 So the first one is why are romantic relationships so valuable for an egoist and what might be my advice on this topic? So now I'm a romantic, I don't know, giving advice on romantic relationships. So let's start with why romantic relationships are so valuable and again the context is to an egoist, not to an altruist or not to somebody who's not a thoughtful egoist. So what is it about a relationship, a romantic relationship specifically with somebody that is so important to an egoist and it has to do with values. An egoist pursues his values, values that he has identified, he or she and I'm going to use he here because it's a confusing otherwise. But any way I put in he could be she, that an egoist is a value pursuer. An egoist has a clear hierarchy of values. He is a thinker, he is somebody who has examined his own motivations, his own character and his own passions, understands the values that he thinks will make him happy and that he is in pursuit of. And whatever romantic partner does for one or what any love relationship, put aside for a minute the romance side is that it reflects back to an egoist the values that he most cherishes. So whatever your value hierarchy is, which are looking for in a love relationship with somebody else who shares some of those values, who lives some of those values and therefore in their living, in their being, in their existence reflect back to you that kind of combination of values and what it is is really an affirmation of you in a sense what you're looking at not as somebody who's like you because most couples I know particularly successful couples I know are very different in some regards but in other regards the important regards particularly intimately they are very much attuned to one another. They reflect one another's values, they're attuned to one another's values. So what you get is a reflection of your own values back to you in a package if you will that's completely different from you. It's an affirmation of your own life and that's the sense in which it's egoistic, it's affirming your own life and it's affirming your own value and that experience of experiencing the pleasure, the satisfaction of achieving your values, of living your values and seeing them in another person, seeing them lived, experienced is just a fantastic and one probably the most powerful emotion one can experience or one of the most powerful emotions one can experience. So it is an incredible emotional, spiritual experience to again see those values reflected in somebody else. Think of if you've had Atlas Shrugged and I hope you all read Atlas Shrugged think of what Reardon sees when he sees Dagny for the first time and of course he's not just seeing a physical person he knows it's Dagny Taggart. He's never met her before but he knows what she's done, what she represents, he sees how she holds herself. Now that's an example of love at first sight but think about how they relate to one another, the experience of finding somebody who is an equal and yet different, a passionate value or somebody who pursues not necessarily the same concrete values but broadly the same principles. So now why is it so important? It's so important because it's this incredibly positive experience. It's incredibly emotionally rewarding. It's incredibly rewarding spiritually. It feels good. It feels great. It feels fantastic. And we're striving towards a state of happiness, a state of happiness that is partially reinforced by experiencing these positive fulfilling long-term pervasive emotions and love is certainly one of those. And love for a romantic partner is the peak of those. And then one aspect of a romantic partner is sex, is ability to have an experience, sex with that person. Now, sex can be enjoyable with, I won't say with anybody because that's not true, but with quite a few people. It's not like you have to be, I don't know, it doesn't have to be the love of your life in order to enjoy sex with somebody. You can get pleasure out of sex from somebody who you like, you don't have to romantically love them. But when you add up the romantic love and you add the sex onto it, then it's a whole different level of experience. It's far more substantial. It's far more of a spiritual vis-a-vis, a physical experience. It is the greatest feeling, the greatest experience in the world in terms of something you experience in a moment. There's nothing that matches that.