 12. Bad words that make other people hate you Sometimes, the things you say to others or certain words you use while holding a conversation with someone can be a turn-off for them without knowing or realizing it. The only thing you begin to notice is that they react in some type of way to you. The truth is that words are very powerful. They can either motivate a person or bring them down. Bad words, particularly, can belittle someone, make them feel inferior and confine them to a life of mediocrity. According to a research carried out by Edward Rosman from the University of Pennsylvania and Harvard graduate professor of psychology, Paul Rosen, negative perspective has a greater influence on people than the positive perspective, which is why when you say certain things to people, they might feel offended and dislike you for it. In this video, I'll share with you 12 bad words that make other people hate you. This, I believe, will help you become a successful person. If you're new here, consider subscribing so that you would miss other interesting videos like this. 1. Weird Saying that someone is weird can be pretty uncomfortable for some people because it's like telling them that you are more of a better human being than them and they are not worth hanging out with you or doing something. This can make them doubt themselves and they'll begin to avoid interactions with you to avoid feeling bad about themselves. 2. Failure Calling someone a failure can be so disheartening and they will never feel good about themselves. When you call someone a failure, you give them reasons to think that they cannot win anything in life. So instead of believing in themselves and in their abilities to achieve great stuff, they start believing otherwise about themselves. 3. Fool Even if you think a person acted foolishly, do not call them a fool. When you do, it means that you think they are incapable of acting wisely. Ultimately, continuously referring to someone as a fool can even lead to a lack of self-belief and even depression. 4. Incompetent This is very common in workplaces, especially when condescending bosses want to intimidate their staff. But the problem is that no one likes to be around intimidating people. Calling someone incompetent means that they are not capable of doing the work they were called or hired to do. This can make a person feel belittled and discouraged. 5. Irresponsible When you refer to a person as irresponsible, you'd probably do so because you want them to put more thought into their actions but it might end up being a trigger because no one likes to be associated with negative words no matter your intentions were using the word. Calling someone irresponsible means that you are saying that they are acting without thinking about the possible outcomes of their actions. And of course, no one likes the sound of that. 6. Ashamed Saying you are ashamed of a person means that you are disappointed at them because they couldn't meet a certain standard or threshold. The thought of this can be disheartening. This can affect a person's self-esteem because they'll begin to doubt their abilities and adequacies. 7. Disappointed Telling a person you're disappointed in them means that they have failed to live up to expectation and this can also result in low self-esteem and low confidence level. This in turn can affect every other part of their lives. So, again, who'd like to be around someone who constantly makes them feel bad about themselves? I'm sure no one does. 8. Useless Everyone has something good about them, even if you can see it. So, when you refer to someone as useless, you are saying that they have no use whatsoever and they don't deserve to be anywhere around you because unlike them, you aren't useless. 9. Bad Describing someone as bad, whether it is their thoughts or perceptions or their actions can make a person feel terrible and it can be demeaning. Also, telling someone that something about them is bad in a bit to correct something that they did wrong isn't going to help them improve. Instead, they'll choose to avoid you so that they won't constantly feel bad whenever they are around you. 10. Hate Hate is a really strong negative word to use. When you tell a person that you hate them or something about them or what they do, you're saying to them that you have a very intense dislike for them. How do you think this will make them feel? Good? Of course not. It will create some tensions in your interaction because the person knows that you are only there because you do not have a choice. Eventually, the relationship between the two of you might break down irreparably. 11. Lazy Laziness is attached to failure and no one wants to be seen or addressed as one. Telling someone that they are lazy means that they are unwilling to put in effort towards achieving something or that they have no motivation to work towards a certain goal. I mean, just because you cannot see the effort that a person is putting towards achieving a thing doesn't mean that they are not doing anything about the situation, so falsely accusing them will make them feel bad, especially when they are around you. 12. Boring When you say a person is boring, it means that you find them uninterested. This can make them feel insignificant, especially when they are around you. Sometimes, just because you do not know a person doesn't mean that they are boring. It only means that you haven't gotten to know them. So instead of jumping into conclusion and chasing them away from you, take time to discover what they like and what they don't like. There you go! Now you know the words to stop saying if you don't want people to hate you. Thank you very much for watching our videos. 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