 And howdy folks. I'm Anthony dream Johnson your favorite president of the Manisphere here today with a special interview for 21 live with Bruce Wayne's third cousin coach Cory Wayne YouTube's top coach Cory welcome to show man. Thanks, man. Thanks for having me. Absolutely man. It's been good meeting you We met about a week ago now. Yep, and I got to be interviewed by you at Wayne Towers as I call them Orlando. That was a good time man. Thanks, man. Went for like three hours. So I was I was impressed Yeah, my neck was pretty jacked up because I'd spent about three hours before interview and Dr. Dominic Deanna and sitting there the whole time like this looking at him And so I was about six hours straight. Wow, and when he worked on me the next day My neck was all jacked up and cranked over. Cool. So we got a lot of good footage, so so for those You don't know coach Cory Wayne. He's a big youtuber up and coming and he's getting for an individual youtuber He's huge. He's about to break 400,000 subscribers. I think any day now He's big on Instagram But mostly in YouTube is where you'll find them and I've been following his content for years Both personally a little bit and then my friends that keep recommending his videos to me a lot of fans too They're requesting him as a speaker of the 21 convention. We'll see if that happens He's also an author self-published how to be a 3% man. This is his first book second edition And you have another book as well mastering yourself. Yep mastering yourself came out in 2018. It's more of a Figuring out your purpose in life quality of life things. I go into health. I go through my whole life story There's a lot of business stuff in there and marketing stuff because these are all things that I get into with with my clients And by having all that stuff down in book format Yeah, you know that way they can read it and learn that stuff ahead of time and then we can be more efficient the phone Sessions, let's back up a second here. So you've been on YouTube since 2012 11 I think it was 2011 I did my first video and I've been blogging for several years before that writing and on your website understanding Relationships calm. Yeah, so but you weren't always doing this obviously I mean, you know to that 2011 you started YouTube blogging a bit before that Before all that you were in real estate and even before that you've been a lifelong entrepreneur Yeah, well my parents were entrepreneurs. They were in the coin laundry business Okay, you know my dad even to this day still has two coin laundries that do very well They started out doing like I was a kid in middle school. We were doing a lot of hotel Accounts or we're doing Sheets and towels from like, you know, we had two big hotels and this is all in Florida. You grew up in yep Yeah, South Florida, Pompano Beach area for the waterdale area and the West Coast got myself for Myers for misery They call her misery kid kid coma one of my high school buddies was from there And he actually lived with and you know our senior year with one of my other friends that I went to high school with Because obviously he liked it over in Pompano for a lot better. Yeah, but you know my background is I'm a builder I'm an engineer. I went to school for construction management So I have an engineering background and I used to work in the construction industry I worked for three different companies before I started my own the last one was a company called syntax Rooney and the 90s They were part of syntax construction group, okay, which at the time they were the largest builder in the world And we worked at the Coronado Resort of Disney World, which is like I think it's 2,000 rooms 300,000 square foot. Yeah, I've been there It's huge pretty amazing project if you're ever at Disney. It's a beautiful place to stay It's got a replica of a Mayan pyramid with waterfalls going down the stairs and steam and smoke and stuff coming off I think I stayed there as a kid. Yeah, pretty cool place Nice, so I did that and then I you know my I started on that path when I was 18 because I have my whole goal Was I just want to buy fix and sell single-family homes for a profit So to be clear here, you've been an entrepreneur your entire adult life. Yep. Nice. I could say the same as well And that's that's unusual. That's rare. That was a path. I didn't start my first company till 96 You were early 20s. Yeah, so I would have been 26 years old at the time close enough Yeah, so I figured at the time I had enough experience in the business and I was you know, I was tired I wanted to get out of the corporate world. Yeah, and They were getting ready to ship me off to another job anyways because most of the stuff I was in charge of was mostly done and coordinated And I really didn't want to move anywhere and it just you know I had that internally itch inside that was telling me that it's time to move on and do what I the whole reason why I got in To construction management in the industry is learn how to build because then when I start flipping houses I can do a great job fixing them up that kind of thing Well, it sounds like you went from building houses to building relationships Well, it really started out as a hobby to help myself when I was in you know I think the first quote that I memorized while I was in sixth grade Well, and I can even I remember it to this day one of my my buddies that I was in sixth grade with He had a quote in the back of his folder and it said There is a point at which you can only see so far When you reach that point you can see further live one day at a time and make it a masterpiece Okay, and so I that kind of started a lifelong fascination with self-help personal growth You know study and biographies of famous successful people. Yeah before we went live You're telling me that you were into you know listening Tony Robbins his personal power tapes and things like that interviews back in like the early 90s Yeah, well late 80s early 90s Wow, you couldn't turn on a TV without seeing the Tony Robbins commercial and the flow bee and those other things that you know That was like a vacuum cleaner attachment that you just kind of vacuum the hair and the suction of the vacuum would cause these blades to spin So when your hair got sucked into the thing it would chop it off and make it the right length Then Tony Robbins was was on and I remember was up late one night and I was I think in my fifth year of college Hmm, I was thinking man all my buddies were graduating coming home and here I still had at least another two years to go of school because I dropped in classes that were hard and And it wasn't until I went through Tony Robbins work that I realized how I was mentally sabotaging myself Because I was afraid to find out if I was smart off the past calculus Yeah, and some of the physics and some of the other classes that I had to take and you end up getting a degree in engineering Yeah, well I destruction management was in the College of engineering design, so I had to have a lot of engineering classes to get if you're building a skyscraper you got to understand how Moment and inertia and you know the strength of concrete and the Tental strength of rebar and what I heard how hard this stuff is yeah Because you got to figure this stuff out because if your columns aren't big enough the building will collapse one of our speakers as I mentioned Is a civil architect you know Socrates I hear a lot about this I know a couple engineers to guys my age I went to school with and stuff so tough stuff man Yeah, so that you know, I just started setting self up because I wanted to be successful I went to my parents the best thing that they ever did for me was they sent me to a Catholic high school Cardinals high school in Fort Lauderdale. Wow Yeah, I'm just a blue collar middle-class type type of guy. I'm going to school with all these rich kids They're driving Porsches and stuff to school and you know, I'm driving a 10-year-old Toyota and hanging out with these guys And what what struck me was that they're just regular, you know I didn't feel inferior when I would hang out with them or their parents I I recognize that they're just regular people. Yeah, there had to be something different They were doing that enabled them to be way more financially successful than the average person and So I just started studying self-help more especially to figure out what was why was it? I kept dropping all these classes and I couldn't get over the hump Yeah, and after going through Tony Robbins personal power tapes what I realized that I Was so afraid of failing and that my because my mother's way of trying to motivate me was you know You're never gonna mount to anything. You're gonna turn out just like your Aunt Mary Ann And you know she didn't get along with her sisters and and so as a you know negativity Basically, yeah, that was her way to try to motivate me and I in back of my mind I'm thinking what if she's right then I don't get my degree and all this time I spent college as an absolute so safe to say this is not productive for you being successful in this kind of parenting Well, you could say it turned out okay cuz on the end part of the attitude because masculine energy grows through challenge And part of it was like fuck you mom. I'm gonna prove you. Yeah, right I'm gonna prove you wrong and and I was determined to figure it out You know because you're you know was like 22 at the time And so I'm like I'm literally having the thoughts of myself that I'm gonna be a fucking loser The rest of my life and never never do what I want to do and have to settle for mediocrity or I'm gonna find a way and succeed and what clicked when I was going through Tony's stuff was the my fear of failure and Cuz people do more to avoid pain than they do to gain pleasure And so what I was doing was that when it came time to sit down and do calculus homework or physics or any other class That was dropping I Would I didn't want to do it it didn't feel good because in the back of my mind I'm scared. I'm not smart enough and So I would just kept putting it off and putting it off and you know two and