyst. I am a confidant A support system and just if you see it as purpose It'll give you the strength to do it And and that happens to us sometimes Uh zeno god bless you. How can I extract the best from my guy? The best in order to get the best out of anybody is to not settle for less So if he is being his worst or he's being less And you accept that and you settle for that and you are okay with that Then he will never grow and be better But if you say ah, don't talk to me like that. Uh, you can't come in here After the time you're supposed to be here up, you say you're gonna call me You need to keep your word if you hold him accountable Then he has no choice but to grow if he wants to be with you Luciana god bless you. Can you have a soul tie with someone you've never had anything physical with? Um, yes, you can but again somebody else came up with definition of soul tie So who whoever wrote it it could be something different But what I consider a soul tie is a emotional connection Like a spiritual bond an emotional bond and that is formed through interaction or communication You know any type of communication or interaction So you don't have to sleep together to have that now if you sleep together outside of marriage then that could turn into a toxic and twisted bond If you ain't had nothing physical It still could be toxic and toxic and twisted, but It's not physical It's just emotional. And so yes, that is very and then what but whether you call it a soul tie or not that just semantics um God bless you If a man I am dating always stares at other women in public should I address it if so how yeah, you ought to address it um and in person I wouldn't make a huge deal about it But you ought to address it though because it's disrespectful And he may not notice it or he may notice it and not care So yes, you ought to address it and now remember in a time of peace you prepare for So in a time of peace you prepare for So it could be something when you get in the car and say hey, you know I notice when we walking around you do a lot of staring at women Like can you explain that like why is that and I'm gonna tell you as a man It is as a man. I could take now It's kind of up in the air one woman who is muslim told me On the comments. She have no trouble with looking at men. She have no desire to look upon a man And if she might barely could see if she just got that little slit on her eyes and that Thing that came down too far or come up too high because she's a lot. She a traditional muslim So she might barely could see out of there now If that's not the case and she just have practice Not looking upon men who she think is handsome But I'm gonna tell you one thing I noticed now I don't know if it's because people recognize me Because I do notice almost everywhere I go somebody recognize me So it could be that but when I'm walking through places Women be looking me dead in my face. I I'll be looking around and a woman look at me dead in my face Oh, wow. I thought women supposed to be modest and I got to turn my head first I'm like Man, how long you gonna stare at me now Because then I'll be watching because you got to remember marlin the king got stabbed by a woman not a man You know, now, of course, there's a man that took it like God rest his soul And you know, God doesn't help us a lot But the man took it like but a woman stabbed him in the chest So I'd be watching my surrounding because I don't never know what's coming And sometimes I'll see a woman and she'd be looking at me like I'm lunch me And she in the middle of the jungle and ain't eight in a week and I'm like, wow So so but now as a man, I do notice That it is a natural instinct To look to look around and notice the now I notice everything But if some look Good in a way that your mind has been conditioned that this good looking you got to catch yourself You got to check yourself. It ain't just no natural thing to where you just Walk around, you know, and can't see nothing you recognize stuff And some women have been honest and say look, I recognize handsome man. That's human nature So And I have one homeboy who is a faithful man He's a faithful man. He honest And I tell him like listen, I'm not My goal is not to be looking upon women because I'm the married man in the bible said you lust in your heart You committed adultery and then he said to me Man, that's stupid Man, that's a waste of time man. I'm not finna torture myself like that. He's like ain't nothing wrong with looking You ain't touching that's human And so that's his take on it and guess what I feel like that's 99% of men take on it and now with e-men sitting in here with stuff spent on their desk Doing they talking It's gonna be hard for you to convince a man that he wrong for Looking at him a piece of booty It's gonna be hard today If there was a lot more men accepting responsibility and talking and saying that it's wrong, it'll be easier But with what's out here today These men gonna be like what if you don't shut up? You better be glad they ain't go hard ladder in front of your face That's how these men today gonna be talking. So god bless on that, but I definitely would bring it up Britain god bless you now dating a man that lives with mom slash family six people total Says it works better because of past break-ins. I feel away about it. He's 37 Slash 31 both no kids slash married And I don't know how you're using these slashes because I don't know if that means no kids never married or that means no kids but y'all was married And I'm guessing you saying he 37 you 31 So forgive me if I'm interpreting misinterpreting them slashes, but now Now where do he live at? Because he's staying with you know a tribe talking about because the past break-in what he on old block 64 63rd or whatever the rapper be hollering about where they from So it's like where do he live at? Like is this safe? It's like do you want to get is you're gonna get caught in a drive by get hit in the leg through the door hanging with him So that's first and foremost To hit his butt line because you can put bars on your window. You can put alarm on your house Now if the six of them came to four bars on the window or alarm on the house And let's say it's other issues going on So for one he lying and so this is the thing you have to look at the maturity continuum dependent independent Interdependent If a man living with somebody living off of somebody he's still a dependent So if you is of age if you are of age and you are ready to start dating with a purpose for marriage Then y'all need to be independent able to pay your own Shelter pay for your own transportation pay for your own clothes food and the like if y'all is dependence Y'all don't need to be dating At all y'all need to be focusing on your grind and getting your life in order Now if you live with somebody by choice and you can afford to live on your own that's different Ty God bless you God bless you in family time. I appreciate you. All you doing. Hey God bless you. No Lorenzo Blessing. Is it okay for a man to be in a relationship and have female friends? Some of which he claims are more like sisters because he has known them for years No, it's not okay, but it depends on what type of relationship y'all in how long y'all been in that relationship So if you brand new, uh, a man not finna cut off his friends for you Uh catalyst god bless you now catalyst cobert Charlesy god bless you So that's the thing it depends on you when you brand new A man typically ain't gonna cut off his friends for you now So the thing is when it comes when it comes to friends, it should naturally be An organic separation destiny separates them the closer y'all get So if y'all getting closer and y'all a serious item and he's still talking to them friends A lot as much as he talked to you or more than he talked to you That's a sign that he in love with them friends or one of them friends and keeping them close until it's his turn to pounce Because men really are not genuine platonic friends with a woman if a man is heterosexual He's typically it's very very very very very very very rare For a heterosexual man to be a platonic friend with a woman That he can be attracted to Now if she is the complete absolute complete opposite of his attraction Then it gives some what of a possibility But as long as she got something between her legs is still not all the way foolproof I have finished the life coaching course should I sign up for a coaching session with a coach before signing up for my mentor You don't have to but yes, you could use and if you you know, it would not hurt you. I would recommend it um Even if it's one of the 25 dollar hour coaches Just to kind of see how other people run their session If you can afford a hundred dollars then I would do four sessions with four different coaches At 25 an hour to see what you like and what you don't like of course You're not telling them what you're just seeing how they run your session and bring a real problem now, you know bring a real Problem that you working on if it's about building your brand as a coach then Click on the filter and select a business coach or a branding coach or a career transition coach, but coaching Can never hurt you because you're gonna learn or something even if it's what not to do and say What do you think about looking for a woman that will help you in your purpose? You think about looking for a woman that will help you in your purpose Um to be honest with you. That's any woman That's any woman. That's the nature of a woman. You got to remember what a woman was When a woman was created like it wasn't to run a fortune 500 company, you know, it a woman wasn't created Just for just to be there like a woman has a purpose and She got a brain and she she is a backbone by nature. She's a Nurturer by nature. That's why her body produces Milk to feed human life. That's why her body can carry human life and Bring life into the world. She's a nurturer by nature. So to be honest with you Any woman you meet If she checks off the other boxes with her character And her personality her belief system her standards, then She she'll help you in your purpose. Would you suggest speed dating? Um It won't hurt you it won't hurt you, you know, it's it it can help you help your conversation skills It you may you know, it's like playing the lotto It's like dating lottery. You might get lucky and meet somebody at the speed dating that you Actually like so it wouldn't hurt you now The key is to make sure Ted Bundy nephew ain't in there And when you get in that car to go home To be looking in that rearview mirror and when you get back to your house The circle on around the block a couple times to make sure ain't nobody followed you home And hit that block a couple times a few times and make sure ain't nobody right behind you That's the key with that right now that speed dating But it ain't gonna hurt you and it's better than online dating because at least you get to see this man You get to count his teeth. You get to see that. He's a man You get this you get to hear how he talked you get the smell is cologne You get to see how he dressed. Look at them shoes. Look at them fingernails You get to kind of analyze them read his energy, which you cannot do when you online dating So I I would rather People speed date than online date Greatest love. God bless you. Hi Tony being that there are majority grown boys out here today And uh genuine men who honors women and ultimately want marriage or slim to none. What is a good woman to do? Well, the thing about it is you have to get You got to understand perception Because a lot of women who say they're a good woman actually is not a good woman Because they don't understand what a good woman is to a man And so you could be a good woman to yourself But you're not marrying yourself So men and women today have to understand perception and understand what the Person that they're trying to attract what that person or those type of people are looking for because You know, I talked to a lot of women who say, oh, I'm a good catch. I'm a good catch and And and I want this kind of man I want I want a man like this a man like that and I'm like, do you know That a man like that don't want a woman like That you are right now with your mindset or your habits or your attitude or You know, whatever it may be So when you get when you understand perception, then you realize, okay I'm a good woman. Like you could be an amazing person, but that don't mean that you relationship ready You could be an amazing person by yourself But that don't mean that you ready to go from independent to interdependent And so typically when you're not attracting anything good It's typically a couple tweaks that need to be made Because the cream rise to the top So when you become the cream of the crop Then you're gonna rise to the top and you're gonna start to attract people on your level But it might be one little tweak that need to be made and that might be getting out the house more that might be You know Switching up how you portraying your how