 Unlike a red flag, a yellow flag means proceed, but with extreme caution. So let's talk about professions. This is where it gets interesting. I've seen a bunch of lists over the years of professions that you should avoid if you're dating, you know, women who do these jobs are more likely to be or they're more likely to be problematic, whatever the case may be. And some of those same professions are on my list, but I want to give some reasoning and some context that you guys may or may not agree with. Professor number one, entertainers. I would tell you, I would tell your son, I would tell my little brother, I would tell any young man that I come across, they a way from women in the entertainment industry that goes double for actors, that goes for singers, that goes for influencers, that goes for models. They a way. And the reason is, let's look at actors, for instance. Personally, I believe every actor is off their meds. I think to be an actor, you have to be off. You have to have some screws loose. Situations like Heath Ledger, where he got so enamored and so involved in the character that killed him. We've seen actors who are known for method acting. Where like they embody that character even in real life and they get lost in that character to be a good actor. You have to be insane. You have to be borderline bipolar because you have to not only maintain who you are, whatever who you are is, you have to be able to literally step in other people's skin, whether it's a person that's actually existed, like, let's say you're playing a historical figure or whether it's a fictitious character, you have to be able to articulate their fears, their concerns, their their wants. And personally, I don't think normal people can do that. At least do that well. I pity the fool. Thank you. That's enough. We'll call you. Thank you for the opportunity. So when I think of dating an actress, I think that's potentially dating somebody who play whatever character she needs to play. And that is scary. She could play a serial killer. She could play a victim. She could manipulate you or the situation. And we've seen this play out with the likes of Jada Pinkett and, you know, some of the things we've seen in the news. So I would say absolutely perceived of caution with actresses. Now, singers, it's a similar thing because as a singer, if you want to be successful, unless you're a songwriter, I think that is the exception. But if you're a singer, you want to be the next Beyonce. You have to also kind of be an actress, right? And Beyonce's case, she had to create a character, Sasha Fierce, which is her stage persona. And when she's in that persona, she's not Beyonce. No, she's somebody else, whether that means she let something else take over or that's some spiritual shit. Or, you know, she's just playing that character. But furthermore, to be an effective singer and musician, you have to be able to connect emotionally with the audience. How do you sing a sad song when your life is going good? I have a theory that some actors, musicians, actually seek out turmoil to fuel their art. Because nobody wants a happy song, they want another heartbreak song. So subconsciously or consciously, if I want to be a successful singer, I have to seek heartbreak so I can really method act and I can really embody this emotion to connect with my audience. So again, if you're looking for a serious partner and potential mother to your children, I would stray, I would stray away from, especially those two categories. Influencers are close second. And I want to make a special acknowledgement of influencers who call themselves male advocates. Don't trust them, my fuckers. Because it kind of goes back to the women who I only get along with men. I take that with a grain of salt. But influences in general, the ones who they got to take a picture of the meal, they're not watching a concert you just paid for. They're one of the unpaid videographers. Their life is about making virtual people jealous, giving virtual people FOMO. They don't know how to actually enjoy the experience. Their enjoyment comes from other people's jealousy of their perceived enjoyment of the experience. I remember I was at a hookah lounge once and I saw this super attractive girl chilling. You know, just smoking hookah, just vibing to the music. Then she pulls her phone out to record a video and instantly is now looking like she's having a time of her life. If that's not the definition of disingenuous, I don't know what is. And even with my small influence, having been around other people who call themselves influencers, there's something about the personality type that is just off-putting to me personally. Now, if you're a guy who wants to monetize your family, your relationship and everything is for public consumption, cool. But for me, and if I was giving advice to the young boys, especially nowadays, I would say, stay away. I would say stay far, far away. Let's talk about models. And this is difficult because as men, we, for biological reasons, for status reasons, for ego reasons, want to capture the most beautiful woman that we can find. I would submit to you that if a woman is over an eight, proceed with caution. Proceed with extreme caution. Sounds personal to me. I can't do this, homie. Number one, you have to understand that beauty is not a virtue, especially when it comes to bone structure and physical stature outside of somebody who worked out for it. It's something that they won the genetic lottery. They got it for free, they didn't have to work for it. As a society, though, we treat beauty as if it is a virtue. So a lot of these people get certain privileges, we call it pretty privilege, because of something that they just got. And it skews their interactions with other people, because it skews them into thinking that their primary value is their looks and other people's access to being around their looks, whether just physically as friends or whether sexually, and how other people can consume and exploit them. Let me just say, you are putting the pussy up on this pedestal, you're just building the pussy up, man. What are you even