 Listening to ear buds like sharing them and then watching anime in the back of class. It's so cute Like beats any frat sorority couple ever. Yeah, I'm just trying to find somebody I can watch anime with What's going on everybody? I'm in sunny, California, and this is another episode of fun grows on the street today We are talking about Asian love, so I'm here to ask people today one What is Asian love to is there a difference between Asian love and Western love and three is one better than the other? I don't know guys. I'm looking forward to hearing a lot of funny stories, so let's go see what we find out I'm gonna paint these scenarios and tell me what you think This is a more of an American couple or an Asian couple know each other. They're at a concert. They're partying They look over they make eye contact. They're smiling They're kind of like dancing with each other far away from each other They talk and then they dance the rest of the night together American American It's America girlfriend gets sick boyfriend spends eight hours cooking a soup for her to drink That's Asian Asian Boyfriend girlfriend love each other she gets in a car accident She goes blind, but then she goes into surgery and then she comes back out She has eyesight, but now he doesn't because he gave her his eyeballs Asian sounds like a meme Asian That's Asian. I would say let's say Asian generally the bad drivers and also Do you guys happen to date more American guys has anybody dated Asian? What's the deal? Well, I've never dated an Asian guy, but I wouldn't like be opposed to yeah I mean mostly Caucasians, but I have talked to a few Asian guys So talk to them girls over here. What is one of the differences between what is considered a very Asian style of love An American style of love. I remember watching Korean dramas as a kid I was more intimate, you know, it's more like you can feel it more when you're watching this movies, right? It's a lot of commercials for like Korean soap dramas And like those just seem to be like all this like time will stand still for this love and that doesn't really seem to happen as Much in like American media because it's more like sex-centered and like just like attraction base for anime girls They go to this booth and it's like they decorate with just like a painted wall So it looks like you're inside of some nice castle And there's this like guy who's like cosplayed out to like the nines He's dressed like like a prince or something with like white hair girls will line up just for 30 seconds with them And he'll just like lean in and he'll just like plant his arm right there And the girls just like swoon or something like and they have kissing booths in America But I don't know why Asians are kind of like oh, well, we'll get really close We'll just like blue ball you and then just like leave you hanging like that I'm like a lot more romantic like I'm thinking about like Naruto is like that's like a big-ass love story But then there's like the bachelor in America and stuff I think that's like not as like romantic and stuff It's a lot more like quick and just get down to business the Asian movies I've watched primarily Chinese one all have a focus around family orientation or career practicality Americans are more quick to introduce to parents while Asians more like Inclusive and you kind of keep it between themselves for Americans in dating culture It's kind of just like bring them out go on double dates like every other time The climax is them like holding hands at the very end of the episode and the climax No pun intended for like the western ones comes like in the first 10 minutes of them Just getting right down to business when I dated someone who is Filipino like their parents were super formal and like wanted to have dinner with me Now that I'm dating someone who's like white or Caucasian It's more of like a kind of laid-back and less formal experience You never tell your parents and for American like after the first date they want you to meet their parents I think in Asian love there's definitely a greater emphasis on like appearance and outside image You have to take into account like other people's expectations and other people's like opinions Meeting their parents is actually pretty different I think American parents are pretty more a lot more lax than Asian parents If you meet like an Asian girl's parents, it's like it's like a trial you're like on trial It's like lawyers probably you know, it's like there's pressure I don't know if you saw that commercial like the Chinese commercial where it's like the dude pulls out the business card and everything It's like you feel like you have to do that. I don't know it's kind of bad Just meeting like the parents of like the Asian It was just like I felt like I had to validate myself in terms of like oh what school do you go to? You know like how you're doing in classes LinkedIn profile resume Gotta know how to cook, treat the girl right all those things matter with the Asian family Asians tend to be more family focused Mamas boys Why you say that with that tone? You said Mamas boys Like Asian boys they tend to be more clingy I feel like their moms boil them a lot The Asian boyfriend, what Asian was he? Just Taiwanese They act like they have like big dick energy all the time It's kind of a lot Growing up in a very international community in Beijing China Local guys don't actually like me that much because I'm really out there and like I'm into like