 How to make a narcissist fall in love with you? I'm sure this is something that many of you would like to know how to do because You met them They lied to you they manipulated you They deceived you They future faked They sold you a dream They made you believe in this future with them as though they were on the same page As though they wanted what you wanted as though they were about that for real and Yeah, you liked it you ate it up you participated in it You wanted to be a part of it this dream that they sold you this future Because That's just how it is When someone comes into our life and they present this Dream to us This illusion of love If you're a normal healthy person, of course, you're gonna want to be a part of it That's what you were looking for the only problem is we later realize That yes, in fact, we have been sold a dream It was a shared fantasy an illusion a simulation of love And after a certain amount of time This shared fantasy became something that we were just participating in ourselves Because they were never really about that They were detached from it It was just a means to manipulate you To get what they wanted from you, which as we know is narcissistic supply they objectify us They see us as something temporary for recreational use So that they can get attention and admiration from us, but then that's all that it was It had nothing to do with love and in fact, I will say that You can't get a narcissist To fall in love with you They're not going to fall in love with anyone That is never Going to happen and you will know that that is never going to happen Because they didn't love you They presented a dream an illusion of love to you and It never amounted to anything If anything all you got was abuse at a loving caring person They're never going to abuse you They're never going to do that at all and that is how you know that you will never get love from them You can't get blood from a stone The truth about the narcissist and why they are the way that they are Why they treated you the way that they did It's because they never got their emotional needs met when they were children They experienced a lot of abuse or neglect They never received love from their parents They never had any empathy coming in So now they have no love or empathy to give to you or anyone else All they can do is manipulate you and give you this illusion As I've said before the best you will ever get from a narcissist is an illusion And that doesn't matter if it's an illusion with you or someone else Because as we know after they discard us They go on and they triangulate us with this new person They display this false image of love of a relationship When in actuality that image that illusion It's actually no different to what they portrayed to you in the beginning When they manipulated you so no The narcissist is never going to fall in love with you And they are never going to fall in love with anyone else That's just not possible for a narcissist I've heard some people say that it is to some extent But in all of my research and experience I completely disagree with that And the reason why I disagree with it We can go a lot deeper into this Narcissists as we know are shame-based people Who are doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame Pay attention to how you feel when you are around them That will tell you exactly what you're dealing with Do you feel the lower vibrational emotions Such as pride, desire, anger, fear, guilt or shame If you feel any of these emotions while you are around the narcissist That should tell you all that you need to know And it should reveal to you that they are never going to love you themselves or anyone else Because to experience love you need to be at the higher vibrations of peace, love, joy, acceptance At the very least you need to be able to accept yourself and the other person But if you look at narcissists they can't accept anyone They have a problem with everyone that they encounter Everyone that they get involved with And you will have seen that when you were out with them in public You could have been at a restaurant wherever it was There was always conflict There was always a disagreement There was always a misunderstanding So how can someone like that ever experience love? And yet many of us were looking at them and wondering why they can't love us Why they can't give us the love that we crave and need Why they can't give us the type of relationship that we wanted With loyalty and commitment Understanding and cooperation When the simple fact is that they just can't give that to you They can't be vulnerable And instead what they will do is be very cold and distant Especially when you're onto them Especially when you start to realize what you're dealing with Because as soon as you start to realize that You're not receiving any love in the relationship And in fact all you're getting is lies and manipulation You're just getting all of these stories of Why they can't love you or give you the type of relationship That they led you to believe that you were going to be involved in As soon as you start to catch on to that That is when they begin to devalue you They start putting you down They start making you think that you're not deserving of love They target your self-esteem When this is all just a distraction From the fact that actually they can't love you They don't have any love to give to you or anyone else And they're actually very ashamed of that Which is why as soon as you start to figure it out As soon as you start to catch on what do they do They project that shame onto you And then yourself loathing You're looking at yourself and wondering what is wrong with you When you should be pointing the finger at them And asking them what is wrong with them Because they targeted you for a relationship When the crazy thing about that is They can't even have relationships A relationship is the way in which two people connect But they could never connect to you A narcissist's idea of a relationship Is whether vectim attaches to them But they do not attach to you Because they can't attach properly to anyone They have an attachment disorder Which means that they also can't detach from you And that is why they get obsessed They develop this obsessive attachment Where they can't start thinking about you They always want to know where you are What you're doing, who you're with They objectify you They see you as this possession that belongs to them But at the same time they can't even love you They can't even give you a normal relationship And instead all you get is lies and manipulation Deception and future faking And sometimes you don't even get that Sometimes you just get devaluation Insults and put downs Where