 Our job is to empty our cup and if the emptying of our cup does not fill theirs That is not our problem Because we cannot possibly be all things to all people all the time no matter how much you pour yourself out It will always fall short of what some people want or need from us The truth is no one of us in ourselves is sufficient to fill another person's cup People need all kinds of stuff in their lives most of it is Internal inside themselves and nothing to do with another person pouring into them