 Hey Gems welcome back to my channel so I don't know what I'm gonna title this video yet but I did want to record a video pretty much introducing you all to what I am currently creating of course except for life but my relaunch of gem stylistic is coming up very soon and I'm relaunching by having a ceremony that is very dear to my heart like I actually came up with the idea when I was still in Ghana I kept thinking of something to do to honor mothers to honor women and the idea came to me while I was in a deep silence like I was still living with my children's father of course but we had recently have a big argument so I kind of just went into a shell I wasn't speaking to him he wasn't really speaking to me and we're just coexisting at the time and all I did was journal every day I was journaling just my thoughts just everything that was coming to my head just based on everything that was happening to me then and for the past year I was just writing it down writing writing writing every day I was writing by the end of like a week and a half I have like 20 something pages in my journal just written out but throughout that time of silence I kept thinking of this space for women or mothers to each other but to feel safe and secure because at the time I did not feel safe at the time I was not feeling secure and I just got the urge like it the thought just wouldn't go away but every time I thought about it through all of that I gave pretty much vert to this idea of having an honor our mother's ceremony and this is pretty much the start of the next part of gem solistic I've always know I would be creating so I'm actually gonna insert my new logo somewhere here on the screen and it is an invite-only event but this is just the beginning of something way bigger that I want to create however I have to start small I have to start where I am and I'm okay with that so pretty much my new brand well my new logo as you can see it is a picture of a woman which kind of is a representation of myself because I actually used a picture that I took and I'll probably insert that picture here too a picture that I took when I was pregnant with my second son and the posture and the way I was posing in the picture I used that to as a as an example of how I wanted the woman in my logo to be seating and the the woman that designed my logo she actually did my first logo and she pretty much blew me away with what she came up with based on the ideas I had in my head she literally brought it to life all I did was send her the pictures I told her what I wanted I want the woman sitting in a lotus flower I told her my colors and I told her what I want it to say and she pretty much created exactly what I I had in my mind like the vision I had in my mind and I'm so thankful for her because she don't even know how much I love that logo and she was actually pregnant when she was creating it which makes it even more special to me but it's now going to be called gem stylistic lifestyle and wellness and the lifestyle and wound wellness is added because when I created gem stylistic it was always supposed to be about a lifestyle it's not just about natural products it's about living a holistic and natural lifestyle in every aspect which is what the word holistic means in the first place you look at the whole you don't just look at one aspect of health so throughout the cup I will say in the past year and a half but so I did some trainings I did a woman intensive herb course to you know gain more knowledge in herbs that are great for womb health for women's health and just my path in becoming more of a herbalist I got certified in that I also did a fertile womb lifestyle specialist training so I'm now certified in that I just want to have all the tools under one room we're not wearing products but I'm also offering a service to actually help women one-on-one to get their wombs back into a state of health that would allow them to you know have a healthy moon cycle and concede without any interference with you know medical doctor so I'm not saying that those things aren't needed in terms of the medical world I'm just saying that sometimes or even most times like trying a holistic approach in terms of changing your whole lifestyle helps and you know sometimes people aren't willing to do that or don't have the tools and knowledge and resources they need to do that and I want to be that for those women who actually wants to do that so like I'm not I'm not looking to just change people I want women who wants to change for themselves to seek to come to me so that I can help guide them through that process so even from my own experiences and difficulties that I have I know that I know that the methods that I've learned and implemented in my own life works and I can get into our whole not a video in terms of certain things that I personally went through that I had to change in order to heal myself so I'm just excited to bring that aspect of my passion to my brand and so yes this is pretty much me rewriting my own story writing my narrative and putting my focus into something that I am passionate about that I'm sincere about that I genuinely want to grow into something bigger in the future so I'm starting with my honor honor our mother's ceremony where I invited women who have had something in my life and that's from Bert till now so I will be honoring those women and then I also invited women and their daughters and giving their daughters the opportunity to honor their mother so of course I'll be honoring my mother and then I'll be honoring the other women that I you know invited for that purpose being that maybe they did something for me at some point in my life that meant so much to me that I don't know how I maybe would have gotten through without them or whatever the case may be so that's the gist of the ceremony and you know I'm actually doing it I'm actually putting a lot into this like I wanted to be a nice intimate I did get a decorator you know I ordered some stuff I'm creating my own gift boxes what else I'm having my sister and her boyfriend has a food business where they'll be catering healthy alkaline vegan meals it's gonna be a free course meal like I'm going all out in the capacity that I can so it's gonna be actually a really nice event I'm encouraging everybody to dress like the goddess the empress the queen that they are look nice and just feel nice and feel great I am so excited for it like a part of me is overwhelmed because I'm like how am I gonna get all it is done by me but I'm really like it's something that I really want to do and I don't even know how to explain to people why I feel like I need to do this but it's literally something that just came to me and it came on so strong that I know I need to do it so I'm actually strong on my solar return May 21st and why my solar return not as a gift not as something like I'm having a party for myself but that the gift in this is me actually honoring the mothers like I am really like I genuinely and I really am excited to do this so like what other day best to do this than my solar return as a gift to myself and I don't even mean that in a selfish way because the event is not for me it's for mothers like it's for all of us so and in fact like I don't have anyone at that event honoring me like I'm literally honoring everybody I've been through I feel like times we just go unnoticed like people expect us to be strong people expect us to do this to me take care of the children when they're sick and go to the school events and do like people we're automatically put in that category to just have it together and sometimes it gets hard sometimes we need a break sometimes we need help sometimes we need support and sometimes you just want to hear that we're doing a good job and if I can create a space where for one night mothers just feel loved on and they feel honored and they're happy and that's a great feeling to me excited to put that event on I hope that everything goes as planned because I've literally been planning everything from since I got down here because I don't want anything to fall off I don't want anything to be too last-minute so I've been writing down everything I'm making sure I'm as organized as possible and there's so much more to it that I probably can't just go into all the details right now in this video but I created I had already started creating so much to put into this even when I was in Ghana I created this whole e-book called kitchen sweep challenge where I write down step by step how to transform your kitchen into a healthy laboratory so instead of just being a kitchen your that that space turns into your medicine cabinet pretty much so you're eaten to live instead of living to eat if that makes sense so I wrote that I also have a healthy moon cycle template for women to on tips and things that they can do to you know create a healthier moon cycle for themselves and then I'm also creating a meal plan for people who just don't know what to eat I may not be able to accomplish everything before I have the baby but trust me I'm not stopping so yes this is the start of gem stylistic lifestyle and oh I'm also adding you know there's a whole other aspect of self-care that I want women to start to embrace more so yes that's it for this video I'm just excited for this new journey I'm on I've been feeling so much better and yes I have my bad days I do I really do I don't want anyone to think that I don't have my bad days because I am still processing I am still healing and I am still trying to come to terms with my new reality but I am still embracing it as well and I'm just excited to even have the opportunity to create something better to create something new and to provide for myself and my babies and live life really like it doesn't really matter where you are in the world but that state of mind your environment is what's most important if you're not happy if you're not at peace if you're not loved like those things take a toll on you if you are miserable it doesn't matter your location does not matter so I'm just happy to be here I'm happy to be around people that love and respect me that's all anyways that is all for this video I hope I made sense in all of this but yeah a good friend of mine actually reminded me of my video but I think I should start saying it again so to all of my copper color women watching protect your womb by any means necessary and to everybody watching protect your peace by any means necessary I wish you all love like and prosperity and you'll see me in my next video