a half weeks in the new semester You've got your first test And so like all right now I got us I got to stay home and cram this week And then when you you're two and a half weeks behind in calculus and try to clunk cram in a day Yeah, it's not gonna work I go in there and I fail at first test because I wouldn't I'd see these problems I wouldn't recognize any of it and didn't understand it and What I what really clicked with me and I recognized what I was doing I was sabotaging my own success. I kept putting things off and then it would just build up to this big mountain Then I would try to cram and it would it just wouldn't work And then so I didn't up drop in a test or two and you know back then usually the Professors would allow you to drop your worst test score. So I and that would be the excuse So I'd be coming up to the drop date or you can drop it and not get an F Just a withdrawal basically yep And I would just withdraw from the class and then figure out I'll take it next semester And so I would take other classes that I enjoyed and I could pass no problem But at the end of the day if I stood in past calculus, I didn't get my degree I wouldn't be able to get my general contractors license. I wouldn't be able to have the life I wanted so I I learned to kind of reverse the psychology on myself instead of going Oh, wow friends is on tonight. I'll watch that and then this weekend. I'll study or Seinfeld So you're 50 51 50 just turn 50. Okay. Nice congrats. Yeah halfway to 100. Yeah, thanks, man Yeah, 50 is a third of the way to 150. Yeah, exactly 50 is a new 30 for men. I think you're fine My goal to me is to live. I want I'd like to live to be 150 just to okay Can you imagine how much change you'd be able to see? Yeah a lot What would happen who knows man with modern tech and if civilization isn't fall apart. I think it's possible for sure Yeah, so but it's just interesting because you're from such a different generation. I mean you're 20 years ahead of me I'm 31 myself. So it's hearing you, you know watch friends and the Tony Robbins tapes in the 80s I was in the you know, I was born in 88. So this year. I graduated high school. Yeah Wait a thing when you say beer is good sex is great. We're the class of 88. Yeah, yeah, you saw the whole room So let's There's a lot of one to get into with you with the limit of time. We have we had about another hour to go Before we get into some political things that want to get into Trump stuff and other other issues Tell me about the book how to be a 3% man. What is a 3% man? Why is that important? So why should I care the reason I well the book covers date a pick up dating and a relationship It's like transitioning through all three phases because it's a different skill set Yeah for each now if you're just picking up girls and taking a moment banging on this So you really only need to know the basic seduction stuff Yeah, but if you meet a girl you actually want to date and enjoy hanging out with and listening to you know If you don't get that transition, right? You're gonna fumble the football and she's got a friend zone you or blow you off or Say, I don't feel like some of your disaster disaster will happen Yeah, so I I wrote the book because it's basically based on my life story because I had to figure all this stuff out I certainly didn't learn anything from my parents as far as a relationship goes because my mother was a psychotic schizophrenic I mean she literally flipped out had a nervous breakdown when I was I was 19 I was in college and she was never the same again and My parents never hugged us. They never said I love you They argued a lot my dad just sat in front of TV and kind of drank beer and spaced out and zoned out And so like when it came to the dating world, it's I had no skills I didn't know what to do and you didn't feel that you were in a culture that enabled you to otherwise learn about Women and relationships is that about right? I just well the Just the idea was that there's something wrong with you if you can't get a date and you're just a broken human being and What can just be like friends a man just friends, you know, everybody's just friends and all works out, dude Yeah, yeah be friends first. Yeah friend exactly friends first So I knew that something was wrong and I got I got married in the mid 90s to a girl was my wife was awesome She was a great wife came from a really good family had a good relationship with her parents and her dad She she was really into me any kids. No, we didn't have kids really married a year But it's like I love I really loved her and I cared about her, but I wasn't in love. I didn't feel like a spiritual connection I didn't feel like the universe had Destin us to be together. I should have dated her for a few years and then when I moved to Orlando, you know We should have split up, but I didn't know any better I mean, you know where I'm gonna get information from my parents or my grandparents, you know It was just nothing but dysfunctional relationships and in my family from my perception And guys that I knew they were really good with women They just knew what to do and they couldn't explain would just say things like just be a dick You know, that's kind of not helpful, you know, well, it's better than being a nice guy. Yeah, exactly But yeah, it's pretty sure at the end of the day That's that's not gonna get you very far just just being it being a dick about it So I knew there were things I needed to learn and I always Believe that we're spiritual beings having a human experience and there are no accidents in life I believe like we're talking about the other day. I believe in reincarnation. Yeah, I find that surprising It wasn't a journey of the soul. I believe the soul is not gender specific I believe in one life. You might be a man the next life. You might be a woman and Race and all that other stuff. It's it's kind of irrelevant. It's really just the Spiritual fleshy avatar if you will that our spirits inhabit as we're going through life And it's like when you meet somebody and you feel like you'd known them forever Whether it's a guy you become friends with a customer or a woman that you date You know, that is the universe's way the divine's way of kind of it's like you recognize each other Yeah, all my my closest friends girls I've dated that were really good high quality relationships and some of the women I've been friends lifelong friends with like my assistant who I've known for Like 25 years. Do you identify with any organized religion today? No, I was raised Catholic. I studied Catholicism I studied Islam I studied read the Quran the Bhagavad Gita the What's the one that Madonna's into You know what I'm talking about the The Jewish faith the Kabbalah read the Kabbalah and I just didn't I didn't resonate with that You know, I would ask you know, because we went to Catholic high school So there were priests and nuns teachers and I would ask him about things. Okay, so what happens when a six-month-old baby dies Does that baby go to hell or like? Oh, we don't really know It's like they just didn't have answers for things. I wanted answers to get a lot of questions Yeah, and I just didn't I didn't die with you sound like a troublemaker Corey Yeah, well, it just seemed like a lot of dogmen to me and you know, I'm a seeker I wanted I wanted an answer, you know, I was like that kid was always like, but why yeah I'm not satisfied with what we don't know. We just trust it's part of this question. Why why is that? So, huh? I set out to figure it out and part of that was studying, you know, these traditional religious books Yeah, and you get a little bit from each one you start to see commonalities and I would have my own Experiences and Like I said, I I wanted to have a spiritual connection with a woman where I felt like it was a soulmate type of thing But you know, I don't believe that You have one soulmate. I believe you have multiple You can have multiple soulmates were like said when you meet him You feel like you know him already and you talk and it's effortless. I should put this on my Tinder profile All right, let's one of the but one of the biggest things you say I think on your everything you do website YouTube channel everything You say life and correct me from wrong say life is relationships That's a that's a big statement. That's a philosophic statement. Talk to me about that. Why isn't life suffering? I learned that from one of my teachers is these gurus out in India. Shri Amma Bhagavan Okay, he was the first one that it said that and You have some competition people like Ron Peterson say life is suffering and people say life is maybe the pursuit of happiness I guess a lot of competing ideas out there. That's how I wanted to bring it up, too Yeah, so I look at life is relationships I mean everything is relationships with other human beings whether it's a woman You're trying to date and have a relationship with or your friends or your parents or your customers at the end of the Day, it's all about influencing other people to help them Give you what it is that you want and also you helping them get what it is that they want And so, you know, the reason I chose understanding relationships comm is because I'd my goal when I started this was not just to Do dating and relationship stuff Yeah, is that that was just gonna be the first book in a series of books But it took so long to figure out where the right spot was to because if you go to the average guy I got a book that's gonna help you understand women. Yeah, they're gonna look at you like you're nuts And yeah, I don't have time for that. I gotta go to the gym or I got to work I get this I get that but as soon as the girl that they think is gonna be the next wife There's love of their life friend zones and we're goes. Ah, there's no chemistry. There's no spark I just kind of think of you as a friend. Yeah, or the wife serves them at divorce papers They're like, where the hell was that guy's name in that book? I mean there's like dead bedroom and stuff like that. What's that a dead bedroom if you heard of that No, I haven't dead bedroom Marriage or long-term relationship or the sex dies to the bedroom is dead, you know guys You probably heard of clients like yeah Well, so years of that sex all of the guys that I talked to Married or in long-term relationships I'd say probably 90 95% of them are in counseling and therapy Well, and this therapist is pleading with the wife or the girlfriend Please have sex with your husband or your boyfriend. You gotta You gotta put out basically And I actually have a book that says it says first kill all the marriage counselors. You might enjoy it Well, I mean it has its place for communication, but they just they don't have the skill set They don't understand attraction. They don't understand how to teach it and I'll do one phone session with a guy and It's just getting him to act masculine and be the leader again and start dating and courting his wife or his girlfriend Properly and I mean the sex comes back like that whether it's a heterosexual couple or a gay couple or you know I coach a lot of lesbians as well Because the let most of the lesbians I talked to tend to be more masculine and they like feminine women They have the same exact problem that heterosexual guys have when their girlfriends don't want to sleep with them So I basically just teach them to act like the guy would act And I'll get an email after the phone session like we just had the best sex We've had in two years and they hadn't had sex in a year You know just because she started acting like the leader in the masculine one So every relationship there's got to be a good strong sexual polarity between masculine energy and feminine energy When they're too much alike, it's it's like platonic. It's friendship This is why we talked about feminism of the day in your interview you did with me And I I believe that feminism is like a philosophy of zero the one is zero everything out They want to zero out masculinity the one is zero out femininity and the result is everything's a deep polarized You know flat line kind of mess and it results in destroying relationships dead bedrooms. I was dysfunctional crap fix Yeah, so we'll get in that later. Maybe Here's another question I have because you you've done a really good You know after four years in the man of sphere operating as a conference organizer a media publisher You know speeches and all that that we do Early on I was a guy who would actually inject some level of political discussion even at a philosophic level I was into Ron Paul for example and the founders the founding fathers and back in 2011 2012 I started talking about that and in the man of sphere Let's take a lot of people off because they try to keep it like apolitical and no politics at all But I fundamentally disagree with that and it wasn't just that I like these ideas. I saw them as important now today We see the cancel culture and that has a big problem or a big Conflict with like free speech freedom of speech. I write, you know, I write that you have yeah It's like the you what you have is you have collectivism wrestling with Individualism the collectivists want everybody to be the same. They were everything be fair That's why I don't like billionaires because The reality is most people most average human beings don't our responsibility for their own lives They want they want to be mommied and babied and there's so much propaganda There's so many people in the news and the media that believe in communism and collectivism Yeah, that it sounds good. It all I won't have to struggle I mean you probably remember during when Obama was running for his first term There was this woman who was on TV and they were interviewing her and she was saying You know, I figured, uh, you know, he's gonna be he's gonna pay my mortgage. He's gonna put gas in my car He's gonna help me out. So I figured I'll help him out and that's why I voted for him And well, she literally believed that if she voted for Barack Obama that all her problems are gonna be solved And she's gonna get a nice steady paycheck. So he's like, hey, I'll just vote for this guy And then they went back to her during the next election and she's basically he didn't do shit for me Nothing nothing changed. Wow, color me surprised. Yeah so, you know our whole country is built upon the individual and building up the individual and that's why I'm a Trump supporter. You see a big connection between personal rights and personal responsibility Absolutely, we're all divine beings having a human experience and it doesn't you can be an atheist and not believe in God Or not but at the end of the day the first that's the second line of the Declaration of Independence says It's assumed that all men are endowed with certain inalienable rights that are Unenable rights that means they can't be separated from you. They come from the creator Yeah, so it doesn't matter if you don't believe in a deity the whole country the whole republic the whole Constitution is based upon that premise I've always been a creator it could be anything that you believe created you and that could be as simplistic as your parents We're the creator of the simulation if you believe what Elon Musk and his brother think that maybe this is all a computer Like something created you God nature Minimum your parents your parents met they fucked and they made you at minimum now who created them and on back, you know Whatever, but yeah, I've always took it. I've only I'm a secular atheist objectivist myself. So yeah, but what was fascinates me though Is that you actually You're like me you have a large online platform and it's not dedicated to politics and social, you know Criticizing socialism things like that, but you take time out of your business and out of your life and it even can cost you times Like it has me You stand up for what you believe in oh, it cost me a shit ton of money talking about it I'm sure a lot of followers a lot of people going fuck you It's like I don't care, you know everything I teach It's like the quotes on the back of the book and letting the people generally and tyranny and impressions of body and mind Will vanish like evil spirits at the dawn of day It's if you understand that quote or then you shouldn't be surprised that I talk about politics and individualism and gun rights and You know individualism It takes in the audacity to stand up and integrate these different ideas But a lot of people would not see connections between you're drawing connections basically between self-improvement self-help Relationships personal responsibility individual rights, and I firmly believe in doing that But most people don't most entrepreneurs are not going to do that that they I think they should Recently for example Elliot Hull says a big youtuber is you know a couple million followers And he went full hardcore Trump mug all that probably about I don't know two years ago Not even and he lost a lot of fans pissed off a lot of people But he's all about it, and he's like he's kind of like you to get get fuck it cost me money He cost me followers, but he's doing what he believes in yeah, and he's not a dick That's masculinity. That's what a man does a man does what he much despite the consequences, and you're like I don't think You're dick about these issues you believe what you believe and you talk about it, and they can either you know Exit the video or watch it, and you're just gonna keep fucking doing it So I love it man And so I think a lot more entrepreneurs should do that especially ones that have a media platform Like you don't obviously you don't run like a pizza shop It's not like you're putting like fucking you know 20 Trump's 20 Trump's times in your pizza store But you have an online business and a media put a media machine you've built and it's admiring to see that man I think America be a lot better place if more entrepreneurs did that More of them are little by little. It's like guys like us, you know the yeah You know at the end of the day, but you're looking at about 60% of the population. They haven't heard mentality They're just gonna do what everybody else does and like we're talking about before we started filming Only about 3% of the colonists were the ones that actually fought and supported and won the American Revolution So we don't need everybody because most of people are just gonna do what everybody else and a lot of people don't understand That like growing up. I didn't the little bit I learned in school about the American Revolution I didn't understand it was such a small minority such a small percent that actually fought and got that done They were supported a little bit, you know by wider culture to a degree But then they had opposition to they the people who were the the remainers. I guess we call now with Brexit the first Brexit It's amazing. They finally got that done, but I think it was yeah, I know Winston Winston Churchill or maybe with a stature said that sometimes you have to win battles more than once That's right. You have to win the fight more than once. So they brexit past Yeah, but then the politicians who were all leftists and communists fought it and prevented it from happening and the You know, like even Pierce Morgan, even though he was supportive of He was he was a remainder. He was like we voted for this. We law our side lost You need to follow the will of the people Yeah, and I like the fact that he stood up for that because he's otherwise. We don't have a democracy Yeah, no fucking dictators. I did his interview I did interview with them obviously recently that many people have seen and people think I don't like Pierce Morgan Even on the on the show his co-host Susanna was saying I don't like him and I still like him Why the mixed views of him? He's guns. He's like a communist. I don't like that. Yeah, some of his views I don't agree with but yeah I mean, you know as as floppy as he can be sometimes I think he still has a pair of balls and he uses them to challenge feminism wokeness or even common-sense stuff like My country voted overwhelmingly early's majority for leave and they need to respect that. Yeah, yeah And the distance so he's I think he has a degree of