you're presenting yourself that might be where you're going So always get you some feedback You know outside looking in Is it a red flag if it Is it a red flag if a man is a fan of alpha man on internet? For one don't be putting nobody else's name on my channel Because everybody don't know who you're talking about for one and then two That's a lot of these men that call themselves alpha men is actually What would really be a beta man? because A alpha man is never going to put a woman down It's never going to demean and belittle A woman a alpha man a real man will never do that He will speak to a woman the truth in love to Share his perspective, but to build her up in the process and create a Dialogue that is healthy and a two-way street That's what a real man gonna do So when you must see the thing is is Is a lot of these men that's out here today that's claiming to be this or that They like, you know, they soothing the sore ears For these grown boys that's out here because These grown boys essentially what the message is is women need to Know their place and get in line And shut up so you could get a man That's what these a lot of these men out here telling these men They telling the men that data prize That they got all the options that they got the upper hand And that women need to be eaten out of their hand kissing they behind and so When men come in and saying that that make A grown boy feel great it make them feel amazing because All this all the messages really the way it's being understood and the way it's being translated is The woman need to work for the man's approval and seek the man's approval and that the man is Quote unquote high value and the woman is low value And if she don't look a certain way or make a certain amount of money or do this and that then She need to Shut up and be happy with whatever a man gonna give her That's the underline message Korean god bless her coach and tasha bless her Christine god bless her Taneetra bless you You you you lia Bless you You lia I don't know who I don't know that was the message that was To leave it I hold the thing too long And if y'all notice I talk about everything but I don't speak names so don't don't speak nobody name I don't speak names because Whenever you speak somebody name that make them feel like they invited into a conversation And um and a lot of these people they get beside themselves You know sometimes I'm just really not the one to get beside yourself with So that's why I don't speak names I talk on everything that I need to talk on now, but if I don't say your name You didn't get called and don't come for me Because I handle things a little differently Ariana god bless her how to get guys attention after being Short with him via text Didn't realize how much he was trying to get to know me till now missed opportunity Yeah, you didn't miss the opportunity now sis. You you know how to communicate That mean you're not ready for a relationship That mean you got to keep you know working on your interpersonal skills and working on your mindset Because it ain't easy to take it's not hard to text So if you was being short in the text that probably was something intentional subconsciously intentional Which is oxymoron, but there was subconsciously intentional because You might was trying to play your little game You might have trying to play your little game trying to be hard to get and then He gone by this business and now you feel nine you didn't play it yourself. It's too late now You don't ever want to run a man off then try to beg him back Go on about your business That's it's a lost opportunity just do better with the next man You're gonna meet because if you meet one man that mean you can meet two men So just keep going about your business because if he was the man for you He wouldn't let you being short in the text run you off He would have called you on the phone. He would have got on FaceTime So if you being short on the text run him off, that's not your husband anyways, so don't try to call him back Okay, this right here Bg 18 month relationship he speaks of marriage In two years He speaks of marriage in two years kids good character feels less than because my standards Encourage and uplift of or just go um If if he is less than your standards, then you need to go anyways He's like what you wasting your time for If he ain't who you want as a man, you know going about your business Going about your business And an insecure man is a dangerous man So a man who don't feel like he worried of you you shouldn't be with him anyways because he insecure and eventually he's gonna end up Flipping that on you. He's gonna have an ugly duckling syndrome To lia god bless her my ex and I got back together He's doing good But problem is he wants to know who I slept with when we wasn't together What to do told him it's none of his business, but he said I was rude You did the right thing and you keep it just like that because he ain't finna offer up no information He ain't finna tell you nothing and listen to me. I was a criminology major What's your Miranda right? Anything you say can and will Be used against you in the court of law In a relationship anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of law So don't tell nothing That ain't nobody business. That ain't none of his business. What you and your body was doing And you ain't got to lie you tell nothing There ain't none of your business because I went with you and you were doing what you was doing So don't be asking me about what I was doing and what you need to do is assume that it was nothing Because you need to judge me off me and how you know me not off Just you being nosy because you got a guilty conscience So when somebody asked you a question and that ain't none of their business you flip it right back on So who were you sleeping with guilty conscience sound like a guilty conscience speaking you see what I'm saying But don't do never get nobody no ammunition because they'll use it on you Nicky god bless you just send a little blessing as a thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with a god blessing God bless you Chanel god bless you. Hey tony similar to last question guy I'm dating 33 often talking tell stories about women who've thrown themselves at him Or want to sleep with him or have tried him when Out with his friends address how to feel it's really um When we do that as men it's really because we insecure And we want the woman that we telling that to to want us more to desire us more To kind of you know, like we want to feel good It's like we really kind of feel ugly in a certain way and we want to We're trying to convince ourselves that we still got it And so when a man doing that it's it's really harmless Don't sweat him and don't chase him and don't throw yourself on him Just because he's doing that but you kind of just it's it's really insecurity So honestly if you like what she did that? Oh my goodness. That's nasty. Why she's acting like that. Oh, what what the world? Oh my good these women today. Hey Go ahead. Well, you got it fine. You got it You hit him like that like don't let it bother you don't let that make you insecure And you hit him like that what it's gonna happen. It's gonna flip it on him because see he insecure and that's why he's sharing those meaningless stories and So but what it is is It's it's really when somebody don't feel like they all the way on your level and we we do that, you know I do that and my wife sometimes Somebody right me and look like they trying to flirt. Hey, baby. Look at it right now But I already told her what that mean and then so she flipped it back home And she said what did you say about somebody who always showing you who trying to holla at them? I said, yeah, you're right. She used to do that to me when we started dating and I was talking to my dad I said why I say, you know, my girlfriend always telling me like, oh, this guy tried to holla at me And he said listen here. He said my daddy told me a long time ago. He said listen She ain't gonna tell you about the man that she won't When he tried to talk to her so tell her don't bring you nothing else So I went right to my wife. She's my girlfriend I say listen, you ain't gonna tell me when when when that six foot four tall dark and handsome man try to holla at you So stop telling me about when all these little ugly men try to holla at you. I don't care When since I said that my wife has never ever Juved my girlfriend in and we use a couple months in She's never ever told me nothing about no man trying to holla at her and then to the contrary when I ask her So don't know me and try to holla at you don't nobody try to no at never Ever these men don't try to talk to me because I'm about my business. You see I walk right past you in the mall I don't even notice you in the mall and she is like that. She got tunnel vision We'll split up in the mall and then we coming back together and I'm I'm Walking right towards her. I got to really bump into her for her to see me She'll walk right past me And so that let me know like she really don't be looking around checking and she don't give off the energy that says You can approach me. So see it's like you got to know your person too Because this is the thing if he telling you that Then that mean he kind of open and transparent and his insecurity kind of get the best of him when you when he is Good looking to you and he never mentioned somebody trying to holla at him That could mean he trying to Hire some stuff. So it just you know, it's not one size fits all Jack of God bless you. Should you tell your new boyfriend or three months what your credit score is? I have good credit. He has been married before but she died eight years ago. I never been married but look in the mirror Uh Here's the thing you could tell him as long as you know that you have the strength not to use your credit on him As long as you know, you're not going to let him benefit from your credit And if he asks you what your credit score is That's the only time you should even consider telling him But before telling him you need to make sure he can show you his credit score And so listen, I don't show nobody nothing that they don't show me. So let me see your credit score Let me see your credit score first And so, you know, that's if he asked But sometimes a man want to know that if he a grown boy Which you don't know if he a grown boy because it's only three months in Sometimes a man want to know that to see if he can steal your identity There's a lot of scam artists out here now They've been living all off your credit. Get close until you get that Social security numb Man have business loans and lines of credit trade lines everything in your name And be gone with the wind Unless it got there's a hate Tony. I broke up with my ex kicked him out changed my number and location block via phone Social media even cash out now. He's repeatedly emailing me. Should I file an order or protect? Now if it just email And it ain't bothering you. It's not gonna make you reach out to him. It's not gonna make you and there's no threats in there nothing like that uh You know, it's a personal choice. It ain't all that serious not hitting on this a thing I don't be doing all this and don't go file no professional order when you secretly want the man back Then you want the man back and you just really want him to show how bad he want you They don't cut him off in every single avenue and then you Crawling back to him or you letting them come back to you now So if you go If you want to put a protection order what you first need to do is email him and say listen if you email me again I am calling the police and putting a restraining order on you. Thank you. Bye So give him a warning before you bring them people in Because now if you bring them people in and then really you weak for him And then in a year later he y'all pop up and meet each other and then you let them back in Oh, you finna pay a price You finna pay a price Mm-hmm. Yeah, you ain't spoke to him now. That don't mean you don't want to speak to him That don't mean you ain't gonna let them back So listen don't go all the way now if you if you Think it's a chance y'all can get back together because if you get that man your butt to kiss And then you end up with him a year from now. Oh, you finna pay a price You finna pay the piper because he finna be resentful You mean So listen, let them give him a warning first and if you keep disrespecting your overstepping the boundary then You're gonna get that protection Uh, la la god blessing now. Hey, Tony been dating a guy for seven months We was going out a lot first four months now He stayed in the house on his video games try to invite him out But he say he's saving money any thoughts Mm-hmm. Yeah He don't lie. He don't lie. He don't lie. Listen to these men And you know, he don't lie listen to these men and these men really done them popped up These last three months real heavy So now these men feeling like the prize and he's saving money Okay, you can walk around the lake