 Hey everyone, this is Halena Hart and I'm here with Anya Grace today. Hey guys And today we're gonna be talking about the four myths about using feminine energy to attract men So we're so excited for everyone watching. Can you let us know if you can hear us and see us? Okay, we were having some microphone issues right before this So hopefully everything's fine. We're just gonna jump in and if you guys let us know if the sounds not working or something We'll just try again So let's jump into the first one. Um, yeah for everyone watching to say hi Let us know where you're from any questions you have about feminine energy or using feminine energy to attract a masculine energy man We would love to answer all your questions So we're just gonna jump right in the first myth is that feminine energy means just letting a guy Do whatever he wants right basically being a doormat letting him come and go as he pleases We see it in the comment sections of so many of both our own videos and other relationship advice videos A lot of people out there, you know, say things like oh, so does feminine energy Just mean letting a guy do whatever he wants and being a doormat and that actually couldn't be further from the truth So Anya, I'd love to hear you know everything you have to say about that. Yeah Well in a way, it's not about being passive. It is about being receptive but not passive so and we're just kind of waiting around and keeping our schedule clear and Hoping that something's going to happen without really taking the initiative to create the life of our dreams Then we don't further our life to expand to its potential And so when you think about being a high value woman, you know You want your life to be reflection of your worth and your desires and everything that you that really is in line with your dreams And then as you elevate in your own life, the man that you will attract will be at that level as well so it's really important not to just be waiting around and Kind of just putting your own needs aside in order to just you know Appease and please that person who may or may not be in your life for a long time Yeah, absolutely setting a boundary and really like standing strong for what you want is a super feminine energy quality I hear from so many women every day literally who are kind of afraid to Set a boundary or stand up for themselves because they're scared it might turn a man off or they're afraid They're gonna lose the guy if they you know have boundaries and standards for themselves And that just couldn't be further from the truth, you know The truth is a man will just fall head over heels for a woman who knows where the line is for herself And doesn't let him walk all over her boundaries, right on you totally. It's like the cat example, right? Yeah It was like the women are like cats like they'll claw you if you're too close and they'll sit on your lap If you're too far away or something but like like, you know a woman in her true power is not going to be afraid to To say something if it does if something doesn't feel right There is not a fear to speak up and not a fear to remove herself from the situation I was talking to both my my last romantic partner and Another really powerful man most recent really recently and and they both said in different ways My last partner said, you know, I Part of what I loved about being with you is that it was actually a challenge You know, it was really a challenge to to I had to work for our relationship and so just by being being so easy to get it and So ready to be available it doesn't create that challenge and that's when a man will literally You know want to spend the rest of their life with you. Yeah, I totally agree Yeah, you know, nothing turns a man off faster than being a doormat if a guy gets the sense that you're walking around Centered around the sphere of losing him and he can kind of treat you however. He wants His attraction for you will fade his respect, you know, even if he's a nice guy It's like, you know, men can't really respect someone neither can we I mean, how would you feel if a guy? Just let you walk all over his boundaries You know, it's kind of spineless like you wouldn't be attracted to a guy like that, right? So very very important feminine energy is the opposite of being a doormat. It's actually the most empowered place You can come from so I just want to say hi to everyone who's joining at miss chronic chronicles Tiffany Raquel says I'm interested in increasing my own value so I can attract a better quality partner. Awesome Well, hopefully this video will help you Tiffany hello Ellen says I love your videos. Thank you so much. Thanks for watching. So You want to move on to number two? Can I say one more absolutely? So this first one The other guy said to like I want we I was asking about okay What do you really want to feel in your relationship? We were doing a little bit of coaching and and he said I want to feel Challenge in a sense and it was interesting. He was really clear about that He wanted to feel challenged within the relationship. You didn't want it to just be easy, you know, so I think it's really important to remember that that Even I was talking to another one of my clients and she said that she actually canceled an entire trip with this guy Because she had a prior engagement and he bought her a ticket and everything and she was like kind of worried that it Would turn him off and make him not, you know, be it would send him the message that she wasn't interested but she legitimately had other plans that she needed to attend to and Of course he that didn't turn him off It actually made him lean and more and he booked her another flight And so she's going out there to see him like, you know in a different date, but so it's really like Be busy be doing your own life and that will be yeah It's not about pretending to be hard to get Jerry ask. Please elaborate. Yeah So these are the myths about