 The difference between providing and being used Yes Kwa wana jwefizuri sana Kuna time si siu provide ni kawana hube Always Nakuna time tuna tumi wa Yonu wupuli Kwa wana tema Nizi tuna jkulia vibaya Watan kwa mbe Kuski zamade muki skia wama kuleta kutukama iho Yo wana naku set up Eh? Eh? That's a setup, it's a trap It's a trap How is it a trap? The trap What do you need a man to provide? What I need? What? See whichever Anything I need for me to survive Eji Eji Um You know it depends with how our You know our relationship is So for example if you're providing my rent So you're paying for my food Or you know First of all rent You cannot Rent cannot be provided You have to stay Ka mone si kuangu dali parendiangu But no si kuako S S S S S S S S S Yes Mami mimi nama buwana Karibu katika Espion bars Fred's Vibre Today we're going to have Good conversation And to go na chibukizia pa Chibukizi thanks for sparing time for us Hey my guy Thanks for sparing time Yes thanks for using that one We appreciate Off your busy schedule Thank you so much Thank you so much guys For this work on Amaliza Chai Fid your body guys Fid your body guys Fid your body Taka kuskua kama ala wazili Wazili bi Wazili bi wazili wa na Ok ok ok ok ok ok Ok grafiki tujumu Amaliza Ha na'kuja na mtungiyano Ha na'kutini pikuwa pike Na shikulu bana pro Hema chana kwa za mpikonanya nasaapa Na isana beti Wana kuhilata gaba jubika Sisu wana wana Whom sjuistu lunu ako seyanini Kamatumi ma kuna argument Si po sana the difference between providing And being used Yes Kwa wana jwa vizuri sana, kuna time sisi wu provide nika wana hube Always Na kuna time tuna tumiwa Unu ukweli Awa na tema, desi wu na jikulia vibaya Wata nkwa mbe Muki skizama demo, kuki skia wama kulite kitu kama iho Yawana na kusetap That's a setup, it's a trap It's a trap How is it a trap? What do you need a man to provide? What I need See, whichever, anything I need for me to survive Um, you know, it depends with how our, you know, our relationship is So for example if you're providing my rent or you're paying for my food Or, you know, all the kind of things that rents provide Rent cannot be provided We have to stay Kama nesikwamu daliparenti amu But nesikwako But tuna tumiwa Kama atu jawa wana And you know we have an intention of commitment in the future And I pay in your rent Yes That's provided So you want to live Kwa wana tumiwa Kwa wana tuwana lipa Kwa kwa kwa tuwana lipa Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa Girlfriend allowance Girlfriend allowance Yes Nana perewa ya kutu Girlfriend allowance Iko Kwa niya ni ni? E Manthli allowance Kwa ni pocket money niya ni? Yandu ya kuenda ni tengenezwe ma Kata Kama mi mi ni me kwa nesikwetu Nesikwetu wama baka mkwaki npprovidea And then we start dating It starts getting serious Na uwe mo nyoma mo nanda kuni pprovidea Ndiya mi ni babayako Wata ni wambia Rudi kwa babayako Amaliza kazi anapa kufanya kasi pprovidea Na umuambia Na umbia Na umuambia Tuna panga kwa wana mi mi nawe So in the meantime Udaka apu mbaka ni kueshua Apuana paka you show him You have to show the intention You have to show that you can take care of me I can show you that In the meantime You are expecting me to do Wifely deed in your house Wait, what are the basic needs? Food, shelter and clothing Unikazi amuzae ringa apu kwanza Clothing is part of that Yaa Ula kaka Ula kaka ukuza uni Oka kuna vacation Eee Sosa bro kama you can afford vacation Bono usini pelike Una duwa shidani If you cannot afford That's a problem But if you can afford Why shouldn't we live a good life? But pay ono duwa kama ni vacation Pay ono ni consider Dua kama na kupu provide dia Consider pay emotions Skiya ni kwa mbie Kama ni vacation Niza afford But nao Juna kuded na na raka kukua Nii provide Mi mi monye nawe Twengini toende vacation Ama Skiya Skiya ni