 Keep your mouth closed. Relax. You feel relaxed. Jared, it's not a joke. Go. It's too impatient, it's too much. Hello there, lovers and friends. I put up this video and in the comments section, two really, really incredible, crucial questions were asked. So the four different areas that you can really ask about are direct stimulation, indirect stimulation, sucking, or palming. So can I see your palm a second? May I? Yes. All right. So to answer those questions, I thought, why not illustrate it with a fun exercise that anyone can do at home with a partner? And I brought the world's best partner. I'm sorry, I'm biased. My husband. What's up, Jay? What's going on? Let's do this. You excited? I am excited. All right, so this is an exercise in consent and communication. We both have three pieces of food. You don't know what I have. I don't know what you have. We're going to feed each other. And it should be fun. We'll see how it goes. OK, so before we get any deeper weather, stronger, harder, faster, faster into this game, can we take a little second to give a massive thank you to the sponsor of this video, which is Squarespace. Squarespace is a service that we've been using now for over two years. They do mailing lists. They do websites. It's an incredible way to enhance your business and to spark and promote your next big idea. What's going on, everybody? I am popping in to let you know that Squarespace is sponsoring this video. Look, from websites to online stores to marketing tools to analytics, Squarespace is an all-in-one platform to build a beautiful, powerful, stunning online presence and run your business. So go check them out. Now, back to the video. All right, let's go first. We are one. We didn't find that I swore. I won, so I elect you to go first. OK, deal. All right, eyes closed. No peeking. OK, Jared, I want to feed you something. Are you hungry? Are you hungry for something wet and juicy or for something hard? Wet and juicy. I can't say that. When I said that I realized, you probably aren't going to say the other thing. OK. Oh, close your mouth. Close your mouth. Relax. OK. Jared, it's not a joke. Go. It's too impatient. It's too much. All right, Jared, can I put this on your lips? You're ruining the exercise. It's OK, go. OK, Jared, can I put this on your lips? Yeah, it's too cold. Look at me right now. I can't. You have to look at me. I can't, go. All right. OK, Jared, can I put this on your lips, please? I thought we were just going to feed it already. I know, but I can't use any of these cuts. What does it taste like? Orange? Yes. Do you want more? Yeah. Open your mouth. Bite down. Soft. Yeah. You want to chew very hard. Do you like it? Mm-hmm. Is it juicy? Do you want more? OK, last bite. There you go. I don't know if you had to rub it on my lips. Oh, my gosh. OK, Shan. I have something hard, soft, or sweet. Something sweet always. Are you snacking? Are you making sure it's not poison? I'm just testing it. Goodness. OK. Think out your tongue. Father, what does it taste like? It tastes sweet and a little tart, like a strawberry. Can I have more? Jared Brady. I want more of that for sure. It's over. It's over? Your turn. OK. I've got two things left that I really want to give it to you. But are you hungry? Yes. Are you hungry for something sweet or for something a little more exciting? Sweet. Now, this thing that I want to give to you, it's going to come on a stick. So I need you to lick it off. OK. Are you comfortable with that? Yeah. Are you good at licking things? Yeah. OK. I'm going to put it to test. So open your mouth. Now, the thing with this is that you don't want to take all of it at once, because it might be too overwhelming. So just a little lick might be all you need. I'm going to put it in your tongue now. It's sweet. Too sweet for you? This next thing that I have for you is going to be soft, but you enjoy it on all of your items. Oh. What, all of my items? Yeah. OK. I have no idea what this is. Let me do a small piece first. That's that healthy amino acid fat. Avocado. Do one more. I would love to have some more. Can I have more the way that you gave me more strawberries? I don't know if avocado is going to work that well. OK, I understand. Can I put one more of that item that you just ate in your mouth? Mm-hmm. No. Close your lips, but don't bite down. Can I pull it out in your mouth? You have to get it wet first so it glides easier. Well, earlier you said to me that the other item is something that I like on all items. So I think that I would like some of that item mixed with this item. Oh. Well, we don't have any more of that either. It's your lips. Oh. That's the other thing that I like. Oh. I think as people who are married, you can take for granted that you have an automatic yes with the other person. But I try, especially when giving you or we're trying new stuff to ask you, but I probably could do a better job. Yeah, I think we have a pretty good job. I think you do a pretty good job. Oh, thank you. I think you do an incredible job. It actually is kind of sexy. You know, there's something that kind of gets you going when you start describing the things that you want to do to the partner that you're with. I think that a lot of people have it in their mind that asking takes a magic away. That that makes it so you lose the spontaneity in the moment. But you can spontaneously ask somebody. Yeah. There's still that element of surprise, like, oh, I didn't think you were going to come out there and say that. So I think it still can make it sexy and it can still. And a lot of people don't know how to talk dirty. This is the basics. Consent is the basic of dirty talk. Yeah, that's a good way to put it. That's how you edge into it. OK, I see what you did there. 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