using feminine energy So yeah It might sound a little shocking or confusing at first because we're hoping to dispel all of these myths and the truth Being in your feminine energy is really the most empowered place You could possibly come from from our perspective the way we the way we see things and like to do things So hopefully the rest of this video will help you sherry and hello to Rose and Cindy too Thank you guys so much for your comments and for everyone watching Yeah, you challenge a man by challenging yourself, right? You don't challenge a man by pretending to be hard to get or playing games or or anything that looks like being an Authentic or pretending to be someone you're not a man can pick up on that right away, right? He can feel it so you challenge him by challenging yourself something I always say that looks like having really high standards having a full complete life and really like holding that space the empowered feminine Says that boundary knows what she wants and she holds that space and doesn't settle until a man comes in and And shows up with what she wants So it's not about playing hard to get or being a challenge in like a negative sense or an entitled sense But it's about you know really actually Raising your value in your own eyes first so a man naturally sees your value and just Organically feels compelled to come closer and when you over right? Yeah, and let's later on use this the word submissive and some of our later Points here because that's a really powerful point that we can get to yeah The rest of these will be really helpful. Kavita says this is a great topic. Can't wait to hear. Yeah, Matt asked us Just yesterday to come on and do a live stream on this because there's a lot of myths about feminine energy So yeah, we're so so happy to be doing this. So the second myth is a really common one too and that means and that is feminine energy means doing things like Like cooking and nurturing and mothering and taking care of a man's every need a lot of people equate those things With feminine energy where I have the way I was trained and the true sense of some of these things like nurturing for example nurturing involves a lot of Taking action and giving of yourself and providing and taking care if you think of a child or a pet or and you're nurturing it It's actually pretty Masculine quality depending on where you're coming from so a lot of women have this perception that what men really want is Is a woman who is giving and nurturing and just like takes care of his every need And if you've ever tried that you know that that can actually come across like pressure to a man, especially if on Sort of a subconscious level you're you're doing those things because you're hoping to get something in return from him And if you're if you're not getting if you're giving and giving and you're not getting Really the same in return. That's when resentment can start to build up over time So on you leave I always say that however the relationship begins that will continue even if there's a big issue at the beginning of a Relationship that's usually the issue that will end the relationship. It's like the same one. It doesn't really change So you want to be really conscious of how you're showing up at the beginning of the relationship because that will set the tone For the rest of your time together And if you are the one who is if you're watching a movie together And you're the one to continuously get up and and get the you know The water and the popcorn and the wine then that will literally be the rest of your your relationship You will always be the one Moving around the house and serving that man, which is actually not going to help him fall in love with you In fact, it's when he's really doing getting up and using his body and using his physical prowess that he will see you as a higher value woman and You are essentially emanating this this value and this word that the more relaxed and calm and Sensual like in your essence you are the more receptive you are to his actions of love Then he will you are remaining in your true feminine energy. So, you know, and we're moving away from I've talked to a couple people about like that It's not about let's see, how do I say this you that classic model of the housewife, you know, there's a lot of beautiful aspects to I don't know how to say this exactly Stumped a bit, but so let's see The woman Cooking and cleaning like that's what we're coming from right? We all know that we've seen those old videos and movies of that of the classic housewife And we see how it's not necessarily Empowering for the woman It doesn't mean that you know being the the CEO is necessarily the woman in her True power either as long as she's in her feminine energy doing that And she knows how to switch in and out of her masculine feminine energy. That's awesome But you know, we really are creating new paradigm of what true feminine power looks like And so it's kind of between the CEO and that classic housewife who's doing everything for the men of the household We're really moving away from that and really flipping it back into the true into the true power So you may have grown up in a household where you know, you're your mom cooked and cleaned and did everything There's nothing wrong with that, but it's about asking yourself does that feel empowering to me and perhaps it would be beautiful to Experience my partner really helping to serve me as well. And it's not just about, you know doing everything for him Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. I was just reading these comments over here when you were talking to someone else What if you're being pressured to do a sexual act you haven't done before and have reservations yet? So if you're doing something If you're doing something because you're afraid you're gonna lose a man if you don't that is, you know, that's where Back to number one I don't know if you just started