They got they got a sidewalk around the lake downtown now you can walk around the lake You can go downtown you walk around go up to the little window get your little dollar slice of pizza You know, I'm saying you ain't got to be spending a whole lot of money to get out the house And so you see what I mean? So it's like He's making excuses and and uh, somebody already making excuses seven months in got to go Got to go got to go Gone by the business I feel like I met the one he's very attentive to my needs cares about my feelings makes me feel important In my opinion matters. He's 39 on business. He's consistent advice. Please keep going Keep putting the left foot in front of the right foot don't assume anything You know, just keep letting them show you who you are keep your legs closed stay off your back And let him show you who he is And just you know keep checking things out. Just dig a little deeper Do a little googling do a little facebooking Just check things out now because he could be the one or he could be looking for a rebound because his heart hurting from his girlfriend And he wants somebody he could showcase on facebook to make his ex jealous Okay, could have it been but it been to getting ready to go down And he needs some he needed a little ppp You said I mean so it's other stuff that could be going on So you just got to see if he's gonna stand and test the time Don't get too excited because see what a man does is Like y'all term y'all like to use love bombing A man of bombard you with all this Representative with this perfectness to get you to drop your guard And now your guard posted me up and now you go to dropping that guard And you dropping that guard dropping that guard dropping that guard before you know it You got something in your mouth Boy, you know it. You got something in your mouth Because you didn't drop that guard. So you got to keep that guard up now And you just you just look peeking out through that guard Let's see You see what I mean, but y'all get too comfortable because he looked like he perfect And then next thing, you know You oh, you spread ego open sesame And then he flipped a script on you like this young man because see that young lady say that man was perfect Doing everything she ain't mentioning that she came off the the groceries Like the song say each of them like groceries And she ain't mentioning that she came off them grocery She came off them groceries Nah, boom He didn't got the prize. He didn't got the prize. He didn't want to race knife and get on his video game I ain't got to work for you. No most I worked for you the first four months But now you didn't came off them good grocery. No, I'm on this video game You see what I'm saying? They did a man who within six weeks wanted me To give up my career move to another state with him and let him support us while I discovered myself. I let him go thoughts Oh, you did the right thing. You did the right thing. I mean, that's how you feel You probably could tell that would tell it but So you did the right thing did the right thing all about the business All about the business Hello, Tony will Queen Sheree bless us with her presence again and drop some gems for the ladies love for nyc No, I hope so now she asked me she asked me she ain't um You know, she she ain't pressed for it and one thing I don't do is I don't I don't press her You see what I mean? Because everything and everybody calling And a lot of couples they try to do couple stuff together because it sells But for me, I ain't worrying about trying to sell nobody. You see what I mean? So I don't You don't never want to put somebody in a light that They weren't meant to be in you know, they don't feel called to So for me, I'm hands off with that when she ready You know, she wrote the book with us for she wrote the book, you know with melwama's influence, but That about all I could get now if I ask her to do it she'll do it but She got a mouth. You know, she got a boy. She's strong You know, so if she want to do something she'll tell me so and she see me doing this and she won't ever say You want me to come on there with you Or should I do something for the ladies? She won't never have she she So she feel comfortable. So I let her do her But you know one of these days and the time that she came on there with me it really was In all honesty it was to promote the book. It was kind of almost like a Publishing type You know obligation like you wrote a book you got a show face to promote it But she didn't want to write the book She didn't want to write the book that was our publisher asks my publisher asks Can my second book in my two book deal be with my wife? And so she was like No, but then she she was like, okay And so that's why she did it but she really just she behind the scenes She comfortable behind the scenes because her focus is our sons and also she is she a different type like my wife she cool calm and collected but She she really ain't built for the online stuff and sometimes people come out their mouth sideways and Y'all think I'll be ready to put a hit on somebody my wife would really be about that action And so she'll be trying to find somebody to address and it and a thing could be a bot And so that's why I only put that stress on her because my son's mental health Well-being is more important and when you come into that line like It's a lot get put on you y'all see how they do You know these men's wife if they don't like their outfit if they don't like their body if they don't like their hairstyle People are coming to comments and just ripping new one and I'll be out here like Liam Neeson You hear me on her own for real for real. I'll be out here like Liam Neeson I will find you Because that's one thing right now. I don't play about her And so I don't play about her mental health And I don't play about my kid mental health So I protect that so I come out here and deal with the ignorance and the foolishness And all you know how heavy this is but a lot of people Until you get in this hill like you don't understand how heavy it is And so everybody's shoulders ain't meant to carry that so that's why I protect my queen And I don't just throw her out there to make money. Oh come on out there. We could do like a on the run Tour you see what they are big lemonade was like come on out here No, I'm saying man It's gonna kill it if you come on out here with me and we team up That's how a lot of men think they think in business. They think in money Me her well-being her mental health That means more to me Got your coaching and health Came through my own self-sabotage of mindset. It's life What's your number one challenge coaching? Women who are still limited in their thinking Um that right there, it's just the challenge in itself, you know, just you know coaching them and understanding that A coat as a coach you can't Make anybody do anything like understanding that your job Is really just to ask questions You ask questions When they say something that doesn't make sense and You know doesn't add up you asked them another question to get them to see it from another angle And then when they say something that you know, it really makes sense and you know, that's the answer Then you affirm them in that and you give them confirmation on that answer And then when they say something that don't make sense and you could tell they limited in their thinking Instead of telling them they're limited in their thinking you just ask them another question And then they kind of end up coaching themselves Is it normal for a man to want to take it slow in the beginning stages of dating? Uh, no, it's not normal It's not normal. That's only normal when he don't When he doesn't feel you're the one But he just need company. He need company. He wants somebody to talk to You a roster filler But men are very aggressive very assertive very hungry Go getters when a man wants something he own it Let think about look at the sales industry when you look at the sales industry you write into somebody's website You know you let me let me tell you go to a car dealership website You want to learn how men are and when men when a man wants something Even though you ain't in the market for a car Go to your local car dealership website and write in and inquire on the car And then see how fast they call you the next day See how many times they keep calling you keep texting you keep emailing you The sales industry and the sales tactic was written by men And it is very Disturbing It is very disgusting It is very annoying And you just be like bro Please stop emailing me man. If I want the product, I'm gonna call you Stop writing me every week telling my hey just following up onto my last email wondering if you've seen it Every single company regardless of the company. That's how they do And that's how a man will be in dating you'll be like Can I get a moment my goodness every time look at my phone you on my phone like if it ain't a phone call It's a FaceTime. It's a text message. Like my good and brother is everything. Okay Like I got a job That's how a man gonna be when he wants you when a man hollering by. Oh, let's just take it slow. He don't want you He don't want you or he playing mind games Why does a guy flake on a date makes excuses? He don't want you All right. Now that's my next shirt. He don't want you For me to have sitting up in here in the office and not even selling them I'm gonna put these shirts that I be when I'm gonna put them I'm gonna make them available for sale here soon. But I just I just ain't had the energy I ain't had the energy because I don't ride here all this is Weighing on the scale and putting it in the package and all of it right here I'm like, man. I'm an intern again. I've never been an intern, but I'm like, I feel like an intern And then I know I got some offers for people to run it for me. But I just I struggle with trust in humans And and I also know where I'm at right now and I'm just not in the place in the position to be tried And if I get tried You know things to get ugly and I just don't want to go through that right now Veronica God bless you now. You attracted your message So I don't know if you can see that Earth angel God bless you. Hi, Tony. This is a thank you daughter's toxic dad still not leaving me alone after he Got his toxic ex pregnant working with my mentor to best handle this situation after seven years Now 27 I'm done. God bless you now. God bless you keep doing the work Azula God bless you. Hi, Tony. I work in a male dominant workplace. I have a strong feeling my boss likes me But I don't see him that way. He's married and his wife was my boss before Advice on how to work with someone like this You know, you got you got to picture him as somebody else You don't look at him as your boss Like, you know, look at him as if Picture him as if like Barack Obama, you know, a man that you respect But a man that you know is off limits You know, don't look at him With familiarity, you got to look at him like a stranger like you don't know him. So you very stiff You very cordial you very direct You very solemn faced stoic You're not all personable and all La la la la because man over read stuff Men read too deep in the stuff. So if you're doing too much a man just gonna assume that you like him And so you just have to be real direct with him, you know, don't don't give him too much energy, you know, because Then he gonna make you Really put him in his place Because he gonna he gonna misread it and then he gonna try you and then you got the You said, I mean slap him in the mouth And go to uh, EEOC Nicole Miller. God bless you now So just just just picture him as if like, you know, this is a platonic person stranger And I got to be business and straight up 55 and I have done everything to turn This 33 year old off. He's persistent after a year. What do you think? He has issues 55 are you trying to turn it there? See you a goal. You are a goal. He don't want you You're fetish You're a fetish you're a challenge and I'ma tell you now. I'ma tell you getting weak You're getting weak, but you got to get strong right now tonight. You got to get strong because after a while That annoyance becomes flattery And he waiting to catch you on a day where Your body just In my body Telling me He want to get you he know that they gonna come to let them hormone kicking And you just ready you miss your dangling in a jar And he right there ready strong and ready And you like come on over and that's what he waiting on. So listen Um Moderators god bless you y'all could y'all could start working now to the moderators that's helping me out y'all could start working now Y'all ain't got to monitor the chat because I'm getting ready to get off. So I thank y'all so much Shout out to the moderators who help, you know keep this thing clear for me so I could see the questions Camel and god bless you. I know I probably missed somebody message god bless you But listen when I tell y'all, you know, it's a free Q&A So don't don't send a message With a dollar attached to it for to get a