 Hello everyone done a video driving in the car to talk about How the narcissist Doesn't get over you and this is an interesting topic because as many of you will know Once the relationship is over They're doing everything they can to prove to you That they are over you They will even tell you They will say that they are over you they will stop talking to you They will just appear to move on with their lives to ride off into the sunset Possibly with a new person because they really want to prove to you That they are over you they really want to prove to you That they can forget you That they can replace you very easily though You're really not that special You're really not that important to them They can just move on Whenever they like and just act like You never existed. Now. This is what they want you to think they want you to think that they can get over you Overnight as many of you probably know you can't get over someone that easily or That quickly especially If you are with them for a long time So the narcissist Doesn't really get over you. It's an illusion It's a facade they're acting like they've got over you But in reality they haven't just something they're using to Maybe lowering this new supply and also To hurt you To make you feel insignificant as though you don't even matter to them may never have been Emotionally invested in you so they may not miss that side of things but what they will miss is the physical side maybe the affection just feelings of safety Stability and security those type of things. It's very difficult for A narcissist to get over that if you kept them stable and secure You were predictable and you didn't change and they do miss that That's very difficult for them to get over It's not easy for them to find someone Who can do that? Who can do what you did most people their lives are in shambles all over the place, but with you it was predictable It remained unchanged And that's what they really like. That's very difficult for a narcissist to get over and on top of that There's other things Like the benefits and convenience Is that you provided to them whether it was money? So many things that you gave to the narcissist things that they liked because as we know narcissists are all about themselves All they do is consume everything you have to offer So it's not easy for a narcissist to get over that they can't just move on and find someone Who can give all of that to them black like they can? But it's not that simple you have to think like this Even for a normal person To find someone good To find someone who will Take people know what narcissists are the very cautious of Of people who have developed relationships very quickly one of the red flags of a narcissist So now people are going to be very cautious narcissists can't just swoop in and Just grab new support just like that anymore It's so easy for them. You may be left without any suitable Replacements for you no pathic tendencies. They may just prefer to be alone And to be with someone who's not what they really want and it gets very lonely He for them makes them think about you even more Because now there's nothing to distract them and it just makes it even longer for them to get over you as they never Process those emotions. They never actually Observe and examine What they're thinking and feeling in their mind they disown those parts themselves They've done on to other people you may have someone there who is helping you get to where you need to be but That's just a mask just covering up the work that you are supposed to do Doesn't really mean that you're moving forwards in anything Because if our person wasn't there You would just go straight back to where you were before this is what they do So how can they ever move on? It is just an illusion. It's just a facade It just doesn't work that way. You you can't be with someone Such a long period of time about one day you just decide It doesn't work that way the signal isn't very good. So I've got to cut this video short And there will be more live videos very soon