 Sit on up here Late night Late night in the office, but uh, I was sitting down Let this hill load a little bit And let my wife I connect Connect the little strong Got soccer game tomorrow, but um Hey y'all now listen I Keep getting these messages people keep sending these sending these messages to me in the DM and Couple of different things that I haven't got to shoot a video on But one was you know what Tyler Perry said about you know black women need to Deal with you know when they dealing with black men. We'll talk about that in another video But this one is about a divorce With a genie Thank, that's her name genie and Young jeezy and I want y'all to you know I want to help y'all understand something about this because a lot of times People don't understand and I try to talk to my clients about looks compatibility and This is not a one-size-fits-all type of thing But you have to and when I say looks compatibility, I'm not just talking about the physical look but also Talking about when we talk about being equally yoked so When you equally yoke now When they a lot of people don't understand how this stuff working. It's a lesson for women Especially this a lesson for women and I try to tell women this but ironically this kind of speaks to what Tyler Perry was talking about and But at the same time, it's a little different because Tyler Perry was talking to black Women but this one of the things when I seen When I seen young jeezy, I Said to myself, I says no possible way. He's attracted to her. I said that to myself because I Understand looks compatibility It's not to say that she's not attractive but an Asian woman Who looks like a like a new age Asian woman It's not going to be attractive to a black man from the hood of Atlanta and When I seen that I said this I said this is a come up for young jeezy and Yes, we could talk about how much money he done made and all of that But anybody who knows the music industry knows that That money is volatile They also knows that They know that When you make money and you from the hood, you don't have financial literacy. You're not taught how to manage money and You also have to what I say look at somebody's relationship resume And this speaks to what a lot of people tried to get loud with me on When I tried it when I did that short video talking about a man's vices and talking about the more a man does the more the less likely he is to be faithful and so the thing about it is when you when you look at a man like Young jeezy he comes from the bottom he was self-proclaimed Dope boy, you know the snowman You have to it's a lot that makes that takes to make a relationship work and We don't know what the story is She could have cheated on him She could have lied to him. She could have did something shady. We don't know for him to divorce her but at the same time he could have just got tired of her and Wanted something else, but this is the thing is why I try to tell y'all about looks compatibility and One of the things is is women it don't make sense for It has to be very strategic very organic and make perfect sense when you marry outside of Your race When you marry outside of your race It got everything got to line up because You already are at odds Just on your cultural foundation So your culture is your foundation and that means a lot and Then so when you come together If you don't have the same foundation It's gonna be hard to make it work And I remember and I'm gonna tell you the truth like me coming from very Country down the earth Hood whatever you call it black folks It bothers me when my wife Cold switch and put her Caucasian voice on that bother me That bother me if she go to talking to to to proper I'll be like Hope you around me with all that Like man, you don't put a little accent in them Like don't be around me talking like that So that's the thing so that deals with attraction And that deals with when you come together when I seen this black man from the hood of Atlanta with his proper talking Asian woman when we know that Over there, how many times do you see a Asian with a black? We yeah, we know there are some blazions we know there are some blazions But how many times do you see a Asian with a black? Asian is taught to be with Asian Asian is taught to be with Asian It is not accepted for Asian to be with a black when you do that You you breaking all the rules You breaking all the rules you going all the way against it, you know, that's not common And the same thing with Camorra Lee and Russell Simmons same reason why they fell apart too Because you have to have a Foundation that you could build on You've got to be equally yoked and so I'm gonna tell you as Men a man can think a woman is Like pretty Without being attracted to her So a lot of people don't understand that a man could think a woman is pretty Without being attracted to her So when I've seen young Jesus with this one Jeannie my It was the artist couple To me I was like this ain't and no This ain't and no When when you like like let me tell you what what young Jesus type is Because see you got to understand looks compatibility When when a man is healthy and whole now yes, if he is self-hating if he jaded then that's something different and This ain't just about them cuz we don't cuz they in the media So we're using this as an example for everyday life because this could be a publicity stunt He could have an album coming out. We don't know what's going on So but I want you to take this lesson for everyday life and When you see let me give you an example the show that I was on MTV I don't know if y'all seen the show. I was on MTV couples retreat where I wanted a host well young job is with Kendra so young job is Like from the same type of area of young Jesus When you come from where they come from like in Atlanta You're not going to be a naturally and organically attracted to an Asian woman You force it You're not gonna be naturally attracted to that. My wife is part Asian meaning she's Jamaican, but her dad is a a Her dad is a Indian Jamaican and her mama is a black Jamaican and So when I first seen her I thought she was pretty but I went all the way attracted because Like attracts light and you attract it to what you are familiar with So when you look At young Jesus and genie mom. I knew just from being a former matchmaker. I knew they were not looks compatible I knew it was not a good fit because that stuff Goes into that and then it's like it's genie mom from the hood Like is she from the hood? Has she ever lived in a hood a project a ghetto? Have she ever Soul drugs dated a dope boy like that come with a whole mindset Jesus could try to sound articulate and sound smart, but Where we come from still affects us it still plays a part in who we are and you want somebody that Could remind you too of your mama a little bit you want somebody that can really relate with you So it's like this right here. You're not coming from the hood in a lounge selling cocaine and then Don't want Don't want some good fried chicken some good collard greens some good Mike and cheese some good yams and So you're not gonna go get with no Asian woman and feel at home You're not finna feel at home. And that's why I try to tell black men stop trying to date Just for money and just for fame and just for clout And that's what I try to tell y'all women when you got something going for you Which I think genie mama's on that talk show and she on the talk show every day When you're on that talk show every day you in the media you got something going We always know we know the music industry is up and down like the music industry you hot and then You real cold and then when you become vintage When you become retro Now you get back hot again because now you could do that old-school tour So now you could do the millennial tour And now you back hot again And so you could go perform thug motivation in the clubs and still get you five ten K twenty K And do your little tour, but you got to go through a season of being broke So the thing about it is what a lot of women don't understand is that a lot of women can't tell a Lot of women can't tell when a man broke Because a man could have a Rolls Royce a house from when he had money and He could be broke and he need to be in the limelight. He need a buzz So I'm gonna be honest with you as a relationship coach Who coach relationships every day? I? Saw young jesus and genie mom My only how you say the thing the same way I saw Kanye West and Kim Kardashian Because I knew there was no real way Kanye West could be attracted to Kim Kardashian That's not in a black man blood To be a genuinely attracted to a woman who then got slaughterhouse on a video It's absolutely impossible for a black man Now see a lot of white men share they win a lot of white men share they women a lot of a lot of white men Want to see they women get slept with by another man and by a black man like Adam 22 who gonna marry a porn star and then let that black man Well, how about the frame and then get mad when the black man was talking mess and didn't want to say the black man is black listed After Adam 22 let that black man make that point on with his with his wife That's stuff that white men do black men Cannot be attracted to a woman that got slaughterhouse after a woman and got slaughterhouse The only way a black man gonna be with her is if it's a come up so Kanye West got with Kim Kardashian for a come up because when he got with Kim Kardashian he was in He was 53 million dollars in debt and he knew getting with Kim Kardashian What's gonna get him out of debt by being aligned with her brand? So he put up with The fact that she had that tape with Ray J and we know that tape hurt him because he went to Ray J and got laptop And took it to Kim. We know that tape hurt Kanye I never watched the tape, but I heard T. Payne say That Ray J hung like a horse Which T. Payne pause you need to be ashamed by yourself comment on another man's dandelion your nasty boy and so Keep I heard the T. Payne interview say Ray J hung like a horse Which I would assume you got to be because you're not finna get on no camera With a little ain't a lane that you need a microscope for so if you finna get on camera You come for dent and so here now Woke him Kardashian out the frame and Then Kanye gonna get well. That's the Kanye will broke then when I see young Jeezy get with Jeannie Ma the time The time of that right there The timeline that he got with her I say he broke Their money low them towards them slow down them towards the slow down Album they streaming Really ain't got no endorsement deals. We never seen young Jeezy in no Lexus commercial We ain't even seen him in no Toyota commercial. No, no Chevrolet commercial ain't never seen young Jeezy on the TV in a commercial so The only way he gonna make money is from his investments But anybody who got investments knows that you have to have a lot of Investments like you got to have One Buffett level investments to really be comfortable The way you was when you was at the top of your game making millions and then everybody know Any black man that come from the absolute hood and used to sell drugs is gonna have a learning curve with finances No Kanye did not have a ton of money when he got with him So shut up and listen. I'm in the industry. I work in the industry I know what I'm talking about Kanye was on Twitter Screaming and hollering that he fit in three million dollars in debt. So hush When I'm telling you something cuz I never said nothing not my mouth Wrong when it comes to love and relationships. So I'm telling you I don't know if Jean-Marc cheated on Jeezy Or this a publicity stunt, but it looked like a publicity stunt to me from the very beginning Because a black man from the hood is not attracted to a Asian woman that looked like that And not that she unattractive But if if a black see let me tell you what's that lady named lotto? Lotto, I think she might have been called blue lotto Lotto she looked like she got a little Asian in her It's a couple of rappers look like they got a little Asian in them that young lady lotto That's the most Asian looking woman That young Jeezy would be genuinely organically attracted to you just got to look at the history of Looks compatibility Gina eco even Gina eco who look a little Asian young Jeezy when you from where he at in Atlanta she wouldn't be He wouldn't be attracted to her either cuz she too slim When you come from a place where the women is cornbread fed It's impossible for you to be attracted to a woman that's built like this hill It's it's it's impossible So y'all have to start understanding looks compatibility cuz what you got to realize a man is a visual creature And if that man ain't genuinely attracted to that woman then what's gonna happen is He don't start to look around or he don't start to treat her wrong and then she might start to look around and so We don't know what happened behind the scenes, but I knew from the very beginning That I said this on look right this do not look right I know a come up when I see it and see this the thing what people don't understand about Hollywood So in Hollywood there is a message to Men in Hollywood there is a message in there where Men in Hollywood Understand that if you get with a woman It makes you more money The reason why it makes you more money is because you get to go viral for couples goals You get to do Engagements and get invited to stuff because you're a couple and you get to do marketing together You get to do brand deals on social media and you get to make money Why do you think? individuals like LeBron James and Kevin Hart and Dwayne Wade are married It's not because they just so in love It's also because it is a good look for the brand and It will make them more money because they have the same reasons to not be married like P. Diddy and Like same thing with offset and Cardi B. That is not a natural organic attraction Cardi B was going way up. She's getting ready to go way up When a woman talk and pop off at the mouth the way Cardi B did That is it's it's impossible for a man to be attracted to that It's it's absolutely 100% impossible and that's why I also kept cheating and it kept coming out because it is absolutely impossible for a man to be attracted to a woman who pop off at the mouth and Unfortunately, men are visual creatures. So when When when Cardi B had them teeth out of slam, it's also impossible to be attracted to that Now Jenny mom, I don't Jenny mine. I don't know if she got her body done But from what I could see It looked like she was petite You're not going to be attractive to a black man out of the hood and allow them if you are petite of another race if you are like You could be seen as slim thick But when you is Asian and You petite That don't match with a black man out the hood Unless he hated self and we know that young Jesus don't hate itself because he wear that bald head See if he hated himself, he would wear a man unit But the fact that he wear that shiny bald head let you know that he loved himself and Jenny mine that was a come up Because she in the media and because she looked different and this is what I try to tell y'all too I try to help y'all understand this about men a Man who does not have purpose and see young Jesus have not got into his purpose yet Because he still is the snowman and he still want to be at the Hamptons with Rick Rubin and at the rock nation brunch But we don't know His purpose could be global now. He may have a non-profit organization But that non-profit could be a lot louder than what it is if he has one because I don't know nothing about it So that mean that non-profit is not making enough noise. So when a man don't have a non-profit He don't have a purpose yet And so when a man not tapped into purpose He has time to waste and this is something that women don't understand this something women can't wrap their head around Cuz it's it's it's not many women. That's like this a Man will be down his luck and He will want to sleep with a woman so bad to experience her That he will make it look real and in order to make it look real. He will get engaged or he will get married That's what a lot of women don't understand if you are outside of a man's natural and normal Wheelhouse of attraction He will get with you and he will make it look real Just to knock you off cuz see y'all got forgive my internet when I somebody trying to shut my Internet call for help Trying to flag me Trying to shut me on that call. So a man will well if a man is Not in his purpose He will take and he will Cheek Cheek-cheek-cheek-cheek, but he will make it look real with a woman So that She'll come off that thing and If you can't follow what I'm saying It's cuz this ain't for you and you slow So if you is slow then slow the video down and Shut up and stay out the comments Somebody in the comments talking about you all over the place. That's cuz you not from round here so hush while I'm talking and So a man like young Jeezy We come from when I was in the street selling drugs, you know what I was listening to plies and Jeezy You know what I have never slept with I've never been with a Asian woman That looks like genie mine And I know that I look better than young Jeezy Because I know people who look like him and I know our rate of women now when you get the fame and the money that he got You could sleep with any kind of woman you want to but black men Do not on average Get to sleep with a Asian woman Because Asian women on average. We're not talking about exceptions to the rule We talking about on average Asian women are so programmed by their father Who is typically always in the home? She cannot be with no black man so a Man without purpose Will trick that woman to Get her to drop her guards So he could sleep with her because a man without purpose Will do anything to fulfill that fetish to fulfill that lust So when I see young Jeezy get with Genie Ma I say this here is not real and this ain't gonna last and that's also why I tell y'all women Do not date a man that you don't understand Because see if Genie Ma understood black men Truthfully she would talk like Cardi B Now you know Cardi B. She know black men She know Hispanic men too, but she know black men but see Genie Ma She don't understand a black man like Jeezy Now she might understand a black man like Wayne Brady She might understand a black man like Colin Powell She might understand a black man like Barack Obama But Genie Ma is not gonna understand like Russell. She'll understand a black man like Russell Wilson She's not finna understand the motivation She's not finna understand The snowman That's over her head So she come in now and it was like and this what I tell y'all about dating outside your race Nine out of ten times. It is an experiment It's an experiment nine out of ten times Because it's kind of like this right here if you grew up eating if you grew up eating fried chicken Let's say you grew up eating fried catfish fried pork chop fried chicken collard greens Mike and cheese jiffy cornbread yams Or even possum raccoon Chitlins If I if I bring you out to eat And I sit some shashimi in front of you You if I sit some shashimi in front of you What you gonna do if you grew up in the South if you grew up in Atlanta and I sit some shashimi in front of you You feel me Oh Hey, it ain't cool Come on, just try it. Come on. Just try it Come on. Jeezy. Just try it Come on Hey, look here girl. You better a listen. I'm gonna try this only cuz I love you Only cuz I love you what is he? So sure That's how a relationship is You're not gonna be no black man from hood and Then go get with an Asian woman and be all the way happy It's not gonna happen because she's going to taste different. She's going to taste different black women got a taste and When I'm telling you a black woman on average the pH is strong I don't know why but a black woman pH be strong on average Now y'all not gonna agree with that cuz y'all don't taste yourself But I'm telling you as a man a black woman pH on average be strong And it could be because of what we eat how we grow up eating in the South Now I'm gonna tell you this a Asian woman She's going to taste different. She's gonna base different She's gonna brush her teeth different. She don't want to watch different kind of TV shows She's gonna eat different You know you take if Jesus take Jeannie mine to where he from What is this? Don't need to put it on don't need to talk a little like oh do I need to try to talk like then what a I don't need to talk like then when I'm out here with your family like why need to talk like there Or can I talk how I talk GZ? What is this Chitterlings Young GZ come here. Come here. Come here. I don't know his real name. Is this what is chitterlings? Now They eat a whole pig in age or sometimes but not Chitlins Possum raccoon Y'all you you eat this Oh my gosh She's going to have I'm like Chitterlings Oh I'm gonna tell you something as a black man We're hooting you that is unattractive When you see a woman it is so hot out here. Do y'all sit back here? Why are we so close to the barbecue pit? I can't breathe I need to go put my micellar water on That's unattractive. It is unattractive So I'm trying to tell you every single day That GZ was in that relationship He was like Lord When is this brand deal gonna come? Lord, when the brand deal gonna come? My god, I'm tired of eating Tired of eating this crowd ragoon and steam dumpling and this When when I seen that little snippet they did and she made GZ some chopped up cucumbers with some chopped up zucchini with some chopped up tomato with a little bit of salt and pepper and some misdash I say this relationship over Soon as I seen that I say it's over and he went over there because they on the tv show and he went over there It's all right. It's all right It's all right Soon as I seen her chop up some some zucchini as a cucumber and sprinkle a little misdash on there I say this relationship for knee-toe Your relationship is Oster Loego You here be Oster Lobista This ain't done Soon as I seen that because it was nasty and I looked at it That's how my wife eats sometimes It turned my stomach I'm telling you as a married man of 16 years I love my wife now but if she gonna talk it too proper when she getting around white people and she gonna Oh, yeah, I'm not on you. Yeah I'll be I'll be about to throw up in my mouth I don't say nothing. I don't say nothing You have to be equally yoked See but my wife also got hood in her She also not she know how to talk like I talk So she could Cold switch some of y'all could cold switch. I can't cold switch I'm talking to a white person. I'm gonna sound more country trying to talk proper. I'm gonna sound worse so Soon I seen What's jesus from zone six what y'all got in a lot of zones? Zone six zone four What's what's the rough zone? What's jesus from? That do not go With no Asian woman Who eat chopped up cucumbers and chopped up zucchini? with chopped up avocado and chopped up tomato That the match Because when you come from what jesus come from The worse you finna eat You finna eat some spam You eating spail You finna eat If your mama finna make some tuna salad She might put some little onions in there And put that tune in that pan and go walking that tuna up You finna eat fried butternut sandwiches You eat mayonnaise bread. You eat mayonnaise bread. You eat peanut butter bread You eat poke beads with white rice You're not eating chopped up organic vegetables So listen to me i'm trying to send a message to all of y'all to get a lesson From this young jesus and genie mine Make sure that you are equally yoked Make sure that you got the same foundation Make sure that you could build on that foundation You got to make sure That you really got some things in common Now you could be opposites like in your personality, but your foundation got to be the same Because that right there don't go together It don't go together now. I could have believed jesus and adrian byloan Or um christina meleon But genie mine and jesus uh I already knew that relationship was over as soon as i seen it And this is what i try to tell you when you see people get together And you know they don't go together. They don't have a foundation That's when you know Is some comeuppance There is some comeuppance Because see i'm a matchmaker and i'm a relationship coach With thousands of clients. So i'm a relationship scientist. I studied this I studied this i could look at a couple Every single couple i could look at that couple and tell if they're going to last I could tell if they're going to last And i already knew there was some comeuppance And it's a comeuppance on both sides because genie mine Her type is not attracted to young jesus See if she's going to be attracted to a black man Her type of black man is edris elba Her type of black man is I don't know his name hinderson the guy something hinderson her type of black man is The proper black man comeuppance upp a n c e up a n c e comeuppance Her type of black man. No, she really don't need won't Russell wilson her type in russia wilson. Uh-huh her type in russia wilson her type is tall dark skin meaning tall Like a shade or two darker than me Swim though Not like like barack obama close to barack obama, but i'm talking about these black actors the black actors that be in the movie And they they classically trained. Nope. It ain't even usher I almost take eggs, but that other guy. It's another guy. I think it's last name vance or hinderson and he married to Somebody like viola davis or somebody like that. Can't remember his name though Nope, not drink that ain't gene in my type if she go for a black man similar to similar to um Lori harvey boyfriend similar to that not p. Did it Not not kind of michael b. Jordan more chestnut more Courtney be vans Courtney be vans Courtney be vans. That's gene in my type She's not attracted to those zone eight draw dillon thought motivation snowman She's tolerating that She's tolerating that not boars cojo not more chestnut. They got too much swag not larynx gross They got too much snag swag. What Courtney be vans not mike ells. He got too much swag Not p. Did it cuz he did it. Uh Not p. Did it Courtney be vans him not tears heart cuz taryn howard a little uh Courtney be vans and it's one other man who with the black man who playing on Us that tv show called us And he's uh, he's dark skinned black man. He kind of got kind of big eye not blare underwood too much swag Derrick loop he he a little derrick loop that uh that that list she she went that list. No What's the guy that's in sterling k brown? I think it's sterling k brown sterling k brown Sterling k brown and Courtney be vans That is genie my type Not young jeezy Not young only sterling k brown and Courtney vans not cuba not cuba good not cuba good cuz he a little off looking Listen, there's a type of black man that looks like a black One-way model to white people See white people don't like Like in the modeling industry if you look at the black models They use black models who look like there's 100 African with nothing else in them No French no Caucasian no Nothing else in them When you look at the model industry Look at look at like um Look at like Dior go look at christian Dior website Gucci website and look at the type of black men They use for their models They want a black man who look like a canvas They want a blight like this color of the beard and so That type of man, but a couple shades lighter Is a asian woman like genie my type because she can't go too dark because she asian And that's not accepted in the asian race on average There are exceptions to the rule There will be some asian families who was in a culture Around black people and they may approve it, but even then they won't approve it And so this what you got to understand these mon hensu. That's that's similar to it. That's similar to it But now and you're right. It really ain't an asian dad that's going to approve none of this An asian dad ain't finna approve his asian daughter with a black man The only way an asian dad finna approve that is if that black man finna invest like a million plus Into his company in china or in asia. That's it That's it As black men We really don't meet traditional asian men that are even nice to us I've never met an asian man that is a traditional asian man like in his 60s. That's even nice to me We got to be real about this I had an asian client that signed up for coaching with me for a year when I had to talk on this She fired me Because but I got to tell the truth I got to tell the truth My father-in-law not asian he jamaican So he's not raised like an asian man, but even that even with that even with My father-in-law being jump up a indian He's not asian like he's not a chinese Or jamaican. He's an indian jamaican But even with that his other two daughters got white Fiat says and a white fiat says Because just their type and how they raised is not going to really mesh with no hood Negro like me, but my wife was raised in tampa So being raised in tampa You going and you of color You're gonna have some hood in you You it's different. No, not even on franken because he too He too soft Round the edges You got to be a little more masculine so Courtney B. Vance he he kind of soft around the edges, but that a little accent that a little articulation That a little smartness make up for it He know how to put on a love And yes, and this right here is what we call a this is a great chardonnay and with this chardonnay You want to mix this with a red meat? That's our court to be vast and the other man will be talking so they could impress an old genie of mine Now jesus He he did whole time. He'd been uncomfortable This whole time. He could not be himself Because he was talking about Jesus. He's gonna be Yeah, so, you know, what it is is like we like this right here We finna make a move like this and we finna get ready to make them move And then when he look up the nipsy hustle in jz, then he could try to sound smart But you're still not gonna finish sound smart enough for asian woman So you trying to sound smart and And jesus probably was up there. Jesus probably was drinking tea with a pinky out He probably had all kind of He probably was up Grabbing his leg He probably Jesus was in there. This is how jesus had to get genie of mine He was I guarantee you So yes, so basically what it is is like See, i'm not like the people where I come from See, I was like a product of my environment, but I'm beyond that like i'm like a genius like kind of like Kanye West And kind of like like I should have been born like in Washington, DC or like You know You know dallas That's how jesus was in there talking to genie of mine to get a locked in That's how you had to get a locked in but i'm telling you Because I grew up with men like young jesus He was uncomfortable in that relationship And it's only so long that you could fake And if he uncomfortable she gonna be uncomfortable And then if she uncomfortable She might end up cheating. She might end up cheating And that's what she's gonna have And no genie is not hood because if you hood you're not chopping up no cucumber and tomato and avocado And if you hood you're gonna be able to tell if somebody hood She's not hood in the least Because she's not even gonna have her face and her hair the way she got it if she hood When you hood you look like lotto the rapper You look like that you feel if genie mom was hood She will wear a ponytail with her and lay her baby edges down. She will lay her edges down She's not no hood And if you think genie my is hood you're not hood Because you don't know what hood is and you can't tell when somebody's faking But this is what I try to tell y'all this is what I try to tell you Tattoos on the neck don't mean you hood It white people got more tattoos than anybody from the hood in the world The most tattooed people on the face of the earth is white people out the suburbs You're not finna have no, you know, uh You even the most hood that genie mine could be is That right there that ball That whatever this is that she got that's the most hood she could be that's the father she could go I'm gonna tell you like that right now That's the father she could go It's and listen, I'm a matchmaker I've been a relationship coach since 2007 I do matches I know what people want I know what's compatible Genie my Genie my And young jesus is not compatible If they look compatible, he will start using his government name when they got together I still don't know his government name They let me know he wasn't comfortable in that relationship. He was came out with their government If that's who he wouldn't be with I'm gonna tell you like this right here. So listen, this is what I want you to understand I won't be the lessons I want you to take from When you get with somebody you have to be looks compatible Genie my 10th grade self Would not be attracted to young jesus 10th grade self Her college freshman self would not be attracted to his college freshman self But see if when he when he was kind of in a state of being falling off Meaning he had fell off when he got Regina my and she was on And she was on But single as a dollar bill. So it made her feel incomplete. It made her feel Less than it make her that clock was ticking But I guarantee you In genie my dreams She never pictured A drug dealer From Atlanta With a bald head And a round face And a little bit of stomach She never pictured that In her dreams ever Ever If she picture the black man, he was six four jawline full full