 Magnus answers and this person wants to remain anonymous and she wrote a letter and she wanted an answer from me and Sarah okay this could be a long video you said you know cuz she covered a lot of points here but let me read it for y'all so y'all you know read it as fast as I can shut your mouth read it all right as fast as I can maybe we will take it point to point I read faster she doesn't read she reads silently faster okay that's what she reads faster okay yeah and if we have to stop at certain points we will anyway so says hello Tyrone and Sarah I hope you're both well smiley face I am writing you for some advice so please don't put my name in the video basically I'm attracted to this guy that I work with but he is not my usual type at all I usually go for very attractive square jawed gym buffs but this guy is almost the total opposite she goes for the guys are like bro like those bro making them bro bro anyway despite the fact that is he is not classically good looking no sorry I jumped the gun y'all what I like about him is that he is tall a really nice guy humble down-the-earth and intelligent I also really like that he is also in no way metrosexual at all which is a huge relief many guys these days seem to have run out of testosterone juice traditional masculinity seems to have disappeared shit is true a lot of guys do their eyebrows and all that body waxing all that shit me personally now see now look my eyebrows are arched but they grow like this naturally I get used to this shit all the time I do not arch or pluck my eyebrows on trim them shave them nothing all right so I'm pretty genetically motherfuckers but I don't think I'm metrosexual like I don't you know I don't need to tan not that that is exactly metrosexual I think the eyebrow thing is little much for me that tends to be the metrosexual side for me as far as I'm concerned this ain't about metrosexuality all right now she said anyway despite the fact that he is not classically good looking I still find myself really drawn to him the thing is I don't know if this is because I've been single for a long time and there aren't many options where I am also I'm worried that if I start anything up with him on the basis of him being a nice guy I might one day realize I'm just not physically attracted to him I'm not sure what his body is like but I'm used to the gym bodies and I'm scared that I might be turned off completely and wouldn't want to do that to him on the other hand I did end up cheating on a hot boyfriend before when I was younger because he was so selfish and into himself and we just wanted a trophy I know that's no justification ultimately it was my choice I don't want to cheat again also I'm worried that if my environment changes and I have the opportunity to meet hot guys again I might feel like I settled on the other hand I know hot guys are more prone to cheating whereas this guy may feel like he wouldn't need to I don't mean to sound conceited just saying that but I hope you understand what I mean what should I do guys go for it with this guy or wait it out with someone else it's worth pointing out that I'm now in my early 30s so I don't want to waste my time or anyone else's at this point thanks in advance my lovelies all right so Sarah actually let me get the letter say why'd you throw it cuz you don't bad on certain points um I guess we'll both maybe kind of take terms answering this I personally think that from what you've told me there's a possibility that you could be getting desperate and that you're seeing this guy it's kind of like hey he's got this and that yeah why not you know what I mean and in a way you would be dropping your standards if you've been single for such a long time and then now you're starting to get desperate and what do you think about that it could be that your tastes are changing slightly sometimes when you're younger you value aesthetics a little more and now as you're getting a little older you're more interested in what you said you liked about him was more like his personality and the way he presents himself he seems like a kind of a rugged guy so maybe your tastes are changing a little bit or it could be partially because you're desperate not like really desperate but like you can't people can't get desperate you say it like it is see you said you said I'm in my early 30s and I don't want to waste nobody she wants to meet a guy and have a relationship but she doesn't want to waste time but I'm not saying you would desperately you know how you know what they call it well you had said that there weren't a lot of options where you're right so maybe you're getting desperate for that perfect person waiting for that one to come and you think about like that remember you know being in high school and they're only like a couple hot girls and then I'm gonna go to like a bigger high school and play goddamn look at all these guys in here the fuck like you know and I get it I get it so you might you might need to just look at other options whether it's internet dating I think internet dating is completely safe personally because there's absolute nuts right at the bar around the corner that you can meet or at your church before internet people were still getting killed and raped and all that shit by crazy nuts that they met right in their own town so you just have to be a better judge a character you can date on the internet and find a plethora or or