question asked Because I might miss that So now if you send that send that as you saying, hey, I'm supporting this channel And if you can if you see this answer this message, but don't you know do it just for that because it's a free Q&A Um martini god bless you. Okay That's your mama listening to remin martin And she's like well, I can't do remin martin because that took so let me do martini. God bless you. No, that's a cute name Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for one month. He smoked marijuana. I told him I don't want him Doing that. I'm celibate by the way He seems to not have a plan on how he will stop smoking. He claims I'm the one should I just leave y'all going about spending Y'all going about spending one money and you ain't got a chance of beating somebody addiction Don't go on about your business. You ain't got a chance of beating somebody addiction Bejones. I'm finna go to bed. So you might look on the bed. All right Well, you scroll back to the beginning of this, but I just were coming on here for an hour now Uh, hi Tony. I'm dating a guy who was 50. He seems interested but I always want to discuss the mixtile Me and going their own way movement. Should I stick it out or leave leave immediately immediately? I'm gonna tell you and man, come to you talking about a mixtile a red pill yellow pill blue pill high value man Uh, alpha male strategies and man talking about that when you look at the common denominator between all the messages It is about putting Your foot on the neck of a woman It is not about empowerment. It is not about teamwork. It is not about lifting each other up It is about control It is about control. It is about manipulation. It's about using a woman To get what you want from her using her for her body Using her for her credit school Using her for her money and treating her like an option and making her work for you And all of those things are ran by butthurt men Those are butthurt men who call themselves alpha men, but they actually beta males But they call themselves alpha men, but they are butthurt men Who have gotten dogged out and mistreated by women That was out of their league And they tried to get the woman and not a woman Did them wrong and now they won't revenge on all the woman kind The other part of it is men who did a woman wrong And then she held him accountable And she stuck it to him And when he got a taste of his own medicine it now by killing and now he angry and he won't it's revenge Other lambs that's what all them these movements of these men is revenge of the lambs It's revenge of the butthurt men Who can't accept the consequences of the actions that they did in their relationship Or they got hurt by a savage woman and now they want to make every other woman after that pay And in the short and skinny of it that's just what it is and real recognize real and ain't now one I'm gonna look near my face and tell them I'm lying because I done every single thing That they could imagine doing to a woman and with a woman And so I know the game inside not outside and down front and backwards Like my shoe size and and I could tell A fate when I see a fate I could tell a lane when I see a lane Because a real man don't want nothing with don't want no parts of Controlling a woman using a woman Telling a woman What to do and how to do it and stealing a woman voice a real man I want to do that because he doesn't derive his strength from there A real man understand that his strength is his gentleness Hey y'all don't say no more question now. Let me touch on this here His strength is his gentleness and he understand that Don't say no more question. Let me answer this last one fit him on my son's father Seeing him for the first time in five years over the weekend cried Hug spent the day and said he wants to see him more But it's not responding to my son's call the text says he busy. All right. Let him be Let him be gone about the business Let him be gone about the business Now y'all hold on now y'all hold on because I'm getting ready to go now I'm getting ready to go but I'm gonna tell you about what's going on And you you screen record this and shout this with everybody in your text message And because it's a movement I'm gonna keep on talking about it over and over But it's a movement and I'm gonna tell you what it is It's the adversary working to break up the household And what this is is to break up the household so that you have no strength in the home So that the kids are confused so you got single mom home And you got all this brokenness and this movement is being led by grown boys It's being led by and see really the way the adversary work is he'll put a Decepticon in now He the adversary will actually put a man who liked men To talk to women and what they need to do for relationships But the men actually like them a piece of booty hole Don't even want a woman can't even make it work with a woman But will come and try to Destroy the confidence and the self love and the self respect of women To debase women and make women feel less than and like they got a survey man Worship a man compete for a man and settle for whatever treatment this man want to give them Just because this man make money So if the man want to cheat, okay, that's just men being men. That's what they want a woman to believe And what these lames is on here doing Is they teaching men how to deceive women how to manipulate women How to get women to buy into their ways and they doing that because they lame because they soft Because they scared because they weak because they butt hurt because they angry because they got mommy wounds or daddy wounds Because the girl they wanted in eighth grade chose the star quarterback Because the girl they wanted in 12th grade Chose the star basketball player because the woman that they tried to get and tried to buy End up just using them for his money Because she was already Turned on to them dope boys to them other men and she saw this little man come up on her She's looking at the top of his scalp And a lot of times you don't see these men They and when you see a lot of these men that's Um, sending these messages that's dividing men and women and and making men fight against women When you look at the messengers For one They're gonna look like little ugly They look like the the soul of a shoe. They're gonna look like they either look like the soul of a shoe they either overly overly feminine or They didn't hit they didn't ever have their growth spur When you look at these men you're gonna or they was they was bullied or picked on For the complexion they hiked And that scarred them so now That ruined their relationship with women because they had insecurities that was prayed upon That ruined their interactions with women and now they derive their strength From debasing and demeaning women and that's the movement we have online today and it's a bunch of punks and that's why God got me in the trenches doing the work I got to do to level the playing field because You've got to have real men somewhere You've got to have real men somewhere and one thing about a real man because I was a punk I was a grown boy. I was a lame. That's how I could recognize these lanes because I used to be them But when you had that run-in with your creator and your creator say to you, why are you manipulating and deceiving my daughters And you say whoa, hold on lord So you mean to tell me me using this woman disrespecting this woman Using her for her body using her for her money using her for her credit Asking her to settle for whatever I want to give her Hold on you mean to tell me that ain't what you intended her for You didn't intend for her to be a piece of meat. You didn't intend for her to be at my disposal You didn't intend for her to just cook and clean Sit down and shut up and let a man do what a man want to do. That ain't what you created her for Whoa, okay. That's why my life enshambles That's why I can't reach a pure level of peace and happiness and success So when a grown boy have that run-in with his creator, then he realized he's a lame Then he realized he's a punk Then he realized he's a grown boy And that's when his eyes is open And that's when he learns that a woman is his teammate Not his opponent that he needs to beat that he needs to conquer that he needs to use and miss you and deceive And manipulate and control But he needs to speak life into her to support her to love her to include her To allow her to keep her voice instead of trying to silence her voice and take her voice I heard a lame online Took a snippet on my message and gonna put it in his video and because I said my wife's Way is my highway Meaning that my wife mindset is included in my decision-making process But because I include her and I love her and I respect her when I want to make a decision She trusts me to make that decision because she is included She's not debased and demean and degraded. She's not treated like a piece of property. She treated like a person She's a asset not a liability. And so men complaining about marriage Oh and marriage ain't benefit a man marriage don't benefit a man It do benefit you if you do what you're supposed to do in the marriage It's not going to benefit you if you want her to settle for your cheating Settle for your lying settle for your abuse settle for your control No marriage is not going to benefit you because she's going to find her backbone and she's going to divorce you And she's going to get half of everything you absolutely right because use a dog because use a liar Because use a grown boy because you lame and people are always talking about how you feel about prenups and all that I say prenup is a plan to fail because if you Thoroughly vet this person And you date this person with intention you could tell if this person a real Person or not if they a rider or not and you're not going in planning to fail Because the purpose of a marriage is to say I give you my life I dedicate my life to you We're going to be together until death do us part If you go in with the mentality that y'all only going to last five years ten years then you ought not get married So you go in marriage and love is a gamble And when you gamble you could lose it all and if you're not willing to lose it all For this person then you don't really love them. You don't really know what you're doing and you should not be doing it So for me, I'm all in a 100 percent bona fide Millionaire and if me and my wife get a divorce, you know, why it's going to be It'll be because of me mistreating her It'll be because of me dog and her out And if that means I got to lose half of what I built and that's exactly what I deserve Because when you become a real man, you want the consequences for your actions because you know, that's the only way you grow but see these Pump-made men today Want to do the action but don't want the consequence Want to cheat want a dog a woman out want to control a woman want to put hands on a woman Want to disrespect a woman but don't but then get mad when they get raped over in the courtroom That's what you get because you did not keep your vows if you would have kept your vows Oh, well, what about a woman who cheats on me? What about a woman who cheats on me? That's what you get because you did not date with intention You dated with your dangling still to your head Because if a person is a savage if a person is a scavenger if a person is a liar You can tell that if you dating with intentionality But you're dating with your dangling and so you were chasing a piece of booty You wanted a squirrel you wanted a nut like a squirrel And so guess what you got your nut and then not seem to put you on your butt because she came to play the game But had you been dating with your head on your shoulder stood at the head of your pan You would have been able to tell that she was a no good woman You would have been able to tell that she was savage hearted that she got too much pain for you to Try to heal and that you should have gone about your bending But you were looking at the booty and the beauty Instead of where her brains and her heart is and so that's why you got played. Oh See there did right here. This one sided message. No, the message is Stop making excuses and start making changes Except responsibility for your life Except responsibility for your choices if my wife turned out to be a cheater You guess what? It ain't a loss. It's a lesson because now I realize. Oh, I misread this situation So do that mean I need to go take it out on the next woman No, that mean I need to learn and I need to recognize the red flags that I miss So the next time when I see this. Oh, okay Scratch a lion find a thief like she's saying the ray movie scratch a lion find a thief. Okay, so now Them three four lives that I caught her in that I ignored that then later turned out to be her cheating now the next time When I catch a woman lying I need to realize a liar can also be a cheater And I need to go about my business But see what happened is is these butt hurt men Then took some elves in