 Fixing people requires three basic assumptions doesn't if I'm trying to fix you I have to number one assume something's wrong with you number two. I have to assume that I know how to fix you and Number three. I have to assume that my idea of how to fix you should also be your idea, too Trying to fix others is a long frustrating and ultimately losing battle. I hope you found that out by now because the problem often isn't That people are broken. It's that our idea of who we think they should be is broken. I Think people just want to be loved not fixed