 Hi, I'm Matthew Kost, head dating coach and founder of commitmentconnection.com, and in this video we're going to talk about when you're in a relationship and you're in love and there's no talk of marriage and whether you're wasting your time or not. But before we talk about that, if you're struggling to attract the right man into a committed lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quiz. So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking. She says, we love each other, but there's no talk of marriage. Am I wasting my time? She says, we love each other, but no talks of marriage. He's a divorcee. So you know, I don't know if you're wasting your time or not, but you need to have a conversation with him about marriage and find out what his views are on it. There's no way around that. Otherwise, you may be wasting your time and so you need to find out. And so one of the best ways and easiest ways to do this is to tell him a story about someone you know who's getting married or is married and ask him what his opinion is about them and their marriage and, you know, something that's going on in it, something that's not negative hopefully, something that's a little bit more positive and fun and cheerful or a wedding, you know, talk to him about a wedding and just see how he reacts. You know, if he avoids talking about it or he's got some negative views on it, then it can tell you a lot. And then the next step is to ask him if he's talking, if talking about marriage is something that makes him feel uncomfortable or if he's afraid of it, you know, that can usually get a guy going if you ask him if he's afraid to talk about marriage. And then lastly, ask him if he thinks about ever getting married again since he's a divorcee, you know, ask him if he's ever thinking about getting married again. You know, most men will be straightforward about this and they'll be straightforward with you on this topic. And if they're not, then that's a big red flag showing you that he either doesn't want to get married or that he doesn't want to get married to you, either one of those things is a or he's not even thinking about getting married to you. And that's either one of those things is a big, a big red flag where you might need to think about potentially leaving the relationship. And so, yeah, just find out, you know, talk to him about it and go through the steps that I outlined here in this video and you should have no problems finding out exactly what's going on with him. So that's it for this video. If you want to find out what's stopping you from attracting Mr. Wright into a committed lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website and take my quiz commitmentconnection.com. I'm Matthew Coast and I'll speak with you again soon.