they project their shame onto you Because as I said they are shame-based people Who are doing everything they can To avoid reflecting on their shame And that is why whenever you're around them That's all you're going to experience And I'm sure those of you who have been involved with a narcissist It's something that we have all experienced Constant shame Because yes, unlike them, we can admit that We experience constant self-loathing We just feel bad about ourselves No matter what we've done for them No matter how much work we put in We just constantly feel down We don't feel good about ourselves When really it's them who should be feeling that way After everything that they did to you But they project their shame Because they're trying to run away from it And that's why if you confront them enough If you're really on their case And you just have this conversation with them As I have had with many narcissists in my past And it's just like, why can't you just be normal? Why is there all of this envy and jealousy Why are you so competitive? Why are you so insecure? Why is everything a competition? But you're always trying to outdo me Why can't we just be vulnerable and love? When you get to that point Where you're questioning them When you just want an answer Of why they can't behave normally Like a normal person When you get to that point That is when they will ghost you And you may never hear from them again If you're lucky Or otherwise they may just Paint you in a bad light And start a smear campaign against you Again to project their shame Which they are desperately trying to run away from They disown these parts of themselves That they don't like and assign them to you Because they don't want to deal with that And that's why we take on Their characteristic traits We begin to self-loathe We feel bad about ourselves And then they run off feeling a lot better Feeling like they're better than you Feeling like they're superior They got one over on you And as though something is wrong with you You're bad So it's you who couldn't maintain the relationship with them When we all know what it's like We've all been through it It's like we've all dated the same Person Even though we're from completely different parts of the world It's always the same thing with narcissists You cannot make a narcissist fall in love with you They don't have any love to give You can't get blood from a stone They have no empathy Love or compassion inside of themselves So they don't have any of that to give to you If you want to experience real love You need to look in the mirror Look at how you've been with the narcissist Look at all of the love you've given to them You accepted them without judgment You tolerated them even when they were manipulating you And putting you down You still stayed with them You gave them chance after chance You still accepted them And if that's not love, I don't know what is You gave them all of your love and devotion And all they did was reflect back to you Your own virtues and ideals They gave you a reflection of yourself So you pretty much fell in love with yourself And then they took on that role And it made you think that you were falling into something with them Sometimes you just got to stop and look at what they have trained to you And then look at who you are And you will see that they just mirrored you They imitated you They reflected you back to you While making you believe that it was them And if you don't believe that Then just look at it now Where are they now? If it was them If they really loved you They cared about you Where are they now? And that is how you know it was never them It was you They mirrored you They reflected you back to you And I know In this world I may seem like there is no love Love doesn't exist anymore It's old fashioned Now it's just social media Text messaging It's just sex There's no intimacy No connection It may seem that way But just remember you Remember all of the love, devotion and acceptance that you gave to the narcissist You're not the only person in the world who is like that There has to be other loving caring and accepting people in this world Although I will say that yes it is rare For my research I believe that it is only empaths who can experience real love And only one to two percent of the world's population Are empaths According to many studies So yes it is rare Fortunately we do have these communities And it does seem to attract a lot of empaths People who do care about other people But also because we've been around narcissists and we haven't had any empathy coming in We may find ourselves becoming more narcissistic Where we don't have any empathy to give to other people And this can be a problem as well Which is why it's very important that if you do find an empath Don't let them slip away That empathy is very important For you to share your empathy with each other Because as we know when we're around narcissists we get drained We don't have any empathy coming in So then there's no empathy going out And instead we find ourselves becoming narcissistic To where we just shut other people out Instead of Sharing this value that we have Because that's why we're here That's why empaths exist To share the love and positivity That is what it's all about And that's why I get on here every day To share these messages That's why I do this for you Because I know if I can get on here And I can give my love My empathy, my devotion to you Then I know that if you have this empathy coming in You will then have more empathy to share with someone else Someone who may even seem narcissistic But maybe they just don't have any empathy coming in for a long time Because that is a possibility as well Although at the same time we do need to pay attention to the bread flags But as for narcissists No You can't make a narcissist fall in love with you Someone who is shame-based Someone who is constantly projecting their shame onto you Someone like that they have no love to give They're not going to have any love to give to you or anyone else So I know this title may be a bit misleading But I know there's a lot of people out there who are thinking about this They want to know how they can get this cold hearted person to love them So I thought it was very important for me to make this video with this title So that you can discover the truth So that you can discover what is actually going on And I hope this video is helpful to you If it is you can show your support by giving it a thumbs up down below Let me know your thoughts as well in the comments Let me know if you agree with this message or not And you can share the video and subscribe And other than that I will talk to you in another video very soon You all have a good day