 Ni mapretua Division. Korim , korim. Kenja significance of waving my hand today? Asya na Padunol? Ya, ya, ya, you r enumukuddineiwe nekcendo. Mi metissu u katia? Genya вsy bollем naway u subprintugao ke 되� 1usesox And next to me is who, who are you, when you man? Nisa Abdi. Nisa Abdi and who are you, when you man? Super host Miss Kitingi. Miss Kitingi and we have our usual guest here. The great. The great is mine. We can't be great if we are great people. They are amazing MCs. They are amazing. They are amazing. Oh, that can answer. He is a former heartbreaker, former failed relationship expert. Failed relationship expert. We have a good discussion here because a few weeks ago and also online, there has been a discussion. There is a famous guy known as Robert Burale. He has been a celebrity for... 13. Since 2013 to now. That's 7, 8, 9 years. Yes. 9 years. And we have been together for 9 years. We have been together for 9 years. We have been together for 9 years. And that's when we found Burale is very careless. 2013. Some of us have been celebrating since 2006. Since 2001. What is the problem? What is the problem? What is going on? Okay, so the discussion here is why do you think that men cannot hold it long? Because that's what you guys have... But women can hold it for like 3 years. Because that's what you guys have portrayed to us. I think the question should be if you think in the world we are living right now, it's easy for you to maintain celibacy. Like for example, me, Miss Asa. Hey, this temptation, right? Do you know the world we are living in, bro? For you to say you haven't had coitus for 13 years. Do you know the life the world we are living in? The TVs, the women. Do you know? Sex does not control me. No, I'm saying... It's not about sex controlling me. It's about celibacy. Do you know when you were... Let's say he's a public figure. And you are a public figure also. You know the kind of temptations. You get temptations right, left and center. There's so much temptation around him for just people to actually believe. Like right now as a public figure that he is, he has so... I'm sure he's got so much temptations. Left, right and center. And that's why people have... Like people right now are finding it so hard to believe that he's been celibated. My friend Eric Komondi has been celibated for... Who? Yeah, Eric has been celibated. Eric Komondi. Eric Komondi has been celibated since... Actually. Actually, Eric Komondi in iteration in, he was in 2020. Wond Eric Not 12 sex again if you ask to gain. Yes. He's been celibated for all those years. And he's been... Now okay, the point is you people are judging men. Yes. Another man has celibated out here. So many. Another man. He's been looking at... You know when I saw the Braille story, I was like, you know what? Maybe he has another problem that he has not told people. What problem? Yeah, could be a medical problem. I don't know. And he hasn't really told people. That is why he chose to remain celibated. You know? But he's been celibated for all those years. Eric has been celibated. I don't know. He's been celibated for all those years. Eric has been celibated for all those years. But it's true. I don't think we were having negative. I know. A true man has been celibated. Okay. Andro's question. In a world that we are now. Is it true? In a world that we are at now. Yes, yes. For real. How long can you be celibated? A woman or a man. Wait, wait, wait. As long as I can't be celibated. As long as I set my mind. Because I always believe. This thing is about telling your mind. Okay, in your life. How long have you ever been celibated? I'm a virgin. Oh, that's good. That's good. That's good. I thought we were having a serious conversation here. I mean, you can't have a serious conversation. So guys, so guys. We are but I can't give a no people on that. In 1966. Yeah, 1966. Ah, when I... There's a man who said he would not have sex and he had so much medical complications in between those years. So personally, and then I respect you so much and Robert Sorano. But I believe I don't believe someone can be celibated for. Even those people who are in the politics. We know what they do. Yeah. We see the cases. The Vatican has so many cases. So my point is simple. The way the human body and the system and the foods we eat nowadays and the content we consume and the people we talk to and the people we indulge with, you know, I do not think this age anybody can have the celibacy. Do you know people have achieved great things in this world? Are celibated? They were celibated for a certain period towards that discovery. But they were celibated to a period when they were doing things, right? They were celibated because they were focused. It is also believed that sexual energy is very powerful. If you channel it to anything, it performs better the way the age is. You see, when you want to sleep with someone, you go for it unata futanjia zote. Okay. Ningu musa ikut uki amuka kesho unata after 10 million. Moral height ako hi dan uki amuka kesho unata kamutu. Ya ni baijuri utakuna kia ngejifu lani. Bro, dalipa ngege yo jioni. Because that energy is very strong. It's an energy that people don't know how it drives them. So this great people akina Albert Einstein, akina nani. And Napoleon Hill has written about that. Read books. Read books. Read books. Okay, sir. Okay. Napoleon spoke about that because he said ali figa research anakauna similarity between the atuote. Kuna time moliko anaka. Men, inya men sana-sana. Because time moliko anaka bila kushiriki, but how you kwa genest kushiriki? He was just a genest when you are having kitu goli imefika, it's good kuku wa saving it, kui chase. And he gave an example kuna kwa ga na ekzabo. I think kwa kwa think big or grow rich by na kolio. Na malemongelio kitu. You're not supposed to sleep with a woman if you have a match. And you know if you do that una perform viba sana kwa bol. It's energy. Like if bol is selfish, it won't focus na bol moja. So kwa mani ingi. So now this is what happens. Selibasi? Yes, we must say the world of now, Ikadano is not allow selibasi. But the fact is that selibasi helps sometimes. I think helps a lot. I think it's not even sometimes. I believe it helps a lot. Apart from this disadvantage obviously it's sexual frustration which is noble. But for a man and this is true. Even the men who go to war. For a man the importance of you knowing how to control the urge the sexual urge makes you a very very very noble. Like me personally when I'm writing I don't any time I'm doing a great thing. I selibat. You see now, let me give you an example. Let me give you an example. I have a very good friend of mine. It's called Kanye West. Wow. Why you guys laugh? He's a friend of yours. But he's a friend of mine. He's a fellow millionaire. He's a billionaire. He's a billionaire. But that's good. I want you to understand the way men think. And the way men act. When they're in a relationship he's a being when they're not in a relationship. When a man is not in a relationship the focus is based on him who he