 So what's the difference between setting goals from your heart versus setting them with your head? When you set goals the only function your goals should have is to make you feel excited, giddy, happy. You know like a little kid like oh yeah that sounds fun but in life people tell us you need to do this, you need to do that, you have to do this, you should do that, this is the way you should live and we have many traumatic things happen to us and then a lot of the times we set our goals in our head from that wounded place of you know where we were wounded something bad happened and we don't want it to happen again so a lot of people for example they have a goal to make a lot of money but it's not like you know oh my god I'm gonna make a lot of money it's gonna be so much fun you know nobody thinks like that it's like I'm gonna have a lot of money and then people won't be able to hurt me anymore because I'll have so much money that I won't be able to get hurt in reality it would actually be a lot more dangerous to live a life with a shillow money because you won't know who your friends are you don't know who to trust everybody's trying to jack you and shit so that's really not the kind of path you want to take now I'm not saying money is not important and that you shouldn't want to make a shillow of money but notice where your goals are coming from notice if they're goals from the head or from the heart the head goals not only won't they get you motivated and won't be fun to get to they would actually not fulfill you when you get them because your head tells you yeah you'll be happy you'll feel good yeah it will be good but if you need your head to convince you that when you have the goal you'll be happy and it will feel good it just it's just a lie basically your ego is trying to make you do something that you really wouldn't have done if you weren't wounded but when you think about goals from that are love goals you know from your heart um you think about them and again you get happy you instantly feel good it's not like you need to wait and you'll feel good when you have it you feel good just thinking about it you know for example I give you one goal that I have I goal I have a goal to be really really famous to be really successful and famous and I want all the people around the world to know me and I want to have over a billion views in my youtube videos and over 10 million subscribers that's my goal but it's not a goal that's like yeah when I have that fame everybody's gonna see I'm gonna show them it's like a kid it's like you know it's like oh my god this is exciting this sounds fun I want it you know I want to know what will happen now of course do you think that if somebody has you know a billion views and is super famous do you think that this person does not have access to a shitload of money okay so the money comes very naturally but again I focus on the fun the love the growth okay just as one goal of mine all of my goals are like that so make sure you look into that again does the goal tells me one day I'll be happy in the future you know and stop being wounded which will by the way only reinforce you being a wounded person or is the goal fun happy from the heart you enjoy it already you'd like just thinking about it and then it makes you happy okay make sure you look into it I'll make more videos in the future regarding that subject thank you for watching please tell me if you have any questions