 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc's Fiver Live video. I can't remember where exactly I am As you know, I travel a lot But I am on some island somewhere in Japan at a view point I Believe I did put the location in this video if you want to know exactly where it is Maybe you want to come out and visit here as well. But yeah, I Know why you decided to click on this video You clicked on this video Because you are desiring to hurt someone But maybe it makes it a little bit better. You're desiring to hurt a narcissist And of course I can understand that I Get it You feel hurt you've been damaged by this narcissist They've affected you They've had a lasting impact or effect on you And you want to release that You want to get revenge you want to hurt the narcissist In return to how they made you feel And that's just the way that it is a lot of times when someone makes us feel a certain way When they hurt us Yeah, sometimes we want to hurt them back and I get that It's not really something that I do at this point in my journey. I Am an awakened super empath So Those kind of things I don't really get involved, but of course earlier on my journey. Yes I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel a lot of anger As a result of all of the things that were done to me. I mean traumatic events situations I've experienced so many I've lost count. I Know what it's like to go through that. I understand And the narcissist they present themselves as though they're completely invincible As though nothing can move or faze them Nothing can affect them when in fact the exact opposite is true. They are actually very sensitive But yeah, if you want to hurt the narcissist first, you need to understand something about the disorder Especially when we're typically talking about a Grandioke's full-blown narcissist. What do they want? They want to be the best They want to feel like they are better than everyone else As though they're the only person in the world the center of your universe As though there's nothing greater than them and believe it or not, but it's actually the same thing even with the covert narcissist The only real difference is that The covert narcissist believes that they are the best It's just that the world does not see it yet With the full-blown grandiose narcissist They believe they're the best and everyone else believes that as well, but if you really want to hurt them This is all you have to do before I tell you I Just like you to hit that thumbs up button down below 75 live viewers only three thumbs ups So very important to hit that thumbs up button It helps a YouTube algorithm to get this message out there For other survivors who want to know how they can hurt the narcissist So this is it. I'm going to tell you If you want to hurt the narcissist this person Who has to feel like they are the best? You need to be chasing Something better Something greater Because remember the whole point the narcissist has to feel like they're the best They're the greatest they're at the top and you should be on your knees because they're worthy of worship That's how they see it and that's how they want you to think But what if you're chasing something greater Something better. Maybe it's a person who's more physically attractive a Person with more money Person who's more intelligent just identify whatever it is that the narcissist is going after what are they trying to portray? Are they trying to be the most handsome man or the most beautiful woman on the planet? Are they trying to be the most intelligent? Are they trying to be the most wealthiest? Whatever it is you identify that And then you show them that you're chasing someone who is more intelligent more attractive or has more money And I can tell you that will really wind them up that will really get under their skin And I know I understand that they have hurt you They've affected you emotionally And it can be very difficult to deal with that pain So now you want to hurt them in return for how they've made you feel I understand that I Thought that way a lot along my earlier journey I don't know the thing that really gets them and this really says a lot. I've said it before I know I really believe That narcissists are demonic. I Really believe that they are possessed Another thing that will really hurt them is when you're chasing As I said, you're chasing something higher greater Superior to the narcissist So what will really hurt them is when you are chasing God When you are worshiping and Following God Because in the narcissist mind, they are the best. They are the greatest. They are superior to Everyone and everything and that includes God That's how the disorder has to function. That's how they have to think There cannot be anything greater than them So in their minds, they cannot even be a God. They cannot even afford to believe That there is a God Because they have to be the best That's the only way that their disorder can function So even if you are just Worshiping and following God That will really crush them that will annihilate them That will really wind them up because remember in their minds, they are the best thing since likes bread There is nothing greater or higher than them. This is why I believe it's demonic This is why I believe that But even if you don't believe in God, I mean We are all Entitled to our own beliefs our own opinions as well, of course But even if you're just chasing something greater something superior to them and it could be Well, first you need to identify. What are they going after? What's important to them? What means the most to them? What do they think makes them superior to other people is it? their face their body Their physical attractiveness is it their money? Is it their car their house? Is it their intelligence? Whatever it is identify it I then act like you're chasing or attracted to the attention of Someone who is more physically attractive or someone who has more money someone who is more intelligent I know this sounds kind of stupid. I know it's shallow and superficial. It's kind of childish and immature But that's just the way narcissists are They're very superficial There's nothing underneath the surface They're just empty vessels empty meat suits There's nothing else to them other than what you see on the surface So to hurt them That's just how it goes They don't really care about the deeper things. They don't care about feelings They don't care about the things that really matter in life Relationships intimacy They don't really care about that at all. So if you want to hurt them, it has to be something shallow something superficial Something that's completely meaningless and pointless Something that isn't really worth anything because let's be honest There's so much more to us than our looks. There's so much more to us than the amount of money we have And even that our intelligence as well Sometimes we just have to drop that To go into the space of love. I'm not saying we should love narcissists though as soon as you do that Just opens you up to being hurt again because that's all they're going to do They've got so much pain inside of them And that's never going to go away. All they're going to do is hurt you again and again They're very damaged broken people But let's love each other Let's recognize But if there's one thing we all have in common we all have love to give the sun is going down It's really cold up here. I only brought just this jacket. It's not really enough to keep me warm But I'm really glad I took the time to put this Message out there tonight for those who need it and please hit that thumbs up button down below I can see there's 53 live viewers only eight thumbs ups It's very important It will help to get this message out there so that other survivors will see it So please hit that thumbs up button down below Thank you And let me know your thoughts about this video in the comments below. I reach your comments every day Hit that subscribe button and click all notifications so that you will be notified when I upload a video And if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me, you can go to my website. 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