 This, like, confrontational, it needs to be just kind of, yeah, I'm relaxed, I'm chilled, we're just chatting, I could just walk off, it's no big deal. Eye contact is really important, and actually I think that although eye contact is important for men, I think it's even more important for women. Women react to it in a much stronger way than a man would. So as a man, yeah, when you have eye contact with people, you can feel a certain intensity from it. You meet someone and they've got really strong eye contact, it makes an impact on you. For a woman it can blow her head off. Most women will say eyes are the most important thing. So when you approach that girl on the street, the first thing that you should be doing for the first, I don't know, 30 seconds is like laser eyes, we call it laser eyes, you make eye contact with her and you don't break it, you just hold that eye contact with a cheeky smile on your face. Eye contact with a cheeky smile, that's magical for a girl. And a game that I used to play, because I used to be very shy, and if I was walking down the street and a girl would make eye contact with me, I would just look away immediately. That was just a habit I had, I just didn't want to make eye contact with girls anywhere. So what I started making myself do was I play a game where when I go out, I'm going to make eye contact with every girl that I can and I'm going to hold it as I walk past them until they break it. And yeah, it was difficult at first, but it made a big difference. It's a lot of fun, I love it. I go out and I'm walking and then the girl's walking towards me and we make eyes and then I just hold it and then I'll smile or she'll smile and then you walk past and if she's the kind of girl that you're interested in, go. And then it's not a cold approach anymore. But even girls that you're not interested in, just play a game, go out and think, right, now every girl that I see, every chance that I get, I'm going to make eye contact and I'm going to hold it either until she's walked past me or until she looks away. And that's how it should be. It should be the man is dominant, the woman is submissive. You make eye contact with her, she looks away. That's naturally how it should be. Okay, the next thing I'm going to talk about is flipping, we call it this flipping the script. Now, this is something that you do after the hook point in an interaction. If you don't know what the hook point is, the hook point is the point in the interaction where she's shown an interest in you. It's that point where you're not suddenly just this stranger on the street. She's asked you a question now. That's what we teach is like, if you're in an interaction and suddenly the girl says, so where are you from? That's the hook point. Now she's interested in you. You're not just this random guy. You're somebody that she will kind of wants to get to know a little bit. So when this happens, what flipping the script means, it means dialing down your energy and making her start to invest. So when you go up to a girl that you don't know, to begin with, you've got to do a lot of talking. I mean, I'm sure a lot of you know about this stuff. You can't just go up and just start asking your questions because she'll be gone in two minutes. So you've got to go up and you've got to make your statements. You may ask a couple of questions, but you're going to be making statements to her, telling her things about herself, maybe telling a story, anything. But you're going to be talking. You're going to be making statements. Now at the hook point, that's the time when you need to start dialing down your energy a bit. Fold your arms. The moment she starts qualifying herself, fold your arms. Keep a straight face. Now people say, oh, fuck folded arms is bad body language. It's closed. But actually, when you do this and someone's talking, it makes it look like you're judging them. And that's what you want. When a girl's talking, you've got to scrutinise her. So she's like talking. She'll be like, okay. What are you talking about? She'll say something. Just you can repeat it back to her with like a sarcastic tone. Like, I don't know, she says, I've just arrived in London. I've been walking around all day and you'd be like, you've been walking around all day. Yeah, it's like you're judging her. And you can literally just do this all the time. And it's so powerful because it's completely the opposite to approval seeking. You know, it's like, I'm not agreeing with everything she says. I've got my own opinion. And yeah, I could do this. And I could just disagree with everything she says, because it's fun. But actually, I find the best thing is actually just to be honest. So when you talk to someone, when you meet them for the first time, there's going to be things you disagree on. So have an opinion. Just say it. Don't hold back. Don't sense it yourself. Keep your body language relaxed. When she starts to invest, file down your energy, fold your arms, lean back, look at her with a straight face. The poker face, the straight face is really important. You know, I see so many guys just like smiling all the time throughout a whole set. They're just smiling, smiling, smiling. It's not normal. You know, when you talk to your friends, when you talk to your best friend, you're not smiling all the time. Yeah, you'll smile when it's appropriate. You may laugh a little bit when it's appropriate. But you don't smile all the time. You know, so just have a straight face. And what I've found is this stuff is so powerful. Like, it's amazing, but it works. It makes women attracted to you when you're talking to her. Just relax, fold your arms, and look at her with a poker face. You know, it's really, it's powerful stuff, trust me. Another thing I like to do is I'll call out what she's thinking. So, if I approach a girl and she looks at me in a kind of funny way, then I will cut myself off from what I'm saying, and I'll turn it into a joke. I'll say, I love how you're looking at me like, who the fuck is this crazy guy? Yeah? And then she laughs, and it immediately diffuses the situation. You know? And I actually use this all the time. If she looks at me suspiciously, you know, I say, I love how suspicious you are. What's going on? And she'll laugh, you know? If she's making it really difficult for me, if she's not giving me anything, you know, I'm plowing and plowing, and she's just not giving me anything, then I'll say it. I'll say, I love how you're just, you're not cutting me any slack. You're making this so tough for me, you know? But you say it with like a cheeky smile and they laugh. And it works so well because you're like, you've diffused the situation, you know? So just remember that phrase, I love how.