talking about? Building the pussy up, what does that mean? So you live your life like that up to the age 18, 19, 20, 21. You're getting on boats. You're getting gifts from rich men. You're getting flown here. You're getting all your bills paid. You didn't have to develop any marketable skills. You didn't have to develop a personality. You didn't have to be interested. Imagine what kind of person you become. Entitled, of course. Selfish, of course. Solipsistic, of course. Now there are rare exceptions where you'll find a woman who's just dropped dead gorgeous and is just a normal human being. That's the exception, not the rule, fellas. Because when you start getting up into those nines and tins, they're usually cuckoo. The danger zone. This is your redheads, your strippers, anyone named Tiffany. Hairdressers. This is where your car gets keyed. You get a bunny in the pot. Your tires get slashed and you wind up in jail. They've usually seen the worst of human nature because they're relegated to people who can afford to consume them. The billionaires, the millionaires, the casting agents, the people who work for certain companies and paying for their trips and putting them on yachts and putting them on magazines and things like that. Those are usually predatory people. So even if she had the potential of being a quote unquote good person, she's compromised. Now again, there are rare situations where she was just raised really well. She had a strong father, a fantastic mother. Despite the fact that she was genetically gifted, she understood how the world was gonna see her. And she focused on becoming a person of character, not just an object for consumption. So again, fellas, I would say six, seven, eight, that should be your aspiration. Anything over that, she might be 20, but she's lived the life of a 50-year-old woman. She might be 25, but she's done drugs that you've never heard of. She's seen things that you would never believe. All because of this gift and curse that is pretty privileged. And again, everything that glitters is not gold. And real gold doesn't always glitter. Now, if you just tight with God, he might give you like a solid woman, but she's beautiful. If you're God's chosen warrior, he might throw you a nine. But again, when you get into nine and 10 territory, I'm telling you, you don't want that. You do not want that. And man, we cannot afford to operate as if we're the exception. That segues into waitresses, bartenders, hookah girls, fitness trainers. This category is what I would like to call soft core modeling. Especially like if you're waitressing at places like Hooters or Twin Peaks, I think there's some other like knockoffs of those brands. You see the girls wearing short shorts that are pretty much thongs. Even the bartenders, the hookah girls. Because it's less about their actual customer service and their ability to be an effective waitress or bartender or hookah girl, but it's about their sex appeal and their ability to inspire men to want to show off and buy more than we would usually buy. Or drink more than we would usually drink, or tip higher than we would usually tip. That's why these restaurants and these businesses exploit the female essence. No, no, no, no, I'm better get bottles right now. Ladies and gentlemen, Marcus Miles has just bought the entire bar tonight. So if you are dating a woman who falls into the nightlife industry in some way, shape, or form, I would encourage you to proceed with caution because again, she is encountered with the worst aspects of not just masculinity, but humanity. People are not at their most human and ethical and consider it when they're intoxicated. They're not, especially not us as men. So you experience years of that working as a bartender, as a hookah girl, as a waitress. Also, while your employer is exploiting your sex appeal, it's absolutely going to skew the way that you view men and the way that you view yourself. You might actually now start parading yourself as a commodity. And we see this with strippers in the whole nine, part of the reason why they're off limits is because they are compromised. Now again, this is a yellow flag only because it's complicated, especially like waitresses and things like that. I would give a little bit of grace, but like it's something to keep in mind because those men who are going to Hooters and Twin Peaks, some of them might be going for the wings, but some others are going to see your girl's titties or your girl's ass. That's the life you want. Cool. But if not, it might be a reason for you to take your business elsewhere. Now with fitness trainers, their body is their business, but we see some fitness trainers and it's all over social media. It's like, you know what you're doing, lady. You know exactly what you're doing, lady. Are squats the only exercise you do? Is your butt the only thing that you're selling? Is this outfit the only thing you could work out in? You know what you're doing, lady. So going back to that attention seeking, going back to that self commodifying, something to be wary of. Also be wary of women who job hop a lot. They tend to fear commitment. They tend to be irresponsible. They tend to not have any stick-tuitiveness. They tend to get bored easy. That's a common theme. I hope you're picking up on. Imagine trying to build a life with that type of person. And again, there's a difference between job hopping and you're increasing your salary with every hop and you're growing your career and things like that. Versus last week, she worked at Hooters. This week, she works at Twin Peaks. Last week, she worked at Foot Locker. This week, she works at Foot Action. That is a sign, even amongst men, of an irresponsible person. Either she's a terrible employee or she just can't make up her damn mind to save her life. I do not need this, okay? My man has to. Nurses. Nurses make the list of female professions to avoid a lot amongst male circles. And I actually have female friends who are nurses who actually confirm these things, especially like travel nurses. First of all, they say that medical professionals are very promiscuous, more promiscuous