watching this live stream But number the first myth about feminine energy. It means just doing whatever a guy wants and being a doormat So you definitely want to stay away from that. So where are you coming from? You know, obviously compromising your values I don't know the specifics of what exactly he wants you to do But if he's pressuring you and something doesn't feel right you want to really listen to that really listen to that Hey everyone in the chat. These are some great questions. Hopefully we can get to them I know we don't have too much time today, but yeah, I love everything on you was saying, you know For most of us the idea of just leaning back and and receiving from a man is such a foreign concept And it doesn't feel natural to us, but once you get used to it It it starts to become like second nature, you know something I always say I know this is a strong statement, but I'm kind of a fan of strong statements is men fall in love when they're giving to us They don't fall in love necessarily when we're constantly doing and giving to them That can often feel like pressure to a guy, right? So super super important to keep that in mind. Should we move on to number three or do you want to can I just suggest? So these the questions about intimacy, you know men really intimacy and sex are an area an arena where men Really feel their power, you know to give to us in that way is an is an Aspect where they can really step up into their power of masculine offering and giving and serving so So And so I want to say, you know, like if you it can be a sensitive topic can be a sensitive subject and in relationship You know it can cause some challenges sometimes and that's okay So it's really important to just be gentle and have the compassion for where both sides are at There's a lot of healing that definitely needs to be done on both the male side and the female side Around intimacy and sex and so one of those powerful things to expect and look for is a man Who is willing to hold space for whatever will come up for you? You know, we have Thousands of years of trauma that are still in our bodies in a in a memory we have these these cellular memories of trauma and so sometimes things will come up and So Over here, we're just reading comments. I know it looks like we're probably staring off into space, but yeah. Yeah Yeah, I love what you were saying, okay, so so what's so beautiful to speak to source like I've sourced this in my own life for example source relationships where you have the opportunity to heal sexual wounds and You know when we're talking about like kind of soulmate love For example soulmate love is not a relationship that will cause more wounds It may trigger a wound But then it will have a strong enough capacity and container that you can talk about that wound together Talk about the trigger that comes up talk about the tears that are streaming down your face and really have it be a safe Environment for you to speak your heart and be intimate and vulnerable About what's really going on so if you're feeling triggered in and in your relationship in some way That's an amazing sign that it's an opportunity for you to heal and grow so but you want to ask yourself and communicate with your partner it and really like ask for there to be a safe space for you to share and if you can't Provide that if he's continuously pressuring you then it may not be a man who is in his true power and by saying no and Being willing to exit that kind of relationship you then basically send the signals and the signs out that That you want something else you want to You're really ready and willing to have a relationship with a partner who is gonna hold space for you Does that make sense to you guys? Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, um Raquel says I love cooking and caring for someone who openly appreciates me Yeah, absolutely, you know, and I know Bill was saying females care and nurture males protect and provide where we see a lot of women Getting into trouble is when they're Giving and doing things because they're trying to make something happen in the relationship, right? I mean I hear from women literally every day who are like kind of Hanging on to a man who's not quite stepping up in the relationship Not giving her the time and care and attention or even commitment that she wants so she starts over functioning Overdoing over nurturing In order to try to make something happen I call it giving to get and that's where it can step over into the masculine territory because the intention behind it is to Make something happen or move the relationship forward and that's when it can really push a man away So just wanted to clarify that. Yeah Rose said did I say Raquel Rose did I do this one already? I love cooking and caring for someone who openly appreciates me Yeah, so giving back to a man is fantastic. Of course, if you enjoy cooking if you enjoy doing some of these things Giving back is great But it's when we're we're feeling empty and wanting or anxious or insecure And we're trying to make something happen and we're giving from that place Hoping we're gonna get something back in return usually in terms of like the relationship, right? That's where that's where yeah, and when there's an expectation That's what we want to move away from like if you're in a relationship and and your partner expects dinner to be on the table Every single night and it gets mad at you if it's not on the table and you put pressure on yourself to be perfect in that way And that's getting into our next one That's when it's not as much of an of an empowered energy in your feminine Yeah, and so and then with the the nurturing and the feminine So it's also really beautiful to remember that just simply in our presence and our energy as women you are creating a gentle loving Feeling about you and when you invite somebody in you and you know some a man embraces you or you're petting a man's