 It's easy for people who wanted to deprive gays and lesbians of their rights to make all kinds of statements in campaign literature or on TV where they can't be cross-examined. But the witness stand is a lonely place to lie. You cannot say after the fact we are going to take away the constitutional right to liberty, privacy, association that we already tell you you have. That is not acceptable. I am asking you to tell me how it would harm opposite sex marriages. All right, Your Honor, my answer is I don't know. How convinced are you that you are gay? I'm convinced because at 47 years old I have fallen in love one time, and it is with Chris. We would love to have a family, but the timeline for us has always been marriage first. You two are about the most responsible, important, meaningful things I will ever do in my whole life. And don't you ever let anyone ever make you feel any different. You got it? We put fear and prejudice on trial. We put fear and prejudice on trial. The word marriage has a meaning. If it wasn't so important, we wouldn't be here today.