 Hi, I'm Matthew Kost, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com and in today's video We're going to talk about why men pull away in relationships and how to handle that But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract a quality man into a committed lasting Relationship make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quiz So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking Why do men pull away in relationships? And what should I do about it? And so this is a very important topic Because men are going to pull away It's kind of a normal and natural thing that a lot of guys do in relationships and you know just in general and one of the main reasons and I'd say the main reason why it happens is because They need to process their emotions and so men have a lower Emotional tank than women do and so what happens a lot of times is if they get into a fight if they You know get really close to you a lot of times he might need to pull back and kind of process things before he can move forward and It's just something that guys do and so You know, here's what you need to remember when a guy pulls away from you You know leave him be like give him space You know just to leave him alone Lean back and and let him go through his processing, you know the overwhelming majority of times things are probably okay if he's pulling back and he just needs to go through whatever he needs to go through and You know what can be what I found it has been helpful for a lot of women when this happens is just You know just keeping in your mind that everything's okay. Everything's good in the relationship Everything's okay between you and that you know, he just needs to go into his man cave or whatever Whatever he's going off and doing Until you know, he gets back and you know regardless whether you know things are bad or things are good You know, if you try to bug him and try to reconnect with him when he's kind of being the recluse It typically only makes things worse Whereas if you leave him alone, he's much more likely to come back to you and a lot of times You know, he'll start talking you up in his mind and he'll want to connect even deeper but if you try to Reconnect you may end up pushing him further away from you and further away from you and you know creating anxiety in him to the point where he You know kind of pulls away completely and so give him space give a man space and he'll appreciate you for it You know have things going on in your life that you can go and do and that you can kind of occupy your mind with so that You know, you're not obsessively thinking about him So that's it for this video if you want to know more about what's stopping you from attracting Mr. Wright into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon