 Good evening everyone. Here we are again on another live video. I did a premiere last night When will the narcissist return to you? So that's what we're going to be discussing in this life I'd like to hear from you if the narcissist has returned to you. I'd like to know What they wanted to identify why the narcissist left you or Rather why they will return to you. You need to look at the reasons why they left you It's likely that they drained you of your energy They ran you into the ground Maybe financially and they weren't looking for someone else Fresh supply someone who had energy and Resources that they hadn't dipped their hands into yet Which means that the new supply had plenty to give So they leave you They spend some time away from you and that will give you some time to rebuild You'll have some time to recharge your batteries to become stronger to replenish your finances and suddenly You're looking a lot more attractive to the narcissist even physically Attractive you look happier and healthier Your skin is glowing. You've got more energy You've got more money all of these things That the narcissist Wants to dip their hands into They want a piece of the pie. It's like the reason why they left you is because Although you had a nice freshly baked pie for them to consume They ate it all And you didn't have the time energy or resources To bake any more of those pies and then they saw someone else Someone who had a freshly baked pie just for them But once they've eaten it all and they see that you've baked another one They're gonna be starving. They look they're gonna be licking their lips Looking at what you got and they're gonna want some of that, but of course As we know they're not just gonna want a slice of the pie. They're gonna eat the entire thing And then they're gonna demand that you bake more pies They're gonna demand that you satisfy their hunger and that's really the only reason why they will return to you Because they've been starved out of supply Positive attention admiration Thanks to the donation David They only come back because they're deficient in something The new supply just isn't doing it for them anymore Sure, it was fun in the beginning It was something new There was still learning them still gave them that buzz But at some point They always get bored They always want more it's never enough No matter how much you do for a narcissist They will always demand more of your time at attention More of your money and resources It's never enough Which is why they always leave Thinking that there was something wrong with you and they go to the new supply playing the victim Acting like you did all of these horrible things to them You neglected them But before you know it That new supply if they don't figure out what's going on They soon get run into the ground too They soon to begin they soon begin to realize what they're dealing with When the narcissist returns to you really depends On how much of a fool the new supply is How much of a doormat they are you see these couples were together for 10 20 30 years With a narcissist It's because they tolerate it It's because they think that's the treatment they deserve But when you realize your worth the narcissist Will disappear They cannot be around someone for long periods of time who knows their worth Because that kind of person Isn't going to tolerate this BS Thanks for the donation Suzy That kind of person isn't going to deal with it They're not gonna look at the narcissist Like they're the star of the show They're not gonna put the narcissist on a pedestal and that's something we have to learn here When you treat the narcissist like a king or a queen They're going to treat you like a peasant When you treat them like a celebrity They're going to treat you as a fan They're not going to see you as they're equal They're not going to communicate with you Like you're on the same level Because they were never meant to have power They were never meant to have influence and authority over you and that should be revealed in their behaviors And how they treat you because when someone really feels like They're on a certain level They feel no need to put you beneath them They feel no need to look down on you They recognize you as they're equal Something that a narcissist will never do But yeah If the new supply is no longer willing to be their fool No longer willing to be their dormat No longer willing to be their emotional tampon And the narcissist believes that you are still susceptible to them at ablation They still believe that you might validate their false self or the illusion that they are trying to portray Then there is a good chance that they will return to you But if they know that you figured them out If they know that you don't believe in their lives and illusions anymore They're not going to put themselves in that position They're not going to put themselves in a position where they might be humiliated Where they might be rejected A narcissist Cannot coexist for a long period of time Around someone who is grounded in reality Someone who is realistic Someone who knows their worth Knows what they deserve Their whole game of manipulation Is making you doubt what you're worth And inflating what they're worth Because they assume that their inflated sense of worth Demands A certain level of treatment They assume that their arrogance Determines their entitlement But yeah that's just more of my thoughts on this topic Let me know below Why did the narcissist leave you? And if they've returned to you What do you think they were coming back for? I'd like to hear from you So just comment down below I'm just sitting in the car right now by the beach A beautiful view You can see Devon and Somerset in the distance down there If you follow me on Instagram You will have seen My travels Through there over the last few months If you're not following me yet Please check it out It's Noc Survivor YouTube Mike says they can only return if you let them Turn off their supply Let them know that you know Keep how you boundaries And they will slither off to find a new victim That's very true Mike, thank you for sharing that EJ says Narcissist left me Because her baby dad got out of jail I think So she had to move back home That's often it as well You know sometimes you think of the primary source When really they're just waiting on someone else Paul says I would no longer put up with him Insulting my friends and my brother That's it you know when you no longer tolerate the behavior And you start questioning and confronting them They're not going to stick around Susie says I caught ex cheating Found out he was a drug addict And very mentally abusive And he tore my whole upside down I'm still struggling some days because he plays mind games Sorry to hear that Susie I hope you Get through this Situation Please let me know how it goes Alex Andrina says He left me because I was spying And found out that he cheats And I wanted him to go into rehab He then left me and said that I am not for him And he isn't for me And that it was a bad idea Yeah they will closely monitor you But when you get suspicious about them They don't like that at all They can dish it out but they cannot take it They want full control over you But then they want their privacy and security at the same time Client Traveller says I finally got to the point where I confronted him As I was always providing for him And he gave little in return An argument and he left after a year and a half His next victim was in the waiting That's right you know When they start devaluing you That's usually when they're already seeking out a new source of supply And they've got them waiting in the wings They're grooming them Preparing them Training them for the purpose of being their supply And once they know they've got them secured They're ready to advance them to the primary source And then that's when they'll get rid of you then Thank you all for sharing your stories with me I hope that this discussion has been helpful And if you haven't seen it yet Do check out the video from yesterday When will the narcissist return to you? Thank you all for joining this live And you all have a good day or evening