 Oh, you're a Christian. You probably hate me, don't you? I'm part of the LGBTQ community. I definitely don't hate you, not at all. But you do think I'm a sinner, don't you? Here's the thing. I don't want to weasel around this answer. That's not fair to you, and that's not loving. Yes, I do believe that your behavior is sinful because it's against what God commanded in His Word. Okay, so God's the homophobic one. Look, the Bible says that we need to repent regardless of our specific sin. The problem comes in when we start to find identity in our sin, whether that's fornication or looking with lust or pornography or homosexuality. But I was born this way. We were born in sin with a tendency towards sin, but just because we feel like we were born with specific desires doesn't make them right. We're called to lay down our old identity, the things that used to define us and step into our new identity in Christ. I don't know if I want to do that. Look, friend, regardless of whether you accept this yet or not, I still love you.