relationships and now they hate women Now they want women to be floor mats now They want women to be like bubblegum on the bottom of their shoe So now they're gonna create this Meek towel me and going they own way this red pill from a movie Matrix this uh high value man This it's all about putting a man on a pedestal And looking down on the woman and instead of being teammates instead of the woman being a queen They want the woman to be a handmade they want the woman to be like a concubine They want to be able to watch their pornography Get on their little website Jiking the thing they want to be able to go to the strip club They want to be able to have threesomes and foursome They want to be able to do what they want to do how they want to do it call all the shots Tell this woman to shut up stand your place and then want to call it some kind of raggedy name instead of being a man And treating that woman the way god created and intended for her to be treated and see that's the problem right now It was decided and I'm gonna tell you something you can't play with your mind You can't play with your mind and that's what I try to tell you Do I try to tell y'all stop playing with your mind When you're going out here and you you listening to the clowns for entertainment You don't realize it, but subconsciously it's programming you subconsciously you are being debased and demeaned and you losing your standards and you losing your self work But you calling it entertainment that ain't how the mind work because the subconscious mind Cannot decipher between fact or fiction Anything it hears it accepts as truth and it moves towards it So when a man tells you with the things spinning on his desk or standing up behind some kind of standing in front of some green screen Or you know, wherever he at when this man tells you that you need to be quiet When men talking and let men lead and you need to trust everything a man saying do when it comes to business Because men no business better than women when he's been telling you this stuff that you need to stop You know being assertive and you need to stop Raising your voice when you get angry and you need to stop trying to overly express yourself and just shut up and listen to This man express himself and you need to do this and that you subconsciously getting programmed So now the next time you go into a relationship you docile You ignorant you are you are a piece of limp between his toes You a floor mat and now you don't know who you is now. You don't know who you will because you let me pumps You let me pumps who? Half of them like men And it's like okay. If you like you a man All right, like you a man But don't like you know men and then come trying to demean women And then the other half of them it just butt hurt Because of something they done gone through in their life and now they want somebody to be they punching bag And the easiest thing going to be is a woman And then if they come for me It's they cloud chasing now. They want me to speak on them But what they don't understand is that i'm going to god and i got to pray not to Put them let put them You see i'm saying send them to meet they make up Because i'm gonna play about my name i'm gonna play about mine. You see what i'm saying? But see they think that because a man Values a woman and respects a woman and cherishes a woman They think that that make a man soft When they don't understand that that's actually a man's right of passage A man is not a man until he learns how to treat god's other creation If you around here breaking down god creation How can you expect to truly be elevated in your mindset and in your peace when you feel like a woman Is the tail and you the head when you feel like a woman is beneath you when you feel like a woman Don't like the clown that mentioned my name. He told my You know, he uh, he told my his wife way is his highway So this whole soft kind of man Because that man he this mean he let his wife make business decision Women don't know nothing about no business women can't make no business decision It's like that is the absolute dumbest thing in the world Because if women can't make business decision, then it wouldn't then Oprah wouldn't be no business now If women can't make business decision, then Kamala Harris wouldn't be no vice president You see, I'm saying and if women can make no business decision, then guess what? I still be in the street selling drugs Making them look thousands versus earning millions on this side I'm on this side using my gifts creating tech companies Creating old 50 streams of income because of my wife speaking into my life Because of my wife telling me listen, this is your gift You're not a dog You in the streets thugging you got these six gold teeth this long gold teeth the diamond chains You in this impala you sitting in class with a quarter pound of weed and a 3a the handgun But you smart you articulate you can write Like what are you doing use your gifts? That was my wife who told me that had I been listening to men I would still I'll still be in the streets today And other than the streets, I'll probably be behind bars or in my grave listening to men Because it was men who helped me get in the streets who fronted me to work who put me on who gave me my Unregistered gun so that if I need to take a life I could take a life That was what men did but men that they talk about these women ain't got no value other than what's between they live And that's dumb and that's why your children are ignorant That's why your children are failing because you're breaking down They mama because they mama backbone is broken because you as a man using your physical strength And using your presence and using your way with words to demean This woman So now when your children look up to their mama her soul has been snatched And not because her soul has been snatched And because she's a shell of herself because she got to deal with a park of a man Now her kids can't even get real love pure love to be at their best And then you talk about oh what they don't just need a mama. They need their daddy But you was a broken man You a lost man You a weak man because you don't understand manhood because you don't understand manhood is about building your woman up Lifting your woman up putting your woman beside you and not beneath you not behind you And when you understand that as a man, that's when you really elevate So it's like this right here when I thought I was a man I was losing when I was doing the thing that men tell us is okay to cheat to be to lie to deceive To manipulate I was losing. Yeah, I could touch a little money, but I couldn't touch no peace I was sleeping with a 380 under my pillow a nightmare with a blew my brains out because the gun was under my pillow Had I got stopped by the police I would have been in a federal penitentiary because I was trafficking cross state lines But see it was a woman Who god used to reach me? Because what the man was telling me ought to be doing and what the man was condoning and okay It had me broke busted and disgusted But when I allowed my wife To speak into my life and use her brain because she used a different side of her brain than me Because she articulate and she thinks different than me when I was allowing to hear her Guess what now i'm a millionaire who worked two hours a day Instead of being a man working 21 hours a day and still just over broke Still living paycheck to paycheck, but when I let god's creation Speak into my life And be there with me and bill with me She helped me become a millionaire Doing 10 hours of work a week Because she supported me in the seasons that I had to work 80 hours a week Because I was living right and doing right and her only thing was if you talk to me with respect if you honest with me Then i'm going to support you when you work in 80 hours a week because you on your grind Because you're building 50 plus streams of income and the day's gonna come When you could work 10 hours a week and still make millions Because that's what you could do as a teen Ain't no jordan without scotty pippin You see what i'm saying? So when I stopped seeing her as my opponent And I realized that she on the bulls with me. She's not the pistons She on the bulls with me when I realized that she's my opponent that she's my teammate My teammate and not my opponent That's when I started winning But you lose it in your household and marriage is hard and marriage fail because you're competing Because you're trying to win you're trying to deceive her you're lying to her you're manipulating her You're controlling her you're telling her what she can and cannot do Where she can and cannot go how she can and cannot think what she can and cannot be What she can and cannot say You've turned her into a robot. So you have stripped her of her innate god-given ability to elevate your life Because she is a catalyst. She is a backbone. She is a support system. She a spine She a mind she got vision that you don't have She could see what you can't see because she could feel what you cannot feel When you blinded her eyes wide open and she's seeing this person that's been to take advantage of you She could see them with 2020 vision But because you don't blinded her and you trying to make her Helen Keller Not realizing that even Helen Keller had vision But you trying to blind her and you trying to break her because a park online Didn't put a battery in your bank and told you that a woman need to shut up That a woman need to sit down and that because you were man that you know it all That you somebody boy you're dumb You're dumb and you're ignorant and you're losing And that's why I make millions working 10 hours a week and you're slaving to the bone Because you debasing your woman you demeaning your woman. It's still a teaming up and letting her help you win That's why you losing. That's why you are weak in daddy That's why you can't be in your children life because you disrespecting their mama But when you cherish their mama, you respect their mama And when you realize that a child sees your love for them based on how you treat their mama Because they come from their mama. So when you understand that that's when you become a man Man, I gotta go because what I'm saying is too much like right But in this world we praise ignorance over intellect We praise stupidity. We praise idiots and weakness You give an idiot a microphone and let him speak from his Brokenness and let him speak from his ignorance and let him speak from everything that he done suffered in life and never healed from And he gonna have millions and millions of listeners and viewers because we love a show We love Just because you have a following Don't mean that you've got a message Because even the circus got a following a clown Got a following and will that clown is followed around the country Because we live in a world that will watch you And that will pay for a ticket to see you set yourself on fire And burn the death. That's the world we live in So to the men out here with a platform stop operating from your brokenness Stop operating from your bitterness. Stop operating from your pain. Stop operating from your mistakes Stop operating from your daddy wounds from your mama wounds from your ex-wife wounds From your ex-girlfriend wounds because you was cheated on because you was raped over the coals in the courthouse Because you took a l don't take it out on society and every of and every woman in the world And try to break down and debase and demean women because you so small You need a platform and you want to stand on the shoulders of women to feel like you more of a man You need to put your foot on her neck to feel like you a man boy. Use a punk And you hurting and you lost and you need healing You need prayer and you need to understand that your strength is in your gentleness Your strength and in you your ability to deceive and manipulate your strength is in your gentleness Your strength is in you seeking to understand Then be understood You've taken off them glasses you got on and really stop seeing the world for what you are and see it for what it is And when you really look around and you see that your mama took a l That your grandma took a l that your aunties took ls that your sister's taking ls Then you tell me when you look and you tell me what woman do you see winning? What woman do you see winning? So how are you making women your opponent? These women ain't your opponent This systemic racism is your opponent You find the wrong battle This broken education system is your opponent But you choose in the pick a fight with women Because you want women to shut up and be quiet And listen to you And you want to steal the voice of a woman And so now because you can't beat your oppressor Who got you going to dumb schools Elf schools who got you in a rat race who got you chasing your tail like a delirious dog because you Don't have what it takes to confront your oppressor To confront the system They got you fighting against Your backbone your spine your support system your