 The narcissist always does this in the end whether you leave the narcissist or They discard you they will always do this in the end There are many reasons why people break up There are many reasons why relationships end but normally People are able to accept their faults and mistakes They're able to accept their wrongdoing They're willing to hold themselves accountable for their actions But it doesn't work that way with the narcissist Because when the relationship ends they are never wrong They are never the cause of it Instead they will hold you accountable They will shift the blame on to you They will blame you for everything that went wrong And even if they are forced to accept some of the things they did They will always find a way to justify it They will say that it was because of something that you did As though you are responsible for their actions and choices It's the same thing every time And it doesn't matter if they discarded you or if you left them They will always blame you Everything will always be your fault They will say that you were the cause of it and that is why they had to leave you Or if you left them, it's because you're selfish. You only care about yourself It's the same story every time It never changes They play the role of this damsel in distress This helpless victim who is just trying to help you Who is just trying to do the right thing Narcissists have a black and white mentality So when the relationship ends Someone must be right and someone must be wrong Someone must be good and someone must be bad And for them to be right and good you have to be bad and wrong Even if you're not Because it can't be them So they will go out of their way to tarnish your reputation To make you look like the bad person They will create a false narrative They will make up lies and stories So that no one will ever think it's them They are always the victim in every relationship Someone is always doing something to them and they're always completely innocent and they haven't done anything wrong Because they have to appear innocent of wrongdoing They have to appear as though they got caught up in something without their knowledge or will So it is never their fault They will convince other people that they did everything they could for you So you are always the one to blame You are always the one who doesn't value loyalty and commitment You are always the one who is crazy and selfish. It's never them They are never to blame They are always innocent Narcissists use a false character to lure you into a relationship and They also use a false character to get out of it. They come in acting like they're in your corner They're on your side but then They leave as the victim because in their minds it's either you or them They either choose you or they choose their false character and no Narcissist is ever going to choose their victim over their false self If they did that They wouldn't be a narcissist So this is why they never change Because they avoid accountability They refuse to feel and show empathy for their victims Instead they blame the very person that they have abused The very person whose life they have destroyed Instead of looking in the mirror and accepting who they are The narcissist will always blame you in the end But you can take your power back by going no contact By walking away from the person who hurt you The person who tried to break you down and when you do that Things will begin to change Things will begin to get better for you Because the narcissist is no longer there to hold you down Now you are free to grow and evolve You are free to become the best version of yourself And that is when you will realize something that they never wanted you to know You will realize that you do have power You do have strength you will realize that you were not the cause of the issue You will realize that they were the problem They were holding you back from becoming the greatest version of yourself Because without them being a continuous influence in your life Things will steadily improve Things will get better for you And then it will become evident that you never needed them You just needed yourself You just needed to have control over your own life So that you could then direct it to something more positive Instead of being stuck in the pit that they created for you Thank you for watching If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up Share your thoughts in the comment section Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications If you would like to support the channel You can donate at paypal.me slash Narc Survivor You can book a one-on-one with me on my website It's Narc Survivor the Cudder UK Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon