 Hey guys, welcome back to my channel. It's your girl Coco styles and on this channel. We talk about beauty fashion lifestyle and styling As you guys can see no makeup. I have a bunch of colors on guys. I'm getting ready to go to top golf with a friend and Have some brunch after because you guys know I'm a vegan. I most likely won't be able to eat anything in top golf Probably I think they have hummus. That's how we're going to eat So I have my camera here Let me see is it too Let me see if I can add a little bit more brightness to this Let's try this out Okay, that's a little bit brighter. So I'm just gonna do my makeup and I wanted to actually show you guys A new kit that I got kit. Yeah makeup palette palette. Um, this is the morphe 35. Oh supernatural glow um, I typically you Let me show you what I use It's so messy. I typically use this the jubius place what is the palette is this the nubian palette and um What's the other palette uh-oh There's another palette in here. It's a golden one But I haven't used that in a while the warrior palette which has a lot of like gold and stuff I can't even get it out But today I'm gonna do a get ready with me and then I'm gonna use some of the ones in here You guys know I do not wear foundation a lot. Um And that's because I don't know. I just don't I thought about putting it on today but I I'm just gonna put on some some concealer And some powder So here's the palette. This is not a palette that's new out Um, I'm just getting hip to it because it has all the colors that I absolutely love I do not wear colors on my skin my face like Pink and stuff like that. It's not something that I do Um, however, it's not saying that I won't ever try it, but here's the palette This is very nice Super nice, right? natural colors. I know there's another one, but We're gonna use this one today. I'm gonna probably use. Oh, here's the cool thing. It has the names on it. So this is perfect So I don't really use a lot of color. I use like natural colors on the eye like browns and stuff Um, but this let me see. I'm probably gonna use I'll probably use This is pretty this all-natch It's pretty And let me see let me see I'm trying to compare it to something that I usually use Yeah, the all-natch Natch is cute. I guess I don't know what it's any any tch that's pretty, um Uh, how bizarre is nice so All-natch is this one And then how bizarre is this one? So I don't use a lot of color on the eye. Let me slide this over here And get this going. Okay Um, so typically what I usually you guys already know, I don't use a lot of stuff But I'll run through what I have here My bobby brown I'm gonna just put on and we're just gonna just chat today. We're gonna chat Just chat a little bit today. So yes, we're gonna go to top golf and Kind of you know, see what's going on in here today They do have pool tables So if we get a little bored with You know Playing golf we're gonna shoot some pool downstairs. Um So I wanted to talk about Stooping to the level of people Who's kind of like getting on your nerves, right? um Try not to stoop to their level because what happens is when you Either have a friend a family member co-worker a boss if they are a nasty person Okay, if they're a nasty person this absolutely nothing You can do about this person being the way they are, right? You have people who go out of their way Every day to do something to a person You know, you have parents who treat their kids bad. Um, maybe they treat one kid bad I don't know. Maybe they don't like the dad. Who knows but I've seen it happen and I've also seen people's karma come back 10 fold. Okay So I was listening to Oprah the other day. This is just a brown I've been buying the same pencil. I think they changed the style of it a little bit But this is the Revlon color stay pencil um But I've I've seen people's karma come back to them um And I'll tell you this. Oh man. It's just like it's so sad Because people don't realize how much They do can affect their family Right, and I don't know if I said this story before But I used to have a director He was a horrible person. He was just not a nice person at all I didn't have any real issues with him um until Until I started taking up for the team like I was like a supervisor and I you know I'm just not taking up for them like just because I wanted to just like it was the right thing to do But he was such an a ho my god So, you know, he wouldn't care about the women who had kids who worked from home He didn't have any sympathy, right? I don't care if you don't have kids and stuff um, I know people judge a lot, but Even if you don't have kids, you know, what's right and wrong like you still have a little bit of feeling, right? I don't care what role you're in. It's just what it is So he really didn't care. He's to threaten people's jobs all the time or whatever um, he just was not a nice person so He uh, his wife ended up getting pregnant And guys here's where it got bad. She was a sweet lady, right? She got hit by our freaking car like soon after she gave birth and no one at the job Cared like no flowers like she didn't die, but no one cared But that's because of how he is, right? It was almost like people detached from him and When you do things with bad intentions. Whoo, baby It will always come back to you. I don't care. Okay as oprah says it. It is the third law of physics Okay, it's newton's third law, right? When you if you're gonna do something for someone and your intent Is to get something in return. It's just you're not doing it out of the kind of of your heart If you are asking a person a question And you're asking this question to dig around. It's just you're not doing it with good intentions, right? And it matters. So I'll I'll say this I don't talk about um, my dad because He was just like a Non-existent, right? He was there a little bit, but you know He is from Jamaica And he was married to my mom. So when I talk about karma And how it comes back It doesn't come back right away and Oh man You know, I was under the Impressions That oh, this is you guys know, this is the la program now I The reason why I've been using this is because I haven't really been going anywhere to even use my gnares. I love gnares But I haven't even been going anywhere to use gnares, which is here um, but You know, I've watched him Have money You know one thing I'll say this first before somebody sees this years later and says Oh, your mom probably was talking about no, my mother never talked bad about my dad, which was I saw for myself and I formed my own opinion You know about him and out of all his brothers I think he's the only one who didn't take care of his children And you know, so anyway His karma came back because His behind got deported And I'll say this I just swore up and down because he was married to my mama before she passed That he was a citizen. He was not I didn't know that so I'm like, oh, this is This is this is all God's doing because he knew you're behind wasn't doing what you're supposed to do you know cheating and you know a whole bunch of stuff, right? and I Think girls are a little different when it comes to their fathers From from what I've seen I see boys will forgive quicker opposed to little girls um, this is just what I've seen and So I So he gets deported, right and guys listen He hasn't been back home Since he was a child So here it is you had a bunch of money when you were here Maybe he'll come across this video one day But you had a whole bunch of money when you were here. Here's my other la My other la girl pro. This is this I don't know if it's too light for me But I use a little bit of it under my eye um So here it is, you know He's back in Jamaica And they wanted all the help in the world to get him back here And I was like well for what like so he can have more kids and not take care of them Like so I can come out of my paycheck No, like he needs to go home and think about the stuff that he Like seriously Like and and the thing It's not funny, but You know, I don't know if he's ever sat back and thought about the children that he had here um by many women Left them to fend for the kids while you're out just like having a good time, right And like I said, my mother never said anything bad. She always wanted us to buy him gifts for his birthday I just wasn't with it I wasn't with it because I saw like I saw things So a lot of men would say oh does that make you bitter? No, I just It's almost like there's no connection there, right? And I've seen this happen so many times. I knew a guy. He had a kid and he Oh my gosh, just freaking guy Left his kid's mom his first kid To go be with another lady and have a kid with her Right and then When they break up he comes back. He completely forgot about his kid his first kid And he comes back comes back bearing gifts and stuff and I'm just like that's the worst thing you can do Because now your kid is only going to expect gifts from you. There's no love there. There's none of that, right? um And you know, he had his day also and it's like Listen, whatever you put out it comes back for women same thing with women if you You may Favor a kid over another and you may abuse that child You know and then later on down life. You're like, why why am I going through this? Because you treated an innocent child like crap, right? You know, um It just sucks or if you have a friend Right and your friend Can potentially be jealous and you don't even Uh-oh I'm into grab my um My powder here and I'm just gonna add a little bit under my eyes and on top of my nose I don't even know how to contour but I do enough just so I can look okay in the streets. Okay um I'm gonna look at an america. So But if you have a friend that can potentially be jealous like you don't even know Like you hanging around this person But they do things and you eventually kind of like see Right um That's just this it's bad that can't me listen just know that karma comes back I don't care how many ways you try to flip it Karma will be on your tushy. Okay so for people who have children like It's just good to just talk to them about that like you don't think that you're ever gonna just be good later on where like Your karma is never gonna come back. It may not come back today tomorrow next year It's coming back though And then you wonder why Why things Don't work out for you Well, you may be sick a lot or You know, who knows and it can come in any forms, but i'm telling you now Folks need to uh-oh Hold on Folks need to set it out And stop with the madness I got my um Hold on guys. Let me fix this. Is it even gonna stay up because We'll leave it like that. Um stop the madness that comes back I'll say this when it comes to my dad. So he ended up He ended up getting arrested, right? I'll just say that And like I guess they put him in like an immigration jail And that immigration jail was in brooklyn. I didn't even know that crap existed So I went to go see him just because I thought let me just go right He had a girlfriend And she said to me Now one thing about me guys You guys don't really know how I am like eventually you'll see my my personality and just how I don't say whatever, right? I'm a quiet person But I I ended up running into her. I didn't know who she was And she said to me Why aren't you guys coming to see your dad? I said, excuse me I said, oh, you don't want to touch these waters And she's like, what you mean? I said, I'm telling you now. You don't want to touch these waters so Uh-oh look at me using the old palette guys Let me just Let me just put this on this eye And do the same one over here and then go to the other palette ah So I'm gonna put this back down here and I'm going to you. What did I say? I'm going to use how bizarre and All-natch so How bizarre of which may be the only one that I use because it's kind of It's giving me like a red reddish vibe Um So when she said I'm like lady, you don't want to touch these waters Now my dad was such when I say he was such a liar. Oh my god, I'm such a liar She was like, well You know, he's always on your side of town I said, well, he ain't coming to see us Right like I'm just like well, he's not coming over here. Okay So I'm sorry to bust your bubble sweetie, but he probably got another boo on this side Because I I got knew how he was and She was like, uh-uh. I was like, okay. I'm just telling me he ain't coming over to our