heli muscular If she picture the black man, she never in her life Drunk of a black man that looked like young jesus never because it's not looks compatible It'll never be in her compatibility range, but Yeah, you could think young jesus attractive. You're not an asian woman Y'all is not a asian woman like genie mine And the only and we do not trust black women judgment when a man got money Because to y'all Kevin Hart is tall To black women Kevin Hart is tall To black women Jay-Z look good To black women Lil Wayne look good. We do not trust black women judgment When a man got money What I what I do is I go back. I ain't mean I'm real I go back to when before the money before the fame What look of a man got women? Before money and fame A five foot four man Could never Get a woman that looked like Kevin Hart wife never a five foot four man In the history of five foot four men has never ever Had a man had a woman look like Kevin Hart wife Unless he got money tea Not money. He have to have money tea And I'm gonna tell y'all something that's another reason why That's another reason Why this is another reason Why a lot of black men with money Do not trust women Because men that we know Was not getting women Get any woman they want once they got money Somebody say don't generalize black people when you shut up We talking in majority. We're not talking in exceptions. So shut up dummy You got to use generalizations We got 12 million of us millions of us. We can't we can't talk about each one person individual dummy Now shut up and stay out the comments Coming in here Hey, when you come over here, you're gonna get red I'm not over here. I'm not davon franklin Who be postal scripture talking about be gentle and everything that you do I'm finna tell you about yourself because I'm cut like that And that's how I know what I'm looking at when I look at young jesse And that's how I know that he was not finna last with no gene in mind And the only way he finna last is if this is a publicity stunt And he got an album coming out or she finna drop a book or a recipe book Give me all recipes for them cucumbers and tomatoes with that miss dash seasoning This the only way this finna last and if they tune in watching this live with they probably watching this live Because what else you finna be doing this time of night when your divorce got announced and sitting on the phone Jesus and gene in mind is watching this live And I still got to be real y'all got to understand that still got to be real And so both of them knew You got to understand seasons You see what I'm saying you got to understand seasons You might not eat Sauce you might not eat sauce. Y'all know what sauce is some people call it sauce or sauce But it's it's sauce other I think in other places they call it managed water But you know what sauce is it's like It's like pig feet pig ills Chitlins it's everything And so You might not eat that But if that's all you got to eat And it's hot Right out that boiling water And it's cold outside And that's all you got that's your only option You finna go to stick on that managed water You finna go to stick on that sauce It just tastes like it tastes like just water with a little bit of vinegar and salt and just Oh But if that's all you got So this how relationship is Gene in mind type Never thought that young jesus type Was handsome never never But when that clock is ticking And you want to have children And you on tv And you can't chime in on the marriage conversations on the talk or on the view or whatever she was on the talk And you and then you see women who Is less attractive than you Getting married And then you see women is willing to be pretty But they'll be with gabba dia Who from a lot of housewives? The the the nigerian man gabba dia When you as a woman and you see women with gabba dia A gotta be on You finna be like oh, okay. Well if Fallen And portion could be with gabba dia Gabba dia made jesus look like Michael be joy You finna You've been swan dive in that thing You don't tell you So i'ma try to tell you So they called each other At a broken state Jesus was Jesus was going broke He had money because you won't make a little money You're gonna make a little money somebody tell my Simon isn't ugly though Y'all let me know what y'all look like Y'all is letting me know what y'all look like Let me tell you You might look like the back of the lamp You might look like the back of the lamp It is If Simon look good, you might look like this bag of emerald And this and this thing is from 2018 You might look like this bag of emerald Come on now Come on now y'all need to stop Y'all need to stop Y'all in here talking about Kevin Hart is tall Y'all in here talking about Lil Wayne handsome Y'all in here talking about Simon gabba dia handsome Come on now Come on now Is Simon handsome? What is the rest of us? If Simon handsome If Simon handsome I need me a check From From gq tonight Come on now So listen When a couple is in a broken state When a couple is in a broken state Jesus was starting to go broke Because he wasn't making no music and he probably had Some real estate investments, but listen This is what you got to understand when you're making music you're making millions So you're making Half a million dollars a month You know how many properties you got to own to make a half a million dollars a month You have to own About 250 to 500 real estate properties So that's what you got to realize Now Hey, if a black man if a black man in america owns 250 to 500 properties every last one of us is gonna know about it Because he's gonna be in black enterprise. He's gonna be in essence he's gonna be in forks now, but He's gonna have his own talk show. He's gonna have a podcast He's gonna have a podcast Getting real estate advice He gonna come listen it black man. Yeah, it's black man with real estate But not enough to match what you make it at the height Of your music career So when young jesus got with gene and my That music career was on the decline So guess what? When you get with a woman And you know she asian She probably dated some black men in her past But if she been with asian men You know the myth you know the story about asian men So, you know asian men is said to be a love Small So if that's true Then you know as a black man You might be finna go in there And uh You see what i'm saying so You might be finna going in put on down And you know as a man If a woman want love She'll pay them bills Just like tola para just told y'all to do tola para just told y'all If this man is loving you down pay them bills He might not have everything But if he loving you and he doing the right and he doing all this he might not make what you make pay them bills That one tola para just told y'all you know why he said that don't because For a lot of people for a lot of women that's true It's a lot of women That are carrying a man So jesus you know If he if he might be starting to dwindle And jesus might god is gainfully employed That's a come up That's a come up the same thing about you know It's a lot of couples. I ain't gonna call our error couple But if you pay attention to these celebrity couples When they get together typically One of them is on the decline And what i'm on the incline What i'm on the decline what i'm on the incline Pre-nup don't mean nothing because you get certain things after a pre-nup But a pre-nup don't mean nothing because When you get married and you together you're able to funnel money You're able to get investments You're able to siphon some stuff off pre-nup don't mean nothing I got a i got a friend my business partner and friend is a billionaire He was only married for three years With a pre-nup He'd been divorced for about 10 years and still paying his ex-wife Pre-nup don't mean nothing Well and pre-nups come with perks Pre-nup come with different stipulations. They don't mean nothing So what you have to realize is This the lesson When you go into a relationship Make sure That you are equally yoked Make sure that you have a firm foundation Make sure that you can build on the same foundation That's why I try to tell y'all Your religion matters Your politics matter The way you raise children matter your your family believes matter All of this stuff here matter So you got to realize You got to realize If you get with somebody And y'all foundation is too different See this is the thing This is the thing The Asian woman And I'm just saying this I don't know if this is uh True, but I'm just giving an example I'm just giving an example Let's say an Asian woman believe That the baby got to sleep in the bed With the couple But the black man believed The baby need to be in a bassinet Or in their own room With a cam with a caramel If you believe different That's going to cause a rift And when you got a rift Whit post parting I mean whit post parting And everything is not going right That rift Could be like a thread on a shirt That you pull Unravel the entire scene That's what you have to realize So when you start to realize that That's when you come to the place to where you say okay Our foundation ain't the same So now I don't know who sexy red is But if she who I think she is from the one little video clip I think I seen No, young jesus wouldn't like her He wouldn't like her Cause he got a little substance to himself He got a little clash to himself He not just know He not like a Dumb Backwoods You know Sloppy black man he got some Smarts to him some class to him He ain't finna go for just know anything But see what it is is genie my She actually is out of jesus league in the sense of Probably education And communication and Culturation See because when you asian You finna have see you got to realize asians They got a they palette Is different They eat all kind of stuff Asian eat all kind of stuff that Black men from zone eight alana do not eat So that's what you got to realize so For a black man Yeah, he not barack obama But he's not He's not gucci main either See Gucci made a little more hood than jesus So it's a difference it's levels to the hood Little baby is more hood than jesus And so you got to understand that so See he probably thought he probably came to a place where he felt like he was a little too classy For the black women in his range In his circle and thought Let me get a little Let me get my asian wonder Get experience get get exposed to some different things Experience some different things get a little more class He probably thought it was an upgrade. He probably thought it was a little class But then he probably started to realize like whoa Okay, but it's a love Because he'll tell you something about men as men We we real finicky Because we visual creatures And we sexual creatures So a man could get with a woman And if she laughs like this He gone But there's women He gone because He can't get that thing up He can't i'm gonna tell you as men If a woman got something about her that is a pet peeve for that man He can't even get that thing up If she go laughing and she Snorting It's women who laugh like that Check please if they see it in the peels Oh, I got to go He gone I'm taking like that So this what you got to understand Do not get with somebody