 So Sadie is gonna be our last question of the day and question is Jonathan. I went on a date with a guy whose girlfriend had recently left him. He was miserable and wanted to talk about her. What is the best time gap for dating men after a breakup? Oh my God, this is a great question. So this reminds me of, I'm gonna share a story that this happens to be more of a dating question, but I'll never forget right after my divorce I was online dating and I met this great, I mean, I was really attracted to this one gal. She looked like Michelle Pfeiffer. I was like totally smitten. And she wrote me because my profile said I'm divorced. So she asked me how long I'd been divorced. And I said, well, I'm actually just separated. We're going through a divorce. And she wrote me back. She said, well, contact me in 18 to 24 months after you've had one or two transition girlfriends. And I go, wrote her back. What are you talking about? And she goes, you're not ready for a relationship. And I go, no, I'm ready, I'm ready. I was in an unhappy marriage and you know, I'm so ready, ready, ready, ready. Sure enough, I met a woman a few months later on a dating app and we started to date. And three months into dating, I was so not ready for a relationship. I did the total dysfunctional moonwalk and pulled away. I didn't ghost. I mean, we had a very amicable ending and we actually eventually became Facebook friends and she got married. By the way, I had this, she got married shortly after me. By the way, anyone who dated me, literally the next man they met, they got married too. I had the whole good luck Chuck thing going for the longest time. I don't know if I still do. But my point in bringing up this story is it takes time to heal after the ending of a relationship. I know when I was in relationship with my ex-girlfriend, it took quite a bit of time to heal from that ending of a relationship. So we naturally, oftentimes humans immediately jump back online dating men and women alike because there's a hole in our life. There's a hole when somebody's gone. And we wanna fill that hole right away with some attention, affection, appreciation and acceptance. But most of the time until we've actually healed the relationship, I'm a big believer. I don't wanna date anyone whose relationship is, they haven't had a significant relationship in over six months to one year. And preferably they don't communicate on a regular basis. I have no problem with someone being friends, but I just would prefer that they don't communicate on a regular basis. That's two of my criteria. And Sadie, that's the way I approach it, six months to one year. And preferably not that they can't be family and friends with their past lover, but I'm not a big proponent of them having regular communication. And by the way, when you break up and people start to date other people, the communication does dissipate. So Sadie, thank you for that question. Okay.