Head or massaging or tickling his back or something like that like that energy is it is caring and but it's not It's inherent. It's not an action. It's just it is who you are So it's not it's not yeah, it's it's absolutely inherent just when you're around When a man comes home and you're home and you've been let's say you went to a yoga class and you're you're a couple hours ahead of him And you're just relaxing and he comes into your he comes into your arms and You help him relax just because you're inherently Soft in your energy and that's a beautiful gift to remember. That's what we're bringing is our energy Amazing amazing, okay That's good good segue into myth number three is that is feminine energy means you'd have to be perfect all the time And I don't know if you've seen some of our other live streams and videos together that we've done over on my channel but we talked so much about vulnerability and About not having to be perfect another comment We see all the time in a lot of these relationship advice videos is also women have to be perfect all the time Women always have to do the right things and say the right things and that actually couldn't be further from the truth as well So this is kind of your specialty to do Not being perfect. Yeah that Okay, so men may think and this is my perspective. I mean, there's no right or wrong You know, this is just my sharing and what I feel and what I've witnessed and observed that men Some men may think that they want like that perfect trophy wife next to them and they're looking for that in their life but that I Think a man his true power knows that that's not exactly what he wants men will really value you when you become the most authentic and real Person that you you know when you truly expect Express yourself in an authentic way Which may not always be the perfect trophy wife, you know, but your dynamic and wild and unpredictable That is what initiates a man into his power where he can wield his swords and use his tools to support you and And support to shift and direct and and move you in a sense When you're in that wild and dynamic unpredictable feminine energy, you know, like I've I've felt the moments where it past Relationships my partners have fallen in love with me It's in moments where I just do the most random thing the most unpredictable wild thing, you know And that's in the moment. That's the moment that they fall in love It's not and in fact have had other experiences where I Try to be more perfect and it doesn't work, you know, it kind of shuts that person down or they're not as interested So it's really like being practicing you let it be a practice like the next state that you go on If you're not in a relationship at this at this time You know really practice just letting yourself be useful and be as Dynamic as you possibly can and try not to be perfect and see how he reacts like be funny be silly be random and In my experience men will really fall in love with that. Yeah, I think we've talked about this before in other videos It's those moments when we feel vulnerable it's like you're you're giving him this honor of seeing this deeper part of yourself, right and This plays out in all different stages of the relationship when a man sees that you trust yourself and you love and accept all the Different parts of yourself even the parts that don't feel so good that you don't necessarily want to show to others That's how he knows on a very deep kind of subconscious level. Like oh, she accepts herself That's how I know that she's gonna accept me and all of my insecurities and quirks and things I don't want to you know necessarily show to the world. So that's how you do it Yeah, and I just have this really this thought, you know, there's this this archetype and this avatar that a lot of women are Trying to step into and be but really what that is is like becoming if you try to just be her then you're like every other woman you know, you're not distinct and unique and What will make you a high value woman is when you are Unique it's like a diamond is valuable because it's rare like the things that are the most valuable are rare So if you're trying to fit into the cookie cutter, you're not actually allowing yourself to be rare and and a rare gym like literally So and you may find, you know You're part of a literally city like you're a rare gym and and I've never met a woman like you when you allow yourself to be Connected to your actual truth and authenticity. So there was one more thing I had to say about that, but I can't remember at this moment Yeah, yeah, it's not about being perfect. Being perfect is not where it's at That's not where like the juice is in the relationship, right? Like that can be really boring like, you know, to me Yeah, it's it's um It's like can't what is that phrase like we you're admired for your strengths But we connect with each other through our weaknesses. Was that Brené Brown? Great quote that we connect with each other through our weaknesses And I truly believe that that's what a man is gonna fall in love with you for that's actually kind of like your superpower I've had lots of clients with certain Disabilities or you know things like that where they're so worried like who's gonna love me when I have this thing going on And I help them realize like that's actually a man's gonna see that and it's gonna be one of the reasons Why he falls for you. It's I've just seen that happen over and over again Yes, beautiful and well and with the energy of the masculine and the feminine man wants to dive into the feminine Penetrate and experience the depth and the dement multidimensional aspects of the feminine energy both physically and Energetically and emotionally so if you open your heart and you show the different sides of who you are like the different You know, I just did a training where we go through different archetypes. So there's different, you know, you have the goddess shape ships She's not just one form. She can be You know, she can be ferocious and refined and wild and Beautiful you she you as a woman can be all of these things and that's why you know You have different outfits and sometimes you wear something that feels really elegant and beautiful And sometimes you wear something that feels more edgy or you paint your nails like red one one One week and then like green the next week or light blue the next week We have these different sides of us that we're sharing and it's intimate in a sense So by not being perfect and actually welcoming a man into your multidimensional Who you are multidimensionally? That's an intimate experience and he's diving into an experience of you So it's that's energetically. That's also what's happening when you you know, really open up and be vulnerable Yeah, absolutely. I love it. I love it. By the way, I forgot to say this earlier if you're new to our channel Go ahead and click the button to subscribe to get all of our videos and live streams I'm gonna actually be doing live streams every Friday Afternoon at 3 p.m. Pacific time So make sure to turn the notifications on subscribe to the channel to get access to that where we answer all your questions And let's move on to number four Number four is the myth is that being independent is a turnoff to men Another thing we see in the comments of a lot of videos is oh, so you can't be independent then like, you know Or I'm gonna intimidate men What if I'm too independent and that's not it's just really not true an empowered masculine man It's going to love it when You are in your empowered feminine and empowered masculine as well and being independent is not a turnoff It's when you don't need it's when you're like so fiercely independent that you don't need anything from a man And he feels like there's no room for him to give to you. That's the distinction there All right. Do anything to say on that? Yeah, you know our our independence independence is such an interesting word because as humans We need other people. We really do need other people. There's no way we can step up into our fullest power without help without the support and the help and the Encouragement of other people, you know, so from an early age if we were just alone by ourselves He would not survive so we're wired for connection and and being and yet at the same time being self Having a certain level of self-sufficiency where we have the confidence to create whatever we want That's the independence that we're talking about sorry That's independence that we're talking about it's just that we have that the willingness and the ability to know what we want From ahead in our heart and and go after it and create the life of our dreams from the place of empowerment And and then also know that along the journey We will experience a greater life when we open ourselves up to connection and that's what we're talking about here It's like don't you know when you alienate yourself and say I can do everything by myself And I don't want anybody I don't need anybody That's when there's like a wall and it's really harsh and hard more of a masculine energy Where it's like, okay, I'm empowered and and I'm also going to you know Ask for support or ask for help or call my boyfriend for you know A moment if I'm feeling insecure for a moment where I doubt myself like let me call him and ask him for some words of Encouragement and then we'll love that because they feel like they can support you and and they can help fix it A problem or something like that. Yeah independent isn't it doesn't mean that you don't completely you don't Ever not need somebody. It's yeah Ask any man they will say they love an independent woman, right? They just don't want you know some women that I've worked with and talked to are so like hyper independent so fiercely independent that They have this belief that getting into a relationship with a man would mean giving up some of their identity, right? If they're working 60 hours a week and they have a full schedule And there's no room for a guy to step towards you Like there's no room for his masculine initiative or his masculine action towards you That's when it can turn a guy off and it's not so much that men are intimidated a lot of women think old men are intimidated by me But sometimes it's just they're just don't feel compelled to come closer because it's just like I can't even get to her She doesn't you know, there's no room for me in her life. I just can't get to her So there's nothing to compel him to keep pursuing you. That's what I've seen you seen that as well Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, the more jobs that there are for him to support you in that more More powerful he feels, you know, but you can still be Working towards your dreams and being empowered in that way and it's not going to turn him off. Yeah, absolutely Okay, this is great. We're hoping to keep it to 30 minutes. So Okay, now the fifth minute this one goes along with number four This is the one that we are most fired up about and that is that feminine energy means being weak or Super passive or or the idea that you have to be a damsel in distress in order to attract a man And again out of all these I feel like this is the one that couldn't be further from the truth So yeah, again, we see this so often in the comment sections of a lot of these videos Oh, so you have to be a damsel in distress You can't take care of yourself in order to attract a man And it's just the opposite this whole damsel in distress thing is wounded from my perspective wounded feminine energy It's not empowered feminine energy It's it's this You know not having the motivation or the willingness to take care of yourself or to take care of something in your life It's it's waiting on a man to come in and make everything right and yeah, again That's wounded energy if you're in your wounded feminine energy, you're gonna attract and be attracted to Wounded masculine energy or some other kind of person. That's not like a whole complete person. I really found yeah I mean we have the damsel in distress woven into our subconsciousness with as early as the Disney movies that we watched Most of us watched as as little girls, you know, the the princess that needed to be saved literally saved and That's that is a reflection of more of the wounded fallen feminine energy and paradigm and Being the damsel in distress is very much connected to the victim consciousness that we're healing as women right now So the victim is you know, essentially having a part of us that feels like we need to be Even calling an experience like really traumatizing experiences like actually I Mean I'll say oh, this is very vulnerable But there was a moment way when I was more of a teenager where I was kind of wanting to have Experiences that were damaging to me because I felt like if I was damaged then I would get attention From the guys, you know, I would get that attention and they would want to take care of me And it would be like this dramatic thing that I would basically get my needs met through But that's because I didn't know any other way and it wasn't a true Reflection of my power as a woman and therefore didn't really attract powerful experiences in romance But that can be something that it's very subtle or it can be really intense And you know, we've most of us have had some sort of traumatic experience And it's like really about shifting our way of looking at those experiences of I was the victim to that too I know this can be sensitive but to okay that happened in my life and now I'm choosing to actually, you know, really choose a different way of Really choose a different way to look at that experience and actually become empowered You know one of the most brutal and traumatic experiences of my life A trauma that I experienced was the very breaking point in which I decided that that was no longer I was no longer available for that that that was not something I would ever that would ever happen to me again and it awoke a rage inside of me that actually set me on this path of empowerment and Standing for my value as a woman because I knew my inherent value But the world wasn't necessarily reflecting that and I was calling in those experiences And I was like no this does not get to happen anymore So I moved away from that that damsel victim and was like this is I'm not weak I'm empowered and I get to have a relationship with a powerful man who's going to reflect and Really mirror, you know me at my highest and him at his highest I love that amazing. Yeah, I've had similar experiences not identical to what you're talking about But yeah, it's like this energy takes over and and you and you have empowered masculine and empowered feminine the empowered masculine You know holds the space Perhaps sets that boundary and then the empowered feminine Doesn't settle until somebody steps up and and comes towards her somebody said like all these Comments are popping up so fast. I keep scrolling up because I don't want to miss any of them But um, someone said since I decided I'm buying a house for an investment saving to buy land My current partner is seeing me in such a different light as well. Yeah, absolutely Absolutely. Yeah, that's exactly what we're talking about For number four and five like having having things going on for yourself being able to take care of yourself Is what's going to attract the kind of man who wants to take care of you If you're in this damsel in distress of wounded energy Hoping that an empowered man is going to come save you It doesn't work that way because the empowered masculine won't sacrifice himself Or get cold into wounded energy. He'll he'll be there and support the feminine, of course So he wants the masculine wants that but he won't compromise himself or his boundaries or values For the wounded feminine or for any kind of wounded energy, right? Absolutely. Yeah, and when we meet each other halfway Yes, and it's going to look different ways, you know, we have this belief that it has to be have to be One at 50 50 and show like do exactly the same but the gifts of the Male energy and the gifts of the female energy are totally different So it's about valuing both sides equally and and really acknowledging one another and really expressing and experiencing the gifts that each partner is providing in the relationship And that's when it turns into a truly empowered relationship. And you're not we're not just cycling these wounded masculine and wounded feminine energies. That's more connected to this damsel in distress and Sort of that, you know, I think a lot of men even will think that they want that archetype and that submissive Feminine energy, but there's a difference again between being submissive sub is under, you know sub literally means under So it's be careful about using that word because there's a there is a subtle message that you can be activating in your body when you're Submissive Submissive you're under and that energy will be activated inside of you. So perhaps work with different words such as receptive or Open or we're just going to say receptive. Yeah soft. I always talk about space and softness or receptivity openness You guys I love these comments. These are great. Tiffany said. Oh, yeah shifting your perception and experience towards whatever seems traumatic or damaging to you Stepping into your empowerment. Love it. Oh my gosh. That's so funny Speaking of empowerment, um, Anya and I Created a we have created a series of videos that we're going to be posting Called the feminine empowerment system over on my channel if you guys aren't subscribed to my channel You can search for it Helena Hart or maybe I can post a link after this after this post But yeah, it's we're going to be going into One aspect of your feminine energy in each of the videos So that would be experiencing