kwa mbie Nii enda mombasa Nii kwa na kupu provide dia Food, shelter na badu na raka niene nawe Mombasa Kwe po ho utaki kwa ena na mi mi Skiya ni utaki kwa ena na mi mi Ama ni kwa toa pesa What is the problem? The problem is Because it's an investment It's an investment Ia kwa siye emergency Wew kwa saawa Pa na sii kwa saawa Na takapia mi kwa enjoy Bona wew enjoy Enjoy yama kumunitu mi ya Niki ni ni wa say Kwa ni wew if there is a sense of marriage Kwa ni kwa lizi Bona takapia kwa na mi Bona takapia nawe vacation Mi pi anjili pi ekibi ango Honest opinion Mama kwa moi pere kwa dubai Mama anguna Mama kwa pere kwa dubai Bona takapia wupati e Bona umu tuza Bro, kwa sabapu mi mi siyo mama yangu And I'm sorry mam I'm not you Ni mi mi ni mi mi This is what I want for me They brought up So apart from you people using us You are new No we are not We are telling you the real thing But you have to understand some things If I am Umeni pata Umeni pata Umeni pata Uwe wuku wuku kachia I was at a different level Like you could clearly see I'm at a different level Alas usu wun takatina mi mi While you are dancing Now I have to calm down Calm down to your level To your level That is wrong happening So see you are cutting Tata tata us chana ma skini Tuna wongatuna kwa seya Lakin ni siyo ni decisionia po bro What is your decision? Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product Umeni jifanya product We are the prize We men are supposed to be chased Atabibi liye inasema Muwanaume anafa apende bibi ake Then muwanamke Asubmit So submona nini munataka kwondo kia Kita buchamu Yeah we cry Wait wait what submission Submission is taking care of your man How? Una provide needs Zaki ambazo anafa Unam shubuli tia Tia Tia Tisi ni watua Tenyunataka Tenyunataka Tenyunataka Azaman We are the one you are We serve you Azaman Asi ni kwanbi azebitu Una kuja home Una kuji tu Una kuja nimi Buja kwaza Uti to na kawangwadi amali Buja kwaza nimi Kusabizuji Yes Niku nani piyana kwebizu Ya ni ni mefungo hotel ni kwa yumba Ni nabanya ni kubeleke mombaza Yiyosini restaurant We have a problem We have a problem We really have a problem Because marriage is of emotional support Companionship Naile submissiveness Kwaibu sasa ni ni mnangalia Kwaza kumatiroli Kwaza kumatiroli Kama mimi nagecholia Kwaima sema vacation Mba sema kwanza waka maut japanda matatu Miskupandise matatu Sasa wu wana shuwali Sinashida You are very specific Unataka ni kunu liage ma gumzuri Niku peregesa loli Ya pesa mingi Eizu ni zaku Nini me uliza tu Wew na nifania ni Wew na unataka kufania wa ni ni Urejo ni atamjuangi kaji na ataka Ni ni muna ataka ni ni Niki sema na nakaizama matatu Na ni That is provision Mimi mone ni kanda kujitolea tisu na debt Mimi na jili piya ni ni na jili piya kila kitura Nabi nifania kila kitura Jili utaka na kibunisa na Uta ni kitu Uta inia miya kitu ni kakufania ma ni ni Kwa ni iri hu trafi liukiburi Niku sa pa unataka niku na bunafania niku Uta fiyami na jisi Apaana Anaji shubuliki wewe u shubuliki Ni naka k�u oliza suwa Uniza No, unataka kufania Unataka kufu nyamaze kwenyumba Na get Ni nkise yungesana sayi Na get Unyamaze tu Na get That is what I want Are you going to submit like that? Kwanine ni ntapili kabu4ne ni kama ni niki Na just say If that's what I want, whenever I say I want Qikeja, I provide anything I want to ask God. So contact me, it's ok. So if they say that K 같a, we'll provide. IfBut already the same thing, we can exchange the upgraded one together. So you are clever in my word? Clevari Modern age clever Ken wajis keki na nasa Amonu kiki ki kuwadwe isa ana Iho it's not a issue Because if we get a job that we'll do Why do we submit? Submit rea ni But submit kwa yung huma Kutii Kuti ya ni Why we submit? You know Kiki kujo wana ni wana ni kia imagine Sini na hona ni you want the next? Oni pika