 Aisha says, hi, Matt. I love your videos. I'm at a very complicated state with someone I like. He's sometimes very friendly, then suddenly he ignores me a lot. What does this mean? It could mean a whole bunch of different things. So it sounds like it depends on what's going on and how long you guys have been seeing each other. If you've been seeing each other for a while, it says I'm a very kind. Someone I like. Okay, so it sounds like you guys aren't even actually dating or anything like that. It sounds like he's a friend of yours and you like him a lot and you want something more, but he doesn't even necessarily know that you want something more. Well, I mean, most guys, if I were you, I'd assume that he's attracted to you. I mean, if he's very friendly and then ignores you, it's like he's not pursuing you. He's not moving forward with you. He's probably attracted to you, but he feels like there's something, probably he feels like there's something a little bit missing there, which is why he doesn't pursue you and go after you or try to get you on a date or something like that. And so you just want to be aware of that and realize that that that's what's going on. And what you want is a guy who pursues you and chases you and asks you out on a date and values you enough that he's willing to do that and has enough confidence and self-worth in himself that he's willing to go and do that with you. And then some guy that you like, but isn't pursuing you and ignores you, that's not going to be one of your highest priorities if you're doing all the things that you should be doing in there. And it's very possible that he might start getting a lot more interested in you if you're connecting with him in a different way. So right now, he may or may not be interested, you don't know, and he's not that interested enough that he's pursuing you. If you connect with him a different way, it's possible that he might start pursuing you more if you start giving him clues because it's also possible that he might not realize that you're really that interested in him. And so a lot of guys, they won't pursue something, they won't ask a girl out, they won't try to get you on a date or anything. If you don't give him some kind of indication that you are interested in him because he doesn't want to feel like an idiot, here I'm just going to throw her thing up on the screen here real quick so everybody saw what we're talking about. And yeah, so it's important that you, you know, use my system and do the things that you should be doing in that system, connecting with him in the right way, creating abundance of options and connection and, and, you know, setting yourself up for success and the best way possible. So it could mean a bunch of different things, right? It could mean that he's not really that interested in you. It could mean that he's really interested in you, but he's not, he's not sure that you really like him. It might be that he's, you know, just kind of walking around and trying to see what his options are and he's trying to get some girl to chase him, you know, but it doesn't matter, whatever it is, what you need to be doing is using my system and then it'll get a lot clearer after that.