intellectual honesty that a lot of people don't see or they don't Want to see and even my interview with him when he was coming at me and stuff I knew a lot of it was kind of like devil's advocate. He's just bullshitting or not bullshitting But playing up the drama playing like you know like the kind of angle And moving on you mentioned your big fan Donald Trump You're 50 years old. So you have a much I think higher-altitude perspective on this phenomenon Yeah, we grew up when like in the early 80s There was a movie called the day after and there was another one at the UK made it was about nuclear war and how Like so we grew up like I think in elementary school We you know did drills where you have to get under your desk and kind of thing to protect yourself in case the Russians Attacked us. Yeah, you know the red menace. I mean I grew up when Ronald Reagan was president. Yeah, and You know we the way I looked at it and my generation looked at it and I got a friend of mine that's from Berlin and It's like they were all glad when the wall came down and that communism collapsed because again That was collectivism and socialism For the world to feel everywhere. You don't you don't like communism. You're not a Bernie bread Absolutely not you get free shit didn't get free college. You could free whatever you want Yeah, and if they don't like you They just take you out into a field and put a 7-6-2 round in the back You're like the good legs are not that bad man. The burning gulags are gonna be nice Yeah, I heard one of those Bernie supporters saying that the gulags weren't that bad He wasn't as a supporter. He was a read it was a staffer Alexander Sonichans yeah Sultan each and project Veritas you could see that yeah, yeah He wasn't a supporter. He works for the Bernie campaign You know some sort of staffer organization thing But you can tell because you wonder it's like how did so many people get killed in communism? It's like all you got to do is watch those Bernie bros talk about it And anybody doesn't think like them they if you can't be educated you should be killed they really believe that and Anybody it's a collectivist socialists, you know because this you know the documentary that we did on socialism It's called socialism and capitalism with a Question mark so it goes back to the 1800s where it actually started in the United States a colony called a new harmony Wow, okay, so it's your YouTube channel. You actually have even more videos and we do we have about 1600 on YouTube Which is a lot you have ever 2000 on your channel a little over 2300 now I think yeah, that's a shit ton of bunch of documentaries we've done so far Well, yeah, so most of your videos that were not documentaries They're mostly video coaching newsletters and they call them right yeah video coaching newsletters most of Answering some of these email. Yeah, I'd say the majority of this stuff is dating relationship pickup kind of questions Guys are in situate situations with women that they're just trying to figure out I'm able to read it and see their mindset what they're doing right what they're doing wrong Point them back to the book or you know where they're thinking is flawed tell them what to do differently And so that guy learns from it and everybody watch and that learns from it And you know I've got people that have been watching me for years I've learned my stuff and they started their own YouTube channels Yeah And done really when they told me a story of the day during the interview that you had a guy subscribe to your channel for five years I think and then you finally went out and bought your book. Yeah, and he told you they can reflect It's pretty common people follow follow me for years and years Yeah, I think I had somebody tell me they were following me for eight years and just wow at the damn book so And there's other people are similar to me at this point But hey, here we are you know here we are better late than never Exactly, but yeah your channel. It's interesting is that you do mostly like we do mostly speeches And then we mix in like a podcast or an interview sometimes You're mostly these video blogs or coaching newsletters, then you mix in these pretty elaborate documentaries I think you have one right now in the second amendment on guns. It's like a three-part documentary I think you know, yeah, the third part comes out Monday. It's called the second amendment The gun solution where we look at countries like Switzerland Where they have a really great, you know There's only the top three countries in the world that have the most firearms in the population Number one is the united states. I think number two is sweden I mean not switzerland and the third one is yemen Wow And by far switzerland is you know, they don't have the problem with the mass shootings and stuff that we do here in America because They started a young age. It's because they're you know, they're a they're a small Population and the government's goal because you know, they dealt with invasions throughout their history Everybody armed everybody trained people take their guns on there You know the kids when they're young start training with guns and people have mental issues and criminals are not allowed to own them And you know, it's very effective So we could look at some of the things that they're doing over there It's and part of what I'm doing with some of the you know The guys that I know like john and mani on mania palm beach tactical and john of kinetic consulting is that I want to help get out into the culture that not only is it fun to shoot but it's your sacred duty It's the founding fathers intended that every single person have a weapon and be armed the militia That's what I call it the militia the jefferson has been quoted for that too I think that every young man should be and I believe that too that if you don't if you don't have a Fireman with you most of the time if not all the time it's irresponsible Like you need to take responsibility for your own safety in your life and you do that with a firearm Yeah, the police are 10 15 minutes away on a good day no matter where you are And somebody's kicked in your door three big guys with knives have kicked in your door And your wife is home or your girlfriend's home with your three hot teenage daughters And they and you've decided well, we're anti gun We don't believe in it and three, you know big dudes with knives kicking your door It's you know the police also police are gonna come and clean up the mess They're not gonna be they're not gonna get there in time. They have no duty to protect you either According to the supreme court. They had a ruling back in 2000 something And even if they even if they get the call even if they haul ass it doesn't matter They have in terms of legality. They have no duty to protect you. You would think they do but they don't They have a duty to enforce the law But that doesn't mean they have to like get there in the moment and protect you. That's your responsibility. Yeah, yep Yeah, people don't even understand this They want me to do the convention that we do obviously 21 convention They want to miss what wants to do it in new york and california and shit And we've never done that we do in florida and we did it in texas once too And in florida, we do it orlando miami tampa sometimes But i'll never do it in a state in america where i can't carry a gun In europe in australia. I kind of compromise on that. It's very limited obviously in europe we can carry guns Switzerland And even that can be a little bit difficult if you're not swiss But in america i'm like no we're gonna do it in texas or we're gonna do in florida because i want to Fucking carry a gun Yeah, because i'm personal i'm responsible for my safety as well as safety of everyone around me I want to make sure that the attendees and the speakers can carry if they want lawfully And i don't want to go to a state like california where that's basically impossible Like no i'm not gonna what the fuck is the point. Yeah, so i want to say a good example of where you've been picked You know to do the event Yeah, my leader leads by example not by force as sun zu said that's right. Fuck yeah So rise at donald trump you've had some perspective on this I mean you like you got to experience the reagan years, you know first hand as a teenager young teenager i'm assuming You know, did you see this coming like what is it? For me, this is the first time in american history or my personal history That i've had a president that i'm proud of my whole life. It's been in clinton. It's been bush. It's been obama It's been nothing that i was proud of Uh, it was deeply concerned about i was a ron paul guy back in 2012 for example I was not in any way supportive of mit romney and These fake republicans and flip flopping fucking beta mail. Yeah, he's got a rubber for spine I saw no meaningful difference between him and obama and same thing in 2008 These are the same people. Yep, the same people different different window dressing So what's it been like as an entrepreneur and as a man who's you know, 50 years old now Seeing all this go down like what has this been like for you? Well, you know when i was growing up everybody was proud of america was you know americans were the good guys You know, we were taught americans were the ones that helped win war war two. We were the arsenal of democracy You know the russians took the i think they had lost some somewhere around 30 million people In the war and you know, we were supplying them with with the weapons and stuff Before we had entered the war and then even after the war we all worked together to defeat nazism and So you know like both my grandfather's fought in war war two my my mom's dad He was shot in the hip he literally walked He was a i think a sergeant in the army and he walked across europe to help deliberate it Got shot and wounded in the hip and he always walked with a cane and it shortened his life and he died when i was six So i never really got to know him and so i was the war war two directly impacted me because my my grandfather Basically died and i never got