kakulm ni po Nga wajin mili ki takata trip Singapua... So how this thing works? No no no no no no guys Before to puthoshi want nine chi so kして matakafu ulyza Next year So kitu ni me get Uta ni iekievous ni ken brake Uta ni iபurnikumib Produク漆aa atiego kitu Ute Nizang nifu조, hini isлей So that's a value to me now doing everything that you want. That's what I'm getting in return. Why are you guys being unappreciative? Let me tell you, taking care of a house or anything. You know you guys, muna kwa mga mechkulia, bitutuna faina ni kama, ni kitu ibure sana. Sipu, na uje yo, how ita kwanani ni? Ita kwanani, uta komendi ka house helper. Not necessarily, not necessarily. Naki di piya, anawa nomemba wa taketa mabibi zawa teseke. One hour gil, one hour giri house managers. What is the problem with your queen living a soft life? Okia onli ya kodige ha ni komisya. Bin yo companion. Bin my companion. I'm very emotional. Aka ni gaba yazana, aka dey maha. I am very emotional. Laka merebu. Laka merebu ye. One hour gira naki, wuza hapa story. He want to change me now. We are just asking bro na amtam jibu. What is amtam jibu? No, as we are just clear. Nye mma sema kuna bitutuna faina ni fanya. And as we feel that is being used. Then we ask the simple question. If we do those things, what is there in return? Ati muna ni ami uta ni chemshia maji ya kuoga. Ati yo ati yubi ya companion. Ati uta ni sheka ibitu kiwa na movie. If you want us to reverse roles. Ni ni mna takani ni ebu wa twambia mna takani ni. Before I tell you what I want. Let me ask you a question. What if I provide for you by there. I take you to Dubai. I give you the best life you can. And then in return we agree that babe if you are going to do this to me I am going to give you everything that you want. Na ni mma merebu mga nga liya ni kawana manze. Sia zi kwa na familiar ya mga manze. Nataka wuana de mingini. So na naka wuana ni alau. Do you know that is the easiest thing you can ever do? Let me tell you. As long as you are providing. Now if you are going to do this to me then I offer you the best life you can. Second floor, second wife. If you want to make sure that you don't get hurt. It is not about comfort. Upwa muna. Kwa wuana. Let's make sure your sister gets loose. Howna? Oh. Respect. Respect. Respect. Nisha na ni uchukwe wa willi ala sasatu na wili So it's not cheating it's big growth Eh? It's disrespect It's respect It's not cheating it's respect Na jyadia piwa weni ya wili ya Jyadmeni ya ambi ya Na jywa ukwa hii nyu mba So when I'm not providing according to you you feel like I'm not providing enough I don't have a right to bring a second wife No you do not Ata bibilia kuhan zote zime kata But miki kuhia lila kituna taka You are allowed Ata kuhan zime na zime U na nipa will providing your respectful Bring in a second wife is not cheating You are honest you have said this is what you do And I'm providing If you are all comfortable And providing that you've refused it cannot be a basic need So I'm not just to be food I'm not just to sell You are providing according to your capacity As long as watu wa teseiki Kuteseika ni ni ni Una zi kuna teseika kwa viti Una daka kubebona Range Rover Una zi kwa Range Rover Una zi kwa Range Rover na ni mze Una kupigona moshi Una teseika How long How long Una zi kwa Una nga nga stepwa maduba every week Bata nga nga na ekonomi Bata me realize kuna watua na ekwa Una daka kudabi Ata ni mimi Nini nituwaze Mi ni dem Niko chini Niko chini kiasmin maskini Nuna plesu tanpeleka Nona apun kukonfutibo Napia mimi niko kukonfutibo Nuna plesu tanpeleka Una nga ay zi Bata mora tufkisha na yapo Baka maka nga nga nga nga nga nga Naka min mzea pula inga Mora tufkisha na yamali Na pelesiapupeleka na Nona nimi nituwaze Nona mabezi Mimi Kwe tu Nasa zi wako happy Nasa zi jai onatio na taka pelesiwa Bata nga