 Ladies, what do I get back from you? You get me now. What is that me? She's talking about The me. She's talking about is this where he Watch see why she's with you. Everybody gets to see her Before she was with you Everybody that saw her got to be inside of her Before she was with you she's tried this transactional relationship Dozens and dozens of times and came up Owen as I call it 150 1100 not one man has succeeded in her life in this and now she found Joe as is she gonna try to play book one more time This is what you're getting from her most of them are on social media Most of them are marketing themselves most of them are not committing back to you what you're giving back to them and That's all you ask You're like can I get something measurable and tangible from you? Perhaps maybe you can cook or clean how about that? How dare you ask me? to cook and clean What type of meanderthal? Caveman are you so they don't want to cook or clean sometimes you'll meet a woman that'll say I don't mind when any cook or go Then she puts the tombstone pizza in the oven and the dino chicken nuggets and the macaroni and cheese out the box And you're like damn. This is a hell of a cook And while she's cleaning for your ass You know what she's cleaning up. She's looking at you. I mean you should be doing equal amounts of this work, too You should be cleaning while I'm cleaning. She's keeping score And so this is a violation of the social contract because they're entitled to your meat which you can measure and Then she tries to couple this with equal partnership power couple We do the same But when the spider shows up you kill that when the burglar comes in you kill him You're the whole night 24-7 24-7 security 24-7 bug man 24-7 plumber 24-7 called the plumber 24-7 car wash guy oil change guy You're literally giving up tangible resources to her and many of you I promise you if you actually did this and most people don't want to do this because they don't want to see how one-sided their contract is If you actually measured what you get back to her What she gets back from you in today's modern dating in today's modern relationships? I can almost guarantee you It's a 90-10 relationship. You give the most she gives back very little but the little she gives might be worth something to you To be in that commitment like you might be a guy that can't get no more women So you're lucky to have her Lie on her back. You're like, well Nobody else was doing this. So I got me a sucker But not me I'm like they a dime a dozen out here. I can pick them up Eating them like grapes out this no, you know, that's the current marketplace So if you find value in the little bit that you're getting back from her and you know Tell her to step her value up Then You are in a situation where you don't know how to negotiate with your meat