to know him. Yeah, my dad's father. He was in a navy during war war two He was in six different invasions and so he you know, he loved history And so even after the war he studied it and every weekend when we hung out with him He was always telling war stories About his experiences and things he went through fighting the japanese fighting the italians fighting the germans And it was fascinating. Yeah, and then you know what when you look at especially if you watch any of the videos from Yuri bezminov the KGB defector who defected in the i think was the early 19a's. Yeah, he's on youtube. Yeah Yeah, you can see all the videos Of the interviews of him. I think was uh, what's the name griffin robber griffin Because we have part of that footage in our socialism documentary and he talked about ideological subversion And i mean when you look at like what what's his name? McCarthy did in the 40s in the 50s with going after the people of hollywood because hollywood is full of communists and collectivists And i ran even went in front of congress author and a philosopher for that specific issue She was part of a guild an anti-communist guild. They had in hollywood. It was her and a couple other Uh directors and stuff that were fiercely anti-communist because they were worried that it was being infiltrated by communists Of course today, there's no communists in hollywood in a way, right? Yeah, they're democratic socialists now But at the end of the day, it's still the same ideology And um the american pride issue though. That's interesting because uh bernie sanders recently You know running for president on a debate not too long ago a couple weeks ago He said just in public you know right on the debate stage that america is a i think he said a racist Society top top the bottom or something like that. Yeah, it's all identity politics Which again is all right out of the ministry of propaganda of the communists and you listen to bez bezmini off I mean he talks about that Yeah, the idea was first to infiltrate hollywood because they're the ones making all the movies that all All the americans are gonna see And then also to get into the school system because when I was in school The communists controlled hollywood and had a pretty good hold on the media and then they mostly controlled You know were active in the universities because if you look at like the 60s the counter cultural movement that was all result of communist propaganda and of the infiltration And then you know by the time that I think the 90s came around they had complete control of the Collegiate system they had Mostly control of or starting to gain almost all control of the high schools And then since them in the last 15 20 years they now they control k through 12 and the universities They control the media And every you know in hollywood So every if you all you're gonna do is turn on the news and listen listen to these guys You mean you listened to bloomberg. Yeah talk He says glowing things about the chinese and a guy like him He perceives himself as what he calls the intelligista Well, you know Bernie Sanders the communists last night though, which I found pretty amusing Yeah, they're like eating each other is what's going on in part The way these people think these elite like they love to refer to themselves is They look at the rest of humanity like we're too fucking stupid to know what's good for us That's why he did things with passing the law where sodas can only be a certain size Because his idea is if we force you to only be able to buy smaller cokes Therefore you'll you'll drink less coca-cola and sugary drinks You'll be less obese. You'll have a happier life and you know At the end of the day, I know what's best for you because i'm a billionaire and you're not and guys like me Should be making all decisions. It's kind of like the same mentality that You know the rock fellers had you know because they all inherited the money from their grandfather and great grandfather and They never had to struggle for anything. They grew into a family that was basically rich's family in the world at the time Yeah, him and brzezinski and all those guys you know Set about to They believe that people like them should be controlling everything and that's what led to the european union It's amazing because when you say this out loud, it's like this strikes me as like highly dysfunctional aggressive narcissism It's like I know it's best for you and you're gonna fucking do it Because if you're born with everything if you were pampered and you know, their family was fucked up anyways You know, they believed it was the only they because you know human beings have five human needs certain new variety significance loving connection and certainty and You know these guys it gives them a feeling of significance because they're important if they're changing the world to their Vision they feel like they actually matter and they're important And all you've done is you know fuck up a lot of things in the west and now the people are kind of we're all collectively Clawing it back. Yeah, it's like what I think what really started we started to see in 2016 with trump was that Things would get reported in the media And then or actually things would get reported on twitter and then eventually would filter down in the media The media nine times out of ten would broadcast something out and say this is what happened In a week or two later After the media has moved on it would all the facts would come out that They were completely wrong. It was all bullshit and there's no retractions And so everybody heard the lie But they didn't hear the retraction and with facebook and twitter and the rest of social media and youtube You're actually able to see what really happened. I wrote about that You know all the shootings with the black lives matter movement and all these you know the Um Was his name michael brown the hands up don't shoot one. It's like they didn't even happen that way And so you would say that most of the country believes that that's what happened And it's just simply not true the trevon martin thing same thing it's most people's perception of You know 99 of those events was they heard the lie and the inaccurate reporting They didn't hear the facts after the there's almost like a like a first First sound off bias Like whoever gets like the story out first whatever way they presented is assumed to be true And then correcting it later. It takes time and effort. It's like with denzel washington There was I got a one of his quotes on my instagram where he was berating a reporter because he's like You guys your your effort to be first and everything you end up reporting stuff That's not even true and then you don't ever come to hey, we were wrong about this They just kind of brushed it under the rug Maybe they put a retraction on page 15 and some little blurb that nobody's gonna see Oh, we made a mistake and this was wrong. I think everybody remembers the lie trump kept saying open up the libel laws Open up the libel laws What he meant is I think is attacking Organizations and corporations that do this crap. Yeah, they they you know put a retraction out or not weeks later And nobody even fucking pays attention the damage is done. Yeah, it reminds me too once internals quote from quoting correctly that Lies spread fast and the truth spreads spread slowly takes time But the internet, you know, like you're saying I think starting to change that and maybe trump is like the first time We've ever seen that at that scale. Yeah, I mean, it's you know billionaire and now president You know, it gets to say whatever he wants constantly. I love it people keep bitching about his twitter I'm like, you don't get it. His twitter is the most powerful thing that he has Well, what he understands about the media is that they Emotionally overreact to everything and so he says things that are polarizing because at the end of the day What's that going to do? That's going to give them the mic Yep drives attention. Yeah, and if people are you know at the end of the day if what you observe you participate in and so If he's got the mic because immediately he's constantly shoved in his face It's like he's putting the message out and he's he's no longer having to go through the filter of the media that people can actually Go online and watch his rallies and listen to what he actually says If you sit there and watch him in a rally and then as soon as he's done All the cnn commentators come on and tell you what they just talked about And it's like they were watching like scott adam says it's two different movies It's like they they say things that are the exact opposite of what he actually said. It's a well implied Yeah Because they're trying to propagandize people and get them to see the world their way I think what technology is unable to do is with the news or whatever the fact or whatever the idea He wants to get out as he's not just first and doing it. He beats the media. It's instant I mean he just goes on his phone and types something or speaks at a rally and it's like boom done You can't beat that. It's literally instantaneous That's awesome And I hate when his supporters say they want him to tone down his twitter and all this stuff It's like you don't get it. You need to like let him be Support him in being who he's going to be which is fucking donald trump Hey, that's that's one of the best things about him being president is he's like He's the exact same guy. He was five years ago. He's the same fucking guy. He didn't change And he's fallen through I think to the best of his ability on what he promised. He's doing pretty damn good Yep, I'm happy with with what he's doing. He's gotten more done than anybody. I've seen in years, you know He we're talking about other presidents. It's like I love reagan growing up I mean I was a little kid when he was growing up and then obviously when he left office I was leaving you know, I was finishing high school. I felt safe around him and the people that that he was involved with And I was you know, originally supportive of bush senior when he got elected and