 When you are there, you have to respect the other person. That attitude towards the other, however stupid they are and however they're attacking you, it has to be of respect because the other one is also an expression of truth. It's just perhaps in that very moment, not the case. The other human being has the same soul material as you do. So that fundamental respect towards everyone has to be there. And then you don't have to deal with the surface, the ego aspects of that personality or that person. And the only way to do it, if you're still sitting at the table, if you haven't left the table, the only way to do it is to go into that quiet state within.