 So, for the past ten years I've been a coach, mainly working in the men's development industry and for the past seven years I've been either a speaker, a host, a podcast host, a video blogger at the 21 convention and in fact I've only missed two conventions, one the first one in 2007 and the other one was actually in Sweden, Stockholm, 2010. But every other one I've spoke at I've been very involved and one of the things that I get from the convention it is the ultimate expression of man and I wanted to talk about this because the ultimate expression of masculinity is not one singular act, it is not one singular result, it's not an image, it's not a lay count, it's not a certain experience that you've had as a man, it's not a frame, it's not an archetype, it's not a certain body image, but what it is is it is a sense of yourself that fits in every single aspect of your life that you can use to express. And see I think one of the problems is when it comes to coaching, when it comes to what people express in the men's development industry is that if you get to this certain point you will be complete. And see in life, in everything we have around us, nothing is ever complete, it is always going, it is always moving. In order for me to be a man I need to be exercising, expressing, living with, figuring out, forging my morals, my beliefs, my ideals, how I am with women, how I am with my fear, how I am with the decisions and the responsibilities around me. And so when it comes to coaching that is the one singular thing that I stand for. It's not about an image, it's not about a result, it's about an overall expression of what it means to be a man. Now for myself as a coach for the clients that have worked with me, the people, the brotherhood that we've created with what TSL is, what the sexual life is, it has always been independent of chasing that singular result, that idea, that myth that one thing if we got it, if that set of skills, if we could just perform that in a certain situation then we would be fulfilled with our sex, our emotion, our ambition, our professional lives, that everything would come together if we could just fix this one point of pain. And see, this is the myth of man. And what we found is in order to be a man, where you stand, wherever you're at today, whether you have no money, whether you have a lot of money, whether you have women, whether you have none, whether you have tragedy, whether that you have a point of beauty in your life. To achieve excellence, to find fulfillment, to find happiness is actually independent of the world around you and massively, massively dependent upon that world within you. And in order to do that, what we did at TSL and the TSL line and what we do in our brotherhood is basically three things. Number one, we learn a skill that is based on ourself, based on our authenticity. And there's no compromise in that. Number two, we create a ritual of daily action rather than exaggerations and highs and lows. But how every day can we, number one, be social how we are born to be social, be sexual how we are born to be sexual, have purpose and ambition on a daily basis and stop making it a high and low big deal and more of an even keel. And number three, how can we come together as a community, a true community of men and support each other. And this is exactly what TSL online is. As a skill, we do something different than any other social dynamics or men's improvement company out there. We start with identity. We explore who you are, your fears, your anxiety, your negative views of yourself, and your positive views of yourself. You need to be able to communicate with your assets and your liability to the world around you. If you cannot do that, if you cannot face who you are as a man, even those things that you think you cannot communicate to somebody, then you cannot be a man. You cannot find the virtues of masculinity or femininity without them. And then what we do is through a customized approach through meeting on the phone 20 hours a week. You don't have to be on all 20 hours. You can just be on one. We plug those in. We work with you directly. See, TSL online has been around for over five years. We've run 20 groups non-stop. It has never stopped in its coaching. We've always had a heavy call base. We have a huge amount of alumni and there are alumni on from that first five-year course who are active two, three, five times a week where we work with you directly. How can you achieve that sexual life with that? Now the other thing which is so heavy on emphasis about what we teach and how we improve and what is so necessary for you to find a real change in your life is ritual. Every day you need to be the man that you were born to be. You don't need to be an image. You don't need to be a fear. You don't need to be a reaction to what the world says you need to be and are afraid or failed at doing that. What you need to be is in your reality. So how can we take some social elements like saying hello, like connecting with people, like practicing empathy, like practicing the exchange of humanity and our full range of emotions with humanity on a daily basis. And when we can get in that paradigm and take it out of the pushed, forced three-day, ten-day, whatever it is, workshop mentality of having to do something, having to perform, to force yourself into a skill that you forget six weeks later, eight weeks later? And how can we move it into a daily action that we do every day, once a day? Just two minutes, five minutes for three months. And when we can do that, we find success, we find change, we find an evolution of self that you didn't know that was there. Tying this all together is the community. The community is massive, no other. Men's group has what we have, an international group that unites on almost a daily basis, five days a week, over 20 hours that you can plug into any time zone as long as you have an internet connection and potentially are watching this video. And you can find the support that is necessary. Here's what happens. When guys plug themselves into that, you show up on at least one of the calls a week, you do the B social assignments, you learn the skill in the social dynamic. Man, your life changes into a socially and sexually healthy expression of who you are that is unmatched in fulfillment and masculinity and purpose in who you are as a man. Your sex, your respect for who you are evolves and shapes into a point of excellence. I can't tell you where that's going to be because that's yours. That's what you own, that's what you do and what you make. But that is what we do and that is what has happened for hundreds and hundreds of guys for the past five years and where we step into TSL online. So if you're interested in that evolution, that evolution of self, that community, that learning of a social dynamic, a social skillset that will not only teach you how to meet people and connect with them better, but how to build relationships of all kinds, social, sexual, lifestyle, all based off of yourself uncompromised and then move it into a sexual dynamic, move it into a way of life that is based on you, facilitated by a community of men that has worked together for five years. If you want to move to that sort of excellence and with a guaranteed result, go to the21convention.com slash coaching. In fact, you can click on this link and on that link you'll be taken to a page where you can fill out, I'm interested in TSL online, I'm interested in Steve Maeda, you'll be contacted by somebody who's tremendously well versed in the program, he's an alumni of the program, his name's John, he could tell you all about it. There's no heavy pressure, there's no heavy sale, there's just 100% honesty. What I believe in, what the 21 convention believes in and why I'm actually advertising through this platform is only truth, only honesty. I don't want clients, I don't want members of TSL who aren't ready to take this step. I don't want people to waste their money with a dream that they are unprepared to fulfill. But what I do want is men who have given the opportunity to be the better man if they can dedicate that window of their life. That's who I want to work with, that's who I want to shape and that's who I want to call my brother because that is what you will be by the end of these three months. Thanks for watching, go to the 21 convention.com slash coaching, ask for Steve Maeda and we'll see you guys on the next video.