 Five things narcissists do when they lose control of you Narcissists need to have control of their targets They need the power to influence your behavior and direct the course of offense When they don't have that They will feel like they're losing control of you and They will try to regain it So here are five things narcissists do when they lose control of you one Love bomb if you have gone no contact with the narcissist They may try to who the give They will bombard you with text messages and phone calls. They will try to get you to respond to them By telling you whatever they think you want to hear They will give you a fake apology a False epiphany they will pretend to understand they will act like they're going to change Because they know that's what you want They know you want them to act right So they will give you the illusion of that But it's only so they can lock you under their control again to Triangulation when the narcissist loses control of you They will bring in another person Because they want to get your mind back on them again They want your attention and they will try to get that by making you jealous By making you think that you're losing something By making you think that you're missing out in The hopes that it will make you come running back to them three Threats and intimidation if you still refuse to comply they will make threats and try to intimidate you They will try to coerce you into doing what they want Because they know that without force or threats You're not going to listen to them They know that they don't have any leverage over you they know that there's no incentive for you to comply Because it's not in your best interest to do so for Stalking and harassment when the narcissist loses control of you They will start to monitor you They will follow you at your home or at your work They will stalk you on social media Because they want to see what you're doing and who you're with They want to see if you're still experiencing the effects of what they did to you They want to see if there's an opening for them to come back Or they may just be gathering data Which they will then use against you to further control you five Exposure when all bets are off The narcissist is going to resort to one last strategy They will try to expose you They will reveal your secrets and personal information Things that you can buy dinner them Things that you trusted them with They will distort the truth They will make up their own stories and Then they will use it against you they will enforce their flying monkeys And start a smear campaign In an attempt to discredit you and ruin your reputation Because at this point They know that they've lost control of you They know that you figured them out They know you're not going to come back So all they can do now is try to take you down So that they don't have to deal with the pain of watching you move on for them Because when they're trying to regain their control of you That's all they're trying to do They're using you as a tool to regulate their emotions To soothe their bruised ego because as long as they have control of you They feel powerful and important. Thank you for watching If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up Share your thoughts in the comment section Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications If you would like to support the channel You can donate at paypal.me slash NARC survivor You can book a one-on-one with me on my website It's NARC survivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon