 I dated a girl some of you know her from my social media and like we had a big falling out once and it was like literally It's hilarious. It was over the toilet seat when I would wake up I wouldn't put it down and they're like made her unhappy and she held it in she was an INFJ in the Myers-Briggs INFJs often hold things in because they don't like confrontations and I was like Why don't you just tell me that and I start putting them the seat down and half of our relationship issues went away That's a micro adaptation. You didn't need to find a new girlfriend You know like it people are thinking because of outraged society and news headlines We're always thinking like my girl like I have to change everything revolutionize your life Most of your revolutions will be like teeny things that they call that the tipping point It's like teeny things and snowballs at the top of the hill and a little push pushes the whole thing and the whole business changes