branching branch out you know go places where you like to go and specifically not like put yourself out there like be willing to meet guys be willing to say hello you know it like I like books so I would go to a bookstore and I would go to a bookstore and I might see a guy pick up a book that I've read or that I want to read and talk about it with him you know anyway no but you know what she's got a good point when you have certain interests try to go somewhere where people meet up they have your same interests organic food go to the organic grocery section you see a hot guy there start talking about eating organic right you know if you like to rock climb go talk to the rock climbing instructor you know I mean there's there's other ways to meet people I don't know where you live maybe it's a really small town but you could try branching out you might have to do a long-distance relationship and then I'm looking at how you're worried about like apparently his face ain't that bad that you are attracted to him you like the way it carries and stuff like that but what I'm saying is you're afraid that when the clothes come off because you're gonna be turned off all right I'll get you a prime example of this I'll give you one to okay I um I got a friend I lost a ton of weight all right and she has a really pretty face not gonna name her but because of that I remember thinking to myself when she lost all the weight and she kind of told me yeah but I got loose skin here and this and that and I was just like damn I wonder if dudes that have sex with her before her skin you know re you know sizes itself to her body like I wonder if they see her face and like oh man she's bad as hell and they get her home like oh shit you know I mean so if you're prone to that and you really like muscular bodies I don't think you should try I don't think you should go out with this guy or approach him I don't but I'm gonna talk about some other points when I was like freshman in college I met this guy he had a handsome face but he was overweight and I've always dated more athletic bills or slim tall bills never dated someone that was overweight and at the time when I met him nothing really sparked too much I knew he was interested but you know I ended up dating someone else so three three or four years later we reconnected and I had gone through a couple relationships that didn't really work and his personality was so nice and we really meshed as far as personality wise on the cliffhanger he was he was a really nice guy we got along he was smart he had a good sense of humor that's what people always do before they drop bomb we got together you're so nice we got together for about we were boyfriend and girlfriend for about two months the sex was not good and he was overweight I was not attracted to his body but because I liked his personality so much I tried to make myself be attracted to him and what ended up happening was he told me he loved me and I had to tell him that I didn't love him she tried to swallow that horse pill and you know he ended up breaking it off with me and after the breakup we talked about it and I said you know it seemed like you fell for me faster than I did and you were worried about getting hurt you were scared about getting hurt and he said yeah you're right so you did the right thing you know I can't blame him for breaking it off with me and I don't know a hundred percent for sure whether I would have felt the same way about him later on if I would have been able to overcome that so if you're if you're not attracted to this guy at all and he's got a nice face but you're really not attracted to his body in my experience it's not gonna work I would never date a girl that I thought had a pretty face or I was just kind of attracted to maybe her demeanor and her body was not my type there's absolutely no other held you push my leg away make my leg you're making me high it's my energy pretty permeating through your cheap jeans all right so but as far as the cheating part goes um that's on you you know you don't want to cheat again so you don't cheat again that's just your own willpower all right so that's not even an issue and I think you understand and it's not as my guys being prone to cheat yeah I guess maybe but I mean Tyrone doesn't cheat he's a hot guy there's hot guys out there that's real cute my throat was okay so you're also environment changes I'm just kidding and you have more opportunity right so if the environment change you have more opportunity I'm telling you right now don't go out with this guy period I'm telling you right now unless you see massive potential in them do not do not I'm telling you right now that's pretty much the only thing that I could say is if you feel like your tastes are changing then maybe give it a shot but if your case aren't changing if your tastes aren't changing and you're just saying well I don't really have a lot of options and I really like his personality so let me just try it then I would say no but if you're starting to be more attracted to a more rugged type and the personality coming forth is your primary focus of attraction then maybe yeah because trust me I've been out with guys this is what happens a lot of times we'll go somewhere it's like to see what party a house party gathering type of thing and the guys will be posted up or sitting around a certain area and we will literally do this if we get there and