then I had a bunch of my friends That went to high school with they're all in the second marine division from the first gulf war It was interesting when they came back. They were all like fuck him. I'm voting for clinton Wow, because they you know being deployed and being over there and you know seeing what they saw they They wanted nothing to do with that and um Read my lips. No new taxes, man. Yeah, it's you know, and then you You recognize like especially now I look back at him and then when his son, you know, george bush w got elected I was excited about um colon pal and all those people. I was like this is going to be a great presidency And after the thing with the iraq workers, I've had a lot of friends over there I got friends got blown up over there Friends have been wounded clients have been wounded over there and so I get a different perspective of what's going on And it's like no george bush sucked ass. He was a shitty president He's one of the worst presidents we've had in a long time. They're all part of the same, you know establishment, too It's why it's the same shit over and over and over again I am amazed that trump was able to pull it off ron paul tried doing this and he was not able to do it He didn't have the skill set the wealth the relationships, whatever you want to say I think a lot of the ideas, but he lacked the other the other factors and mechanisms to pull it off To infiltrate the republican party and just went out beat the competition like trump did And trump was you know for years rider stone and put pushing him to run it for presidency Independent reform party, whatever But trump was smart enough to wait be patient timing And then go through the main party system and then take over the whole party And now on top of that the democratic party is collapsing all in it. It's imploding all on its own Now he's he's agonizing along, but it's really happening on it's wonderful to see every day these people fight with each other It's just like it's just falling apart at the seams One of the quotes I was sharing you with the other day when you know one of my teachers His name is panache the size one of these kind of spirit indian spiritual guru type guys And he said a lot of enlightening things and one things he said about 10 years Maybe it was about eight years ago. He said everything that no longer serves humanity is dissolving I'm describing like you know the time that we're in and if you look what's happened with the republican party And now with the democrats are going through and how the you know the media and hollywood and it's all It doesn't serve humanity anymore. It's you know, people are tuning them out It's I saw a study. I don't know about a month or two ago about it's something like 73 74 percent of all americans That's democrats republicans independent All believe that most of what's in the mainstream media is bullshit. It's wrong. It's inaccurate pouring or outright propaganda And so the majority of the population is awake now And so when they hear something and the media was you know, five ten years ago, we just assumed it was accurate Now everybody's going I'm gonna kind of wait and hear all the facts before I make this. Yeah, exactly And people go, you know, I follow people all over the world that are actually good reporters and report accurate information That's where I get my info from whatever topic you're into You can find experts in that You know somewhere in the globe and you can follow them and if you see somebody it's constantly publishing bullshit That turns out to be wrong. Yeah, you just click on follow and they're gone from your feed forever and you tune them out And that's why you're seeing like in the uk with the bbc and people are you know, bitching that You know, the government needs to prop that up and give them money and yeah, the license thing Yeah, exactly the same thing with you got what's his name brian stettler on cnn is like, you know We're important and we should be funded and people should be forced to pay for us and wow these guys suck They're terrible propagandists. It's like when you actually listen to these guys They sound like shitty actors from some b or c-rate movie I mean, they're horrible. It all looks fake. They're just reading a teleprompter There there was a a clip a couple years ago that came out And it was like a montage of this. I forget what this it was just some story that you hear in the evening Nudes every night and there was about 30 different anchors from all over the country reading the same script Yeah, I've seen it and so when you look at the associated press the associated free press It's like a story gets written Pumped into there and all these news outlets all over the world that pay to be a part of that Just take it throw in the teleprompter and they're they call it their talent their their news Castors just just read what's in front of them without any thinking They're just make women great again I saw some of that too a lot of it at the beginning was a couple original articles and after that Especially once it hit like fox news in orlando it kind of got just regurgitated like this phone game And everyone was just kind of saying the same shit They were stealing each other's articles and just rebranding it and very little knew the attitude or nothing And occasionally you'd get something decent there'd be an interview or you know a longer piece on it But mostly it was just the same bullshit over and over again And yeah seeing that media cycle go through yet. It's just gross. There's no originality to it There's no creativity. There's no independent thinking It's just you know vomit whatever's on a teleprompter or whatever's on whatever you're told to read or whatever you're told to write Yeah, we've been getting a lot of interview or not just interview requests But a lot of media requests to attend the event too from all these fake news organizations Vice news buzzfeed all this bullshit. Yeah, and they're not going to write anything favor Well, even if they enjoy it because you know controversy sells at the end of the day If there's an argument or there's if you just look at twitter If there is a video of kids fighting or whatever or adults fighting it goes viral people go nuts over that shit And it's all bloodsport It's an agenda and even if we even if they end up liking it like because the event is really good Everything that we do the events is like super pro Even if they end up liking it their editor was still forced on the right piece on it So we've been so far been turning them down But also now i'm like well What we're gonna do now looks like we might want to protect the privacy of the attendees So no filming no photography from anyone but us because then we blur out the faces What i'm doing now though is i'm offering them a fake news press pass And so it's it's several thousand dollars. It's actually it's got a fake news logo on it They have to buy it and I sold our first one there the day to buzzfeed No shit. Yeah, it'll be interesting to see what they actually write I already told them like we don't we expect you you're getting your I told them they're eligible for a fake news press pass Based on the treatment of you know the trump and mog and all this stuff Like I don't expect you to write anything positive about us and i'll be surprised if you do I expect you to write a negative hit piece that's unfair and biased And i'm okay with that if you want to pay us several thousand dollars So they're kind of at first they're kind of just a gassed they expected to come in for free And i'm like no why would I want you to come in for free? Give us money pay your pay your fake news tax So it's pretty enjoyable to do that actually because initially I was just going to tell them to fuck off like always You know, I don't want your end. Yeah when I get media requests. I just ignore them Yeah, they Because when I've done them in the past years ago when I first started it's the amount I could do a youtube video and get way more book sales and questions and people Appreciating that versus you know having to get up at five in the morning so I can do some six a.m You know morning news show or whatever I'm not going to get any business out of it. Anyway, and then you know, I don't have to deal with assholes, you know Being dicks or whatever. I mean i'm 50 years old. I want to enjoy my life I want to hang out with like-minded people and yeah, they're dinosaurs. They're dying and all you know, like Scott I'm so they're just gonna slowly fade away. It's funny because on that interview with piers morgan The feminist called me a dinosaur for my views or something which I thought that's what piers morgan said Anyway, he said it on the on the show itself. They called me a dinosaur Well, I'll take that. I appreciate it. But the reality is that they're that's the opposite, you know They're the dinosaurs They're a thing their organizations are falling apart the viewership all that stuff So yeah, that's good Let's move on a little bit here. Sure We uh, you commented the other day is something that I'd heard from other guys your age other speakers Psychologists and coaches and things like that from the convention 21 convention And basically you said that It's getting harder and harder at an alarming rate from paraphrasing you correctly For young men today to find young women who Have any good degree of quality in terms of like had a good upbringing good parents Make good decisions things like that So that's different though than what you went through in 1985 I think it'd be a lot different, you know dating than it is now in 2020 Yeah, we didn't have cell phones or Pagers were just kind of coming out and the cell phones were like these big giant bricks if you ever saw Original Wall Street with Charlie sheen. Oh, yeah, I've seen it. I had one of those in the early 90s When I was after Hurricane Andrew hit and I was working down in the Cutleridge area and one of those big giant phones and You know my phone bill would be like three or 400 bucks a month. Wow. Yeah, that's a lot of money Yeah, because it was expensive. Yeah, it was the old