catalyst, which is the woman Now you hate women and you want to shut women up and break women down Because you're still broken and hurting and lost Because you don't understand what manhood is and you think a real man Is out here doing it for the praise you think a real man out here doing it for the clout And don't understand the pain and the burden and the cross i got to carry to get up and carry this message But don't understand that i can't sleep at night because of what god done called me to And the only piece i get is when i'm obedient, but the peace is in the midst of a storm That i'm in the eye of the tornado And that's what i call peace Because i'm obedient to the will and to the call of he who called me he who sent me And that is painful because you got to walk alone because an eagle Does not flock with turkeys Because an eagle has to soar at heights that a turkey can't even see So i got to be alone because i came relate to another man Because he don't understand manhood Because he worried about a mixtail Men going their own way he worried about calling himself a high value man And don't even understand what value is Don't even know what make a man a man. Don't even understand what right of passage means Don't even understand how to spell right of passage and don't understand That learning how to love a woman purely The way god loves her Is your right of passage to manhood And as long as you are debasing and demeaning and degrading and lying to And cheating on and manipulating and using a woman you are losing You are lost. You are ignorant and you are broken This woman is not your opponent She was created to be your teammate But in order for her to be your teammate You have to allow her to play her role But what you have to understand about her role is that you don't get to decide her role Her role was coded in her DNA God her creator has decided her role And you as a man don't get to say your role as a woman is the kitchen Is the laundry room Is the bedroom Is the back seat You don't get to decide her role Her creator has created her to flourish at her highest level and when you let her be who she was called and created to be That is what's going to benefit you But when you steal her righteous mind And you take advantage of the fact that she was created She was created to be in unison with you. That's why your body fits perfectly into her body That's why your body Works with her body to reproduce life She was created to be in unison with you in harmony with you To have cohesion with you and when you understand that And you stop trying to deceive her and demean her and control her And you let her flourish in her gifts let her flourish in her call That's when you're going to realize your highest self That's when you truly become a superior man And superior man does not mean inferior woman It means that you are your highest self forget what the author told you because I listened to the book and it was foolishness And people promoted and women even promoting it because they don't know what it means to a real man They don't know that that book not empowering a woman That is putting a man on a pedestal and debasing a woman even if it's one sentence And then it's mashed with a whole bunch of other Cover up See men don't know what it is to be a real man today And that's why I try to let these men know and I try to let these men understand what you're pursuing money What you're pursuing peace what you're pursuing You're only going to get that when you treat in god's creation the way He intended for her to be treated and he didn't create her to be your footstool He didn't create her to be your opponent He didn't create her to be at odds with you That's why your bodies go together That's why your bodily reproduces that chemistry And that's why she coded to see what you can't see to hear what you can't hear to do what you can't do Her body does what your body can't do and when you understand that she's an asset not a liability That's when you win When you truly become a man and you can let her be her You can let her call her shots That's when you're going to realize what submission means Submission is a two-way street It means that you are submitting and she is submitting You're submitting to her gifts and her powers And she's submitting to your gift and your powers and you putting them together And now you win the battle But when you fight against Your own camp by cheating by lying by deceiving by controlling by manipulating How you're going to win against the enemy When you create an enemy behind the lines When you create an enemy in your woman And now you've got to sleep with one eye open Because of the monster you have created with the way that you treat her But I guarantee you I challenge you As a man I challenge you to wash her with love I challenge you to be 100% faithful to her in mind body and spirit. I challenge you To allow her to flourish in her gifts I challenge you to include her in your choices and your decisions about your life and your life with her And I guarantee you win I guarantee you win That's why I earn millions of dollars working 10 hours a week Because I work with my teammate That's why I don't have to punch nobody clock That's why I could set my own hours That's why I could go where I want to go do what I want to do how I want to do it because I got a teammate So I found a wife Which is a good thing And I have received the favor From my creator because I am in alignment With my creator But if you cheating with your hand With your eyes With your pain Then you losing Because you are cheating and you are out of alignment So the blessings that would have otherwise been for you Have to be stored up And put up and you can't receive them because you out of alignment as a man But see in order to get in alignment you first got to get over yourself In order to get to where you got to go as a man You got to get over yourself You got to get over your ego Because your ego is what got you ignorant And that's why you're not blessed on the level that you could be blessed. That's why everything you got Could be 10 x could be 100 x could be 1000 x if you realize That a man Who winning Is not telling you how to win for the clout of a woman Because if you could find a woman that i'm sleeping with other than my wife I will give you 10 million dollars If you can find a woman that i'm sleeping with and i know some of y'all men like you a piece of booty so For your sake Anything or anybody That you think i'm sleeping with other than my wife Anything or anybody That you think i'm sleeping with other than my wife. I give you 10 million dollar You're not going to find it. So what you're going to have to understand and this this this how this how the enemy Keep men trapped Is they think that a real man is a simp They think that a real man is a beta male They think that a real man is trying to give them the blueprint for clout from women When these women can't benefit me Because i don't cheat on my wife These women can't benefit me because i don't want to sleep with now one of them Men think that i do what i do to get women how stupid would that be In the era of blogs exposing people every day how stupid would i be To do and say what i do to get women and to trust that a jump off That a side woman that a mistress Ain't going to talk because if she know me she know i'm married So if she willing to sleep with me she ain't got no class So if she ain't got no class How am i finna feel comfortable that i'm finna have a secret with her That woman can't hold water So i already cannot cheat because i done gave away 100 percent of the game But see what happen is you got clowns That look like the real thing That emulate what i do But they giving away 75 percent of the game so they could play 25 percent of the game But see they's a lame And because they lame they can recognize a setup when they see one So they think that when they stick they thing into this jump off into this mistress They think she finna keep a secret and they play theyself And that's why they get exposed because they were lame to begin with And that's why they believe they own hype And that's why they went into a mindset and it became a lover of themselves And that's why they tried to eat Off of the fruit and they thought the fruit was loose booty women And they thought that they could have a wife and they could have a platform talking on love and relationship And get away with sleeping around And that's why they get exposed because they were lame when they started But see when you real You know you can't play god You know you can't play god. You know that you could fool a human You could put a gun to somebody head and say if you ever talk i'ma blow your brains out You could get over a human but god will not be marked When you call yourself leading your people to the promised land But you a curse and not a promise you a lie and not a promise you gonna get exposed So that's why i try to tell you every mistake i done made Every ounce of cheating i done did i put it in a book And i told my story i exposed myself I took my skeletons out of the closet and i put clothes on them and i sent them into the field to work for me And i told them we're gonna turn losses into lessons We're gonna turn my mess into a message. We're gonna turn my pain into a purpose We're gonna use my story for god's glory The devil ain't gonna have nothing hidden on me Nothing no stone unturned. So that's why i told you i was a dog. I was a womanizer. I was a cheater That's why i told you that And the reason why i told you that is so that you know That everything i'm teaching is because i done made the mistakes I done did what i done did what i'm telling you to look out for And that's why i could put a price on my own head And say you find somebody i'm sleeping with other than my wife And i'll give you 10 million dollars. I ain't talking about somebody i slept with 15 years ago I ain't talking about somebody that i done dealt with when i was in the streets As a clown in my early 20s I'm talking about since god gave me a platform and said young man use Your story to help somebody overcome what they're struggling with Since i done said listen hey this the game Since i done said hey this the game i ain't played the game Since i done say hey this the game since god gave me a now before god gave me a platform Before god gave me a message and a real mission and a real purpose before i tapped into my purpose I was all like the reckless selling draw stealing Lying going toting sleeping round womanizing doing everything a grown boy could do But when i had that run in on the road to Damascus And i was shown my ways and a mirror was put in my face and i saw The ramifications of my actions i saw the destruction that i was doing by my weak mindset as an immature man That's when i woke up and i realized that my battle is not in flesh and blood That this is spiritual warfare that my battle is not against a woman That my battle is not to debase and demean a woman and to control and compete against a woman That's not my battle That's my soldier on the front line with me That's my teammate And when i did that that's when i really started winning that life That when i started winning that life and that's why i look at a lame and i could tell he losing Because of what his mind said at because he think the competition is a woman He think that a woman need to be less than him and she need to shut up and be quiet and not speak when a man's speaking And she need to know her role and get in her place So because he think that a woman is inferior to him that a woman is his subordinate That's why he miserable. That's why he single. That's why he lonely Or that's why he setting himself up for failure pretending to be married, but about to go through another divorce Listen to me It's a blueprint But that blueprint come from purity It come from righteousness It come from integrity It come from love It come from self-love. It come from fairness. It come from decent You can't be indecent Disrespect for demeaning and degrading and expect the win in life And men got to get it together and we got to stop waging war against women That don't make you a man Telling no woman about herself Putting a woman in her quote unquote place that don't make you a man That make you a punk Let god deal with her if it's some dealing that need to be done What you're supposed to be doing is uplifting and inspiring and encouraging And you hold the people who look like you Who got the same thing you got between your legs? That's what you're supposed to be holding accountable And if you're talking to somebody across the aisle It's supposed to be a pure dialogue That is meant to level the playing field and to strengthen the body Not to divide the body not to create chaos and division and to have people torn and confused And fighting against each other because you're putting men against women and now you got all these lames All these grown boys waging war on women So now every man going into a relationship playing mind games Trying to do an alpha male strategy boy, you lame Boy, you stupid that is dumb You don't need a strategy with a woman if you are a real man If you treat her the way her creator intended her to be treated Everything gonna flow And if it ain't gonna flow you're gonna have the clarity to see it Because you're operating from strength And not from your brokenness Not from your insecurity not from your games that you plan not from your deception or decepticon You operating from a place of strength. So if this woman is a savage woman You're gonna recognize it and you're not gonna get played when I see savage women In my DM I recognize it it jumped off the page I could tell she a savage because i'm operating from a place of purity But see if I was cheating on my wife If I was lying to my wife If I was controlling my wife if I was demeaning my wife and degrading my wife I would be operating from a place of ego I would be operating from a place of arrogance I would be operating from a place of ignorance So therefore when this savage woman in my DM Or she hired me for coaching But she got ulterior motives because she want to set me up and she want to get me into the bed with a jezebel spirit I wouldn't even recognize it because i'm operating from ego Because i'm smelling myself and believing my own hype And that's how these boys falling because they believe in their own hype They think they got power. You know why because god didn't send them the devil sent them To build up hope in people and they want to be a god to men and women They want to be praised by women. They want to be praised by men. They want to be praised by somebody They want to be in a limelight. They want to be special. They want to be a celebrity They want to be somebody. Let me tell you when god call you You always going to be a reluctant servant You're going to be a willing And reluctant servant. I know it's an oxymoron, but see god not going to call a narcissist God not going to call somebody who is egotistical God not going to call somebody who arrogant god not going to call that that's what people don't understand But see when you arrogant And when you operating from ego, that's how you believe your height and that's how you end up not living what you're preaching Because you are decepticon But see when god call you He's going to allow you to be in the trenches for the so long He's going to allow you to be in the valley for so long that you building strength and you getting lessons and you learning And you growing see listen It took me forever Before I made a million dollars It took me a decade I was I was just over broke. I was I was winning But I was still Not every well and everything I wanted to be And every single day I woke up and I said Pass this cup from me I said why me Why was I giving the voice and the message? To up end what the adversary doing? Why am I called to break the quote unquote man law? G code man code Why was I called? Why do I have to do this? Can somebody else do it? I don't want to be known I don't want no cloud. I don't want nobody to know my name. I hate social media I hate social media anybody that the met me in person They'll tell you in a heartbeat. Tony is not a loud person Tony is a man of few words. Tony do not do no shucking and jiving Tony is not finna be the life of the party Tony is not finna be the center of attention anybody who done met me in person But see they'll see me online operating in my purpose Not understanding that because it's my purpose My savior my that he who which has called me He which who has called me has put a battery in my back So i'm operating under a supernatural power When i'm in my purpose, but when I have to get up out of here I go right back to being me An introvert quiet To myself don't want to be seen don't want to talk to but then I got to come back to work I got to come back to work And then when I come back to work That's when I got to show up But see what you don't realize about those who call They didn't even want to come But see if some people out here today that they desperate for a platform They desperate to be fake to be famous. They desperate to have a name And that's why they married they marriage don't hold no weight. That's why they message don't hold no weight Because they just want to be famous They just want somebody to know them And that's why The adversary are going to give them millions Because they're going to lead millions astray Because what they're doing Is they're going to put men at odds with women And they're going to wage war against women And they're going to tell women You ugly You overweight You unattractive You broke You lazy You sorry So you need to shut up And you need to sit down And you need to be quiet Because you can't get a man That's what they're gonna tell women And the women who watching Gonna feel They heart being broken It'll be women who everything a man won't and she gonna feel less than Because of this man or these men using a platform to destroy women Because they punks Because they sent by satan himself And that's why they feel it because see Somebody who sent by god Will not mix the sacred and the profane You can't mix oil and water You don't put water in your gas tank Nor do you light a match See When somebody is profanity laced and they follow profanity It lets you know there's nothing sacred about them Because god don't mix the sacred with the profane If you notice I deliver a message without cursing I deliver a message without speaking names If you notice that the message is going to coincide With a good book with the good book With the creator's instruction for life It's going to coincide with the creator instruction for life because it's meant to do good and not do harm That the message is going to uplift and empower To say You are intended to be Who your creator called you to be And what's for you came nobody stop it So man made Perception of beauty should not be applied to you Because the same men that got the nerve to call a woman unattractive And overweight Looked like kermit the fraud Or the bottom of a shoe anyways Knee high to a grasshopper Ain't even had no growth spurt Wearing pants with a camel toe Got on women fanny packs Looked like The back of a 57 Buick But got the nerve to tell women That they need to shut up That they need to be quiet That's how these men out here that's how these men out here looking It like come on, huh? He never heard no real man try to tear down a woman Because he understand That that's his daughter That even though this another man daughter He got to talk the other same way He talked to his own daughter and if he talked to his own daughter like that He need to be punched in his mouth and one tooth at a time need to be knocked out With one knuckle at a time And every toenail need to be plucked off one toenail at a time if he talked to his daughter like that But you know what is men who talk to their daughter like that because it's women who done hired me for coaching Who then told me how they daddy talked to them like a dog Because he a dog of a man because he broke him Because he lost because he ignorant because he hurt so he waging war against women women shut up Women you be not black men Women you against men women you hate men But he fails to look in the mirror And realize that he was controlling That he was demeaning that he was disrespectful that he was cheating that he was lying That he was manipulated that he made the bed that he had to lie in That he created the monster that he had the face And he did not realize That somebody's study said a woman thinks with both sides of her brain And a man thinks with only one side of his brain that somebody's study said and he may want to quote all these studies But don't want to quote the study That shows that a woman's threshold for pain is higher than a man's Don't want to quote the study that says a woman thinks with two sides of her brain both sides of her brain And not just one don't want to quote the study that say a woman's life Expectancy is longer than a man's And fail to realize that his mama gave birth to him And his daddy couldn't do nothing but shoot him out of penis and have pleasure and then left him But he want to break down a woman not understanding that it was his mama that carried him for nine months And put her breast in his mouth and fed him and clothe him And he want to holler by he going to put his mama in a house and he going to take care of mama But then when he meet a woman in the world who is created in the same image of his mama He want to put his foot on her neck because he hated daddy And he hated daddy and because he hated daddy it make him hate himself And when he hated self he can't beat himself So he know he could be the woman and that's why he put hands on them And if he don't put hands on that's why he put his words on them And he want to be so articulate And he want to be so well spoken out And he want to speak circles around a woman And he want to feel like that and he don't even realize that he can out talk a woman Because he can channel more of his femininity than he have masculinity And he don't realize that a woman from the age of one years old can talk better than a man That's why he ain't processed the difference between the way a three-year-old girl talked and the way a three-year-old boy talked He don't even he didn't process the difference in the mindset the difference in the level of maturity That is women at 12 years old cooking and cleaning and taking care of whole household in the island That's ran like a third world country because her mama then left the island and escaped to europe And she at 12 13 years old got to take care and fend for her brothers and sisters as a woman But yet we as men got the nerve The the polka chest side and put our foot on the neck of a woman and tell her to shut up sit down and get in your place Boy, you lame boy. You lost boy. You saw boy. You broke him. So listen You want to talk to a woman like a doll? But when a real man talk to you and tell it like an is is not he man bashing So you want to be carl and you want to be carl But then you want a woman to be castrated and she ain't even got a scrotum You want a woman to be ripped to shreds and you want a woman to be put in her place And you want a woman to be told by herself. But when a man talk to you He man bashing He or something he's soft I ain't even gonna get violent with you I ain't even gonna get violent with you because I got pray to the lord Not to put hands on you When you try me I got to remind you that yes, I serve god But moses was a killer Saul who became apostle paul and wrote 13 books in the bible was a killer So listen to me. Jesus went in the church and flipped over table. Don't think just because I love my wife And I treat her like a queen. Don't think that make me soft Because a man is a man in respect to a dog But see these men got the nerd at halibut. Oh, you a simp. Oh, you soft. Oh, you a beta male why Because I don't feel the need to control a woman Because I don't feel the need to use a woman because I don't feel the need to have a male strategy A beta male strategy that you call an alpha male strategy, but you a pump Why I could tell that you're broken why I could tell you could mean bigger woman You can even have you you barely compare woman You had to trick a woman into the bed And that's why you mad today hauling by the mick towel hauling by the red pill hauling by the high value man Boy, you saw Boy, you sorry Boy, you ignorant boy. You lost boy. You broke it. You need prayer. You need god You need healing. You need therapy because that woman is not your opponent She your teammate and when you get that through your thick skull Then and only then will you win? Because anything you want to compare Anything you want to compare I guarantee you i'm doing just as good of you just as good as if not better anything you want to compare anything So i'ma tell you I know what winning looked like It looked like unity with my wife It looked like a two-way street It looked like a safe zone a safe space to where she could speak her mind She could speak truth to power. She ain't got to bite her tongue She ain't got to be scared of me because i'm not trying to put fear in her because i'm a real man I want her to feel empowered. I want her to feel emboldened I want her to feel like she could conquer the world But if I put my foot on her neck and I debase her and demean her and de and degrade her i'm breaking her down And if I break her down then i'm breaking my children down If i'm breaking her and my children down then i'm breaking my heritage down i'm breaking my generation down i'm breaking my lineage down i'm creating generational curses and i am putting damnation on my family and Line after line the rest of my lineage will suffer and will lose to the real oppression in the world Because I have broken my backbone And that is the trick of the enemy to put men against women And to feel like we have to strategize and compete and manipulate and to gain one another Instead of the man coming in And being open being