yapo Nuna Nga nga na saba kompani Nika kwa ni kumutu Nga nga nga kudabi Nga nga kudabi Nga nga kudabi kwa nii nii, una cheki, it's all of it is in amata na kwa it's awa uta amka, iwa nena isa leo, ame posta kwa sa dori nii kwa se guni mega presya, guni amia, tiyana kasiyesi kwa lakasa dori nii kwa lakasa imara apa na butita, you're making this thing sound materialistic and that's not the whole point it's not, you're making it sound materialistic and the whole thing is, are you provided emotional support, physical support, are you there? Enojio mizu supports nii kikikwa mii na kupenda nani, mii niya tamja tuwambia, what do you want? ebu tuwambia nii sasa Kwa chang nikuwambia kwa aa na kwa na butita... Yes, what do you expect in return? kwa nani nobu an kuwansa butita e mii muhama dei mwa duwe eeeeeee tuzei mii iu kitu ii wak kwa nii kiku tuwambia kutuna taka nii kitu ii wak badehuei nii ku provide environment tu kona wa tuwoi wa willi wana raka kupela kuwa school fees wana raka kwa na zile xiulezen nii awuna taka tazaka na mapesesaka wana raka ngu mpiya wana raka wana raka life So, would you...sa sa nakuana provide ya kwa toto na na rudi bada na na ku provide ya bada? That is logic. Bona mli zalisha wa toto kama you cannot provide for them. Tuwambi eni ni ninajaka, stop to deviet the story bana. Mli. But also this thing is not... We're a baby. Yes, mli amua. Bona mli pata wa toto eni ya mwezi shkulikia. Which brings me to a good question. Why do people work? When you work and you get money, what is the purpose of that money? You're an individual. So you just live that good life without stressing me to make you live a good life. Why did you hit on me, bro? Why did you accept me? Leave me alone if you cannot provide for me. Not actually. Tuwambi eni ni ninajaka. No, ami hetu kima liza. Mata mga kuwambia, mia kai na kuji kamaivi, tanu, kumi na tanu. Mota batana aba na mabo inu mota juwa jikia. Duwambia na taka nini, muki-provide. Mind. How do you want us to achieve that? Wacha tu nila ku wapu na kia ni ku pahio. Miki, kiki, ni ku pahio. Ni ku pahio. Wacha tu. Uki filiu Uki filiu, naka ku chi. Uki filiu raka. Uki filiu raka ku pahio. Iku pre-provide. Aki, taka... Uki filiu, naka kuwa nya wapu, Bwacha kutupea Bwacha, ni kupea peace of mind Anki chaka arudisa kumi Misawa No, no, no, but let me finish Naki ni mimi na tesega kwae yon yumba Peace of mind ya kwae it does not bother my sister One's a knee knee No, no, one's a two knee knee We are a representation of so many Nge kwae ni mafanya investment Nge kwae na pidi yama lawyer already Una jua Peace of mind Do me so that I can make you happy Don't tell me how to make you happy So idea ni Kama ni matatu unapanda Tu mesama we are here for the long run Aima ni suda panda yo matatu for one man So I'm thinking about it When you're not talking to me, it's in my mind That I need to provide better to you So ni pay time Usini pigi e kelele, kama tu na ishi bed-sita Kwae yon jua tu kwaakiliyangu Bed-sita ni na panga Air for now na panganda kumovisha So ni kwaresa kwae nini milan Nge kupiataha uru dina change Nge kupiataha uru dina change Nge mihi saa Nge kwa ufisite na nike na nise mesa Sanga Kwae ikwa kwa mikoita master Nge kuka professional language Bro, handa hiyadu ni professional Guna bagi Nge kwa kazi Kwae mikoitu amezu na nili kwaqim shahara Tukifunga Naisa, last words about providing and being used I mean, kwa katia tum tum naiza na, wacha kwa katia mtu, andoka hundana na expecta kuji waku, anda wu act Katia tum naiza If her looking good is not on your budget, she's not yours Thank you If her looking good is not on your budget, it doesn't matter bro There is nothing like providing or taking care of each other If her looking good is not on your budget, it doesn't matter If her looking good is not on your budget, it doesn't matter