analog and you get out of range of the tower in New York Yeah, you hear the static But talk to me about that from like a perspective of people like what have you seen change for Like men have changed too over time, you know, I think for the worst in a lot of ways But the man is fair things doing a good job at reversing that pushing back against that teaching men how to be masculine again I created make women great again They've been 22 convention because I don't see that happening for women. They have kind of like well, they get raised, you know probably not good conditions not good Parenting and all that but also in wider culture. They have nothing positive nothing Not a mainstream not even alternative really. There's a few, you know channels and books But it's like really sparse and I have a few of them here like the surrendered wife and things like that But talk to me about what you've seen change As you know, you're 50 years old now, what have you seen changing women? Well, really if you look back at the older movies and I use this a lot in In my videos and what I'm doing phone sessions with people if you look at the old Old videos going back to the 50s 60s Maybe the early 70s the men were always masculine very stoic They're focused on their mission and purpose like it's a wonderful life the one with jimmy stewart and donna reed I mean He's like i'm you know as soon as my brother finishes college I'm shaking the dust off my shoes of this crappy town and i'm gonna go see the world and i'm gonna slay the dragons and i'm gonna conquer and Donna reed's character is this beautiful younger woman that he grew up with in a neighbor I think she was i don't six eight years younger or whatever And they run into each other and she's just like george bailey's gonna be my husband someday it's and so she schemes and plots with all the women in the neighborhood to Arrange meetings between the two of them where you know He can see your curves and her figure and her charming voice and become enchanted with her and Because she wants to settle down nest and have babies and look at this whole beat-up house It's at the end of the road And he's like i want nothing to do with this i'm getting out of here And he's a real dick to her at one point in the movie and she starts balling And then he grabs her kisses her and you know, they live happily ever after if you look at movies Like with carry grant charade with him and audrey heppern That was one of the best movies as far as like that playful sexual tension between a man and a woman where He's playfully kind of being a jerk a little arrogant But he's not really being serious and you can tell there's a lot of park points when they're interacting where She looks at him and it's kind of taking it back and she can't tell if he's fucking with her Or he's being totally serious And she loves it and there's a there's a part in the movie where at the end after all the bad guys have been defeated And she's kind of you know getting the blood off, you know sewing up his wounds and stuff And she just moves in and she kisses him and he makes out for a little bit He pushes her away and he goes cut it out And she looks at him like What just happened and then you know, she's kind of sitting there and he's like What are you doing? She's like, well, you told me to cut it out. He says i'm not done complaining yet And then she smiles and they start making out and that was like I think the end of the movie That to me everything you just said speaks of positive gender relations. Yeah, and in my opinion That's a way I conceptualize what's what's been happening and it sucks So you don't see that anymore what you see now is you see And I noticed that especially into the 80s and especially now it's like all you I mean bill cosby, you know He had a great television program and he presented a pretty good healthy archetype You know, even though he turned out to be a fucking sexual deviant It was you know dropping drugs and girls drinks I was shocked to find that out because you think this is he's the man But acting is still acting. Yeah, exactly kind of the same but that was a healthy archetype of a family And that playfulness and at the end of the day the man's gonna do what he fucking wants And eventually the wife will begrudgingly go along with it because he's the man He's the head of the household and that's what she signed up for Yeah, that sounds like toxic masculinity. Yeah, exactly. So that'll it just changed. I mean you saw all these You start to see these supplicating. I think the what's his name? John Cusack say anything the one where he's he's holding the boombox, you know way above his head And uh, you know on this girl's front lawn that he's you know over pursuing and of course, you know That kind of shit works in the movies, but so you see This archetype that's constantly presented in the media and in movies that the guy's the bumbling idiot and the woman's the stoic strong Silent type in other words the women act like men and the men act like Basically insecure little girls. Yeah, and that's supposed to be normal And you're supposed to be extra nice to women and women don't want a pussy. They already have one So that's a good way to put it. Yeah. So things have continued to get that way And if you've got kids that grow up in a family where mom and dad aren't around or You know, they're lash key kids as we were it's like you see that from the time that same Theme over and over from the time you're a little boy till you grow up. You think that's normal That's how a man is supposed to interact with a woman. You go do that in the real world And you can be her gay male girlfriend You can be the guy that fixes her toilet and Changes the tires in a car and replaces her battery while she's fucking You know the bad boy in the motorcycle. Yeah, and he's thinking eventually I'm gonna get my shot and She always dates these jerks and you know, eventually she'll see what an awesome guy I am and want to marry me And we'll live happily ever after and that's the narrative guys tell themselves. Yeah Yeah, it doesn't work in the real world. And so it's like, you know Fast forward to today. There's a lot of broken families. A lot of families were you got single moms It's you know, the good thing is I have a lot of single moms that follow me And read my book to teach their sons how to how to be a man Yeah, I've had several women that are principals of schools of high schools that are teaching their sons how to date how to be men because The man's not, you know, the father's not around And so to you know idea like when I do phone sessions with the guys, you know, the majority of them that are having problems It's because they made a bad choice, but they don't know what to look for And so the reality is is that women that come if you're looking for a long-term relationship Whether it's a girlfriend that you live together with and have kids or maybe you're traditional and you want to get married And you know have a traditional type of marriage The best candidates for that kind of a loyal monogamous faithful family type of relationship Are going to be women that grew up in that kind of environment. That's right. The parents are together The girl loves her mom loves her dad, especially she says things like my dad is my rock and I have a problem I call my dad And because those kind of women they learned how to trust men They learned how to act like women they learned to be respectful. They watched their parents Worked their differences out through communication And they grew up in a culture other basically a family culture Exactly And so those girls are going to be more level-headed easy going easy to get along with and it doesn't mean that somebody that They're hard. They're hard to find I was going to say Poland they still have a lot of this. Yeah, it was fascinating I spent a month there last year on two trips And just to see even superficially as a tourist there or not a tourist but working or whatever Just just going around the city and seeing these positive experiences and relationships was fascinating Like I had never seen anything like it in America. It was like it felt like being in a movie like an andrew hepper movie or some Shit It was like like a black and white movie like brought to real life. Yeah, it's like we were talking about the other day They grew up with communism. They all knew all about collectivism They all everybody's got families and grandparents that were murdered by the communists and they have no fucking That's why they look at us and they're like you guys are fucking nuts over there. We already went through all this but Kind of the way I look at it is it socialism started in the united states and then he's a fucking die here Yeah, good. All right. Fuck. Yeah Yeah, I love the um You you come across and your demeanor and the persona is like, you know, you are very calm And then you're just like, yeah, socialism socialism needs to fucking die That's great. I love it kills hundreds of millions of people man That's right. It's fucking misery if you look what the chinese are going through with the coronavirus right now I've seen tons of video people being dragged out of their houses and off the quarantine and the people are going kicking and screaming Because they know typically when the police come to take you away, you're never seen or heard from again And you you can't fight back. Everybody's completely disarmed. Yeah And that's just they look at hong kong. I mean all the protests and stuff going on at least they were before the coronavirus That's great that they're doing that but they don't have the firearms to back it up And if push comes to shove china can just march on there and fucking do whatever they want pretty much Yeah, we'll see what happens Winding down we got to end in a few minutes here. Let me see how much time we got left We got a couple minutes I want to get one more dating question and kind of a few steps back and then we'll wrap up I was going through your book today into some of the chapter Subchapters, I think actually we're pretty fascinating. I like them I'll