 What narcissists think of you when you finally leave? You've been through so much with a narcissist. Everything you had to go through. All of the things they did to you. They put you through hell. They made you feel small. Every day they give you insults and put downs. They sabotage things that you were trying to do. But eventually you finally develop the courage to leave the narcissist. And when you do that, that's when all hell breaks loose. You may have thought that the narcissist was really disrespectful while you were with them. But when you leave the narcissist, it gets even worse. Because at that point the mask is all the way off. They will bombard you with insults and complaints. When you leave, every time the narcissist will play the victim. And they will blame you for everything that went wrong in the relationship. They will say that it was all your fault. And they will go around and tell everyone that it was you. You were the cause of everything that went wrong. You did all of these things to them. You left them without help and support. After you finally developed the courage to leave. And then they bring this down on you. They try to ruin your reputation. They try to affect you mentally, emotionally and financially. They go around to people you know and say all of these horrible things about you to them. Because they don't want you to have a life after they're gone. They don't want you to be good for anyone once they're finished with you. So when you finally leave the narcissist, it will get a lot worse. It really will. Because in their minds they really think that they are the victims. And there's really nothing you can tell them. They are the victims in every situation. They feel like you took advantage of them. You exploited them. You treated them unfairly. Because they're very arrogant. They have an exaggerated sense for their own abilities and importance. They're very entitled. So they look at what they invested in you. Even if it was just their time. And they overestimate it. In their minds they did a lot for you. And they got very little back in return. And you may be thinking that all they gave to you was abuse. But you have to understand that these narcissists are delusional. They expect you to see it as a privilege just to be around them. So believe that once they have invested their time in you. They have been around you for a few months. A year, two years, whatever it is. They are expecting a payout. Their time is money. And there's really nothing that you can do for them. Or give to them to the point where they're going to feel like it's enough. Because you have to remember these people are completely delusional. They're very arrogant and entitled. They have these insatiable desires that are impossible to satisfy. Which is why no one has ever made a narcissist happy. No one has ever pleased them consistently. There's no one who can come out and say that they finally got the narcissist to come around and see sense. It never happens. So it doesn't matter if you take them on trips around the world. You buy them cars. You take them to all of the best restaurants. It doesn't matter what you do. It's never going to be enough. So when you finally leave, trust and believe that they will turn against you. They will become very bitter and resentful. They will hold a grudge against you. And they're just going to do whatever they can in their power to make you pay. They're very vengeful when you leave. Because once they've been around you, they see it as though that's it for life. They see you as an object. They see you as their property. And in their minds you have no right to leave. They're supposed to leave you. They're supposed to be the ones who discard you. Not the other way around. They're not finished with you. There's still more that they want to milk out of you. So when you leave, you've just ruined their plan. Because they had this whole thing set up for you that they were going to do. In their minds you've ruined it. You've sabotaged it. And there's no going back after that. So yeah, this is what the narcissist thinks of you when you leave. They hate you. They think you're a bad, evil person. You don't care about them. Which is really all of the things that you should be feeling for them. But it's like they project all of the problems and issues onto you. So yeah, that's it. That's typically what happens when you finally leave. Thank you all for joining me on this live video. There will be more very soon. Hopefully tomorrow. Give it a thumbs up. Show your thoughts in the comments. And subscribe if you haven't yet.