the present moment feeling trusting allowing and receiving and how these all work, you know in combination with each other So you can come from a super empowered feminine place everyone is saying power someone said wow powerful Yeah, some submissiveness sounds like lack of will and power. Absolutely. Yeah, so if you guys are interested in Taking some of these concepts deeper and really stepping into your true power as a woman that empowered feminine energy Um, they're going to be free. So just come on over to my channel You know make sure you're subscribed and so you won't miss an able we're going to start releasing those in about Maybe two or three days. So yeah, it's like a training and why it's a training of all next week So really really beautiful. We it was it's different than a lot of our other stuff There's there's a different energy to it's been powerful and with the I just have so much to say now about this submissive So, um, you know, even when I think like sexually of submissive energy, there's our World in our society has construed it. There's like been a sexualization to submissive energy and We're actually taking away the power of the feminine when we place this sexualized energy on being submissive because the true power Of the feminine is again, like we said receptive and open And that doesn't mean less than we have associated those energies of leaning back and not taking action And and just attracting as less powerful Than the doing and the being and that and the taking over and taking control control is something that we really value as a as a society especially in this western world so it's like the submissive energy that We we you know, I have certain images that kind of come to mind when I think of submissiveness And like you said Sandra sounds like lack of will and power Again, it's you know, you can experience your power as a woman Like really learning how to be fully open and receptive and soft and and really be seen from a place that is um, you're connecting to your highest self and you and you realize that in that state of total openness and in that state of Complete inventory, you know, you're inviting somebody into your heart That that is your power and it's not below The person who is you know, above you. Let's say. Wow. Yeah, you know what I mean? It's really it's it's so It's subtle and energetic and even spiritual in a sense But it's one of the biggest keys to unlock when we're really having this conversation Um, yeah, I love it. Yeah, Sandra says receptive and open is powerful. Yes. Absolutely. Yeah, that was so power Like that was so amazing. I feel like we should have just made that number six So we obviously have a lot to say about all of this and we don't want to keep you guys on forever and do it Yeah, yeah, it's a mystery. Yeah, absolutely. So, yeah, we have we have so much to say on this We'd love to hear from youtube you guys are watching the replay Feel free to type in your experiences and your thoughts on this in the comment section Thank you guys so much for all your questions and comments. Let me just recap these really quick Thank you so much Tiffany. Awesome. Yeah The five myths that about feminine energy and using it to attract men First one is letting a man do whatever he wants or being a doormat that that's going to attract a man Completely, you know, couldn't be further from the truth The second one is feminine energy means doing things like nurturing and mothering and taking care of a man's every need And if you do those things that's going to attract a guy Obviously, that's not the case The third one is feminine energy means you have to be perfect all the time and uh, you know We talk so much about vulnerability and being your authentic self and and shining out who you are Radiating that out so that the right man sees that knows you're the one right away and wants to pursue you The fourth myth is that being independent is a turnoff Actually, not true at all and the fifth one is Feminine energy means being weak or passive or submissive or you have to be a damsel in distress Or not take care of yourself in order to attract a man So for for all of these the opposite is actually true So you might want to re-watch this over again and of course, um Check out the feminine empowerment system videos are going to be free on my channel Starting within the next day or two. So make sure you're subscribed over there as well I don't want to say anything else over we close out I think just lastly like we are calling it the feminine empowerment system and and that really it does relate to You know our relationship will be a reflection of of us and if you're wanting to attract a powerful You know like saying a power couple like you want to be in that power couple relationship If you want to experience love that is really elevating and feels good You know, it it really does start with the work that we do on ourselves And so becoming empowered to your absolute highest potential Which is what we're this is all about, you know That will completely reflect whether it is in a current relationship or if you're wanting to attract somebody So it's really, you know, it does just begin with us. Absolutely. Yeah, I just can't like sometimes I don't want these to end because I'm like, I just want to keep reading the comments Yeah, someone says yes, this makes so much sense. My partner says The only thing that makes him nuts is when he feels and hears and sees me struggle with fear He's a cheerleader more than I realize. Yeah, absolutely. Um fantastic. So this was great You guys, thank you so much make sure Um to give this video a like and a comment if you enjoyed this Let us know what you think about some of these myths We love hearing from you and check out the feminine empowerment system free on my channel starting to get released Probably within the next few days. So, um, yeah, have a great evening and we hope to talk with you guys again soon Bye