 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at CommitmentConnection.com and in today's video, I'm going to give you 10 text messages to send to a guy that he will absolutely love. Trust me, these are great ones. And if this is your first time to this channel, make sure that you go and hit the subscribe button on the bottom right hand side of this video to get more videos on how to have the relationship that you've always wanted. So let's get started. So if you're in a situation right now where you're not really sure what to send a guy, but you kind of want to ramp up the attraction a bit, maybe you feel like things have kind of died down a little bit, here are some text messages that you can send them that will make them feel really great about you, that'll ramp up that attraction, that'll make them want you more. So text message number one that you can send that's really flirty is you want to send them a message that lets them know that you think that he's attractive and it's kind of just a, you know, like dropped in there. You don't even have to put any emphasis on this. So a lot of times what's really powerful is to throw in something, but just continue on with something else. So for instance, in this case, you'd send them a text message that might say something like you looked really handsome yesterday, or you looked really sexy yesterday. And then you would just continue on with another conversation on a completely different thread that has nothing to do with that sexy comment or that handsome comment. And it'll kind of like, because if you just throw that text message out there, and then you don't say anything after that and let them respond, it's kind of like, okay, thanks, you know, whereas if you continue on the conversation, it's kind of like he might respond to it and might not either way, it'll be really, really hot. Flirty text number two is actually, so what you're going to do here is you want to let him know that you're thinking about him. And maybe that some conversation that you had recently was really meaningful. So for instance, what you might say is, I really can't seem to concentrate today, like what you said to me yesterday. I just can't stop thinking about it, you know, or I was thinking about it all night long, something in those along those lines. Basically, what you're doing here is you're telling him that, you know, one of the things that really motivates guys and makes guys feel good about themselves is feeling like they're attractive. And so when you say things like this, or you say something that makes him feel like his personality even more as attractive, that can be a huge ego booster for guys. And if you know anything about guys, you know, if you boost their egos in the right way, you can really make them feel more attracted to you. So text message number three is actually going to be one where basically what you want to know, what you want to let him know is that he's a calming presence in your life, or he's a calming presence to you. And so what you're going to say here is something like, you know, I wish you were here with me or I feel you here with me right now. And basically what you're telling him is that so guys have this thing where they want to be biologically, they want to be providers and protectors, it makes them feel like men, it makes them feel like they are respected, that they're worthy men. And so when you tell him that you wish that he was there with you, you know, especially if you're in a situation where there's something going on that might be like you have an exam or you're in a weird work environment or something like that, it can make him feel like he's a really strong and powerful guy. And it might even give him goosebumps. So text message number four is actually, so what you're going to do here is you're going to let him know that you enjoy doing things with him or you enjoy events more when he's there. And so, you know, you can just send him say something like, ooh, I can't wait to do that again. I had so much fun with you. It's just a subtle way of telling him of, it's almost kind of like you're dangling a carrot or something. Use that metaphor. And it'll make him want to move forward. And it'll make him feel like your relationship to him is special. So text message, flirty text message number five is what you're going to do here is give him some kind of kinky or sexual visual and just mentioning it casually. And this can get a guy thinking about it for days. I mean, seriously, there's like one of the things you could do is if a guy asks you what's going on, like what are you up to tonight? And you say, oh, I'm just, you know, like hanging out my boy shorts watching a movie or something. He might end up sitting there thinking about you and boy shorts for for an entire day. It'll like totally hook his mind. Another one you could say is, oh, sorry, I just got out of the shower, you know, and then follow up with something. And so you're kind of casually mentioning it. And what it'll do is it like, it'll distract his brain and it'll put an image in his mind of you getting out of the shower. And it'll really tease his brain in that way. Alright, so flirty text message number six. So this one is you're going to kind of peak his curiosity and make him wonder about what you mean by telling him that he was in your dream. And so what you're going to say is I had a weird dream about you last night, right? And so what this does is immediately if you tell a guy that you had a dream about him, he immediately goes to thinking that it was something sexual. And so it'll just put that idea in his mind and it'll it's a great way to ramp up that attraction, that sexual attraction, sexual chemistry that you guys have between each other. So text message number seven. And what you're going to do here is you're going to either ask him to dream about you or or tell him to dream about you. Either one can be really hot. And it kind of breaks that whole thing. One of the things that you have to realize is that a lot of guys have this fear that a woman will lose sexual interest in them. It's massive nightmare scenario that a lot of guys experience even in marriage or in relationship, especially in marriage and relationships. And so one way that you can kind of hit another one of those kind of feelings of sexual tension that a guy wants to have with you is by saying, hey, will you dream about me tonight? Or you can say, dream about me tonight. Either one of those is a really great text message to send to spike up that sexual chemistry. So text message number eight is if you're going to send a text message to a guy, say you're about to go on a date. And you kind of want, maybe he hasn't talked to you, maybe you just want to send something to him. A fun way to send something would be to kind of poke at him and and just make, you know, hit him hit him with like the the I hope you're not getting tired because we're going to have a fun night tonight. Text message which will peak his curiosity and to make him it'll drive up his imagination. And so what you're going to say is don't tire yourself out, you know, today or this afternoon. We have plans tonight. So some something like that. So you don't want to go too over the edge on the sexual curiosity factor, but you're also kind of peeking it a little bit and making him like, oh, you know, what like what do you think we're going to do tonight? Which which is it's a fun tease. So text message number nine is basically what you're going to do is tell him that his voice is comforting to him to you. And so what you're going to say is I want to hear your voice or talk to me and this is a great one, especially if you want to get him on the phone or you've been texting a lot and you want to talk to him. This can encourage him to want to talk to you on the phone and it can be a really it it also it also soothes him and makes him feel like like he's really attractive to you. So text message number 10. Here's what you're going to do. You're going to send him a text where you're going to ask him what his opinion is on an outfit that you're wearing and just sending him that even if even if you don't actually send a picture of your outfit, which you know you probably will, it's it'll peak his curiosity and it'll make him get him excited about the entire conversation that you're about to have. And so what you're going to say is I'm trying on a new outfit or I'm trying on an outfit. Can I get your honest opinion on it? And that's a great way to peak his curiosity and his imagination for what's going on and what you've got going on. Thanks for watching this video. If you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the relationship you've always wanted, click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website.