 Okay, what do you have for me on the topic? All right, I'm Asia, I'm 31. I live in Brooklyn, New York, and I'm divorced. Yes, I do, and I'm also on my current divorcee. My first husband, because that's who my daughter's dad is, he is a middle six figure earner, he's a physician. So I feel like personally I present myself well to men in that financial bracket. Okay, what's the question? My question is, how is it after coming out of a marriage like that, do I then present myself once again to men of that financial bracket? Because you're saying that- Let's get right to it. How old are you? 31. And your ex has him dead, what? He's a doctor, he's a psychiatrist. Psychiatrist, okay. All right, see that's the difference. When we say doctor, you know, medical doctor, physician, internist, surgeons, that's where the real money is. Psychiatrist, psychologist, they do well, but they ain't rich. That's what I said, he's a middle six figure earner. All right, so and you said you were married twice? No, he is my first and only husband so far. And how long ago were you married? Up until three years ago. Okay, so you're 31? Yes. You got married at 18? Yes. Were you raised by mom and dad? Mom at home and dad not at home. So no. My mother and father were married, my father lived out of the state working, so yes and no. How much older was your husband than you? We'll say 35 years. Okay, I just need the truth. No, he is much older than me. So it's 53? Currently, yes. Okay, why was an 18 year old man, a 53 year old man, did your father hook you guys up? No, he's my father's younger than him. For me, it was a personal choice. I was not raised in a household where I had to love or be with any particular race, religion or sex. If I'd have brought home two palm trees and said that this is what I wanted to be with for the rest of my life, there wouldn't have been any question. That's a damn shame. It's a damn shame. That's a damn shame that you could bring home two palm trees and we think that's okay, but okay, was your ex-husband black? Yes, he was. All right, 53 years old, you could pick him. Great, why is that divorce? My husband got sick with cancer and that changed him and it changed the dynamics of our marriage. There was nothing that I did not do. Hold on, hold on. Go ahead. Oh, dumb. I'm going to be very specific with the next few questions. Did he have chemo or radiation? He had a form of chemo, which is called BCG. It's an injection. I know. I know what cancer is. I'm a cancer survivor. Oh, okay. Is he in remission? Yes, he is. And you divorced him and who filed for divorce? I did. Why? I became mentally, emotionally and financially abusive. What does that mean? So mentally, I was degraded. I was made to feel less than I was talked down to. Emotionally, as a partner and a spouse, I was emotionally neglected. And financially funds began to be withheld from me that would have normally never been an issue. God almighty. Okay. It's amazing how many women who filed for divorce seem to be so abused. But the answer to your question, no, no. Any man who's a Henry, hearing this would be wise to run. None of this sounds appealing. Do you understand why? That's the reason why I'm calling and asking. Well, ma'am, you got married at 18 years old. So if you're 30, he should be 65. I'm 31, so he's 66. Right. Okay. So for everybody at home, she was 18, married to a 53-year-old. And he took care of you just fine up until he got sick. Correct. Then when he was fighting for his life, you became a snowflake. No, when he was fighting for his life, I became a warrior. Uh-uh. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Okay, I'll give you that one. But I'm gonna need you to understand what you just said. He was fighting for his life. What war were you in for your life? No, for my husband's health. Ma'am, you just said you were in your husband, you divorced your husband because he became financially abusive. Which I, wait. Don't over talk. Sorry, can I? Don't over talk. No, the man was going, okay, he was being ejected with poison. He was going through quite a bit. So you know what? He's allowed to go through some. Was he on pregnant zone also? No. Okay, was he on any kind of steroid? No, he refused. Ha, ha, ha. But he was still injected in poison. So ma'am, here's your story. I got married to a man at 53 years old, 18, and this man took perfect care of me. He was older than my father. Do you have to work? Did you have to work when you were married? No, but I chose to. No, you didn't have to, no, no, no. You chose. You didn't pay no real bills. You didn't have no skills. Knock it off. He was the money, he was the money. See, he actually saved you from yourself, and then when he got sick, you got, are you a Christian? No. Where'd you get married? We got married at a courthouse. Who, and what vows did you eat? Sickness and in health. So death goes by the general vows, the general vows. From the Bible. If that's where they get them from in a year. Well, you know where they get them from, you're a married woman. And you said them. And then when he got sick, you bailed. No, I did not. But I hear what you're saying. No, you did. You just don't want to hear it that way. You left. You're sick. No, I didn't. You divorced your cancer, your cancer-suffering husband. Once he was in remission, after I died. Oh, okay, okay. So I didn't, I would never leave anybody like that because I would hate to be left like that. Right, right. There was not a doctor's appointment. So are you working right now? Currently, yes. Okay, and what do you do for a living? I own my own private consultancy business. How did you get the money to run that business? By working other jobs. I've been a flight attendant. So I saved my own money. Okay, so I want to get straight. You mean your ex-husband didn't have any money, Ty. He didn't help you get to start your own business. You didn't take any money from or resources from the marriage? No. When I left the marriage, all I wanted was my name, my car, and my daughter's college account. That's it. Your car and college account. Okay. Yeah, I got other people in here. I'm going to just tell you right now. No, man. Nope. My spidey sense is attingling, and I'm sitting all kind of lines, deceptions, half truth. And at 18 years old, 31 years old, I'm to be honest, man, this is a whole mess. Even the way you're talking, it just sounds like, ugh. You divorced your ex, and what you think you're just going to pick another one? Why would anybody want to deal? Let's see. I'm intelligent. I'm motivated. I have my own business. I maintain my own lifestyle. I'm not understanding the full scope of your question. Well, see, that's the problem. Now, ain't it? You just described yourself as a man. See, you got to understand what the men want. And nothing you said in there was anywhere close to being feminine, beautiful, inspirational, caring, loving. The way you're talking almost sounds like a dude. Better go back to your husband. That's all you got. Especially in New York, what part of New York? Brooklyn. Oh, yeah. No, it's done. And how tall are you? I'm 5'4. How much are you weigh? 180. Goodbye. No, ma'am, no, ma'am, no, ma'am, no, ma'am. 5'4, 180, and all that attitude.