see So let's just go with this one In your book here, you know how to be a three percent man You said why not you have all chapter on why you should not get advice from women Why should men not get advice from women about women? Well, typically after a woman doesn't understand attraction and how it works and what affects them So it's you can ask them a certain women. I mean, they must know, right? Well, go ahead and try it. Go try the advice that your your girlfriends or your sister gives you and Because you gotta understand women are nurturing. They love you. They care about you. They want to see you do well But they don't want to hurt your feelings That's why a girl, you know, women break up with a guy and they go, it's not you. It's me Well, they're the guys they tend to be conflict avoidant. Oh, okay. So she's Okay, I'm a great guy and everything I'm doing is awesome. She's just a little messed up Maybe if I just give her more time and what she's Really saying she doesn't want to say I'm dumping you because you turn me off and you lowered my attraction And I don't I'm not turned on by you. My my pussy is drier and a bucket of sand right now And I don't want anything to do with you. She's not going to say that most women are that the harsh They figure They'll just or they friend zone you I'm not ready for a relationship And then the guy goes, oh, I'll just wait around and when she is ready. I'll be there and I'll get my shot Because they don't want to hurt your feelings. Meanwhile, she's gonna bang up. I tried left and right Exactly. Yeah, so that's you know, that's part of the problem is they're You know us guys we tend to meet more blunt and brutally honest to say now, dude You're acting like pussy or that girl don't fucking like you And you know you talk to because I remember this I went through this with When I got engaged to my wife because after I remember went and buy in the ring And sitting in my bed over that weekend. I was looking at going. What the hell am I doing? She's great. But I don't feel like I want to get married And you know, I would all the girls I worked with and you know, there was a lot of women I worked with and you know, they were in the office there. I was like I was telling them it's like It does something feel right say something inside feels like it's missing Oh, Cory. You just have cold feet. It'll get better with time. That'll go away. She's really great. Don't you let her get away No, she's don't don't mess that up when you guys get married. You know that kind of thing You know, the reality is is that I wasn't feeling it and I was I was unsure of myself and I basically I talked myself into it and all the women that were around me talked me into it And I went along with it. It's like one of my one of my closest friends. It was funny. We were talking about this a few years ago And he's like, yeah, I knew it wasn't going to work out. I was like, why didn't you say something? He says you probably wouldn't listen to me anyways And I was like you I would have probably listened to but yeah, I probably would have done it anyways There's some truth to that. Yeah when guys are in that I see, you know I'm 31 now So a lot of guys from high school are going They're going to grow up to any of these relationships It made me and my close friends can see it on facebook or like I got engaged I was gonna get married and it's gonna blow up. This happens really consistently like these these marriages last these days My monials will last six months or a year or something and it fucking blows up in their face Because we can look at we can you know, maybe we don't talk to a guy for a couple years But we take one look at the photos on facebook We see his body language You see how he's writing about her in the relationship and it's a fucking shit show They don't understand anything about it and they either just kind of walking into it or getting coaxed into it And it sucks and not all the tricks are crazy. It's just a lot of times It's just a bad fit a bad match And on top of that the guy doesn't understand women More generally Yeah, one woman publicly that I think is good and knows what she's talking about is dr. Taylor burrows. I think you're Oh, yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna interview her soon. She's great. She knows she knows what she's talking about So that her she's one of the women out there if you're a guy and you want advice That's you'd want to listen to she'll be at the 22 convention on press pass Oh, cool a real a real news press pass We have the real ones for the real independent journalists basically or independent media creators like her And then the fake news press pass is for the fake news people the buzz feeds and the vice news and new york times and shit like that Yeah, she's great. There are a few women out there that get it Um, not even just with dating advice, but even one of my favorites lately is professor janice fiemengo if you know her Yeah, great, uh, canadian professor Basically, she's an advocate of men and of men's rights uh in culture and she does a really good job Super savage Uh holds nothing back and is absolutely in favor or supports and sees the way that men are being treated today Divorce court family court and in wider culture with stuff like me too But yeah, it's you got to find the taylor bros and the janice fiemengo. There's not that many of them There's a few but he has not that many And I agree with you 100% I was just kind of fascinated with the title of it Don't trust you don't get advice from women about women. Yeah, they don't want to hurt your feelings They just hope that you'll figure it out later on That's what yeah, they want you to get it. Anyway, it's a lot more on a one-to-one basis Women are a lot more aroused by that. They're counting on you to get it. They want you to get it It's uh, it's exciting to them. They love it and they if they have to tell you It's like the the observer effect. They hate it Because then it just it loses all the magic and the sparkle to it. It means you don't get it You might get it later, but not with them in the moment Yeah, see which time we got left We got to wrap up. Cool. So it's been good having you on last question You are 50 now at some point. Uh, you were either at some point. You're gonna die. You're gonna retire I'm never gonna retire. I'm gonna work till never I dropped it You gotta do Because you know, I've I've had the one thing I've always done is been able to set my life up so I can Have time to think because I'm a thinker and a contemplator and I figure things out and um You know, I I've spent plenty of time laying on the beach doing nothing for days and weeks I you know, I lived on south beach for a couple years the nicest most luxurious place that they have down there And it was amazing But you know, you can only sway in the hammock for so long or sit on your porch and listen to the trees blowing As a man, you got to get out there and experience some kind of friction in the world And you got to you got to have some kind of purpose that gets you up early and keeps you up late at night You're 50 now between 15 70 20 years is going to pass. So by What do you hope to accomplish as coach coriway and over the next 20 years? I want to keep obviously making the documentaries and having a positive impact And I I would love to see this all this media edifice die and you know, I do coach a lot of people in hollywood That are actors that are directors that people that work behind the scenes and you know, some of the movies I know that they work on I do see some positive archetypes Some positive archetypes on that's showing up in the movies And uh, so that's good. Yeah, and you know, because the reality is A lot of the movies people just aren't going to them because they're garbage because they're presenting a falsehood And on some level we all know it's kind of bullshit. We don't the feminist craps particularly bad and it's like super cringe Yeah, that's what I talked about everything in no longer serves humanity is dissolving. It's it's dysfunctional It's not truthful and people are rejecting it. Yeah You know, it's like, why would you watch cnn when you can just go to youtube and you can watch somebody like tim pool who's just trying to present as Down the middle type. Here's the facts. Here's the reporting like the old school. Walter Cronkite was you mean news or tim russert You know, even to this day, I don't know if tim russert was liberal or he was republic And or what he was same thing with Walter Cronkite. No, I think you were talking about is called news Yeah, and it used to just it used to just be called news and now we have to classify it because there's so much bullshit Well, it's been good having you on man. I appreciate it big time. Likewise. Thanks for having me man Appreciate it. Hope to have you the 21 convention someday. Our fans have been bugging me about that for a while You know, it's up to you. You let me know Door and the opportunity remains open for whenever you want to speak. I appreciate that man. Yeah, man Everyone else appreciate tuning into the interview. Please hit like subscribe share comment I appreciate it. Make sure you check out his website and his channel His website is understanding relationships.com You can get his book on amazon where I got it how to be a 3 man He has more books beyond that and they also have audible versions too that he narrated Yeah, if you go to understanding relationships.com both my books are free, you know, even if you think I'm full of shit And I don't know what I'm talking about If you go to understanding relationships.com put your name and your email in the subscribe box As soon as you hit submit it's going to take you right to the members area where you can read it And then once you and just apply it and once you see that it works for you then go buy an audiobook or a paperback Less thing. How do they find your channel other than a link in the description? Uh, it's on youtube forward slash coach cori wane Okay, sounds good. Cory. Thank you very much. Thanks everyone else. I'll see you in the next interview. Peace