house Now I'm gonna use the darker one Which is all-natch and I'm just gonna see I'm gonna see what it does up here a little bit Yeah That's pretty All-natch is pretty um So I ended up seeing him inside or whatever and it was just a sad situation because You know, I don't think people see what they do when they Aren't in their children's lives, but that karma be coming back boy, but he's talking Jamaican now right and You know, he can't come back and he to be honest, it may sound cold, but He shouldn't he doesn't need to be here. You having children. You're not taking care of them You don't need to be here So then you have a person like My old director He had that karma with his wife and It was sad guys because She got hit by a car right after she gave birth Okay, can you guys see that? This is the bronzer. This is from morphe and this is leader I tried to buy the um The nars one It was no type of pigment on that one And listen, I'll probably be putting bronzer on my face all wrong, but I make it work I Make it work. I'm not contouring. I don't even know how to do it And to be honest, I don't think I'm interested In it I do have a little highlighted on um But then but he ended up getting fired also too. He ended up getting fired um He's just was not a nice person But that's what I'm saying like a lot of people who start their own businesses and stuff I really be so happy for them because god knows what they had to go through At like a job with a miserable person That's my blush. This I've been this blush is savage by nars I've been using this for a long time. Let me gotta show you the color You just take the top off because it is broke So that's the color of the blush Okay um But misery boy misery in this company. So when it comes to dealing with a person who is very difficult Or they're reaching they're trying to find, you know They're trying to find um ways to like get you and stuff Don't do today level. Just don't like try Uh-oh Try your best to like not Have to deal with them. Hold on. Let me tie this Try your best like if you can Literally ignore them Then do that. Okay Because these folk out here are miserable They're miserable All right, so I'm gonna do My liner now. Listen. I'm not the girl that's spending thousands of dollars on liquid liner I've been using this stupid elf one Can you see that? Let me see Yes, this elf for the longest um But listen guys karma Karma is the bean it comes back and good in back karma. You know, you do good It comes back to you um When your intent is to really be malicious to a person That also comes back Okay, so I'm just saying Be careful with the type of stuff you're doing and putting out there into the universe Guys because that mug will come back and remember what assili said What have you done to me already been done to you? It's so true. It will always come back. I don't care And listen even when you have like now when it comes to like maybe A ex boyfriend or something like that um, and I don't mean just like Cheating I mean like abuse and stuff right That also comes back To them You know people shouldn't have to go through stuff like that which I wish I really understood. Um Women who stay in situations I personally think that And I don't know. Let me know what you guys think. I think sometimes People will try you right And they want to see your reaction. Are you gonna tense up? Are you gonna walk out? Are you gonna fight back all these things they're trying to see And I think men test women I don't even want to say men Guys who like I'm gonna say guys guys who like Control possibly will like to test women on stuff like that I don't know. I don't know but The moment you see somebody raise their hand or raise their voice at you Get the heck out of there get out of there Get out of there. So this is Pat McGrath um Labs, this is dark star I've been using this for a long time now It's okay. Let me know if you guys have a really good mascara that you use um I don't know if I ever told you guys but I took What's his name? Sir John's makeup class and They always talk about blinking Blinking on the mascara wand um As you guys can tell I'm not putting on lashes, right? so blinking on The mascara wand Supposed to give you that real good In to the bottom of the lash so Yeah guys I you know, I think they will try you to see where you know what you would do and stuff like that I even think people at jobs would try you Right someone told me a story recently about when they used to work at Hmm a company and She's a sweet girl And she brought like fruit and stuff in to the job And she was like, oh, you know, it's kind of Full I mean it's it's a lot of foods that they can put it out for like breakfast and someone like shoved her like And I'm like they put their hands on you now. Let me tell you something Hitting is a no-no bumping Is a no-no all of that It's a no if you're not ready To get into an altercation with somebody Don't put your hands on anybody. Okay, because you don't know where you don't know you don't know what this person is capable of, right? um, I'll say this Even if a person is like scared Scared people will bust your ass Straight up Okay, and I don't even curse like that on this channel, but they will take you down out of fear Out of fear of you doing something to them. They're gonna fight with all of their might to hurt you I've seen it happen and then Now native cray cray crazy one But I say all that to say listen If you are dealing with a difficult person The number one thing you should always do Is don't stoop to their level. Okay, some people are really mentally disturbed all right I don't care if it's somebody at your job That was just a little pencil Um, where is my Where is my my liner oh to my purse? I'm gonna use This mac one, which is like a dark. It's not even dark What's the name of this? Listen y'all I'm 42 up in my behind be pulling the pencil away I don't even know the color of oh cushy Can you see that? Yeah um Yeah guys just Just make sure You're not like Falling into the trap of someone else who's A bee okay Or if it's a guy a half Okay Um hold on let me just grab this Okay I'm gonna try to vlog today too cuz I know how I do I get outside I forget