fun things parties and like I don't think they like girls like that as much What about you? You said you dated uh you date mostly fobs Yeah like I have a lot of fob friends They have like this concept of like guys should always pay for meals or whatever Non-Asians are like we can split bills or you know equally What do you think the guys pay for everything? Do you think that also comes with like there's also like another buy-in like in some sort of Agreement that okay, you're gonna be down for me Like you're gonna stay by my side if I I treat you well and I treat you like princess I pay for everything I guess a little bit maybe because like in the old transition like guys are like Just working hard to earn money and the girls are just like housewives and stuff So I guess that's maybe the reason why Like with like an Asian girl it's like it's like the long-term game You know you got to be in there for a while and then I feel like I feel like with the like American couples It doesn't take that long and then like they're also like they're more comfortable and casual with each other too Like on the non-Asian side they never define the relationship It's always like just kind of roll with it Have you ever seen like those maybe the fob couples on campus or just Asian couples in general? You don't know if they're fobs where they're like sharing earbuds listening to anime I know this one couple where like the boyfriend will come to the girlfriend's classes and sit with them and then when they're not in class they're Like riding the same skateboard together laying in the grass together having picnics together He was always like right next to me and we were constantly holding hands And then I mean when I was dating other people it wasn't always like that Listening to your buds like sharing them and then watching anime in the back of class It's so cute like beats any frat sorority couple ever Yeah, I'm just trying to find somebody I can watch anime with Do you guys feel like sometimes like the way American's date is too fast and you're like Ah, I don't like like where it's headed. There's some sense of it It's hard to get some instant value in a relationship because once things do go down It's hard to build something romantic off of that Well, Asian people tend to wait and be more conservative and that just build some more meaning in front of all the Sexuality you got any personal stories of Asian love versus non-Asian love This Asian guy asked me out on a date and by the end of the night I didn't kiss him back the next morning. I got a memo request of $40 for the meal And I feel like Asian guys just have that expectation like that sexual expectation This past summer I met this girl who's half Asian half white and we were like together for like two three months I met her Asian mom right and she like didn't have the best english and I was pretty ignorant And so she's like showing me around the house. I'm like, oh, what's this book? Like oh, it's buddhism and I didn't have a cool of buddhism was I actually dated um a banana and he was like, yo, you're two Chinese or Asian and he's like, okay, let me teach you the american way And like he started making me watch disney movies listen to like christmas carols And all like those super like basic american things and that was just different for me Which style of dating and love do you guys prefer is there one that's better than the other? I'm leaning more towards like the american style type of dating I think it's just a mix. I think I prefer that American and Asian I guess I like both I'm asian-american. So I think I like would like a combination of like the asian and american style Be the american style like american asian kind of style like j parker kihong li kind of style Asian in terms of like culture understanding what foods I like without me having to explain it and more americanized And that they pick like cute dates whatever is the natural chemistry with the person that you're with I prefer the clingy just because I'm a clean person myself Matters more about like what their values are what their beliefs are if they match up with mine if I can learn from them I'm a lover of culture. I'm not discriminating in any way But I just feel like when you date another culture adds some different spice like dating asian It was cool, but I just felt like I was in my comfort zone and for me I like pushing myself to get out of the comfort zone. So definitely you're wearing a bait bandana You definitely like to be pushed out of your comfort zone. I can tell if a man is wearing a bandana He is definitely down to date non asians. I know that Thank you everybody for watching that video about asian love asian dating versus the american style This is my big major takeaway from all of these interviews today There is no right or wrong way to love, but there are definitely definitely cultural differences Most people agree That the american style may be a little bit too casual and a little bit too quick And then the asian style might just be a little bit too clingy and a little bit lubby dovey Most people agree that they would actually want some kind of mixture of in between and even for some of the non asians that I interviewed They do respect and would even want to adopt some of those aspects of asian love into their style Seems like the asian style of love is definitely becoming a thing But you might also need to find that balance. 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