 So Jayas says I honestly don't think he cares about what works for me. Exactly. Which is why you need to care about what works for you. Because when you care about what works for you and you start valuing yourself and you start deciding that you're not going to put up with anything that is less than what you deserve, then all of a sudden you stop responding to guys like this and he realizes that you're not going to respond to him and he either decides that he's going to step up or he ends up going and trying to find another victim somewhere else where he can manipulate and control and abuse and treat somebody like garbage and get away with it. And so what you want to do is not be the woman that he treats like garbage and you you want to let him go so that wish him best of luck.