 the Nazis just made a big mistake and that mistake may well have been the biggest mistake they've ever made in their lives and that mistake is letting you go because you were the gray day source of supply when they said jump you said how how you did everything you could to meet the unrealistic expectations to do what they want to do to do you were always there for them and you were quite possibly the only person who they've ever known who actually cared about them and loved them and they might not ever meet someone like that again someone who actually cared so yes they made a big mistake quite possibly the biggest mistake of their life losing you letting you go because maybe they thought the grass was greener on the other side maybe they were looking for the next shiny new time the next bigger better deal maybe they thought they had something better than you but most often what happens is they downgrade they go down they find someone who is less than you in more ways than one but this person they just be good at talking maybe they know how to sell them a dream they may run into another narcissist someone who's manipulating them someone who is deceiving them using them doing the exact same thing that they did to you because remember how they sold you a dream they led you into this fake relationship where there was nothing but lies and future faking remember how they did that to you well it's only a matter of time until they get a taste of the own medicine because someone else will do that to them it's just a matter of time until that happens if it hasn't happened already because when they leave you they want to prove to themselves and to you that they don't need you but they can find better and do better they want to prove that to you and to themselves but unfortunately for them it never works out that way you can't just go from one thing to another and find something else that's equally as good or better it doesn't work that way of course they have this magical thinking they underestimate you your value and importance because towards the end they devalue and degrade you they reduce your worth but that's only in their minds it doesn't change your actual value but narcissists are surrounded by a lot of people who are just like them people who are fake people who don't really care about them people who don't really have their back people who aren't really in their corner they've got a lot of people like that in their lives and it's only when things go wrong for them that they realize no one's really on their side and you may have been the only person who actually cared for them who would have been there for them when things went wrong but they threw you away a garbage or should I say they tossed to a side like a winning lottery ticket they threw the winning lottery ticket in the trash they lost the jackpot because you were the best thing that ever happened to them they're not gonna find any better or do any better than you no matter what they may think in their minds doesn't work out like that in reality if you can't stop them you can't control them just as you look just as you wouldn't like them to control you you've got to let them move on and do what they want to do they've got to go for it on their own they've got to experience it and then maybe they will learn from it or maybe they will just try and come back to you by that time you should have moved on but this is just how they are they under appreciate you they take you for granted and then they got to deal the consequences of doing that and there's nothing that no one can do to help them you just got to let them do what they want to do as I said in a past video you will experience arguments and disagreements with them they will always want to be in opposition to you whatever you want they always want the opposite even if it's just a sports team they've always got to like the opposite team I don't try to change them just give them these four words have it your way let them have it their way and let's see how things turn out let's see if things get better for them let's see if you were wrong let's see if let's see if the let's see if let's see if I'm wrong because if I am wrong and they didn't just make the biggest mistake of their life then things should get better for them after leaving you have to let you go they should be a lot happier and while it may look that way in the beginning give it time let's see how things are after a few months because I can guarantee in every case no matter who the narcissist is that you're dealing with they're all gonna go down after let you go things are about to get a lot worse for them I can promise you that I can guarantee it even though you may not always see it because they're not gonna let you see that they don't want to give you the satisfaction after you've moved on and things have gotten better for you they don't want you to see it out they want you to think that everything's okay they've just made the biggest mistake of their life by letting you go because you were the best thing that ever happened to them whether they realize that or not thank you all for joining me on another narc survivor live video as you can see I am out here at the beach living my best life and I hope you all are too again thank you all please give this video a thumbs up down below if it was helpful share your thoughts in the comment section I read your comments every day subscribe and if you'd like to book a one-way session with me you can do that from my website it's not survive that could okay check up my Instagram as well the new pictures and videos of my travels on there every day but it's not to have it not to have a YouTube and Instagram again thank you all and I will talk to you in another video very soon