 So, when you make your happiness predicated on this person either loving you or being in relationship with you, if your happiness is predicated on that, that's giving your power away. If you feel like they used you, you're going to act like a victim, you know, without really looking at the totality of the relationship, but ultimately when you retain your power and someone says, I don't want to be in this relationship anymore, you say, that's okay. Because if you truly love someone, if you truly love someone, it's okay that they don't want to do this anymore. See, we make it out to be, you know, relationships are really a source for healing. Good relationships heal trauma.