is like a man wants to focus in your agenda. Mostly that's why and allow me to say this most politicians they are very busy people. They do not have any time for sex. It's true. And this is what I'm for productivity sex you need to cut sexual intercourse to a certain level. For productivity. Men who have this high edge for sex normally I always see that they have a mental issue. Personally I think it's a mental issue because you cannot explain how you can. So they use it as validation. So personally I believe men can take the initiative the way you say I want to pass alcohol for 6 months you can also decide no one will believe you I don't need to believe you but it's honest speaking it's one of the best things that I can ever add to a man. In fact being single for a man this is my opinion being single for a man makes him become highly productive than when he is in a relationship. So let me ask you what you're saying is you guys can control it we are saying we can't control it but it is important and you can if you push your mind if you wake up in the morning so when you guys tell us oh we are men we have to have in short according to me in short if I use one online statement it is very hard to say for those old years but for a period after one year after one year after 2 hours but you just know kama munaume who celebrate in a kwa gana man thinks about sex every 7 minutes it's a 7 seconds every 7 minutes but every 7 minutes every 7 minutes a man will think about sex every 7 minutes when a man feels like being being they will think about sex you see every morning every morning when a man wakes up they have to wake up with a hard on but if your man and you don't wake up with a hard on you need to go check it it's a serious thing for healthy men wake up with a hard on let me have a question for ladies I don't know me I don't understand your anatomy but from the anatomy perspective is there a point you can spend more than a month without thinking about considering the factors like ovulation of course the way the body is built there are times even actually highly highly what especially when you are ovulating immediately after ovulation is created but that does not mean because this is the fact me menezaka menezaka tani zisita see when you menezaka you know but for women by the way the ratio you have to menezaka is less we've been just honest men versus women a lot of women can celebrate for love but I want to understand do they resist the urge no that's where it's so easy for me to resist the urge but you know guys let me ask butita is it the same for men because you cannot resist the urge don't want let me answer you let me answer you Betty this guy has said when he has something important he is going to do he can resist for something important you know but you know you as is different you mentioned I have said you as is different I have said because now why is Betty why is Betty to this hand why is Betty so aggressive and violent when I am trying to speak something women are here in society what are you trying to tell the subscribers you are violent so anyway my point is simple madam it's hard for you it's easy for me to say it especially let me explain you are no longer a virgin how do you know that I am just saying ok there we have been out there one more thank you my father is what you do who have explained this maybe the both of you know what is focusing on what you love women praise oh you can't give me oh I love oh multi we get the point so once you are used to this and admit I have many things the largest amount of friends it's hard for you to resist this urge because you are used to it the fact that women can't tolerate the idea of a breaker is them thinking about how do I again start to have a new penis how am I going to start having a new penis sexual frustrated personally I get your point I think you are trying to say you are trying to say if you are not at the addiction level you can control yourself it's not necessarily addiction like you are used to and they are used to waking up in the morning every day it doesn't make an addict but she can be an addict it does not make they are people who are addicted it's a big problem that's why the number of sexual tools the high numbers of sexual boys that are coming in the country are high because people are sexually addicted she wants to say because we are not satisfied no it's because people are open minded no no and we have so many statistics as we close there are sentiments on celibacy there are sentiments on celibacy I mean where me I think celibacy can be last 3 months can you actually it just depends on the person also can you you can be celibate you can lie in front of a tv for 9 years I mean I will be celibate the idea here is to be open I bet your last sentiments on celibacy my last sentiments what needs for your personal concept now you guys this is the thing sex education is something that we don't really talk about we restrain a lot because maybe of how we were brought up and some things we need to and culture those are some of the things we are trying now to eliminate it's good to have this conversation because it's here with us it is already here let us understand our bodies why do people behave this way why do others behave this way they appear to watch up we can't control our mind because personally I really believe you can control your mind and restrain from telling that you are not one unless you are not of a summed mind for 9 years I am not talking about years Antonia you have 30 seconds 30 seconds maybe my brother maybe people are celibated when they look to your eyes kumia mafutayata kajakama futayata for you na shukun imposibo me misi na shukun imposibo mafunongi we are human beings don't use your immorality to prove science celibasi also can be for stingy man that's lack of opportunity when you lack opportunity you have the opportunity to just stingy that's a very important thing I agree with you for me my closing remarks this is what I think I think self control is not a weakness if someone says they have been celibated for one month makes sense like ok that is now the normal makes sense unless they are in a relationship unless they are in a relationship or they have a trusted partner but you see sometimes it's just people are just self control self control can only last for a period of time adios guys me self control will only last for a period of time ah close for us the show self control will only last for a period of time a young man I would urge you do not indulge in so much sexual activities find things that you can do find your talent your gifts that can raise your dopamine find activities that make you smile do not always concentrate on these things excuse me do you know it feels good come on because we seek dopamine let's seek it in different things so that we can be very productive and I mean it very productive just try for one month don't have sex alright guys this is friends vibe right here on SPM buzz make sure you subscribe was it? you are watching friends vibes all feelings are represented thanks for watching