there is no girl that we are really attracted to we will try to find the one that if we had to do that's the one we may spark a conversation literally I can remember talking to a guy like I'm right there she ain't bad it's like yeah man slim pickers in here that's like the best John in here it's like yeah and it's funny then the guys will kind of and y'all know this at a party the guys will kind of start to congregate near the prettiest one you know I mean now this could be a totally bad join at certain parties but you all know what I'm talking about and the guys do what I'm talking about you just like well it was nothing I guess I can hit that hey how you doing my name's Tyrone what's your name Sarah yeah yeah don't do it if that's how you feel I want this man to light your fire whoever it is that you want to be interested in if he don't light your fire you just interested I've been attracted to girls that I would never want to be my girlfriend it's just something about them that attracts you I know what you're talking about don't do it unless you want to romp in the bed and and he knows it and you know it that's it okay then if you like it then you can move from there yeah yeah you know what from start off bed buddies okay if you want to start off bed buddies and it turns out to be something good hell you know if that park is there I mean yeah yeah when it comes down to it you have to be attracted to the person that you're with really attracted though you know like she's attracted to and she said but she's not like it's not her normal you know if that spark is there I don't know it's the same for guys but girls know when you feel that spark it may be butterflies in the stomach it may not but you know whether you want to have sex with that guy or not and if you absolutely don't want to have sex with that guy then the answer is no if you can't picture yourself in bed with him regardless of whether you've seen his body or not then the answer is no that's a interesting point because it's funny I've tried to picture myself in bed with certain girls and I couldn't do it like this girl staff worked with they did come to nut part out right now but but it's crazy cuz you'll be like guys guys do this like we'll look at you and sometimes a pretty but awkwardly shaped a girl we'll be like like we'll actually do this the head motion I don't know man I don't know if I could do that cuz you know I'm saying like you know big thing that I hate like a lot like big breasts right but I've had women have approached me that have been interested in me that had big breasts right but no ass and I have an issue with that I really have a big issue with no ass whatsoever and I've actually looked at certain girls and I'm just like I go to bend that over that gesture ain't gonna fucking look good at all I do not want to see that that's what I'm saying like you know I mean it's like I yeah I'm attracted to her but nah so videos going long enough and I hope I answered all the questions I think I did do not don't go after this dude unless you you want to make a little sexual escapade of it and he knows it and you know it if it works out it works out it doesn't it doesn't but don't go after him like hey you're a great guy I love to make you my boyfriend because especially if you are a trophy I'd love to see a picture of you by the way just curious but if you are a trophy and he's not used to having a girl like you who I mean he could lock on you you might jump out a fucking window and break it off with him okay yeah so don't go messing with nobody's feeling you said you won't waste nobody's time okay you want to make it sexual you ain't wasting no time cuz you're making this that's how you what a different guy I dated is that he's talking about people locking on to you we didn't even have sex I dated for a month maybe just kind of off and on we went to we went to a laser concert and we went to dinner and that was like it I was just like and I could tell he was getting in too deep and I broke it off with him and I'm talking about like years later he was still contacting me why wouldn't you give me a chance why won't you be with me I don't understand like years later walking up on the club with the great one she would contact he did it twice like three years apart and she told me she seen him in the parking lot he was like wow Sarah how you doing and one time he saw her again and he just had to pour his heart out why wouldn't you give me a chance why why why why I engaged this guy you know in these feelings and I didn't feel that way about him and I swear to God I broke it off with him as early as I as I could before I knew like before I knew that I really wasn't that attracted to him I broke it off you know like you have to be careful because he's a nice guy and he probably thinks all women are opposite she was physically attracted to him but his personality didn't measure hers you're exactly what happened he was kind of boring his personality but you're not attracted to his body so you gotta have that spark on both that's it so all right yeah they're about 18 minutes almost 19 maybe time I'm gonna do a video on law of attraction and attracting a mate so that you can find somebody who's really very good series to get on that's called your wish is your command by Kevin Trudeau check it out yes so but yeah all right y'all hope it helped talk to you later turn it off turn it off turn it off