 What's up you guys? It's your boy Lloyd here. So today's question that we have is about confidence again. So this guy writes to me, he writes, hey Lloyd, I watch your channel every single week and I had a question for you. You talk a lot about confidence, you talk a lot about how I get more confidence. There are some times where I feel super confident where no one can touch me. I feel like I can do no wrong and no one can stop me. But there are other times where I don't feel like this, where I feel less confident and he just goes into detail about what kinds of things that he does or how he feels. Basically he's not feeling very good. So he gets these ultra highs and these ultra lows. What can I do to always feel super confident all of the time? Thank you so much. I look forward to hearing your answer. Okay, so this is something that I get a lot with people who come into my programs. I would say that a good portion of them, they actually do feel very confident at some times and I'd say most guys are like this, where in certain situations and circumstances, if the girl gives you a really good reaction maybe, then they start to feel a lot more confident about themselves and they can do great in those scenarios. But then other times and a lot of times they don't have that, maybe they get a bad reaction, maybe they're not drunk, maybe they're not around their friends or whatever the case may be, they don't feel very confident in those situations. Basically the difference between those two guys is, okay, so this guy has state confidence which means when he's in a good state he's confident but when he's in a bad state he's not confident. Now what I try and cultivate in my students and everybody is natural confidence and that's actually what we're going to be talking about in a free seminar this Saturday. So if you want to attend there is a link in the description box below. We're going to be covering a bunch of things about it. It's going to be hugely valuable for you guys. So again, totally free. So if you're a guy who's a state confidence guy and if you're watching this you probably know which one you are, pay attention to what kinds of things cause you to feel confident. I just gave you three examples right there. Sometimes if the circumstance is great for that person, maybe they just got promoted or maybe they feel really good about themselves particularly to that day. Some people with the seasons as well, I find some people get seasonal depression too. So that's one thing. Circumstances, you know, or have you drank anything? Have you taken any drugs? Have you used anything artificial to enhance your mood? That's another thing to look at. And also too, probably the biggest one is whether somebody is giving them a good reaction or not. Okay, whether it's a guy or a pretty girl that they're talking to, a lot of their state is based off of that person's reaction and if they get a bad reaction they feel bad. So I'll get the typical student where I'll tell them to walk up and talk to a few people and like the first few times they can be kind of motivated, but then afterwards if they don't get a great reaction, their energy starts to dissipate and they're not able to give the same energy and enthusiasm towards other people. And if you don't want anything about picking up girls, you know that the amount of energy that you give to somebody is hugely, hugely important. And if you can't maintain that and if you're just a guy who's like really based off of what other people do around you rather than your own self, you're going to have a tough time. So the way that you develop into someone who is not dependent upon those circumstances is to develop natural confidence. It's exactly what I talked about in the last video. Okay, basically you don't need other people, you don't need other things to be really confident in your life. And here's the thing, when this guy asked this question, he was like, how do I stay and always be at that ultra high where I feel super confident and nothing can stop me? Well, the truth is if you develop natural confidence, you're not going to be at that ultra high. That's ultra highs are for people who have ultra lows. And if you're like this, you're going up and down. Typically that means that you're not confident most of the time. And when you do feel confident, you feel super, super good. Now, typically when I see these guys, a lot of times these are the guys that women think are douchebags. They don't like them. And the reason why is because once they have that ultra confidence, they're not used to having it, they start acting mean towards other people saying super arrogant, condescending things because they're not used to feeling that good. And so they think everything they say is okay. And I find that a lot of guys, once they get into this, once they get into this mode, they don't usually notice it until later. But it doesn't have to necessarily come out as being a douchebag. It can come out in other ways. The point is, you're not confident most of the time. So you need to develop natural confidence. Now, the way to do this is like I said in the last video, you can start by journaling. You can start by asking yourselves those questions. What are some things that you look for in order to be confident? Why do you look for those things? Why are they important to you? Could you do something that could substitute for them and maybe be more confident most of the time? But it really comes down to the daily practices that you do. Meditation can work. Meditation can really help out with that sort of stuff. I find that journaling and those different things can really help as well. But if you find yourself between the extreme highs and the lows, there's not just some magic pill that's going to keep you at the high. You seen the Wolf of Wall Street? They tried to make that happen and look what happened. So if you want to be like that, then yeah, sure. Find some Kuei Ludes or whatever it is, whatever drug is your choice out there. And then maybe you can stick and always be in that state. But yeah, if you don't want to be addicted to drugs and you want to do this naturally, I highly recommend that you attend the seminar this Saturday or start journaling and start doing those kinds of things. We're actually going to be going over how to do that and those exercises in that meeting on Saturday. So again, I'm going to give it in the description box below. Thanks for watching you guys. If you made today and consider subscribing, I come out with videos like this every single week. And yeah, look forward to talking to you guys soon. Good luck out there.