 Three things narcissists can't accept one Narcissists cannot accept problems It's normal to experience problems and difficulties in life It's normal to go through obstacles But this is something that narcissists cannot accept When something goes wrong It triggers them to reflect on their shame and then they quickly shift the blame on to you Because they cannot accept blame or shame They cannot accept problems in their minds if they have caused the problem That means they're a bad person Because of this They do not hold themselves accountable for their actions, which means that they never change They just keep doing the same thing again and again While blaming everyone else for the consequences of their actions They will even blame you for the effects of the abuse For the effects of everything they do to you as though you did it to yourself Because they lack empathy They don't really care about how their behavior affects you They only care about how it pertains to them What it says about them as a person in their minds they think that if they have hurt you That says something about them That means they're a bad person So then they have to deflect the shame They have to make you feel like something is wrong with you But they never have any interest in sharing your experiences They're self-absorbed Even when it seems like they're taking an interest in your ideas and was fortunes They're just looking at how it reflects on to them People are just mirrors to the narcissist They cannot see you They only see a reflection of themselves So if there's a problem They feel like that means there's something wrong with them Which is why they cannot accept problems to The narcissist cannot accept that they are not in control Narcissists are very insecure That is why they are always trying to control everyone and everything They always have to be the authority They cannot accept that they are not in control Instead they try to contain everything So that it is under their influence and authority They create a fake world where they control the narrative They cannot accept that one day we are all going to die Which is something that people generally accept We know that we are not in control of everything We accept that But this is something that narcissists cannot accept They cannot believe in God Because that would mean that someone is superior to them Someone has authority over them The narcissist behaves like they are God As though everyone has to answer to them As though everyone has to be what they want them to be When people understand that we are all going to die And when they believe in a God It controls their actions and behaviors It improves relationships But the narcissist cannot believe in a God Because that would make it very difficult for them to be narcissists They have to be the ones that are in control They have to be the ultimate authority They cannot believe in anything that has power over them But narcissists are people too And they are restricted to the same limitations as we are They cannot escape death They have physical limitations They're still human They act like they're superhuman And they want you to feel like they're larger than life But it is a huge wake-up call When you finally see just how human they really are They're actually very vulnerable They're even more limited than we are They experience far more difficulties than the average person They make incorrect judgments Because it's all just an illusion It's just another thing that they can't accept And then they pull you into that dream world Free Narcissists can't accept reality They cannot accept truth They cannot accept the reality of the situation They will deny anything and everything that doesn't favor them They will create an environment where it is easier for everyone to deny something Where it is preferable and favorable for everyone to deny it They will make it seem like it's in your best interest They always have to make it seem like it's for the benefit of everyone else When really they're just indulging in their own selfish desires When a narcissist does finally have to face reality That is when you will see just how vulnerable they really are That is when you will see just how incapable they are of dealing with reality And then you will understand why they have had to create this fake world Where everyone has to follow their false narrative It will all make sense Because the truth is they just can't accept reality They create this illusion As though they're in control of everything But really it's just a situation that they create Where you are dependent on each other Which actually ends up being damaging for both of you Because they can't manage it They can't handle anything They lack the ability, discipline and desire That is required to do something difficult They can't accept the reality that one day this is all going to come to an end They deny that fact Until they finally die Thank you for watching I hope this 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