that you're not compatible with Do not get with somebody that you ain't got a foundation with Now let me now let me let me ask you a question and this is what I want you to realize Do you think a black grandma Is gonna want to raise Do you think a black grandma Gonna want to raise her Grandchild The same way an asian grandma Is gonna want to raise They grandchild And do you think an asian woman Who Got her culture Is gonna want her child her baby with a black woman Who got a total different culture and belief system A lot of black women don't want their baby going to a black mother-in-law So guess what's been to happen If a black man Get with an asian woman And then This asian woman don't really like nothing about his culture Don't like nothing about his mama Or nothing about his sister Nothing about his homeboys Nothing about the neighborhood he grew up in He's gonna come to a realization at one point And we ain't talking about just jesus and genie michael. We don't know their story. I'm just Pain a picture and using them as a lesson of why it's important that you be equally yours And that you have the same foundation He's gonna come to a place. So he's gonna be like dang So you with me because You was tired of being single And a bridesmaid For everybody but never the bride And because you wanted kids And because black babies Babies with black in it is in style Because of the Kardashians All of them set for Courtney the only one with some sense All the rest of the Kardashians got black babies because They see the black baby as an ornament They see the black baby as a Like an accessory Like a like a exotic Chanel purse And so now It's a lot of women. That's not black That want them a black man Just for the baby And a black a lot of black men don't know That a lot of women of another race is just using them For sperm donation A lot of black men don't know that And at the same time Some black men is using women of another race For a come-up When they down on a look Because a black man knows That a black woman Gonna know if he full of it And if he playing games and that's not all the way true because a lot of black women get played by black men, too But if a black woman can be played By a black man Then you already know a woman of another race Gonna be all the way for nest and swindle and bamboozle By a black man because she don't know nothing about his hustle and his scamming abilities A black woman a woman that's not black when she get with a black man if he want to get over on her She's gonna be like a deer Standing in the middle of the road In an f-250 Coming down that road She finna get worldwide And so when I went that's why Kanye West went to Kim Kardashian And not to Kelly Rowland I'm trying to think of black woman that was same Or Serena Williams That's why And see that's the thing too A lot of times in this celebrity realm People would go and get somebody of another race Because they believe Or they know that they are a prize To that other race So That's what you got to realize And That's what we got going on But hey, I got to go God. That's all um Listen, this is this is the takeaway Do not date outside of your race unless it is Authentic and organic Do not be somebody experiment Do not be somebody's sperm or egg donor Because of your genetics The only way you should date outside of your right your race is if you meet somebody organically And it is real Do not pick somebody of another race because they are a novelty or they are exotic The other lesson is Do not Date somebody that you do not share a foundation with You have to have the same culture Or you have to have a healthy respect and curiosity for the culture That's why when you see Race that's why when you see couples of two different cultures One person has conformed to the other race A lot of times when you see a black man With a traditional white woman Not a white woman that was raised with black people A black man with a Lily white woman Oftentimes he speaks like this and he Tries to speak like this because he wants to be Very intelligent and he wants to sound very studious and articulate And because he speaks like this and he is with a traditional white woman She does not want no man that talk like this right him Because she is a traditional white woman So she don't want no man talking like this talking about Mike Donald's talking about blight talking about strawberry Because she can't take him home to her father who is a surgeon So a lot of times the black man who is with a traditional white woman meaning that white men are also Attracted to her He typically talks very proper He's very studious. He's very educated and oftentimes when he tried to date black girls And this what i'm gonna tell y'all black women because some of y'all wrong Because some of y'all have ran off the studious well spoken articulate black men Because when he come up to talk to you some of y'all be What did you say did you say dubious? I didn't mean to laugh. I just never heard anybody say dubious in conversation Oh, I'm sorry Did you say And so now because of black women he like You know, I tried to date my I tried to date a sister He called y'all a sister I tried to date a sister But she laughed at me because and this what and this all this was all the articulate black men say She wants pookie and ray ray Who is pookie and ray ray? I don't know nobody named pookie and ray ray She wants a pookie and ray ray and so you know what it's like fine. It's like fine, you know Go where you celebrate it not where you tolerate it And then he go get him a white one now and then a white woman A lot of times the white woman if you pay attention Pay attention to interracial relationship. See I do this every day. I studied this This get on people nerves because I'll be telling the truth, but I studied this A lot of times a white woman with a black man She either got a forehead freckles Red hair Real curly hair A ball with one side longer than the other With highlights Or a big booty Or She is very very V-luxuous Meaning she built like the hill and she got a black man I just seen one of my um clients sent me a video of it was talking about how elderly white women are praying on young black African men And so I want you to start paying attention Now listen, there are exceptions to the rule But when you look at it typically That's what you're gonna realize So a lot of times When we see interracial dating We see two people Who were not accepted by their race Or we see one person Who is coming In a come-up getting a come-up with somebody other other race Who may not be accepted by the race right now? and so You do not date somebody out of your race unless it is organic And it is authentic Otherwise you are getting used And you gotta pay attention to The relationship to see if you're being used and why you're being used and how you're being used You've got to pay attention Because a lot of times you is being used And you don't realize it And so I want you to understand that so And and it's a lot of men who will come up on a woman who is in her bag in her season Making money because he looked like he he looked like money, but really he know he ain't got no money So like retina ain't got no money Ain't got no money right now, but if I was single And a woman saying that I got a six bedroom house And seven cars She gonna be like, dang Tony got some money. No, I used to have money But retina retina we in a recession retina Bill collectors calling me Hey, hold on hold. Hey, hold boy. You're here. Hold They calling me right now. They up on the phone. Cut out Sir I see you on live I see you're you two live right now If you've been to pay this car note or what? A man called me going off on me I'm like, sir Do you get a piece of this paper? He up there Sir It's you baby people or what? brother I'm like, you know how it is being a black man in america, man If you don't get on my phone, I say boy Y'all gonna get it when I got it I ain't got it right now but see women be falling for men Who look like money, but ain't got no money And I believe that was strongly the case with young jesus Where he probably had a little some money But not the money he had When he was the snowman and thought of motivating Not that kind of money but Jeanie mine She was gainfully employed Getting a check and got some notoriety So the same thing like with gabriel union When she got with the wane way If you pay attention when she got with the wane way She didn't have no She ain't body shame unless you shame of your body I ain't say nothing was wrong with this hill I said she was luxurious I ain't body shame unless you shame So you try to say this woman supposed to be shame of this I ain't say she supposed to be shame of that Don't put words in my mouth to comment So just like with gabriel union She ain't have no movies out Go back go back to see when they got together and look up her She ain't have no movies out When they're making good Got with davon franklin She had no She had no movies out She was in hot scotch on peacock She was in Harlem Y'all say the wane way it gave you I don't know That's what he that's wane. That's my dog. You know what I'm saying? He followed me on twitter. I done met the wane. I worked this count. I spoke. I was a speaker at his count I ain't judging the wane. That's my dog But hey Y'all call that thing how y'all call it? I'm fake. I can't talk about people. I know that I know the wane way it personally I know davon franklin personally. I done met davon franklin. We follow each other He followed on twitter. He followed on instagram. I follow him But sometimes I have to speak on things and I ain't trying. I'm not bashing nobody. I'm just I'm just showing y'all how you have to analyze relationships So when you take and you look at this couple You need to really be able to do an assessment Does this person have checks Coming in right now If the answer is no something fishy Some fishy some fishy And see a lot of people don't understand Checks a lot of people don't understand because they say oh was she an actress? So she famous you could be famous and broke There are famous people sleeping on their best friend couch There are famous people who have no money Trying to tell you You gotta understand that So listen to me now Do not get finessed By somebody of another race Because you think they are a prize Because you think that they are a come up Because you think That they are better than your race Don't get finessed That's one thing to Be equally yoked have the same foundation Have the same foundation Three your personality still gotta be able to jail even if you opposites You still got to be able to fit like a puzzle piece If a person Make you feel like they make you want to throw up Just because of their quirks and their personality. That's not your person They don't mean nothing wrong with them. That's just not your person Going about your business I'm gonna tell you like this right here Jeanie Mai is not attractive holistically To a black man from zonay Allow me y'all say you from zonay. I don't know what zonay from so forgive me. Jesus if you from another zone She's not she's not organically naturally attractive to a black man From zonay. She might be attractive to a black man from Breakin rich From from uh, what that play ball when heels But she's not naturally attracted to no black man from the south. I'm gonna just tell you that I'm just tell you that point like pierrot That don't mean she unattractive. She's a pretty lady. She's a pretty lady But we ain't From the south we we're not attracted to that We're not attracted to that. She's pretty for somebody else So when one of us from the south get with a genie might It is to experience that bow bow It is to experience That steam dumpling That crowd ragoon It is not It's to experience. It's you saying I want to it's selfish you saying I want to experience this other culture this other this other food that I've never Really indulged in And when I say food, I mean a woman I want to experience this this because how many women like genie might is in zone six or zone eight Not that many not that many So it really is an experiment But and this what people talk about chemistry what you got to understand by the experiment Is when you were in chemistry class Yes, you may have some chemistry But you also can have explosions In chemistry you mix the wrong two chemicals in chemistry class You losing your skin And your how you're losing it all You can rush to the hospital You don't want to try to tell you so you got to understand this you got to understand it You got to understand it So this is what's happening and what I try to tell y'all Do never from this day forward Never call a hollywood relationship couples goals hollywood Relationships that were formed in hollywood It's different if they were formed In high school and they got into hollywood But a relationship that was formed in hollywood Is for your entertainment And it is for their entertainment It has no substance Because it is hard to find substance When you already both have made money and had fame It's hard to have a genuine substantial connection So this is what I want you to understand I need you to understand it AT T Hey, you got to get there rest now. Can't you got that again cook tomorrow? So listen to me take these lessons For one stop because see a lot of people And I'm gonna tell y'all some I'm gonna tell you something Ladies now Jeanie. My she had the right To be bragging on her relationship. She had the right because they've been together for a little while So you would think you would think that she knew what she had But see that's the difference or when That's the difference of When you don't understand the culture that you with You don't mess with no zone nothing. You don't trust no zone nothing Need grow out of a lot You can't that right y'all That type of man could be trusted far as you could see him because he come from too much Savvy tree In those zones in Atlanta you pull up to the You pull up to the gas station. They don't let you pump your gas Then they don't hop in your car Why are you putting a gas pump on the thing and drive off with a full tank of gas on you? You can't trust that kind of man He got to move out of Atlanta And live in Washington, DC Dallas, Texas somewhere else for a little while in the suburbs Before he didn't get all that out of him get all that scamming out on get all that they're hustling out on then You could start the kind of But see genie mine G didn't know what she had on her hands Come a white told me what she read Is that the divorce papers like the servant papers say that it was filed June 15 and say she did a big follow-day celebration for him But she just got served yesterday or the day or something like that. So it's like boom So that mean he he didn't know he was going to be out of there and I'm gonna tell you what it was The it was the reformation In him That It was the reformation in him that made him wait this long When a man filed for divorce He been knew He been knew He knew last he knew two years ago That the relationship was over. But see a lot of times is when a man Have Did so much to make a woman believe in him He don't want to just drop him like a bad habit and do so dirty The way he just leave when he read it to leave he got to String it out a little bit He got to strain it out a little bit To try to let her down a little easier And so you got to try to You got to try to understand that So then what you got to realize Now And I'm speaking in real life not just about them because we don't know their business So you have to use inference. We're not just talking about them. We don't know their business She could have cheated on him with her ex-boyfriend Because he could be a placeholder. Jesus could have been a placeholder So all we got about their relationship is speculation. So we ain't talking about them specifically. We taking them as a depiction As a representation and we relating this to everyday life So she could have took And got with him For other reasons and then the person she got a soul tie with the person she truly truly was her first love She could have been talking to him I miss you. I truly love you Everything not going right in my marriage, but I gotta say face for the public We don't know what because that happens a lot Especially if a man ain't doing right and they acting right That'll push a woman to that place and sometimes when a man is doing right, but we got to ask ourselves How much right Can a man do? when he come from a lot of trouble like it it it's It ain't the easiest thing Like we be struggling. I'd be struggling in my relationship. I'd be struggling. My wife will tell you I'd be struggling like hey like just Communication like how to talk to people Like all that It ain't when you come from trauma when you're seeing a lot you you could struggle And it's a it's a daily Journey a daily struggle And so that's what needs to be understood But hey, if you miss any of this go back and watch it I got to go because when I sit here and I'm talking I go to sweating a little bit And so I got to go take another shower and out of shower And I did a whole probably seven step skin routine The night I'm talking about I got snail musing on I got hollonic Asked it on I got uh Toner on there moisturize on there My skin care collaboration coming out. I ain't got the best skin, but I'm working on it But I got a skin care collaboration coming out So y'all will see that soon get it for it for me and skin care. So you get it for your Your brother your husband your boyfriend or whatnot But if you miss any of this go back and watch it And listen to what I'm saying and I'm gonna tell you You can't be sensitive Because I'm going into a space to where I have to paint real pictures and I got to tell the truth And I got I got to tell you the truth based on What is real? I got to tell you the truth based on what's happening on average. There are exceptions to the rule But but based on what's happening on average. I got to be real with you. I'm not racist I'm not princess Now I got two or three black homeboys. Well one of them is he he bi-racial. So You know, his mama white. So the fact that his wife white You know, his mama white. So What you expect but I got a homeboy that I talked to all the time his mama and daddy black and he got a white white I got another homeboy Who mom and daddy is black. He got a white white So even so my close friends Got white wives some of them got white white two of them that I think of off top of my head got a white wife And then another guy I know got a white wife. So I see the relationships but I also see how they built And they built over time And but I also see why they came together So with my one homeboy He's not appreciated by black women because he's heavy set He heavy set and a lot of black women have this they they want a athletic bill And so because he heavy set and he doesn't have riches This black women was Cheating on him mistreating him taking him for granted He met a white woman and the same thing she Come from a white family that's very immersed in the black culture They talk like I talk So she's more accustomed to black men than white men So she's not what white men desire And he's not what black women desire So when they met They was a perfect fit because both of them were not being appreciated by their own And so that's what I try to help people understand that i'm just telling you the truth of how this stuff come together There are exceptions where A black man is deeply desired by black women and a white woman is deeply desired by white men and they get together There are some exceptions to the rule now a lot of times when we even look at those The black man has millions of dollars like he's a pro athlete And so but even in that case a lot of times the black man Was raised more around whites than he was around black So he relates more to whites than he does to blacks So my other homeboy who mama and daddy is black We he lived in a white neighborhood So because he lived in a white neighborhood he We was wearing when we were wearing jebos We were wearing jebos. We was wearing dickies We were wearing rebar classics He was wearing express, you know the store express He was wearing express And sparrows So You're not finna walk up to a black woman. Well, we're from In no express and sparrows And getting on real play So And then his wife She is built like a black woman And a lot of black men don't like I mean a lot of white men don't like a white woman with a Booty booty They like her to have the little A lot of white men won't they want to have the little pubescent the little pubescent booty But not a grown woman booty so What we call hams And then she also has A interesting look for a white woman. She's not blonde hair blue eyes So she have a Her face is shaped a little differently and her hair texture and style is a little different too so a white guy Who is him? He's looking for a white woman that looked like the woman on the sports illustrated magazine So once again, you got a black guy Who is not really respected and appreciated and liked by black women Because of how he was raised and how he talks and then you got a white woman who is not really appreciated and respected and desired by White men so now she get with this black man And she's a prize to the black man And then the black man is a prize to the white woman And then these people and this this go to show you how how it worked how ironic this is because these people Come together And they children a lot of times be phenoms A lot of times they children be slap phenoms like Look at like Lamello ball Lonzo ball Look at um Devin Booker Clay Thompson You know these are all biracial guys Even Steph Curry. I think his mama got a got white in her and and You could see the the recess of gene in his son because his son is got like orange hair and He dominated On Aaron Gordon who won the national championship with the nuggies. He got a white mom black dad so a lot of times these people who are not even appreciated by a their own race they'll come together and make a race then You'll realize this But Tony you said your wife was slim. We not talking about my wife, Leah And my wife is not white so Shut your mouth and touch it all And like I tell y'all don't be using my wife as no example because We don't speak on the queen in the