than we would think. They're also very unhealthy, ironically. But just like Grey's Anatomy, there's a lot more sex that happens in hospitals than we realize. Some people are doing 48-hour shifts. They're seeing their coworkers every day. They sleep at work and the whole nine stuff happens. And I think when you also combine that with like the nurse archetype, which is somebody who is deeply nurturing, sees themselves deeply as a healer. Shout out to Jada Pinkett. They might associate their sexual energy with their healing ability as well. Just something to think about. A new study shows that nurses are more likely to cheat on their spouses than athletes and even musicians. This is according to the survey done by the dating app Ashley Madison. And Ashley Madison, of course, is an app for cheating spouses. Also, I've seen that some men have complained that when their girl became a nurse and she started making a certain amount of money, she no longer respected him. She started talking to him any kind of way, combined with the stress that she's getting from work and all that. So if you are planning on dating a medical professional and medical professionals, especially doctors and nurses, they'll tell you these things. It's not a walk in the park. And it's incumbent upon us to be at least cognizant of some of these things. So we're not anticipating La La Land. Next category, hairdressers, cosmetologists. For whatever reason, these professions tend to house a lot of women who consider themselves empaths, whether because a lot of their job involves talking to their clients, whether because, again, that nurturing nature, making somebody look good is part of rehabilitating that person. And in my opinion, empaths tend to be really irresponsible people because they don't think about outcomes as much as healing. They end up with the shitty dudes because they're trying to heal them. They end up accumulating a whole bunch of trauma because they think that their job is to soak up all the negativity of the world and goddess task them with this duty and they just hold it for themselves. And again, you see those personality types in hairdressers and cosmetologists. And often those professions weren't their first choice. It was a fallback. It was, I wasn't good at school. The thing that I really wanted to do, I failed at it but I always knew how to do hair. I always knew how to do makeup and now I've been able to build a business for myself which is good, which is resourceful. However, you find certain consistencies in the personality types of women who fall into these professions. They tend to be involved in drama a lot. And women who might be listening, talk to your hairdresser. She been through some shit. She's saying some shit. She's going through some shit right now. She always has a story to tell. They tend to be irresponsible whether financially or in their personal choices. They tend to be dishonest. Just like a few weeks ago we were talking about business owners in Atlanta because of the whole Keith Lee thing. If you talk to women they'll tell you what these hairdressers are doing. You got to come washed and with your hair half done before I'll even see you. And I'm going to be late to our appointment even though I'm the hairdresser. And I'm going to have a bad attitude. And I might not do the style the way that you want it but I have a no refund policy. So again, fellas, be wary of it because you're going to have to be the one that that personality type comes home to and brings the weight of their bullshit and other people's bullshit too. Again, these are yellow flags not red flags but real estate agents. I found especially in cities like Atlanta they tend to be retired strippers for whatever reason. Now instead of leveraging their looks to sell wings or crab legs now they're leveraging their looks to sell homes. Again, be wary of a woman who is socialized to exploit herself for financial gain. Because very often that never stops. Forex and MLM girlies. I remember some years back some women that I went to college would reached out to me about becoming a part of a company called iMarketsLive that nobody hears about anymore but it was a multi-level marketing company. And it was about forex trading but it was really about recruiting people to forex trade. First of all, multi-level marketing is always going to be a scam. But again, the reason why personality types like this gravitate to things like MLMs because MLMs hook people by selling a lifestyle. You get to be a boss. Look at this Rolls Royce. Look at this mansion that we rented to shoot this promo video. So it begs the question, is this a girl who is interested in substance or is this a girl who's interested in aesthetic? Because guess what? That's going to govern your household. That's going to govern your relationship. It's going to all be about how we look to other people, not if we're happy. She's only going to cook when other people are coming over, not because she wants to take care of her man and her family. The house might only be clean when other people are coming over because again, she cares more about what other people think than what people on the inside think which should be a woman's primary responsibility. And ultimately, she might be a scammer. Those are the women who might line you up. Those are the women who don't even know how to tell the truth because the lie is so much more fun. And whether it's a lack of integrity or lack of competence, this could potentially be a very, very, very dangerous woman. Send this to your boys. Have conversations about it. Share stories. Father, send this to your sons. Have conversations about it. Share stories. And as we continue to elaborate on some of these conversations, my hope is that we can establish a strong and prosperous black community full of strong men who are intentional about the women that we choose and the behavior that we reward or that we stay far away from. Thank you guys for watching. Leave it in the comments. Run these likes up. Hit the subscribe button on your way out. Check out some of the other content. And I'll see you guys in the next one. Peace.