 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survivor Live video. I'm out here in the jungle, just visiting a waterfall. How to make the Narcissus chase you? Maybe you're fed up of chasing them all the time and you want to turn the tables for a change. You want to switch things up? You want them to start chasing you? So I'm gonna tell you how you can do that in this video. If you want to make the Narcissus chase you, you have to stop chasing them. Stop giving them all of your attention for you. What do they want from you? That you aren't already giving to them. So if you're putting out all of this stuff and they don't have to chase you, they don't have to do anything for you, that is the problem right there. You need to stop doing everything for them. Stop giving them your attention for free. Just have to walk through here a minute. It's a little bit dangerous. A lot of thorn bushes here. I'm walking off the edge of the drop. But yeah, that's really what you need to do. If you want them to chase you, stop giving them your attention. Just take a leaf out of their book. Look how it works for them. When they ignore you, they give you the sign and treatment. They're not there for you, they're not helping you. It makes you chase after them, doesn't it? And in that sense, we are the same. I mean, everyone is the same in that sense when it comes to the chasing game. It's like a game of tennis. You hit the ball and they've got to hit it back. But if they don't hit it back, don't keep hitting the ball. You have to stop and then let them... let them make their move then. My soul's captain asks, why would anyone want them to chase you? That's the most ridiculous thing I've heard. If anyone has been abused by a narcissist, freedom is not them chasing you. I understand that, but... as many victims of this will know, there is the trauma-borne. We're all bonded with them over the trauma. You're hoping that they're going to come and save you and make things better for you. Because they lie, they're future-fake, they make false promises, they give you stories. So naturally, we will desire them to chase us because we're seeking their validation. We've been trained to do that. We've been trained to do that since we were kids. So I completely understand anyone who may want the narcissist to chase them. I get that, but not everyone can understand that, especially if you haven't been through it yourself. It may be difficult to relate, and I understand that as well. Unknown asks, aren't there wild animals out there? Yes, of course there are. A lot of animals out here in the jungle. I saw something crawling into the bushes there as I was walking down. I don't know what it was, but it was a pretty large, I'm not sure, maybe slightly larger than a cat. And it had a long tail, but whatever it was, I'm sure it's more afraid of me than I could ever be of it. But the middle just fell down right on my back, luckily. It's very slippery there. If anyone is watching this, who is planning on coming down here, be very careful when you're walking. If I had hit my head then, this may have been my last video. Luckily I am okay. It fell quite softly there. But as I was saying, there are also a lot of snakes out here as well. So you have to be careful with the snakes. Some of them can be deadly. But it's also an amazing experience as well to see snakes in their native environment. So I do quite enjoy that. But yeah, that was definitely unexpected. I didn't expect to fall down there. I've just seen it live on video. But yeah, it's a really nice place out here. Just enjoying the beautiful weather. But yeah, that is how to make the Nazis chase you. With all your attention, stop giving them everything you're giving to them. Because they don't have to say a word to you. They don't have to come after you. Why do they need to do that when you're just willingly doing whatever they want without them having to do anything for you? I mean, this is how you train the Nazis to act like a normal person. It's just by giving them the chance to chase you. Giving them the chance to actually make the move, put in the work and actually do something. So yeah, I hope that's helpful. I mean, of course, it's not going to work with every narcissist. But if they're not completely far gone, then there may be a chance of some improvement. Although they always go back to the way they are anyway. So just keep your expectations low. And you're dealing with a narcissist. Don't expect too much from them. Remember, they don't like the rest of us. They are easily taxed, easily stressed. It doesn't take much to wear them out. So keep that in mind. Yeah, I'm going to continue my journey now. I've got the new 530i with me right here. Beautiful car, great drive, pretty fast as well. 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