palace You can't just be Saying her name just any kind of way You got you can't you can't put but in front of her name You got to come with respect And then you got to take him and listen to this So we talk about my wife And the thing about it is I didn't want my wife. I was looking for a one night stand And I am accepted by my race and my wife is black My wife black her mama my color Her daddy is a couple shades lighter than me And he indian jamaican, but he's still of color So you got to understand that we talk about biracial relationships so touching old and I and so listen to me now When you look at this and I want y'all I'm bringing y'all in to how I analyze relationships and how I analyze compatibility You have to really look at the person Harriet say what's the phenom? That's a like a superstar like a like a like a prodigy like somebody that's gonna be You know somebody that's rare somebody that's gonna be amazing Unicorn somebody say and so this is what you got to realize and understand And when you look at this Now you start to see Now you start to see and and and somebody say, um, genie ain't cheated on young jesus I don't think she cheated on him either Now if he come out and say she cheated then that'll be news to me and if she cheated I would believe this with one of like her first love or her last love like her real soul type, but she don't Typically a woman who dating a man that she don't understand She more so fears him Then she does love and respect him So To women of other races black men are scary That's why you have cairns what they call the cairns They are scared of black men To women of other races And to anybody to a black man I'm scared of black men from zone six in alana zone eight zone and any zone out of alana Unless it's sandy springs Unless he were born in sandy springs, georgia Or the the rich area of buckhead In one of them two million dollar houses i'm scared on And i'm a black man I'll shoot first and ask question later So what you think A asian woman gonna be she's scared of jesus So I can't see her cheating I can't see her cheating not with a woman dying every single day It's women dying every single day At the hands of black men and this is getting posted on social media You you you have to have a death wish as a woman to cheat on a man You have a death wish Because it's women that is going through craziness For far less For far far less So a lot of Women fear they man And so I don't see genius cheating and and if it it could have been a conversation That he considered cheating and he just ain't dealing with that He'd rather go anyway because he tried to eat them cold Then cold vegetable Uh Cold vegetable salad she'd be making Because I seen her make that one time I was tired of She turned my stomach. I'm about to go use the toilet. Nah, just talking about it. I got to use the toilet So I did not see jeez you face That man wanted some mic and cheese He bought it some some new little drumette and some little fried drumettes with that mic and cheese with them collard greens And I guarantee you genie because she probably loved him She probably went in there and cooked collard greens and had a Boiled dumpling in there one the little pork dim sum in there Jesus probably eat the collard greens. What's the choice bag of him? Oh, I put pork dumplings in there You know, it's just a mix of culture. You know the zone six of wet side You know where I'm from and you know, I just put that in there I don't know what she eat, but whatever her culture is. She probably put she probably put it in the collard greens I'm telling you right now That is grounds for divorce Not biblically, but they're not living biblically outside of the bible The way genie probably cooked What I see her make him she wasn't trying to adapt to the man culture She's trying to make the man adapt to her culture child. Don't bring me that child. You don't get out of my fame with that cold chopped up vegetable salad with no lettuce At least have me some lettuce with some boiled egg with some bacon bits Don't come over here with some chopped up cucumbers with some misdash that ain't even real seasoning genie Come on now genie may Do not bring that round here And I'm up here with this baby and you know, I got other four other kids and I'm up here with this baby And I'm getting them every other hour and you coming some you bring me some cold chopped up cucumber with vinegar and pepper and misdash That's grounds for divorce They're grounds for divorce So listen if I find one text message to that ex-husband I'm gone I'm just gone I got the cold Oh, what's this? You said hello Oh, uh-uh. No, this ain't gonna work Uh-uh, I told you when I met you. I told you when I met you. I don't play like that. We do not play like that I was on sick. We do not play listen. I'm gonna tell you one thing right now I'm gonna tell you one thing right now go on I tool right now and download thug motivation And I want you to listen that 10 times in a row because you didn't know who you dealing with I'm tired of it. I guarantee you Jesus had to say that to a time or two And she probably like calm down Calm down. You are not in the mood anymore We're married. I loved you and I'm trying to love you And I just made you some of the important dumplings where he chopped up cucumbers and I thought it was gonna be love I thought it was gonna be giving And I was making I'm like, this is giving And I hear you are complaining. I'm telling y'all this is the kind of stuff that be happening Any relationships and because y'all don't have Jesus Christ at the center And because y'all ain't come to me for relationship Coaching before you got married And because you can see they were the king to me I would have told them Okay, I'm gonna say listen Jesus You need to do four sessions one on one Jeanie you need to do four sessions one on one And then y'all need to do four sessions together And when I got on the phone with Jesus Out of a listen, he'll not bro Listen, he'll not now what you got off your sleeve Because this right here don't even look like your type Because your type more like Keisha k your Your type At the least train You know, she a little light, but still she got she got a figure Now what you gotta hey this man a man now, bro. Listen, I'm gonna tell you like this Don't do that one like that Don't do that one like that. Don't don't try to come up on that one because she on the talk I mean because she on uh, yeah, she on the talk with them with uh Braxton and uh By long them or Milan them Don't do that one like that. That's what I would have told Jesus And huh, I would say listen You finna go from y'all say she had a white hood. I would say if you finna go from a white man To a zone six a zone eight former drug You sure about that How many how many how many grounds how many grounds in the house What the key's going for nine? How much a key going for? Oh, you don't know the answer This ain't this ain't gonna work Y'all for y'all get married. You got to come to me Come to me And i'ma tell you the truth. I'ma analyze because as soon as I seen jesus And gene in mine. I said that ain't no real relationship That man don't bit more like her than the man on the moon. That ain't no real relationship I said what is this? And then I saw him out of his I saw him out of his comfort zone When she was talking and they doing a little interview together and they whatever kind of show that it was on and they said no And i'm looking and i'm like And he just was kind of he put a white voice on When he put that white voice on I say y'all this ain't gonna laugh This ain't gonna laugh Not no zone six. This ain't gonna laugh not not the snowman Not snowman. No, this ain't gonna laugh uh So listen, i'm hoping this a publicity start and he got an album He's been the drop of album because nods drop the album killer might drop the album So the old school rappers, they still drop it out. So hopefully this is this a publicity stunt in amaris april first and He got an album coming or she finna drop a book or he finna drop another book Y'all say you got a book I didn't even know that but that's the kind of stuff that happened if you married If you married outside the race you finna go you finna get book deals You finna you finna be able to do stuff like that because not married outside the race but when you do a hollywood marriage you finna be able to do it because You look good. You look good as a couple and companies like couples They like people who are you you look stable And so for a lot of men in hollywood a relationship is a play They run in a play to look more stable and suitable and and respectable and respectable to the brands And then you just go to pop it because your relationship goes so now your reel's going viral everything going viral So hey, y'all get this here in your spirit. We don't win two hours. I got to go because uh I'm gonna feel again It's gonna work up and listen. I'm gonna tell y'all this is against my rules I don't speak on people especially people from zone whatever and allow them because Jesus might I might run, you know, this might Bother him. He might be trying to put a hit on me. Lord No weapon falling against me. She had a prosper So that's why I don't speak on people because and reason why I don't speak on people because I'll take your life by speaking on me And so because I understand that That's why I don't like speaking on people. That's why I try not to say names If I feel like the person is a shooter or they got shooters And jesus got shooters So if this offended him He might want to, you know, spin the block And so that's why I try to be real But respectful You know and and I'm telling the truth, you know, but try to be real And We not gossiping We teach you So touch your nose And shut your mouth So what we do with this type of stuff is we draw lessons because if you in the media If you in the public you are a representation And you sending a message to people And so when you in the media and you sending a message Especially in relationships. It's my job. I got to teach on it I got I got to teach on it because people will Have the wrong idea And they'll pull the wrong Messages from it See a lot of people will look at jesus and genie mine And lose hope for love Not realizing it was never love So a lot of people look at it and they like Man, what's going on? Man, I can't believe this man What's going on? Like Man, is anybody Is it anybody in love? Is it in is love even real? And not realizing that this was a planted relationship That this was never real And any relationship and this something that's going that y'all not gonna like y'all ain't gonna like this right here Ain't gonna like this any relationship that ends Was not real love God don't in God is love Any relationship that ends was not real love And it's so many people that think their past relationship was real love And that's why they can't attract new love Because they calling their past real love. So if your past was real love, then what room do you have for a future? So any relationship That ends Was not real love And if it was not real love If they get back together it will end again If it was real love They will get back together and they will make it work because let me tell you what love does Love does not end Love does not run Love does not quit Love stands and fights But here's the thing when I say fight meaning you are working together against the world You're not fighting each other And what you have to understand about love, let me teach you something about love Love is never one-sided If love is one-sided, that's not love. That's self-hate Because when you love someone They should reciprocate the love And if they don't reciprocate the love You loving yourself You remove yourself from the equation So understanding that about love and that comes from me Now you're going to hear these fake relationship coaches steal exactly what I said And say it word for word on these little raggedy podcasts Well see what I want you to understand is that love Does not run Love does not end Love stands and fights And then everybody will be in the crowd clapping And he's going to sit there and act like I don't exist He's going to sit there and act like I didn't have a witness That heard me say that out my mouth Watch to see what I tell you watch to see what I tell you because everyone I want to be doing They be quoting me verbatim And do not say well as Tony Gaskin said They can be Stealing from what I had to suffer to learn Listen can't carry My message you got to carry your message Understand that hey Tony See one thing about my family and the Gaskins whenever we got ready to leave the barbecue My dad would be like all right now y'all we finna head on out And then he'll talk another hour I'm from the back porch and then he'll walk into the house All right now we finna head on out of here now. Hey y'all be good now And then he'll talk another hour And then he'll get out of the house to the driveway I ain't not boy. Hey, man. I got that boy. We finna head on out of here. I gotta get these kids on and then he'll talk another hour And then he'll get in the car and be biking out with the window down and then he will talk another hour All right now all right now. Hey, yeah, yeah, we finna take on all yeah. Hey, all right now all right y'all And talk another hour. So y'all got to forgive me when I Say i'm finna get off of here and then I talk another hour But this time i'm finna go for real god bless you cause we got soccer game tomorrow. Oh tomorrow is class tomorrow is class Don't miss class. It's on tony gaskinsacademy.com If you in this live you need to be in class tomorrow It's at 8 p.m from 8 to 10 Because do you understand what i'm playing at 10? So we ate at 10. It's an intense teaching on healing your heart breaking soul ties Connecting deeper with yourself. So what you see on here? I don't be I don't go all the way in this right here. We have a little fun tomorrow I cold switch not not really but It's it's it's science class We we we going in anybody who take my classes? No Now we'll have a couple of laughs, but It's science class anybody that took one of my Saturday schools if you have Let the folks know in the comments that It we really be we be working. I will be working. So tomorrow is called The heart work It is hard work, but it's called the heart work and It's a $15 class because we don't have q&a unless I finish the lesson early If I finish the lesson early, then we'll open up for q&a So I can answer the same question 50 times in a row with the same answer But I'll let y'all get y'all questions off I'll let y'all get y'all questions off Tony I want to know How do I get over my ex? Didn't I just explain that for the last hour and a half on the call? It did the next question Tony I was with my ex for six years And I love him so much and I just want to know how to start over Well, um as I told as I said to the last young lady What you want to do is And then the next question um, Tony, you know, I'm having a tough time and I just want to know like What does it mean to have a fresh start? well, um So what you want to do is so that's how I'll be doing but y'all I want y'all to know I love you I love you And I don't mean to question shame you Like they say no question is a bad question Like they say no question is a bad question, but Every question is a good question So tomorrow it's a teaching So have a pen or a pencil and a notebook And you write everything you can you're gonna have a book when you're done You're gonna have a book. We are teaching And then what you don't catch You log back into the academy and you listen to it again To catch what you missed and you've got two weeks to listen to it over and again over and over and over again So go to tonicassesacademy.com Rat 9 get your spot I'm about to depending on what time it is. I got to go close registration So I'm gonna give y'all about another See some people gonna watch this later and then go to sign up and be emailed to me in the morning Tony I want to know can I sign up for the class? But I'm gonna go on there and see if it and hit capacity if it and hit capacity. I got to close it So I'm gonna give y'all about 15 to 30 minutes now before I go to bed to go to tonicassesacademy. Now listen now Now I'm gonna tell you this right here If you do not have $15 Simmer email Simmer email because I know it's tough times right now It's tough times right now Simmer email Not to get in the class free, but so we could come up with just a lust with a little bit of strategy Come up with a little bit of strategy So because I'm gonna help you get some money in your pocket I may give you if you don't have $15 rat 9 I may put you in an entrepreneurship with purpose course And put you in the streams of income course and Maybe the person something I may I'm gonna give you a course because that breaks my heart That breaks my heart when people be writing in Tony ain't got $15 You know, and I'm like, man I know what that feel like And so that's why I got all them courses on tonicassesacademy.com trying to help people Come out of that right now But it's it's real. So I'm gonna give y'all about 15 30 minutes Um, some people are already because they on their cell phone. They know already had to You know what I just learned too Some people don't have a laptop Some people don't have a laptop or a tablet and And I'm not laptop or tablet shame in you but I just I just learned that but and I'm gonna pray for you, you know, I'm praying for you on that too and I want to help you Get in a position where you could get a laptop and or get a tablet but I just learned that you know, not long ago that Some people they sold a total thing is just a phone like everything is done on their phone and I was wondering when sometimes people send a book in to get edited and I'm like, what did you type this on? Because this is not this is not Microsoft wording So what was this type done? and so Somebody said they're paying for for the first email So first email that I see that came for the class tomorrow. Somebody just paid for you Now you too, but take 30% of that but I'm gonna still let it I'm gonna let it I'm gonna let it ride Let it ride You too. Y'all be be ashamed. Y'all say it doesn't take too much But hey, God bless y'all again. It's Tony. Got some academy.com. We got class tomorrow It's gonna be real and to be honest with you. I also do these classes so that we can feel smart So we can feel smart a lot of times we get left out of feeling smart and we watch these other people at tech con and ai con and This kind of con and that kind of con, you know, all these conferences and I'd be like, man, what our conference is at Well, we can feel smart. So sometimes I do these just so we can do some deep work But the thing about it is On these classes like on here. I said a couple names, but on the classes I have to I have to sign all the way up You know, I have to sign off. Well, I don't leave it open till I get off it But on these classes meaning I don't have to sign all the way up or reason somebody said But only classes it's all the way real and so I have to put it behind a paywall because if I do it up here they could get it taken down and then also If somebody want to hate I'm I'm gonna make them pay to hate Instead of letting get on here hate for free So I do this to protect the audience and to protect what we're talking about because On here and even in the classes sometimes if I have to be very direct about sex or adult topics or a person that is setting a Example for us to look at and it's the wrong example and I see millions of people being deceived by this fraudster I have to speak on that and share the discernment that god has given me that Somebody else may not have that same gifting so Now shanty smell you might not if you don't know my if you don't know my support email Are you a supporter or a spectator? To see in my classes. I like to have supporters So it was poor email So it's like I really don't hear to be giving out free courses to spectators You're supposed to know that support email if you are already in tonic guys academy.com But you should be see a contact button on tonic guys academy.com and also on my website tonic gaskins.com But it's a difference between tonic gaskin.com and tonic gaskins academy.com So listen get y'all by 30 more minutes sign up for class tomorrow. It's called Saturday school This is a series. We've done about 20 of these and we do them on all kind of topics. So once y'all Get in Saturday school if it's your first time then you will see the other Saturday schools that I do So we do them on everything. We do them on all the topics that I am qualified and able to speak on I don't do them on stuff. I'm not very well versed in And we also have a publishing boot camp coming up And on there I'm going to be announcing a venture but for 2024 and also Announcing the writer's retreat Which will be me and most likely three people unless I find a type of Comfortable place that will hold more but a lot of the cabinets have like four bedrooms And what's going to be a deep? You know real session like a real prepare you to Be a full-time author one day type of session. So That's what I am. You know, I write books And I've been writing books in 2007. So I'm gonna give you the whole game And I got another book coming out called war The support group with the free Introduction and chapter first chapter is on Tony guys of academy.com. You'll see it war It's not edited. It's all the way wrong. But god bless y'all got to go We'll talk soon and caramel kisses the growth club. She just told y'all about the growth club. The growth club is our monthly group coaching So one-on-one sessions is not affordable for everybody So I made group coaching for forty seven dollars A month instead of you paying a coaching fee And so you'll see the growth club on Tony guys of academy as well And again, we try to be a little more real a little more no-holds bar When we over there. So, um, god bless y'all And we will talk soon And just because somebody live in the continent don't mean they act like continent Because culture is culture. So they might have had to move like that Open restaurant or something with that generational wealth And still in poll they culture on a daughter If anybody on health still think genie mom is hood Y'all know what hood is God bless y'all