real being transparent being honest Being faithful and being willing to love this woman And then watching her embrace her nature And watching her embrace her nature, which is a nature of love Because she is not naughty by nature. She is a nurturer by nature But you don't get to see the true essence of a woman men holla about submission And the way they go about submission Is trying to beat a woman down with their words or their hands To get her to submit To get her to allow him to call shots without questioning him like he is a know it all what you broke What you're not wealthy What you broke and if you got money, I don't care if you got a bill yet If you ain't got peace then you broke If you ain't got if you ain't got peace then you don't have prosperity. That's why Jeff Bezos Went through a divorce. That's why Bill Gates went through a divorce because they didn't know how to treat their wife Ain't now one of them hollering by my wife was cheating on me. My wife was dogging me out My wife was demeaning me We read about them cheating We read about them lying They trying to be a zaddy when you look at them Cabarelli tie their shoes couldn't even walk into bubblegum But then get a bill you and not all of a sudden want to be cast a nova Want to be dating in the workplace Want to be cheating and then won't this woman who helped them who helped them build or put up with their ego and attitude Now won't her They just go alone to get along and they say absolutely not play boy That what your butt get I'm not afraid of losing anything With my wife, you know why because I know That her response depends on my actions That with every action there's an equal or greater reaction So if I give her queen treatment, she's gonna reciprocate with king treatment because i'm not a lame Because I ain't picked no savage hearted woman because I ain't picked no scandalous woman I saw my wife because a man who finds a wife finds a good thing So I saw a good woman And I evaluated and I made sure that she was a good woman. So I don't have to move in fear I don't have to protect myself with a alpha male strategy With a midtown mentality with a high value man low value woman approach I don't have to protect myself in that because I trust the process I trust and the boy who started saying that the nba player who started saying that follow me on twitter Got it from me. I trust the process because I understand Why are you trying to be the woman into submission? You could love her Into unity into cohesion And what's gonna happen when you wash her with love? The good books they present her Blemish and spot free When you do that guess what? She trusts you She loves you Because she can see that you don't mean her no harm So any shot You want to call she say if that's what you want to call Unwitted Because she trusts you Because she knows in order for you to love her On the level that you love her that you have to be mature That you have to be wise that you have to be responsible that you have to have discipline She knows that you have to be a real man If you can love her purely Without lying to her without controlling her without manipulating her without shutting her up Without silencing her without putting her down without breaking her down She knows that you have just entered real manhood So now when you want to do something So D punks got the nerve to call me a simp because I respect my wife mine And they say oh he let his wife call shots. He let his wife call the shot. He a simp No I respect my mind my wife mine. So when I want to call a shot I say baby what you think about this And she presents to me The pros and the cons And I say I agree with you here on these pros I disagree with you here on these cons and I present this right here to you And then she says if you feel good about it And if that's what you want to do I'm gonna support you But I just wanted to share with you what I think And then when I sit back and I'm gonna give you an example This example right here. I'm gonna give you a real life example. So that it lanes right here Cause listen to me hear me and don't get offended When a real man talking to you And telling you like it is hills When you feel emboldened when you listening to a pump degrade women now when if you okay With a man sitting down and talking down to women and calling women everything Other than a child of god if you okay with that then keep that same energy when a real man talking to you My boy listen to me now. Let me give you a real life example of how your woman When you love her right she a support system Let me tell you so I'm sitting here I'm sitting here, right? And I'm at home And I'm earning seven figures multiple seven figures seven figures mean a million dollars Sometimes one time somebody asked me what do six figures mean? I did not know that people that there were people that did not know what that mean So now I have to explain. I want to explain things. I'm earning multiple seven figures. Okay And I'm writing it all off like trump now So if you work for the ira don't come bothering me come in trump and bill gates and bezos got the same cpa So don't be bothering me Okay, I'm earning multiple seven figures. All right, and I'm sitting here at home And I'm working two hours a day I'm working two hours a day and I'm earning multiple seven figures and I said baby on board On board I say ump in the tape And and find a headquarters I say I want a headquarters. That's like five thousand square feet And I say I want to um do programs in there So like for the community so it could be single moms class single dads class credit class this kind of class that kind of class And I'm finna start looking So I go out and I start looking and she said she said I don't know about that She said I don't know about that because you hate routine She said you hate routine. She said you hate monotony She said you remember you just had that the high rise office overlooking the whole city On the 33rd floor of the sun trust building And you was paying three thousand dollars a month in rent For several months and you went in there five times Out of several months you went in there five times and you were paying three thousand dollars that's more than 90 percent of Americans mortgage You were paying double the average americans mortgage on this high rise office that you never went into she said She said you like to sleep in at nine o'clock You like to sleep in at ten o'clock some days You like to stay up and watch some on youtube or whatever prime tv To two o'clock in the morning sometime You hate routine I say yeah, but you know this gonna give me something to do It's gonna give me something to do. I'm gonna get up. I'm gonna create program I'm gonna do my life coach certification in there And this how a woman can be a asset But but men think that men make all the right decisions So I get on the market and I'm looking around and I see this building 7,000 square feet and it's vacant I see this other building six thousand square feet and it's vacant I see this other building 10,000 square feet and it's vacant. They all own by men And I go in there and I'm like why is it so many Commercial buildings completely vacant and it hit me It said He didn't listen to his wife He want to be a mogul He want to be a mogul But the man he's looking up to got a million dollar loan from his daddy The man he's looking up to Oh three four hundred dollar million dollars in debt The man he's looking up to and guess what? I wanted to go And get a corporate building because I heard a man Who don't look like me say solopreneurship is not real And that if you're a solopreneur You're not no real entrepreneur And that you need Staff and that you need a sales team and you need a physical location You need commercial real estate. I'm listening to what he's saying And so I go to look for commercial real estate and my wife say toning She don't call me toning. She said babe. Think about this She said you make multiple seven figures and you work two hours. She said what you did today I said I shot a youtube video For an hour and I coached the client for an hour She said what are you doing right now? I said i'm sitting down Watching me a little efp in Drinking me a little you know Have my little jesus juice Little white wine She said exactly She said why do you want to go create a job when 99.9 percent of People trying to get off their job She said people will kill To earn multiple seven figures and work two hours a day based off of what they done created already To be living off of investments and passive income. She said people will kill for that Why you want to go pay? 7500 to $10,000 a month on somewhere that you know you're gonna go to for three weeks And then you never gonna go to again And she said now you got to pay your staff That's money that you could be she said what you getting ready to do I said i'm finna get ready to do a chavelle bill For my 1972 chavelle She said hi you finna pay $10,000 a month on this building, but you also finna go build a chavelle I say you know what that money could go into my chavelle because I don't need an office I don't want no staff. I don't like dealing with people really I'm an introvert I'm bought my business if somebody mess my brand up I'm gonna have to go to prayer every day not to take their life And that's really on everything Like I really will be talking to god not to Send his child to meet him early for messing up What he done helped me bill That was my wife She saved me 120 thousand dollars a year And she showed me you living the dream You make multiple seven figures you work two hours a day You could sleep in you could get up work out on your own schedule. You don't have to pay nobody. You don't have to do nothing Why would you create a headache of a job and have to keep all of this stuff? Going and flowing so this building pays for itself and you got to create 7500 to $10,000 a month worth of programs just for the building to break even She say now look at this man in Atlanta Who went and got this building and turned it into a co-working space and they got no co-workers in there Because he would chase an ego because he wanted to look like a boss She say the problem with the world is is people trying to look like a boss And she say what you don't understand is you already are boss she say You need to be teaching what you do Because you don't have she say listen. She say look at the man That you did the men That you listening to online about business And you tell me they know how to run business than you she say one of them Was a crack at it And that's why he running around like a chicken with his head cut off so that he don't get back on crack She say the other one look twice his age Because of the stress on his life Because he trying to look like a boss She say you sitting here pondering selling equity in one of your companies to become a minority owner in a professional sports team And you work from home with zero paid staff and you earn millions. She say now you tell me Which one is the better business model? Have an overhead of an office with 30 to 60 employees Losing your house stressing getting lawsuits because of Your company doing bad business because you got so much you got the word by Or you sitting home and you only got to deal with yourself You got mailbox money. You got royalty checks coming in the mail. You don't got to go nowhere This is what you call a woman's influence You doing six figure book deals you write a book in three days She say baby, you ain't got no work God don't bless you The way you don't have to be like these other men, but she say the different cells Look at how they live their life and look at how you live your life This is what I try to tell these men about real manhood, but they don't want to listen Hey, this Tony gaskin. God bless y'all We'll talk soon And hey, thank y'all everybody who sent a blessing. I see my cash out showing I never gave out my cash out um I think it's miss caramel kiss has gave out my cash out and I really appreciate that Because it says something to me because I'm sitting here and y'all see I run business and y'all see I do business But then you be blessing me And that's actually biblical That's actually biblical and and and it just kind of confounds me and that's why when you go on my page That's why you don't see my cash out nowhere my paypal nowhere Because I'm not asking for any donations, but that's biblical And that's another testament to when God in the midst And when you live in The way you was created to live And that's what i'm trying to get me in to understand stop being a punk Stop being a lame stop listening to these lames stop listening to these lanes who butt hurt Who got their things up between their legs? And and they scary and they scared of the world so they want to beat up on a woman They want to demean and won't stop listening to that and learn what real manhood is what real manhood look like And your life going to be forever forever change and blessed and highly favorable. It is time to gas and god bless you We'll talk soon